Vuze used to work for me and so did ps3 media server on my other ps3 with no extra configurations. Now nothing worksss so frustrating.

PS3 Media Server is similar to Tversity I thought. Any ideas anyone?

I been trying to set up PMS for a while now with no success. Im running Windows 7 and yes UPNP is enabled and I have turned off the firewall. PMS cant detect my ps3 and vice versa. One thing Im not sure Im doing right is port forwarding. Im using the router Dlink DIR-615 andI opened the port 5001 (default for PMS) on the ip address 192.168.0.20, which is my PS3 address. Is that correct? As of right now, it doesnt work :(. Any ideas/suggestions anyone? Im desperate to stream HD movies from my pc to my ps3.

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Woman look for more of a personality than looks. You could have an average guy with a great personality, and a good looking individual with literally no personality and a woman will go after the average looking guy.

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Please show me studies that support this. This is like one of the biggest myths out there. Women are just as shallow as guys. Maybe you've been watching too many teen dramas where the nerds get the hot girl to go to prom with them. In real life girls like hot popular guys and then when they grow up and are in their late 20's early 30's and want to settle down, they realize that hot popular guys are hard to control because other women want them to. Knowing this, the settle down with ex-highschool nerd because he probably has a better job now, better financial security and because he is less likely to stray. If women could control their hot bad boy, trust me, they would all go for him. Thats not to say that they don't find their "ex-highschool nerd" boyfriend attractive or that they dont love him. No, they do, its just that were things different and they could have any guy they wanted and make him faithful, he probably wouldnt be her first choice.

As for guys, we like hot women and sometimes we marry them. The reason for this is that because a lot of women care about a guys financial status. Thats not a bad thing. It's valid for a woman and ok for a woman's choice of partner to be PARTLY based on his financial status. The fact is that in our culture, most men are the bread winners in the family. Sure there are some women who break the norm, but men are the ones who work to pay the bills in most families. With that in mind, it becomes valid for a woman to look for a man who can take care of her and a man she has hopes of creating a future with. Despite what fairy tales tell you, Money is very important in a relationship. If you want a girl, and she doesn't want you because you are broke, she isnt being a gold digger, she is being realistic. You can't expect a woman to willingly walk into a troublesome dead-end life.

At the end of the day stability, faithfulness and security are what most women care about, and despite what you think, most guys care about stability and faithfulness in LONG TERM relationships. We all make concessions when finding a partner, and to think that its all about "personality" is to be naive.

On a second thought, if this rationale continues, wouldn't asians outside of asia in the future be more "white" than asian?

saltsoap

I prefer white-washed asians over the native ones. The actual asians that are raised in Asia tend to be more clingy.

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-FlyLo-

What the eff dude? Don't try to misquote me buddy. Read my 2nd post in the thread. Don't make this into a big deal. I'm just stating what I see. If you don't agree with me, that's fine. Just don't misquote me.

Anyways lets go back on topic . getting to serious imo.

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[QUOTE="Fkid"]Also, going off-topic here, i want to comment on this sajadene-love-fest I been noticing a lot lately. She gets way too much respect for a regular poster. Yea she is hot but cmon guys from the way I read your posts, you guys sound pretty whipped by this girl. Not hating, but something funny I've noticed.

Sajedene

Really? I don't feel the love all the time.

I am a very opinionated poster and have never seen anyone cower or anything because I'm "hot" or I am a girl. I can pull many threads that will show this.

If anything, I know that I don't take debates outside of a thread. We may not get along in one thread with our opinions but that doesn't mean we don't get a long period.

If anything - I open my mouth with founded reasons... you may not like it - but at least its there. Same thing for others. I love a good, founded, educated debate myself (hopefully this makes sense -- I have people talking in my ear since I'm at work and conferencing calls) and even if we don't see eye to eye... you can not help but respect someone who gives you a good, educated debate.

But I have nothing wrong with the way you share your opinions. In fact, keep doing what you need to do. not a lot of girls would debate on a videogame forum, let alone upload their picture. most girls i know would never do that.

If a guy doesn't want a vasectamy, he shouldn't need to get one.

If a woman doesn't want her tubes tied, she shouldn't have to go through with it.

A person should have the right to decide what happens with their body, and any loving spouse would understand this. The couple should be able to discuss the issue and work something out, and make an agreement that both can agree on.

The relationship shouldn't always go in favor of the woman. If a man doesn't want a vasectamy, he shouldn't be viewed as a scumbag just because he didn't do something his wife wanted; marriage is about working together, not the guys slaving to the girl's every whim, which sadly seems to be the case for many relationships.

Of course the relationship shouldn't always go in favor of the guy, either, because again, a marriage should be about working together, not one side always having to please the other. So if the husband/wife doesn't want to do something, they shouldn't always have to do it. Some sacrifices may be necessary for a marriage, but that shouldn't always be the case with everything.

So in this this case, the husband and wife should try to work out a deal that works out for both of them when it comes to the issue of having children, or not wanting to have anymore, and in this discussion each side's feelings should be considered.

There's my two pennies for this discussion.

DJ-Lafleur

This :)

I'm not married but IMO this kind of topic I take VERY VERY seriously. I find it amazing that some MEN here think it to be a normal process and shouldn't be a problem. This is not a matter of pride because I believe too much pride to be relationship-killer, but a matter of why is the wife giving an ultimatum of sort to the husband. Wives should understand the husband and so does the husband to the wife.

From my perspective, just use condoms and limit the the sexual activity. I mean having sex is good but if you do not want the chances of having kids, then limit the sex. You guys sound that having sex occasionally with condoms will end in 100% pregnancy. If you don't want kids that bad, and you want your partner to commit to a procedure that is PERMANENT (it is permanent guys not reversible like some posters here are saying, my mother is a nurse and yes the procedure is reversible but not 100%) , then that pretty much describes your relationship. I don't understand the mentality where it's always about doing the easy-way approach and putting your partner under the bush. TWO-RELATIONSHIP PEOPLE!

Also, I believe many of you are forgetting the fact that everybody has the freedom to their opinion. If you don't mind vasectomies, then feel free to do it. No one is stopping you, in fact kudos to you for taking the iniatiative. Your wife must be very happy that you are willing to do that for her. I believe that you have a very healthy relationship with your wife, considering the magnitude of such a procedure for a man.

But for those who don't want vasectomies, then much respect to you too. People shouldn't look at you as scumbags. You respects your body and so should your wife. There is no right and wrong here. Just preferences. Each to their own.

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Also, going off-topic here, i want to comment on this sajadene-love-fest I been noticing a lot lately. She gets way too much respect for a regular poster. Yea she is hot but cmon guys from the way I read your posts, you guys sound pretty whipped by this girl. Not hating, but something funny I've noticed.

Yep, don't go to any beach in theSouth of France, they seem to gather there in europe for some reason. It's a poser magnet.

tomo90

Dude I just went there for a vacation last year. That whole area was amazing. I loved clubs Jean Le Pin and beach at Cannes. Nice was spectacular.

I am wondering what kind of people you are talking about though. I noticed there always multiple groups of guys who dress designer clothese and shox, similar where I live here in vancouver. Very poserish imo. Also considering how I am Asian, I get looks by the Arab youth (im not racist, just stating). I swear I was walking with ppl, and these 9-10 Arab guys just started laughing at us for no reason. So childish.

My favorite part of the trip though is finding out that if you own a volkswagon golf hatchback, you are already considered rich. If you own a regular bmw 3, you are a millionaire. If you own a Bently, then you must be an Arab (I wonder who's going to get this joke) =)

But yeah south of france was a blast. I enjoyed it more than Paris.

[QUOTE="Fkid"]Hey foxhound, I agree with you for the most part. I believe this rape law is primitive and backwards for any society. My question for you is what do you think about the idea of religious circumcision. I would like to hear your opinion on this.foxhound_fox

I am an asian living in North America and in our culture back home, it is looked down upon if you are not a circumcised male. It sounds messed up if you are not from our culture, but in ours, it is perfectly normal. It's a rite of passage for men. In fact if you proudly proclaim you aren't circumcised, you be laughed and sadly, the chances of a girl will going out with you is slim.

Our culture does not see this as a violation of rights. In fact, mentioning this issue with a fellow man, and they will look at you funny. Most men from my country are proud that they are cut. It is only when I came to North America, that I found out that this act was barbaric. Of course, I was definitely surprised.

My question to you now is, are you the kind of person to denounce our culture traditions as barbaric? If there comes a law that outlaws such procedures, would you support it?

This is a very interesting topic for me and I'm not out to flame or criticize. I just want to share opinions on this matter with people who don't share the same traditions as me.

Sorry for going off topic. I am with you though against these rape legalization. I think its cruel.