A little off topic thing I wanted to say....

Forgive me for this. Jedi as it's not a Wrestling thread. In the OT thread however, since its a birthday celebration i wanted to do this here

this is a bit out of the usual youu guys have seen for me but bare with me

apologies for the long read :lol: 

its hard to find the words to properly say this... but.... 3 years ago today, i met this woman. and well to make a very long mushy story shorter. i began to date her. and through the time we spent together i realize that she was unlike anyone else i have ever dated.She was intelligent,  caring, loving,funny, motivated, outgoing, warm, charming, and beautiful. Soon i realized i just couldnt stay away from her. She has this way of lighting up a room and making time stand still.....

I never was never real confident in talking to women. I am just a shy person by nature. Almost opposite of how i am here lol

But with her there was something different. She just gives me this feeling. And i could open up to her and express myself. She is one of the most sweet, compassionate, just amazing people i've ever met. There are so many things about her that that i just can't even express it all through text.

I realized that.... i love her.  I never really believed in finding "the one" i always thought when you love someone. The personality traits they have In your heart make them the one  And for me.  She is my other half

making a story even shorter. i propsed in what will be 5 months ago in 3 days 

In November 10th of this year...... Is the date of our wedding!

 3 days ago I learned something huge...... And the reason for this thread is well.... 

I'm going to be a father!

When I was a teen i got to thinking that i wanted to have a impact on someones life for the better. And my parents who no matter what have supported me and loved me unconditionally. inspired me to one day want to give that to my own child.

 The impact my parents had on my life is something i can't explain withot speaking for hours

The motivated me to go to college and better myself

continue to learn and grow as a man

even the little things like taking care of me as a kid when i had a cold

i love them so so much. and now after 26 years into my life. I am going to pass that same parental love onto our child.

This has been something i've wanted a long time and its been a whirlwind weekend! i am still just in this mood where i feel almost slap happy and a bit light headed.  I feel scared at things i'd be lying if i said i wasnt.

but we will face these things together. and i cant wait for that

Thank you so much for giving me a chance to share this :) 

Congrats French!! 

I don't lnow if I'll ever have kids. I didn't have the best dad in the world or even the worse....still, I wouldn't want to be the kind of father that he was for me.  

Congrats French!! 

I don't lnow if I'll ever have kids. I didn't have the best dad in the world or even the worse....still, I wouldn't want to be the kind of father that he was for me.  

StaticKornSlipX

Thank you very much my friend :)

parenthood is a real complicated thing. its like finding a balance between all these things not discplining too much but just enough. what to you teach a child when and how

its what i say is one of the hardest things in the world

I'm sorry to hear that as well. the world needs all the good parents it can get. just from watching the news and all in life. so if you do decide to become a parent

all the best to you man 

wow

this really is gonna be a summer of celebration

congrats french

CON-GRATS FRENCH DYNASTY! CLAPCLAPCLAPCLAPCLAP!CpReborn

Thank you mate :)

 I teared myself up a bit already but its been an emotional time

manly tears of course lol  

[QUOTE="CpReborn"]CON-GRATS FRENCH DYNASTY! CLAPCLAPCLAPCLAPCLAP!FrenchDynasty

Thank you mate :)

 I teared myself up a bit already but its been an emotional time

manly tears of course lol  

[QUOTE="FrenchDynasty"]

[QUOTE="CpReborn"]CON-GRATS FRENCH DYNASTY! CLAPCLAPCLAPCLAPCLAP!StaticKornSlipX

Thank you mate :)

 I teared myself up a bit already but its been an emotional time

manly tears of course lol  

Time sure can fly man

It seems like only yesterday I met you in OT, hard to believe its been a few years now and I still remember those  classic drunk philosophical conversations we'd have and a few other times of a little online trouble makin in moments of boredom :lol:

Seriosly though my friend you are going to be an incredible parent.

No doubt in my mind over that. It's no easy job at all but it's always been my feeling that the more you want something.

The more the effort is going to go toward making it into a journey rather than a struggle

Congrats to you, man.  

Thanks a ton for all the love you guys!! :D

And if my son or daughter should make it here down here in the future. The WOTU will have a 2nd generation superstar on their hands :lol: 

Congrats man!

I hope to one day experience all this as well, although I'm slightly afraid at how well I'll take to having a child. Don't get me wrong, I like kids, and I of course want one, but I just don't know if I can handle it. Maybe it's just the fact that I still consider myself too young to even remotely consider that option (I'm 21), but I don't know. When that time comes for me, no matter how nervous I'd be, I'll be just as happy as you, or at least I'd hope so.

Again, congrats man, I'm sure you'll be a great father. 

Congrats man!

I hope to one day experience all this as well, although I'm slightly afraid at how well I'll take to having a child. Don't get me wrong, I like kids, and I of course want one, but I just don't know if I can handle it. Maybe it's just the fact that I still consider myself too young to even remotely consider that option (I'm 21), but I don't know. When that time comes for me, no matter how nervous I'd be, I'll be just as happy as you, or at least I'd hope so.

Again, congrats man, I'm sure you'll be a great father. 

spideynerd3

Appreciate it mate! Thanks!

And i think my best advice is don't rush these things. its a massive life changing choice to make and i think alot of people dont really realize until after how its a round the clock 365 7 day a week + job. My fiancee and i talked about this for a good time and in our late 20s we feel ready

another thing is to be financially ready. neither of us are loaded but make strong enough money to support a solid family life

another thing is to be financially ready. neither of us are loaded but make strong enough money to support a solid family life

 

FrenchDynasty

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another thing is to be financially ready. neither of us are loaded but make strong enough money to support a solid family life

StaticKornSlipX

Damn right it is. Congrats French!

French, you will make a great father, congrats to you man, you deserve itFullMetalWWant

Thanks mate :)

And thank you to every one else for the kind words!