So are you saying there are only two moral options? 1. No sex for pleasure only. OR 2. Sex is ok as long as the couple dont try to stop the fertilization process. Since you have brought up drinks in the discussion may I ask is it immoral to like stuffs other than water such as some fuzzy drinks that do more than quenching thirst? Is it immoral to eat something i really like just because i am not hungry? Why do you think its ok to take the fun factor out of all these activities?7guns
Yes, every little thing can be viewed from an ethical attitude, including eating unhealthy snacks or merely walking the dog.
But a killers instinct leads to the death of someone. Does homosexuality lead to some kind of harm imposed to other people?Teenaged
It depreciates the value of a relationship. A relationship should be non-physical, not consisting of merely physical attributes.
And the point is not solid. I clearly mentioned that it is psychologically violent without a justified reason.Teenaged
I'm aware that was asserted, but mere assertion does not make it true.
In the killer's instinct you have the reason that you are preventing something horrible: a murder/kill. What are you preventing in homosexuality? Nothing.TeenagedÂ
An act of depreciated value is being prevented.
So this is another unfair equalisation. (Is equivocation the best word in stead of equalisation? because I saw you use it)Teenaged
Of course it's unfair. It wasn't intended to be precisely accurate. Sex isn't death and vice versa.Â
Again the notion that marriage is designed for reproduction purposes only is established by modern religions, and that says nothing about the reality of marriage, which as I said is an act of commitment and a proof of love. Not a ceremony that magically renders what's going in your bedroom, holy.Teenaged
Name one religion that establishes sex for only reproduction.
So the bottomline is: morality, and a reasonable one, is based on things brought upon others: harm, violence (either physical or psychological). The killer is justifiably considered immoral and should be suppressed because he would harm the people around him (kill them, or injure them in his efforts), while a homosexual is unjustifiably suppressed since he/she hurts no one.Teenaged
The homosexual is not being suppressed by someone else. The homosexual has to make the decision him or herself to not engage in sex. Homosexuality can only hurt the individuals involved in the act, not anyone else, but the same holds true for not wearing a seat belt. Furthermore, by not wearing a seatbelt, it sends a signal to others who look up to that individual that it's okay to not wear a seat belt too, so inadvertently, people's lives are being put at risk, whether it's viewed upon from a materialistic perspective or not. It's still unethical.Â
I really didn't expect such gross equalisations to be used, sorry.Teenaged
No need to apologize although I personally am somewhat offended at some accusations. If I've thrown words at you that could've been better worded, then I apologize for that too.
You said that homosexuals actually can get married, it's just that they can only get married to the people of the opposite sex (trying to establish the fact that they are not being wronged since they canget married). Didn't you say that because you believe that that's what they should do?Teenaged
I was referring to how it currently is in the U.S. Not how it should be.Â
[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"][QUOTE="ChiliDragon"]That's an evasion, not an explanation ;)ChiliDragon
Yes I know, but the truth is I don't have an explanation.Â
Soo... you don't have an explanation for why sex should not be enjoyable or used for anything other than to procreate., but you're absolutely convinced it's true? You believe that if a couple is not going to have children, be it by choice or because one of them had a cancer that rendered them infertile, they are no longer allowed to use one of the most important tools to keep their marriage together, and you have no problem telling a couple that, but you can't explain why you believe so? I'm sorry, but sort of you need to explain this, because without introducing religious dogma into the equation, you're not making any sense at all. Unless your reasons are purely emotional and personal, and there is no thought at all involved other than the famous ew-factor? That does not make sense either.Objectively speaking, if an act does not promote the wellness of an indvidual's life then it is unethical, whether it's as trivial as talking on the cell phone and driving at the same time or something as significant as genocide. Every individual act can be judged objectively.
This is why I'm eagarly waiting Gabu's response because his response may change my viewpoint some. Oh, and there is some ew factor involved but I try to leave that out as to my main stance against it. I just view the ew factor as adding insult to injury.
Anyway, it's been a pleasure everybody.Â
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