You ever run into with your bully years after the fact? What was your reaction?

So, I'm sure a number of us had tormentors in school. Anybody else run into them years later? How'd you handle it, what was your or their reaction?

I ran into mine at the gym once, a couple years after Jr. High. He actually approached me and tried to strike up a nice conversation. For me, I try to make the past the past, and I did my best to maintain that conversation but...it was just so damn awkward. I really wanted to tell him, "I honestly hold nothing against you, I'm just naturally this socially awkward", but that probably would have made things even worse. I felt kind of guilty when it was over because I think I gave him the vibe that I still hold a grudge or something, when in reality, I'm just terrible with having conversations with strangers. >_>

Thankfully I didn't really have any bullies in school.

Yeah, but then I got revenge by kicking her ass at a game of tiddlywinks.

Thank goodness I was home schooled.seahorse123

Thank goodness I was home schooled.seahorse123

[QUOTE="seahorse123"]Thank goodness I was home schooled.Pirate700

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="seahorse123"]Thank goodness I was home schooled.seahorse123

[QUOTE="seahorse123"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]Why?

Pirate700

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[QUOTE="seahorse123"] Most are simply not good enough.seahorse123

nobody bullied me

like there would be no point

it would be like bullying 10guy

but i don't do drugs, i'm naturally always asleep

I am sure it was. My parents thought it was necessary and I agree with them. I went to 2 public schools they were bad, so I was home schooled.seahorse123

Yeah I was home schooled too. On one hand I think it made me a better person, but on the other I can't help but feel like I missed out on a lot of stuff kids do during those years. On a side note I avoid telling people that I am irl at all costs. They either think you should be a shining intellectual example of why home schooling works, or they think you're an anti social freak and they don't want to have much to do with you. It can be rather difficult.

Thankfully I didn't really have any bullies in school.

Pirate700

[QUOTE="seahorse123"]I am sure it was. My parents thought it was necessary and I agree with them. I went to 2 public schools they were bad, so I was home schooled.BATTOSAI76

Yeah I was home schooled too. On one hand I think it made me a better person, but on the other I can't help but feel like I missed out on a lot of stuff kids do during those years. On a side note I avoid telling people that I am irl at all costs. They either think you should be a shining intellectual example of why home schooling works, or they think you're an anti social freak and they don't want to have much to do with you. It can be rather difficult.

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Alter_Echo

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Alter_Echo

*applause

I didn't really get bullied. But, I got myself into a few fights during my freshman year. On the last one, both me and the other guy got kicked out of HS. We both transferred to a different HS and became friends. He died last year though.

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Alter_Echo

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Pirate700

It was either be extreme or do nothing at all. This kid was 2 feet taller than me and probably over double my weight. Had I half assed it, he would have gotten up and beat me into a pulp. It HAD to be a convincing beating that was bad enough to not only stop it THEN but to stop it in the future.

For the rest of school he wouldn't even look in my direction. Mission accomplished.

His folks did try to sue my parents for the medical costs but since we were an impoverished family living on welfare without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, getting anything from us was a losing battle.

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Alter_Echo

It was either be extreme or do nothing at all. This kid was 2 feet taller than me and probably over double my weight. Had I half assed it, he would have gotten up and beat me into a pulp. It HAD to be a convincing beating that was bad enough to not only stop it THEN but to stop it in the future.

For the rest of school he wouldn't even look in my direction. Mission accomplished.

His folks did try to sue my parents for the medical costs but since we were an impoverished family living on welfare without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, getting anything from us was a losing battle.

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Alter_Echo

It was either be extreme or do nothing at all. This kid was 2 feet taller than me and probably over double my weight. Had I half assed it, he would have gotten up and beat me into a pulp. It HAD to be a convincing beating that was bad enough to not only stop it THEN but to stop it in the future.

For the rest of school he wouldn't even look in my direction. Mission accomplished.

His folks did try to sue my parents for the medical costs but since we were an impoverished family living on welfare without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, getting anything from us was a losing battle.

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

The one bully that I ever had problems with only lasted like 3 weeks. He would take my lunch, pull my chair out from under me at lunch, do things and blame them on me, smack me with chalk erasers etc etc. Told teachers, told parents, nobody did anythin. So one day during gym class I pushed him off the top of those retractable gym bleachers (probably like 8 feet high) and then while he was laying there trying to get up, I kicked him in the face repeatedly with a pair of Brahma boots.

I got expelled originally but was allowed to come back and be in ISD instead. When he came back to school he had to wear this plastic shell thing on the lower part of his face to hold his nose in the right spot and had to wear this wire mesh stuff in his mouth.

Never fvcked with anybody else ever again.

If I ever do run into him, I hope he remembers me and how I fvcked his sh1t up. Absolutely hate bullies and I totally advocate full on violence against them.

Alter_Echo

It was either be extreme or do nothing at all. This kid was 2 feet taller than me and probably over double my weight. Had I half assed it, he would have gotten up and beat me into a pulp. It HAD to be a convincing beating that was bad enough to not only stop it THEN but to stop it in the future.

For the rest of school he wouldn't even look in my direction. Mission accomplished.

His folks did try to sue my parents for the medical costs but since we were an impoverished family living on welfare without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, getting anything from us was a losing battle.

Gotta agree on the be extreme or do nothing at all thing. This guy I know at school tried to bully me, but thinking he was a few inches taller and a bit broader led to his donwfall. It was freshman year and while playing soccer, I kicked his leg by mistake. When he tried to push me, all I had to do was punch his nose hard three times and he had a visit to the doctor. Meanwhile, literally everyone on the field cheered me and this act made me respected greatly. Nowadays though, we're friends and play soccer together since down here we believe in 'forgive and forget'.

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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]Wow...seems a bit over the top. Many bullies need to be taught a lesson but you're lucky you're not sitting in a prison cell right now or giving him your paycheck for the next 20 years.

insanewolfninja

It was either be extreme or do nothing at all. This kid was 2 feet taller than me and probably over double my weight. Had I half assed it, he would have gotten up and beat me into a pulp. It HAD to be a convincing beating that was bad enough to not only stop it THEN but to stop it in the future.

For the rest of school he wouldn't even look in my direction. Mission accomplished.

His folks did try to sue my parents for the medical costs but since we were an impoverished family living on welfare without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, getting anything from us was a losing battle.

[QUOTE="insanewolfninja"][QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

It was either be extreme or do nothing at all. This kid was 2 feet taller than me and probably over double my weight. Had I half assed it, he would have gotten up and beat me into a pulp. It HAD to be a convincing beating that was bad enough to not only stop it THEN but to stop it in the future.

For the rest of school he wouldn't even look in my direction. Mission accomplished.

His folks did try to sue my parents for the medical costs but since we were an impoverished family living on welfare without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, getting anything from us was a losing battle.

FartingInPublic

Thankfully I didn't really have any bullies in school.

Pirate700

I bet that's because you WERE the school bully.

Have you ever run into any of your bullying victims years after the fact? What was their reaction?

:P

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Thankfully I didn't really have any bullies in school.

Stesilaus

I bet that's because you WERE the school bully.

No, I never really got bullied.

[QUOTE="seahorse123"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]Why?

Pirate700

How do you figure? I was never a bully. As kind of a fun loving joker, I tended to just get a long with most people well.

Pirate700

I was just kidding. :)

I guess you think your folks are better teachers of the curriculum? lol Pirate700

Dont worry you were in the right man. Some people just don't know what it's like. I believe violence is completely necessary. I mean why do you think we have war? its only cured nazis and commuism. insanewolfninja

[QUOTE="insanewolfninja"]Dont worry you were in the right man. Some people just don't know what it's like. I believe violence is completely necessary. I mean why do you think we have war? its only cured nazis and commuism. dramaybaz

I became friends for the most part with the people who used to bully me in 9th grade.

I was such a wuss back then

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]I guess you think your folks are better teachers of the curriculum? lol Zeviander

[QUOTE="Zeviander"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]I guess you think your folks are better teachers of the curriculum? lol jim_shorts

I have never been bullied.

Anybody I dealt with either respected me or they feared me. As such, they'd leave me alone.

I have never been bullied.

Anybody I dealt with either respected me or they feared me. As such, they'd leave me alone.

The__Kraken