Would you date someone who had kids (and you had none)?

Personally, I wouldn't, but that's just me.

Yeah, I have. I wouldn't have even minded the kids so much, but then you've got the ex-husband always coming around and screwing with her emotions and as soon as he sees she's got a new boyfriend of course he does everything possible to screw that up, since he's got the right to stop by every weekend and get the kids and talk to her.

I dated another girl who had a kid too, but her kid was totally out of control due to no discipline whatsoever. That's pretty much the reason I broke up with her. She wasn't a bad girl otherwise.

Yeah, I have. I wouldn't have even minded the kids so much, but then you've got the ex-husband always coming around and screwing with her emotions and as soon as he sees she's got a new boyfriend of course he does everything possible to screw that up, since he's got the right to stop by every weekend and get the kids and talk to her.

Jackc8

I have no interest in having kids or dealing with them...everrawsavon

Nope. The biggest problem is gonna be the other parent. Who wants to have to deal with someones ex.

[QUOTE="Nicksonman"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]Sleep with/have fun with?...yes Date (as in relationship)?...no Though this is b/c I have no interest in having kids or dealing with them...everrawsavon

Did you really get a vasectomy and you don't have any kids yet?

junglist101

[QUOTE="junglist101"]Did you really get a vasectomy and you don't have any kids yet?

rawsavon

You must have had to really talk that doctor into doing it. Most of them won't in a case like yours.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="junglist101"]Did you really get a vasectomy and you don't have any kids yet?

junglist101

You must have had to really talk that doctor into doing it. Most of them won't in a case like yours.

hell no, a woman with a child is an immediate gtfo for me.

You must have had to really talk that doctor into doing it. Most of them won't in a case like yours.

junglist101

He was actually a really funny guy (necessary for the job imagine).
I asked him (while in the stirrups) how many of these he had done (keep in mind he was an old man).
He replied:
'This is my first one, but I have the instruction manual right here. The bad news is that it is in Spanish...but the good news is that there are pictures'

OH JUNGLIST tell me about your kids was it worth it? or has that not happened the wife is getting closer to trying and talk me into it I CAN TELLJandurin

I asked him (while in the stirrups) how many of these he had done (keep in mind he was an old man).
He replied:
'This is my first one, but I have the instruction manual right here. The bad news is that it is in Spanish...but the good news is that there are pictures'

rawsavon

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]OH JUNGLIST tell me about your kids was it worth it? or has that not happened the wife is getting closer to trying and talk me into it I CAN TELLjunglist101

[QUOTE="junglist101"]You must have had to really talk that doctor into doing it. Most of them won't in a case like yours.

rawsavon

He was actually a really funny guy (necessary for the job imagine).
I asked him (while in the stirrups) how many of these he had done (keep in mind he was an old man).
He replied:
'This is my first one, but I have the instruction manual right here. The bad news is that it is in Spanish...but the good news is that there are pictures'

Seriously how old are you guys? Alot of your answers sound really immature. I don't have any kids of my own. But saying stuff like you would tell someone gtfo if they had a kid sounds immature. There are much more intelligent ways of expressing that you wouldn't have a relationship with someone who had a kind. There are a lot of hot moms and dads out there so dont be so quick in rejecting them.helwa1988

I have a stack of flyers with this picture on it I give to them to accentuate what I've just said.

junglist101

[QUOTE="junglist101"]

I have a stack of flyers with this picture on it I give to them to accentuate what I've just said.

Jandurin

Seriously how old are you guys? Alot of your answers sound really immature. I don't have any kids of my own. But saying stuff like you would tell someone gtfo if they had a kid sounds immature. There are much more intelligent ways of expressing that you wouldn't have a relationship with someone who had a kind. There are a lot of hot moms and dads out there so dont be so quick in rejecting them.helwa1988

fair enough, i wouldn't tell them gtfo literally im direct but not rude, just wouldn't be interested

and i couldn't care less about hot moms, im not gonna take care of someone else kid. id rather have a hot not mom.

It's definitely a drawback but not a dealbreaker.

Yes, I dated a girl for three months who had a kid. It wasn't that bad, but I get along with kids and stuff. Sure there's a lot of extra stuff you gotta do like make em breakfast and hang out with them and try not to rage when the ex-husband calls and buys stuff for the kid. Blah blah blah.

I have no experience with kids at all.Jandurin

im really not a fan of raising someone elses kids but if i liked the person enough i would at least make an effort to try but i would really have to be madly in live with this person. I would still want my own kids in the end though

[QUOTE="junglist101"]Did you really get a vasectomy and you don't have any kids yet?

rawsavon

:o really now. In a way what did isn't selfish at all though. It would be selfish to just not give a **** and have a bunch of kids running around. Me personally though i wouldn't have got the vasectomy though. If in a relationship i would demand birth control and one night stands get a plan b gift basket on the way out the front door. Now that's selfish:cool:

No. I don't ever want kids so dating someone who has one wouldn't work for me.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="junglist101"]Did you really get a vasectomy and you don't have any kids yet?

Gen007

:o really now. In a way what did isn't selfish at all though. It would be selfish to just not give a **** and have a bunch of kids running around. Me personally though i wouldn't have got the vasectomy though. If in a relationship i would demand birth control and one night stands get a plan b gift basket on the way out the front door. Now that's selfish:cool:

[QUOTE="Gen007"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"] Yes. Got it in my early to mid 20's.
Nope, no kids. I am one of the most selfish, anal, ocd type people you will ever meet. Kids are not for me. I am selfish but responsible (too many people that should not have kids have them)

rawsavon

:o really now. In a way what did isn't selfish at all though. It would be selfish to just not give a **** and have a bunch of kids running around. Me personally though i wouldn't have got the vasectomy though. If in a relationship i would demand birth control and one night stands get a plan b gift basket on the way out the front door. Now that's selfish:cool:

Yeah there is a good amount of uncertainty my way but life would be quite good until the curtain falls. I could totally imagine your scenario though. I would probably be concerned though as to how many men she has slept with without a condom.

-then drop the hammer at an appropriate time

rawsavon

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

-then drop the hammer at an appropriate time

Jandurin