Would you date a girl if... (poll added)

[QUOTE="KittenNipples"]I wouldn't want to date a girl at all. Relationships are so stupid its unbelievable..Michael0134567

[QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="KittenNipples"]I wouldn't want to date a girl at all. Relationships are so stupid its unbelievable..KittenNipples

not really... quite understandable. I mean people who have never had electricity dont spend all day worrying about paying their electric bill.

Sure, as long as she doesnt expect me to do **** for her then it's all good.

she didn't have a job and wasn't attending college?

Hopkins_J

well if she used her parents' money to pay for everything yes:P,otherwise no,if i needed so much money to have a woman i would get a men's escort which will almost certainly be amazingly beautiful:P

she didn't have a job and wasn't attending college?

It depends... A) she just has a hard time in her life and had to put college aside for a time and look for work to get financially back on track. - Then Yes

B) she is lazy and not even looking for work and is looking for someone who does everything for her so she can spend someone elses money for the rest of her life. - Then No

The questions are: Does she want your money or you?/Do you want her money (as I understand she currently doesn't have) or her?

If we got along well enough then sure. Obviously she can't stay unemployed forever, so I guess the only criterion is that she's willing to look for a job.

i dont think id be interested in them to even consider dating if that was the case :0

Yes, although it depends on what kind of a person she is like if she keeps asking for my money and wasting it on shoes or something.

I don't see why not. I am 20, so if I find a girl that is slightly younger than me she will probably not be doing any of those.

Dating is silly

if she's hotGHlegend77

this ^ + generally likeable character = date worthy

Who turns down a girl you find to be physically attractive and mentally stimulating if she's not in college and is currently unemployed? With the added notion that she's into you, and there aren't any peripheral circumstances preventing you from following through, e.g like you not being single to begin with, you not being into girls, you're dealing with troubles of your own and cannot possibly sustain a meaningful relationship to begin with, et cetera.

If she chooses not to work, then no.

If it just so happens she's having a bit of a hard time, then yes.

Sure, as long asshe realizes that if she's not working and not in school, she will be producing my 6'3 babies and making me delicious pies.

[QUOTE="GHlegend77"]if she's hotBiancaDK

this ^ + generally likeable character = date worthy

Who turns down a girl you find to be physically attractive and mentally stimulating if she's not in college and is currently unemployed? With the added notion that she's into you, and there aren't any peripheral circumstances preventing you from following through, e.g like you not being single to begin with, you not being into girls, you're dealing with troubles of your own and cannot possibly sustain a meaningful relationship to begin with, et cetera.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="GHlegend77"]if she's hotrawsavon

this ^ + generally likeable character = date worthy

Who turns down a girl you find to be physically attractive and mentally stimulating if she's not in college and is currently unemployed? With the added notion that she's into you, and there aren't any peripheral circumstances preventing you from following through, e.g like you not being single to begin with, you not being into girls, you're dealing with troubles of your own and cannot possibly sustain a meaningful relationship to begin with, et cetera.

What if she is an amazing cook?

I would not date said girl (excluding some extreme circumstances for her not being in school and/or working) -not saying we can't be friends or **** buddies...but not going to date rawsavon

Doesn't seem very rational of you, given what little we know from the OP, and the described situation in my comment, but alright, each to their own.

What if she is an amazing cook?

Zyrokin

Doesn't seem very rational of you, given what little we know from the OP, and the described situation in my comment, but alright, each to their own.

BiancaDK

[QUOTE="Zyrokin"]

What if she is an amazing cook?

rawsavon

What if she was the perfect homemaker? Or, is royalty in some other country? Or, has a huge inheritance coming her way?

I'm a shallow shallow man.

I have really high standards when it comes to dating/marriage. ...but I am also quite happy being alone (so no motivation to lower said standards)rawsavon

Oh

So you're basically just kinda' weird - in this setting. Well that makes sense, in it's own nonsensical way lol.

I am dating a girl who doesn't have a job and isn't attending college so yes. Is there suppose to be something wrong with that? Please tell, what am I doing wrong that goes against someones code of life conduit.

If we got along well enough then sure. Obviously she can't stay unemployed forever, so I guess the only criterion is that she's willing to look for a job.

T_P_O

I figured someone felt the same way as me so I could just quote them, I was right.

So long as she's not abusing my generosity and is trying to find a job I'd be fine with it. If she is content with letting me take care of her the rest of her life then no. I'd only agree to that if we had a child, in which case I'd actually prefer she stayed home with him/her.

What if she was the perfect homemaker? Or, is royalty in some other country? Or, has a huge inheritance coming her way?

I'm a shallow shallow man.

So you're basically just kinda' weird - in this setting. Well that makes sense, in it's own nonsensical way lol.

BiancaDK

Yes. Yes yes yes!!!

Raw- Well as long as you have your priorities straight. If a girl can make me royal by marriage, or a ton of money, I don't care if she has a tail.

I am dating a girl who doesn't have a job and isn't attending college so yes. Is there suppose to be something wrong with that? Please tell, what am I doing wrong that goes against someones code of life conduit.

Evil_Saluki

Raw- Well as long as you have your priorities straight. If a girl can make me royal by marriage, or a ton of money, I don't care if she has a tail.

Zyrokin

[QUOTE="Zyrokin"]

Raw- Well as long as you have your priorities straight. If a girl can make me royal by marriage, or a ton of money, I don't care if she has a tail.

rawsavon

Can't argue with that solid logic. Can I get an Amen?

She would mooch like crazy, hell no.

[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"]

I am dating a girl who doesn't have a job and isn't attending college so yes. Is there suppose to be something wrong with that? Please tell, what am I doing wrong that goes against someones code of life conduit.

rawsavon

Yeah can understand it I suppose, at least in the way you put it I won't argue that. Thing is I know her, I feel at home with her and employment and aristocratic social status means nothing to the rest of it. Hopefully she doesn't read this but the truth is, she's a little bit daft, she's pretty hopeles in terms of getting a decent career but it sorts of works with the rest of her character, because she doesn't let it get her down, she just smirks it off and gives it the middle finger then makes the best out of the situation she is in. When it comes to actual life skills, such as getting around and organising stuff she is very capable, just don't ask her to do maths, spell or work for customer service. I think the word to describe her is punk chick, my kind of girl heh. Maybe it's a flaw of mine but I just love a girl who goes against the grain. Oh and she's not too bad looking so that helps also.

I suppose I'm not that ambitious a person myself, so it doesn't bother me, also people status can change. I think the topic holder mentions that someone is not going to college and is unemployed as if that's a person who intends to stay unemployed, but that's not always the case, although truth be told I think my girlfriend is one of those who doesn't want to work if she can get away with it.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"]

I am dating a girl who doesn't have a job and isn't attending college so yes. Is there suppose to be something wrong with that? Please tell, what am I doing wrong that goes against someones code of life conduit.

Yeah can understand it I suppose, at least in the way you put it I won't argue that. Thing is I know her, I feel at home with her and employment and aristocratic social status means nothing to the rest of it. Hopefully she doesn't read this but the truth is, she's a little bit daft, she's pretty hopeles in terms of getting a decent career but it sorts of works with the rest of her character, because she doesn't let it get her down, she just smirks it off and gives it the middle finger then makes the best out of the situation she is in. When it comes to actual life skills, such as getting around and organising stuff she is very capable, just don't ask her to do maths, spell or work for customer service. I think the word to describe her is punk chick, my kind of girl heh. Maybe it's a flaw of mine but I just love a girl who goes against the grain. Oh and she's not too bad looking so that helps also.

I suppose I'm not that ambitious a person myself, so it doesn't bother me, also people status can change. I think the topic holder mentions that someone is not going to college and is unemployed as if that's a person who intends to stay unemployed, but that's not always the case, although truth be told I think my girlfriend is one of those who doesn't want to work if she can get away with it.

of course i would ... and i do ... what's wrong with that ?

Say you really like the girl ... what does it matter if she has a job or goes to school or whatever.

Love is blind my friend.

Love is blind my friend.

ValHazzard

Love is never blind...
-you are attracted to certain things...some things matter and some things don't (this would not be the case if love was blind)
-also, love is in a constant state of change...all feelings/emotions are

[QUOTE="ValHazzard"]

Love is blind my friend.

rawsavon

Love is never blind...
-you are attracted to certain things...some things matter and some things don't (this would not be the case if love was blind)
-also, love is in a constant state of change...all feelings/emotions are

Well...yeah, that's true...but...

My point was that I really don't care if someone is rich or poor or went to school or not. If i get along with the person and see that he/she is a good person that's all that matters to me. I couldn't care less if she comes from a family of bums or her mum is the queen of england...if she's ok, it's all ok...that's just me...and I'm quite happy with all of my f***** up friends

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="ValHazzard"]

Love is blind my friend.

ValHazzard

Love is never blind...
-you are attracted to certain things...some things matter and some things don't (this would not be the case if love was blind)
-also, love is in a constant state of change...all feelings/emotions are

Well...yeah, that's true...but...

My point was that I really don't care if someone is rich or poor or went to school or not. If i get along with the person and see that he/she is a good person that's all that matters to me. I couldn't care less if she comes from a family of bums or her mum is the queen of england...if she's ok, it's all ok...that's just me...and I'm quite happy with all of my ****** up friends

Exactly.

Love is not blind. You just don't care about this issue enough for it to affect your choice in mate is all.
-nothing wrong with that...we all have things we want, don't want, and don't really care about.

For some people though, it is a deal breaker. There is nothing wrong with either way of thinking.
I am sure you have some things that are 'deal breakers' for you that would not be for someone else

[QUOTE="ValHazzard"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Love is never blind...
-you are attracted to certain things...some things matter and some things don't (this would not be the case if love was blind)
-also, love is in a constant state of change...all feelings/emotions are

rawsavon

Well...yeah, that's true...but...

My point was that I really don't care if someone is rich or poor or went to school or not. If i get along with the person and see that he/she is a good person that's all that matters to me. I couldn't care less if she comes from a family of bums or her mum is the queen of england...if she's ok, it's all ok...that's just me...and I'm quite happy with all of my ****** up friends

Exactly.

Love is not blind. You just don't care about this issue enough for it to affect your choice in mate is all.
-nothing wrong with that...we all have things we want, don't want, and don't really care about.

For some people though, it is a deal breaker. There is nothing wrong with either way of thinking.
I am sure you have some things that are 'deal breakers' for you that would not be for someone else

absolutely ...

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="ValHazzard"]

Well...yeah, that's true...but...

My point was that I really don't care if someone is rich or poor or went to school or not. If i get along with the person and see that he/she is a good person that's all that matters to me. I couldn't care less if she comes from a family of bums or her mum is the queen of england...if she's ok, it's all ok...that's just me...and I'm quite happy with all of my ****** up friends

ValHazzard

Exactly.

Love is not blind. You just don't care about this issue enough for it to affect your choice in mate is all.
-nothing wrong with that...we all have things we want, don't want, and don't really care about.

For some people though, it is a deal breaker. There is nothing wrong with either way of thinking.
I am sure you have some things that are 'deal breakers' for you that would not be for someone else

absolutely ...

There is too much agreement in this argument. No problem, I can fix that. Hey ValHazzard, Rawsavon totally whispered to me that it is a deal breaker for you if your women don't have a penis What say you to that???

Hmm, maybe. Depends on the age. I'm fourteen myself. :P

yes I would as long as she was trying to make a living for herself and wasnt a complete bum, everyone has rough patches during life where they cant get a job, and not dating someone because they arent college educated is just ignorant.

define job? Is she sitting on her ass at home all day and planning to mooch off me? Or is she some type of artist/musician whom is trying to be recognized but has no stable income? If the latter, yes. If the former, no. Unless she has an amazing personality, good looks and plans on getting a job/careeer.