@always_explicit said:
Please dont put the pussy on a pedestal. Talk to them, interact with them and enjoy them and things start to happen!
*Waits for tomorrow's OT topic "Tried talking to a girl's pussy...got slapped. WTF OT?? Women are weird..."*
@AmazonTreeBoa said:
I can't relate. Been with my girl for going on 21 years and I prefer to be around women over men. Most men seem to be stupid barbaric morons that constantly feel the need to prove their manhood. I want no part of that ignorance. I am more than secure with my manhood and feel no need to prove it. I don't like loud obnoxious people and that seems to be what most men are. At least around my parts. Getting drunk and doped up on drugs seems to be their favorite pastime. I rarely drink and when I do, I do it at home with my girl. The closest thing to a drug that I do is smoke weed. To be far, I also avoid the junky girls around here too. They will suck your wallet dry for pills and heroin.
Yep, I agree. I've always been more comfortable around women than men. Growing up, I would never have anything to say to a group of "manly guys". It was just so frustrating having to deal with endless pissing contests and bragging tirades...on the other hand, I'd be perfectly comfortable in any group of women, who (maybe sub-consciously) would always make me the center of attention since I was the only guy there, but I have yet to just "parachute drop" into a group of women and having them receiving me with anything less than complete acceptance. And I find them so easy to talk to; most can make a pleasant conversation out of just about any topic, and they actually listen when you talk to them instead of thinking "yeah, yeah...you're having problems; shut up so I can tell you about this hot chick I banged yesterday".
Even when I would just walk up to a girl (alone or with her friends), introduce myself and 5 minutes later ask her(them) to go out for a coffee I was never rejected (no, they wouldn't automatically jump in bed with me, this is not a porn website). Even now, being married, 99% of my friends are women...
That being said, I think this shift in awkwardness is due, in big part (but not solely, obviously) to the shift in parenting. A few generations back if you were a man you'd get a pat on the back and told you had it made for the simple fact that you were born with a penis....get a job and all the girls would flock to you looking for security and stability like the mindless animals they were. The girls, on the other hand, like proper inferior beings, would be trained to be useful and skilled and maybe a guy would pick them up, despite all her flaws, and rescue her.
Thankfully things improved for women but not so much for relationships. Now the roles are a bit inverted. A lot of girls are raised to the "pussy worship" mentality; they have one, guys want one, that's all they need. Guys, on the other hand, like the mindless sex crazed inferior animals that they are, are trained to think women are this alien species who is akin to the Holy Grail and that a man's sole purpose in life is to be worthy of one, therefore everything he does should be to court a female from a distance, and under peril of death, approach the deadly predator. If she doesn't eat his head, he might actually get to take her out for coffee.
A few years back, I used to have lunch at a sandwich place and since it was close to a school there were always some kids having lunch with their parents. There were these 2 kids in particular, a boy with his father and a girl with his mother. They were probably around 8/9yo and the boy was completely in love with the girl (who never even noticed him). I'd see him stealing glances at her every time they met there. One day (after months) apparently his father encouraged him to go talk to her. He (the father) had a bouquet of flowers with him and took one out, gave it to the kid and told him to go give it to the girl. So the boy stands up, all shaky and sweaty, shyly walks over to the girl, introduces himself very formally and offers her the rose. It was really sweet and half the place was in a sort of mute "awww". The girl grabs the rose, looks at him like he had just lifted her skirt, throws the rose to the floor and says really loudly (obviously for spectacle sake) "Why would I want anything from YOU? Just because I'm a girl, it doesn't mean I have to deal with this shit!". Me, the boy's father, pretty much all the guys and some of the women were like "Holy shit...did that just happen?" while the girl's mother and the rest of the women were cheering for the girl...some even clapped! How is that sort of reaction even remotely acceptable? The little boy was so ashamed they never ate at that place again.
Nothing will improve with role reversal; we need role equality. I don't think any parent should foster the superior/inferior view upon others, regardless of gender. There is no reason to raise your kid not to be kind, accepting, generous, polite and with a sense of self-improvement. If parents decide how to raise their children based on what's between their kids' legs, no wonder kids become obsessed with it. And then we end up with OT threads about how to talk to girls like you need to learn a second language in order to approach one...
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