When did you lose your Virginity?

Dude you make me so depressed every time I read your posts. Please tell me this is some sort of persona you have and not really what life's like for you.

Guys who call girls are depressing to you? Not everyone is socially accepted. What are such people to do?

21, it wasnt as spectacular as i thought it would be. The girl didnt believe cuz I had told previously that I was virgin, but when we went at it she said I performed like I had already been with 4-5 girls. She said she was expecting me to be scared/nervous and that she would had to hold my hand through it, but she was really surprise how "good" I was.

I'll be honest, the amount of porn I watched kinda desensitize me and I pretty much went at her like one of those experience porn male "actors" who just basically throw them around, get them in those hard positions, and then bust in their face. Thats why she thought I was lying.

I still have it and I am 24. I have had many opportunities to give it, but I just did not.

yeah I had chances before, and I literally had a girl unbuttoning her pants and asking for it.

I used to think it was worth to wait for a good girl that you are all in love with and in an awesome true long lasting relationship, but... shit is the same either way. As long as you arent a slut with your dick.

Just dont worry too much about it, it will happen sooner or later, just dont mentally torment yourself about it.

Or you could not be pathetic, and just get out and meet people.

There's nothing pathetic about callinga girl. Some people just aren't adept or comfortable with socializing. Some people don't have any interest in developing a relationship.

I definitely feel pressured to give it up, but it would not be wise.

@BluRayHiDef: yea imo it would be best to lose it to someone you care about, on the other hand if your 26 and still haven't lost it I think calling a girl is your best bet just because even if you build the courage to meet someone your gonna have no idea what to do if it happens and it will be weird. Maybe im wrong idk

I see it this way. If someone hasn't lost their virginity by their mid twenties due to involuntary reasons, then they are socially inept/ awkward and probably have social anxiety. Hence, the likelihood of them "finding the right person" (which is a bullshit movie concept) is null. They should just call someone.

I don't know whether to be offended or complimented.

12 and under.

I would take it as a compliment.

my life story, except im not to ugly. im just a loser with women. its kinda funny though cause i had quite a few just basically through it at me and i didnt take their offerings cause im to socially awkward to talk to them.

look at the bright side... at least you are not 31 and in the same situation

@-Renegade: I don't get how you can be 31 and never kissed a girl, I kissed like 7 girls last year and I literally don't even talk to people

I like to think that way. I'm still in high school and haven't had any girlfriends (yet) so maybe my perception will change as I grow, but I don't feel like losing it to some random girl I met at a party (unless she's really hot or I'm drunk). I think it has to mean something. Besides, for your first time, I think we'd be more comfortable if it was with someone we knew and cared about instead of some random chick you might not see again. I'm young, but hopefully I'll find the right one sooner rather then later.

Regretfully around the age of 21. I was crazy about this girl and was practically obsessed with her. The relationship was filled with heightened emotion all the way through, from the highs to the lows. The breakup was difficult and I became a different person as a result.

Since then I have decided that waiting until marriage is the best option. As a result I have abstained from anything of the sort since - about 5 years time. My current girlfriend and I are waiting until we are married before engaging in such an intimate manner. Until then we both refuse to do anything we would not do in a public place. Due to our restraint our emotions are even and we are capable of making logical decisions regarding one another. We love each other because we actually care about one another, not simply because our emotions are fueled by lust. I've already bought the engagement ring for her, just have not yet had the proper opportunity to ask her to marry me just yet.

@mindstorm: I had the same situation what would you say is the best way to get over a break up like that cause its been months and im still bothered by mine

I was 14 and I don't reget it. We were together for a year and that was very nice.

• How old were you, and how old are you now?
• Describe the experience in detail, please.

I was 20 or 21 I think.

20

I had a opportunity to lose at 19 but didn't.

12. I lost it to my hand.

I was a 17 year-old senior in HS (I lied and said I was 19) and she was a 23 year old college senior (high fives!). I grew up in a college town.

I blew numerous opportunities when I was 15-16.

I haven't yet......

I think at this point we've both graduated from the V-Club and joined the V-Force.

Yea i did when i was 19 in college. I didn't want to lose it in highschool because i lived in a small town and everyone literally knew everyone by name in highschool and since it was that way the hot girls acted snobby because there were so few of them and the ugly girls were socially awkward and most of the people in my small town had no life goals or dreams. So i just didn't even try.

Lol I believe my first time was about a month or 2 after my 19th birthday. Looks like I'm right on the money statistically.

i dont understand, with a body like yours all you have to do is take off your shirt. i wish i had your genes, god why am i cursed!

wtf?! why couldnt i be this lucky.

One time I was gonna do it and mentioned the weather. I guess it was a turn off :/ Other times I had no rubber

26. Might lose my virginity soon :)

Physique is overrated when it comes to attracting girls. I speak from experience.

Honestly can't remember

Somewhere between 18-20