Whats the best way to get a girl back?

Like i broke up with her because i thought something happend and it actully didnt but i didnt find that out untill after i broke up with her. Yesterday it started to sound like maybe she would take me back but today she told me to leave her alone when i first texted her. So i fliped out and said she was a waste of 4 months of my life and she would never be the girl i wanted her to be (yeah i know that puts me pretty far down in a hole). Anyways i just really want her back and i know thats hard to understand after what i just said.

Anyways what is a good way to get a girl back?

well you could start by giving up

I usually find it impossible to recover lost relationships, so I say; NO.

Whip it out in front of her. Women can't deny the pen0r.

Like i broke up with her because i thought something happend and it actully didnt but i didnt find that out untill after i broke up with her. Yesterday it started to sound like maybe she would take me back but today she told me to leave her alone when i first texted her. So i fliped out and said she was a waste of 4 months of my life and she would never be the girl i wanted her to be (yeah i know that puts me pretty far down in a hole). Anyways i just really want her back and i know thats hard to understand after what i just said.

Anyways what is a good way to get a girl back?

A_M

Yeah, uhm, in this situation you should probably move on.

Get her pregnant, its the only way

There is a bigger chance of you getting abducted by an advanced alien race than getting her back. Face it, you ****ed up.

Touch her shoulder. She'll get so in love with you again, and you'll be guaranteed a happy life together.

Get her pregnant, its the only way

cheetfreak

Throw rocks at her window at midnight and then serenade her with "Get Jiggy Wit It"Avistann

[QUOTE="Avistann"]Throw rocks at her window at midnight and then serenade her with "Get Jiggy Wit It"garrett_duffman

Its possible... I broke up with my girl for no reason and we got back together 2 months later. Just treat her ncie tell ehr how you feel and that you made a mistake. If she rejects it tell her you want to be friends and throughout time earn her trust again.

Gee...seeing these comments make me sick...but what can I expect from a gaming forum.

Anyway, you sound like quite a young dude. Whether getting back with her or not, you SHOULD attempt and at least say that you're sorry for acting on your impulse. You were at fault. Tell her how you truly feel about her, and be sincere about it. Not only tell her you're sorry, but also SHOW her that you're sorry, as well. Good luck.

When you tell her that she was "a waste of four months of my life" the chances she will ever contemplate coming back to you are practically non-existent. You can't get away with that kind of insult and have a successful relationship with that person again. Even apologizing won't help the situation any... you really don't deserve forgiveness for such a comment.

Hopefully this will be a good lesson to you and teach you not to open your mouth unless you are sure you mean it. And on top of that, keep it shut when you know it will hurt the other person's feelings. What you have to learn that in a serious relationship, the other person comes first, not you.

Well you may have screwed up your chances. Write her a poem about how much you like her? I dunno, I guess some girls are into that.

Touch her shoulder. She'll get so in love with you again, and you'll be guaranteed a happy life together.

DJ-Lafleur

LuLz

"Touch her shoulder" always makes it on to the first page of a girl help topic! :P

[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

Touch her shoulder. She'll get so in love with you again, and you'll be guaranteed a happy life together.

Curlyfrii87

LuLz

"Touch her shoulder" always makes it on to the first page of a girl help topic! :P

I know. I decided to beat someone to the punch...

Dunno how my friends do it but some of them manage to break up a girl over and over again yet manage to get back together again and again :? A close friend of mine just got back with his girl for the 2nd time. They just got back together, just texted each other after the breakup and acted like they never broke up and eventually, they got back together again. Your situation is different, try showing you care for her? Maybe apologize for what you said?

Sorry mate but when it's over there's barely any hope in getting her back. Try to get over her, you'll find someone new. At least you know she wasn't the one for you. :)

Sorry mate but when it's over there's barely any hope in getting her back. Try to get over her, you'll find someone new. At least you know she wasn't the one for you. :)

Bioshockraptor

Like i broke up with her because i thought something happend and it actully didnt but i didnt find that out untill after i broke up with her. Yesterday it started to sound like maybe she would take me back but today she told me to leave her alone when i first texted her. So i fliped out and said she was a waste of 4 months of my life and she would never be the girl i wanted her to be (yeah i know that puts me pretty far down in a hole). Anyways i just really want her back and i know thats hard to understand after what i just said.

Anyways what is a good way to get a girl back?

A_M

i lol'd. you're an idiot. she's not coming back

When you tell her that she was "a waste of four months of my life" the chances she will ever contemplate coming back to you are practically non-existent. You can't get away with that kind of insult and have a successful relationship with that person again. Even apologizing won't help the situation any... you really don't deserve forgiveness for such a comment.

Hopefully this will be a good lesson to you and teach you not to open your mouth unless you are sure you mean it. And on top of that, keep it shut when you know it will hurt the other person's feelings. What you have to learn that in a serious relationship, the other person comes first, not you.

foxhound_fox

in my defence i treated her really good throughout the relationship and she never really did to me. Actully she was pretty mean

dont ask why i want her back...hard to understand

Take her on a skydiving trip. Then sabotage her parachute and push her out of the plane at 100 thousand feet.

Problem solved.

Take her on a skydiving trip. Then sabotage her parachute and push her out of the plane at 100 thousand feet.

Problem solved.

Desulated

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

Take her on a skydiving trip. Then sabotage her parachute and push her out of the plane at 100 thousand feet.

Problem solved.

Baconbits2004

Yes and don't forget the giant trampoline at the bottom. That should fright her enough.

[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"][QUOTE="Desulated"]

Take her on a skydiving trip. Then sabotage her parachute and push her out of the plane at 100 thousand feet.

Problem solved.

Desulated

Yes and don't forget the giant trampoline at the bottom. That should fright her enough.

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]

When you tell her that she was "a waste of four months of my life" the chances she will ever contemplate coming back to you are practically non-existent. You can't get away with that kind of insult and have a successful relationship with that person again. Even apologizing won't help the situation any... you really don't deserve forgiveness for such a comment.

Hopefully this will be a good lesson to you and teach you not to open your mouth unless you are sure you mean it. And on top of that, keep it shut when you know it will hurt the other person's feelings. What you have to learn that in a serious relationship, the other person comes first, not you.

A_M

in my defence i treated her really good throughout the relationship and she never really did to me. Actully she was pretty mean

dont ask why i want her back...hard to understand

in my defence i treated her really good throughout the relationship and she never really did to me. Actully she was pretty mean

dont ask why i want her back...hard to understand

A_M

Get her a gift with some flowers, that might work

Let her go mate. I know that's not what you want to hear, but the more you hound her, the more she'll hate you.

I will give you a few tips for the future though...

1/ Don't lash out and say mean things to anyone. Not everything can be repaired.

2/ Women are generally loyal and passionate, but when they turn, it's OVER!!!

3/ NO woman finds desperation attractive. If you stuffed up, wear it like a man.

There's plenty of fish in the sea mate. Keep your chin up, take what lessons you can from all this, and find another girl.

Just treat her nice tell ehr how you feel and that you made a mistake. If she rejects it tell her you want to be friends and throughout time earn her trust again.

bigblunt537

slap her in the face with a 100 dollar blillonewolf604

I think that before you try to make up with her, first you need to make up with yourself. And if you apologized to her and did anything you deemed possible to make up with her and she still doesn't forgive you, then it's her loss not yours. She is probably either too sensitive or she has emotional issues not directly having something to do with you. You have to forgive yourself for your mistakes and know that there is a lot of fish in the sea.

As to how to deal with rejection in general, I would recommend these tips:

1. "The One" Concept is a myth

2. You will discover that lots of people can be the one

3. You will discover that being dumped doesn't mean that you are bad

http://www.2knowmyself.com/relationships_breakups/Falling_in_Love_with_Someone_You_Cant_Have/How_To_Get_Over_Someone