@lonewolf604:
Confidence can be built by anyone, including you.
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Yeah, that "**** you all" thing was a dead giveaway. I'm more in lacking confidence than anything, but even I won't insult all of OT over it. :P My social awkwardness has gone down since high school, so there may be some hope for me. :D
I'm of the opinion that there's no "may be some hope" with these things. If you aren't a complete recluse, you have friends and on occasion meet new people, then it will happen. There's people of all shapes and sizes, and they all want sex.
Yeah, that "**** you all" thing was a dead giveaway. I'm more in lacking confidence than anything, but even I won't insult all of OT over it. :P My social awkwardness has gone down since high school, so there may be some hope for me. :D
I'm of the opinion that there's no "may be some hope" with these things. If you aren't a complete recluse, you have friends and on occasion meet new people, then it will happen. There's people of all shapes and sizes, and they all want sex.
See, I have zero social life right now, but that will likely not remain the case as I mature and get a good career. I'm only 22 after all. The thing is, finding virgins past the age of 25 is pretty hard, so if I'm still a virgin by then, I'll be really scared. 3:
Yeah, that "**** you all" thing was a dead giveaway. I'm more in lacking confidence than anything, but even I won't insult all of OT over it. :P My social awkwardness has gone down since high school, so there may be some hope for me. :D
I'm of the opinion that there's no "may be some hope" with these things. If you aren't a complete recluse, you have friends and on occasion meet new people, then it will happen. There's people of all shapes and sizes, and they all want sex.
See, I have zero social life right now, but that will likely not remain the case as I mature and get a good career. I'm only 22 after all. The thing is, finding virgins past the age of 25 is pretty hard, so if I'm still a virgin by then, I'll be really scared. 3:
I dont think being a virgin or not is something people explicitly discuss past the age of 25. Sure iv talked about sex with a handful of close friends as banter but the conversations were just as easily avoided. Just because you are a virgin and feel awkward about it doesnt mean anybody needs to know or that anybody would even care.
I mean ...I dont care, and i mean that respectfully but the only person your sexual endeavours should matter to are you and the person you choose to have sex with. The older I have become the far less inclined I am to discuss my sexuality face to face with friends because everybody operates under the assumption that its a private affair. The days of bragging about sex largely vanish when people grow up.
I guess what im saying is keeping your sexuality private isnt something thats likely to get you judged harshly by other people. If you chose not to engage in a conversation about sex with me I would more than likely assume you were just a private individual that preferred not to discuss sex openly before I concluded you were a virgin.
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