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#1 karlgauci
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My girl cheated on me, should I break up with her or accept her apology? she said she was sorry and stuff but I'm so confused my heart tells me not to leave her
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#2 double_decker
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Then follow your heart and keep giving her chances until she finally cheats on you enough that you can't feel anything anymore and she ruins you for relationships forever
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#3 marklarmer
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chuck her and play the field for someone better.
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#4 bluezy
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I'd leave, she clearly doesn't want the relationship.
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#5 MGShacker
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dont go back for more. shes taking you for granted. she will do it again. DUMP HER
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#6 Agriath
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End it. Don't accept her apology.
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#7 gamerchris810
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indeedly leave the cow!
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#8 Sonick54
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I suggest break up.

If she wasn't loyal enoguh to keep you now, what will make her keep you after? 

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#9 blooddemon666
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Then follow your heart and keep giving her chances until she finally cheats on you enough that you can't feel anything anymore and she ruins you for relationships foreverdouble_decker
best answer so far.
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#10 cifru
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THis is Madness! that's all i'm gonna say, madman.....
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#11 foxhound_fox
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I would never give anyone who cheats on me a second chance. They betrayed my trust once... they will do it again... no matter how puppy-eyed they go. Yes... I know I am cold.

They should have enough restraint to not do it in the first place, especially if they have strong feelings for you.
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#12 DaveGamer_05
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Then follow your heart and keep giving her chances until she finally cheats on you enough that you can't feel anything anymore and she ruins you for relationships foreverdouble_decker

And once you can't feel anything, all that matters is sex! 

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#13 MGShacker
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[QUOTE="double_decker"]Then follow your heart and keep giving her chances until she finally cheats on you enough that you can't feel anything anymore and she ruins you for relationships foreverblooddemon666
best answer so far.


NO! dude please just dump her. you will be glad you did cuz she'l do it again. save yourself some crying
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#14 karlgauci
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I would never give anyone who cheats on me a second chance. They betrayed my trust once... they will do it again... no matter how puppy-eyed they go. Yes... I know I am cold.

They should have enough restraint to not do it in the first place, especially if they have strong feelings for you.foxhound_fox

 

and that means...fool me once shame on me..fool me twice shame on....??? 

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#15 DrummerJon
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Dump her, she broke the trust and it will never be funtional. Find someone who can treat you better.

 

you are just scared of not finding anyone, thats what your "heart' is saying. Trust me on this one. 

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#16 zeus_gb
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One of the corner stones of any relationship is trust, without that you've got nothing.
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#17 blooddemon666
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"][QUOTE="double_decker"]Then follow your heart and keep giving her chances until she finally cheats on you enough that you can't feel anything anymore and she ruins you for relationships foreverMGShacker
best answer so far.


NO! dude please just dump her. you will be glad you did cuz she'l do it again. save yourself some crying

Well, in my case, something would have to have gone wrong in the fabric of the universe for a girl to go out with me.
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#18 arab_prince
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I would say dump her. But if shes sincerely sorry and you like her a lot, then give her another chance. But if you do give her another chance, the relationship will never be the same.
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#19 MGShacker
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]I would never give anyone who cheats on me a second chance. They betrayed my trust once... they will do it again... no matter how puppy-eyed they go. Yes... I know I am cold.

They should have enough restraint to not do it in the first place, especially if they have strong feelings for you.karlgauci

 

and that means...fool me once shame on me..fool me twice shame on....??? 

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#20 BraindeadRacr
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My girl cheated on me, should I break up with her or accept her apology? she said she was sorry and stuff but I'm so confused my heart tells me not to leave herkarlgauci
One word, well name; Dr. Phil.
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#21 Fred_alot
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The Qoute is anctually goes like this " Fool me once shame on you... Fool me twice shane on me..." but seriously if your girlfriend cheated on you why would you stay with her "she'll do it again, i've been cheated on so many times i cant coun't with both hands. Dump her and forget it or it will happen again. 
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#22 LouDank
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Did she kiss another guy or S his D.... Either way i'd break up with her.
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#23 yoshi-lnex
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Break up with her, people don't have drastic personality changes in short periods of time, so she'll probably cheat on you again. You need to recognize that you're in an abusive relationship and end it quickly.
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#24 delol
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if she cheat on you once she can do it twice but dunno it depends on the girl and the circumstances
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#25 Private_Vegas
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If she seemed sincere in her apology...... I'd give her another chance. But she'd be on thin ice.
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#26 Bozanimal
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My girl cheated on me, should I break up with her or accept her apology? she said she was sorry and stuff but I'm so confused my heart tells me not to leave herkarlgauci

It will never be the same, so DTMFA. There's 3 billion women on the planet, you'll find someone else.

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#27 double_decker
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best answer so far.
blooddemon666
Thank you I had to take 3 Advil after coming up with something good for once :lol:
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#28 mlbslugger86
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most definitely,if she really did care for you she wouldn't have cheated in the first place.
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#29 bitemeslippy
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Good advice: Don't stay with a chick that cheated on you.

Better Advice: Don't listen to anything that someone on the Gamespot forum says, ESPECIALLY when it's about girls.

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#30 blooddemon666
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]best answer so far.
double_decker
Thank you I had to take 3 Advil after coming up with something good for once :lol:

I think everyone has it in themselves to change.

If she truly loves you, she won't do it again. 

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#31 karlgauci
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thanks for the advice lads I really appreciate your support!
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#32 arab_prince
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Good advice: Don't stay with a chick that cheated on you.

Better Advice: Don't listen to anything that someone on the Gamespot forum says, ESPECIALLY when it's about girls.

bitemeslippy

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#33 ayanami_rei
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Leave her. Take the advice from someone who has been cheated on five times. You think cheated on once would make you confused and hurt, think how it would be if you were cheated on another four times. How long did it take her to apologize though? Just out of curiosity. And how old are you two?

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#34 Food_Nipple
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I'd leave her.  She's just going to do it again.
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#35 P-r-e-y
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If you have to ask your homies on Gamespot what to do, then you aren't even ready for a relationship in the first place... But heres my 2 cents and a short story: There was a thief that stole from a wealthy merchant, and was brought before the king, the king asked "why have you done this?" the thief replied "I was desperate and needed the money, i'm so sorry please forgive me and let me go I wont do it again!" the king then said "you must never steal no matter how bad the times are for you or anybody, you may go free" afew months later the thief stole again and brought before the king.. the king said "why have you done this? the theif replied "I am so very sorry I needed the money and was desperate... please let me go O great king I swear I wont steal again." the king then said "I spared your life before and set you free, yet you stole again, for this I will not pardon you........ off with his head" I think the Message of this story is prertty obvious.
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#36 arab_prince
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thanks for the advice lads I really appreciate your support!karlgauci

Ya how old are you guys, if u dont mind. And did you make a decision? :O 

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#37 Carlos_Santana
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It depends. I probably would break up with her for numerous reasons...such as:

1) I date girls who I really like, and girls I would NEVER cheat on. She obviously doesn't feel the way I do about her, so I would break up with her

2) I don't date cheaters

3) Girlfriends can be very...expensive, stressful, etc.

4) If she cheated, you can do better than her

So now that I think about it, Yes, you should break up with her.

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#38 cpo335
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How did she say sorry?

Did you find outm or did she tell you?

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#39 AmericanSk8land
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My girl cheated on me, should I break up with her or accept her apology? she said she was sorry and stuff but I'm so confused my heart tells me not to leave herkarlgauci

stay with her, but if she starts flirtin with other guys again or starts to ignore you, say straight to her face "its done" and then walk away without a hint of sorrow on your face.

Edit: Dump that sleezy ***** for screwin you over, no one deserves to be cheated on.

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#40 karlgauci
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Leave her. Take the advice from someone who has been cheated on five times. You think cheated on once would make you confused and hurt, think how it would be if you were cheated on another four times. How long did it take her to apologize though? Just out of curiosity. And how old are you two?

ayanami_rei

she told me the day after and apologized as soon as she told me, we are both 15 

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#41 Samerzz
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My girl cheated on me, should I break up with her or accept her apology? she said she was sorry and stuff but I'm so confused my heart tells me not to leave herkarlgauci
dump her...you cant trust the hoe!
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#42 lim_ak
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I think as a point of reference you should kind of define what you consider cheating, because that kind of differs from couple to couple. But for the most part I'm going to say stay with her for at least a little while, lets you figure out how she really feels and then just play it by ear, or you could just stay with her just to find out why she cheated and then break up with her.
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#43 blooddemon666
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If you have to ask your homies on Gamespot what to do, then you aren't even ready for a relationship in the first place... But heres my 2 cents and a short story: There was a thief that stole from a wealthy merchant, and was brought before the king, the king asked "why have you done this?" the thief replied "I was desperate and needed the money, i'm so sorry please forgive me and let me go I wont do it again!" the king then said "you must never steal no matter how bad the times are for you or anybody, you may go free" afew months later the thief stole again and brought before the king.. the king said "why have you done this? the theif replied "I am so very sorry I needed the money and was desperate... please let me go O great king I swear I wont steal again." the king then said "I spared your life before and set you free, yet you stole again, for this I will not pardon you........ off with his head" I think the Message of this story is prertty obvious.P-r-e-y
good parable
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#44 ayanami_rei
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]

Leave her. Take the advice from someone who has been cheated on five times. You think cheated on once would make you confused and hurt, think how it would be if you were cheated on another four times. How long did it take her to apologize though? Just out of curiosity. And how old are you two?

karlgauci

she told me the day after and apologized as soon as she told me, we are both 15 

What type of cheat was it? A one night stand? Or a week - year cheat?
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#45 karlgauci
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[QUOTE="karlgauci"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"]

Leave her. Take the advice from someone who has been cheated on five times. You think cheated on once would make you confused and hurt, think how it would be if you were cheated on another four times. How long did it take her to apologize though? Just out of curiosity. And how old are you two?

ayanami_rei

 

she told me the day after and apologized as soon as she told me, we are both 15

What type of cheat was it? A one night stand? Or a week - year cheat?

not once the whole thing didn't take long but it's still cheating 

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#46 dirtyd100
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Is she fine as hell? Or ok?
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BYE BY NOW!
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#48 Josh_345
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Give her a second chance. But if she does it again leave...
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#49 MGS9150
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Dump her, take it from me when someone says they are sorry they arnt sorry they are just trying to get out of S***. She betrayed you once its just gonna make it easier for her to do it again.
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#50 kruegersc4
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If she truly loved you, she wouldn't have done it in the first place.