Seriously, I think someone somewhere has founded a "Hate Ashley" club and every single guy in the whole world has joined. All of my friends all have boyfriends and what not, but no guys ever even speak to me! I guess they all just see me as 'that skinny blonde who plays video games.' :(
Anyone have any advice?
White-Rose
don't be such a nerd...watch laguna beach and party...then you will make friends
Dont feel bad cause im in the same exact situation, just with girls. my friends are dating so are always busy with their girl friends so the only time i ever see them is at school. girls rarely talk to me (or at least the girls im interested in) and dont talk to them to avoid the embarrassment and awkwardness of me having nothing much to say. I feel for you girl.
Okay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.White-Rose
You could be the one to ask a guy out, a lot of them are afraid of asking and getting rejected.
A little tip when with a guy: asking him to do little things such as opening a bottle because cap is on too tight, this will make the guy feel good about himself... odd isn't it :|
I'm 95% sure that not everyone hates you. In fact, i'm 95% sure that there's some guy that would love you to death if you let him. But there's the problem, innit? What you meant is that only guys that you care about hate you. You don't care about the wallflower sitting three seats behind you and to the left in biology, do you? I thought not.
[QUOTE="White-Rose"]Okay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.L8erSquare
You could be the one to ask a guy out, a lot of them are afraid of asking and getting rejected.
A little tip when with a guy: asking him to do little things such as opening a bottle because cap is on too tight, this will make the guy feel good about himself... odd isn't it :|
id really disagree with that advice, although i guess it depends on the guy. id be annoyed if a girl kept asking me to open her drinks all the girl, girlfriend or not.
Well i wouldn't say i hate you (it is a pretty strong word) but i dont know you and cant say i like you either. not to mention this kind of topic creating would bring you down a few points on the "like" side. But as i said i dont know anything about you so i really am in no position to judge
At your age, most guys only think of girls as status symbols. Unfortunately, girl gamers typically don't rate as high as like prom queen or something. I'm sure it's nothing personal, but it's just the way the stupid commercialized system works. In a few years after high school, I'm sure you'll find someone to your liking.
Don't let them know you play games. If they don't ever see you around(ie you don't play sports, do any activities, don't hang out with any of them), they'll assume you do nothing at home unless you tell them. Of course now it's too late but if you get more involved with athletics then boys might want to go for that girl who is into games and athletics(something almost all guys are into)
Also I don't know what you look like but looks mean a lot to guys in high school so I guess you can try to work on your body(ie start running if you have belly fat, dont' wear glasses(wear contacts), wear clothing that appeals(not clothing that reveals anything, but a girl's choice of clothing(colors and what not) really tells a lot about her), etc.
[QUOTE="MoldOnHold"]Ya know, I'm pretty sure alot of guys would be into girls that like video games. :?White-Rose
You'd be suprised. Seems they all want Prom Queen/Volleyball Champion type girls, and I couldn't dance or play sports if I was payed for it.
Why not? The human body is unique, you can change it however you want. First thing to do is to get off that couch and out running:D. Does your school have a weight room? See if you can get started with that. The girls at my school who go into the weight room, well some of them are like 6'1" but you don't have to be tall or strong, you can work your way up.
[QUOTE="MoldOnHold"]Ya know, I'm pretty sure alot of guys would be into girls that like video games. :?fidosim
You'd be suprised. Seems they all want Prom Queen/Volleyball Champion type girls, and I couldn't dance or play sports if I was payed for it.
Are all of your friends Prom Queen/Volleyball Champion types? I doubt they all are. What have they got that you don't?
Looks, athletics, height(I know not all girls are really tall but some of the popular girls at our school are 5'10-6'2), stuff they've been doing since they were little(ie some girls at my school have been playing tennis their whole lives and have won a couple of state championships) and being on the cheerleader squad also makes some girls attractive.
Based on this thread I don't think there's anything "wrong" with you. My judgements go down to looks and personality--neither of which I can get a look at--but I think, maybe, you're not trying hard enough, or looking in the wrong spots.
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