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[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"][QUOTE="White-Rose"]Thanks for your advice, everyone (well, most everyone. Some was just downright unhelpful :))
I guess it's not as bad as I thought. I'll try being a little more forward. And of course, I've always got my buddies here on Gamespot, right?
lucky326
Don't worry about it. Not having a boyfriend is not that big of a deal, especially in high school, as most of the guys are complete jerks/idiots and they date unsavory lady-folk.
Oh, and post a pic. The worst that could happen is it is photoshopped into a thousand pictures all over the interweb. I'm sure you're cute:oops:
Of course, this assumes you are a girl, which is highly unlikely. *rolls D20*
Like what a lot of other people is be more outgoing. Don't wait for people to approach you. You'll bound to find some accepting and friendly people.
Don't worry this is gamespot. Everyone loves each other. :oops:
[QUOTE="lucky326"]Which Desert? I was thinking a Frozen one like Antartica or Siberia.Hewkii
actually, I've found there's nothing like waking up buried up to your neck with vultures pecking at you.
Wouldn't a Polar Bear be more frightening:P or is that the North Pole?[QUOTE="Hewkii"][QUOTE="lucky326"]Which Desert? I was thinking a Frozen one like Antartica or Siberia.lucky326
actually, I've found there's nothing like waking up buried up to your neck with vultures pecking at you.
Wouldn't a Polar Bear be more frightening:P or is that the North Pole?How about....A room.....with a moose.
Seriously, I think someone somewhere has founded a "Hate Ashley" club and every single guy in the whole world has joined. All of my friends all have boyfriends and what not, but no guys ever even speak to me! I guess they all just see me as 'that skinny blonde who plays video games.' :(
Anyone have any advice?
White-Rose
I have the same problem!!!!
Although it's probably because i'm pretty weird and shy around them so i don't think i should give you advice in this area, but what i do is don't really care, when a guy likes me and wants to talk to me then hey why not! What i'm saying is that you shouldn't worry yourself over something like this, those guys are idiots anyways if they don't like a skinny blonde!!!!
Just go up to them and ask them out, i don't think any guy will turn you down as long as they haven't got a gf and don't think you're joking.
Maybe you ccould start with "hey, i hear you like games, wanna ome over to mine and play soul caliber split screen?", gamer girls are hard to come by so i don't think they'll turn you down.
[QUOTE="zakkro"]Find guys... that like... video games? O_o fabz_95
AKA Find a guy on gamespot :P
yeah online dating, you will be having phone sex before you know it."All of my friends all have boyfriends" = Take a hint?
"skinny" = anerexic skinny, bones showing ?
Well there is always that option of turning really friendly with girls if you know what I mean.
[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"]dont worry I'd do you....maybe.Sajedene
desperation ftw!
:cry::cry: Yeah right the TC is probably a dude...but you on the other hand;)
Lol j.k
I am your secret admirer. I watch you every night from outside your window and one day we will marry and have children, WON'T WE?!
Does that make you feel any better?
Okay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.White-Rose
Alright, I'll admit that sounded a little harsh. I really appreciate those of you who are here to help.
Okay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.White-Roseunfortunatly no guy here believes posters are girls until they post a pic
Don't worry tho I believe you :)
As for ur problem, I agree with most posters, be more outgoing, display the fact that u like games, go to parties, etc
Also if ur not already, wear more attractive clothing. That always worked for me, and the glances are great for boosting self esteem
Okay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.White-Rose
No... based off of your original post... you are asking us what is wrong with guys who doesnt like a "skinny blonde who plays videogames". When you throw yourself a pity party like that -- then yes, people will want proof or tell you straight up that its not them... its you.
(And then ofcourse there are those who can sympathize with you and will make you feel good to make themselves feel good).
[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"]dont worry I'd do you....maybe.Sajedene
desperation ftw!
:cry::cry: Yeah right the TC is probably a dude...but you on the other hand) Lol j.kDont make me spray you with cold water.
haha nice one, But i sure do like me a cold shower? how bout it :) lmao ok ok im doneOkay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.White-Rose
We aren't trying to get a girlfriend. We just want to have proof we talked to a girl. GF's are a loooooooooooooooooooooooong ways off for most OT'ers.
Guy Advice: As Disney has hammered into our brains, just be yourself. If no guys seem to like you right now seem to like you, just wait until one comes along that does. Just whatever you do, don't settle on the first guy that gives you a chance. Find a guy that loves you for being you, opens doors for you, calls you up just to say he loves you, brings you flowers on random days, and just plain respects you. Don't worry; if you are a nice girl, an awesome guy is bound to find you eventually.
BTW, are you in High School? It sounds like you are, but I can't qutie tell...
[QUOTE="White-Rose"]Okay, to everyone requesting pictures, I never said I was looking for a boyfriend right here right now on GameSpot. I'm simply asking if anyone has any good advice on guys.DOS4dinner
We aren't trying to get a girlfriend. We just want to have proof we talked to a girl. GF's are a loooooooooooooooooooooooong ways off for most OT'ers.
Guy Advice: As Disney has hammered into our brains, just be yourself. If no guys seem to like you right now seem to like you, just wait until one comes along that does. Just whatever you do, don't settle on the first guy that gives you a chance. Find a guy that loves you for being you, opens doors for you, calls you up just to say he loves you, brings you flowers on random days, and just plain respects you. Don't worry; if you are a nice girl, an awesome guy is bound to find you eventually.
BTW, are you in High School? It sounds like you are, but I can't qutie tell...
WHAT
THE
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No! NO NO NO! That is COMPLETELY WRONG. What you are talking about is a complete sissy man-fail, the total opposite of what you really want. I'm sure you're joking, no man would seriously endanger the survival of the male species by encouraging stereotypes that is creating a generation of little girls even more obsessed with being swept away by a prince.
greatly putFix yourself then.
Obviously the guy you want to attract doesnt find you attractive -- then do something about it instead of getting the attention of all the guys who are in the same boat as you on a gaming forum...
Oh wait... that might have been your plan. Dont worry -- I am sure you're getting tons of PM's now about your pics and you'll have an e-bf soon.
Sajedene
Seriously, I think someone somewhere has founded a "Hate Ashley" club and every single guy in the whole world has joined. All of my friends all have boyfriends and what not, but no guys ever even speak to me! I guess they all just see me as 'that skinny blonde who plays video games.' :(
Anyone have any advice?
White-Rose
*Hugs*
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