Is it rare for a white men to be attracted to black women?

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Poll Is it rare for a white men to be attracted to black women? (84 votes)

Yes 40%
No 56%
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I was talking about this with a friend and she ended up dismissing it as "fake".

Anyway, most of my life, I've found that the majority of men do not consider black women to be especially attractive. This has nothing to do with racism, it's simply the fact that they don't consider going after that ethnicity because they simply don't find the features to be attractive.

I want to see how many folks in OT think that way, again this is no place for a racist discussion, it's simply a poll to see if white men generally go after black women or not,

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#2 Senor_Kami
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I don't know, but there are black women that I find attractive.

"I was talking about this with a friend and she ended up dismissing it as "fake"."

What did he dismiss as fake?

The concept of a black person being attractive.

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#3 konvikt_17
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nah i think its pretty normal for a male to be attracted to a female, regardless of skin color.

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#4 jasean79
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As a white male, I find black women attractive...not all, but some. Same is true with white women, and Hispanics. I think it all depends on what you find attractive in a female in general and if women of certain color have it, then the attraction is there.

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#5 lightleggy
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@thegerg said:

I don't know, but there are black women that I find attractive.

"I was talking about this with a friend and she ended up dismissing it as "fake"."

What did he dismiss as fake?

The fact that most white men don't tend to go after black women.

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#6  Edited By Lulu_Lulu
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Its rare for Any ethnicity to be more attracted to a different ethnicity than their own. Its not just white and black people.

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#7  Edited By BluRayHiDef
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@Lulu_Lulu said:

Its rare for Any ethnicity to be more attracted to a different ethnicity than their own. Its not just white and black people.

This is false. Most non-White races put White women on a pedestal. Also, online dating statistics show that Black males prefer Black women the least, which is sad.

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For me personally, it's very rare for me to find a black woman attractive.

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there are some black women I find attractive, physically at least, my black neighbor upstairs for instance has a rockin' body, except she's psycho as all hell and she's constantly screaming up a storm and stomping around... but damn, that body

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I think mixed race couples are probably still a minority in comparison so in that regard it is rare, I agree with Ice-T's thoughts on this topic, "It really don't matter, if you from mars and you got a pussy we will **** you". But if you're like 'Ratchet and Clank' on a quest for booty then black women is where it's at.

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@lamprey263 said:

there are some black women I find attractive, physically at least, my black neighbor upstairs for instance has a rockin' body, except she's psycho as all hell and she's constantly screaming up a storm and stomping around... but damn, that body

I heard this is why white males don't date black women. Their afraid of them. They will date the black girls who talk white though.

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#12 Lulu_Lulu
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@ BluRayHiDef

you do realise that if that were true then there there would be more mixed race relationships than same raced ones.

is that online-dating statistics or online dating-statistics ?

Either way, I doubt most of any dating statistics will be online.

and what kind of Attraction are we talking about ? If it just physical then your brain would mostl likely seek familarity, if we are talking more than physical then exactly what non physical traits can you attach to a particular ethnicity before things start to get "awkard" around here ?

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#13  Edited By lamprey263
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@PSP107 said:

@lamprey263 said:

there are some black women I find attractive, physically at least, my black neighbor upstairs for instance has a rockin' body, except she's psycho as all hell and she's constantly screaming up a storm and stomping around... but damn, that body

I heard this is why white males don't date black women. Their afraid of them. They will date the black girls who talk white though.

she "talks white" just fine, but when she's with her family she goes off like the black Hulk

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#14  Edited By BluRayHiDef
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@ BluRayHiDef

you do realise that if that were true then there there would be more mixed race relationships than same raced ones.

is that online-dating statistics or online dating-statistics ?

Either way, I doubt most of any dating statistics will be online.

and what kind of Attraction are we talking about ? If it just physical then your brain would mostl likely seek familarity, if we are talking more than physical then exactly what non physical traits can you attach to a particular ethnicity before things start to get "awkard" around here ?

My claim/ belief is based on personal experience and my observation of the media. For example, in Latin countries, Latinos who have mostly or complete European ancestry appear on television much more so than non-European looking Latinos.

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#15  Edited By themajormayor
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Depends. Does she look like this:

Or this:

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@lamprey263 said:

@PSP107 said:

@lamprey263 said:

there are some black women I find attractive, physically at least, my black neighbor upstairs for instance has a rockin' body, except she's psycho as all hell and she's constantly screaming up a storm and stomping around... but damn, that body

I heard this is why white males don't date black women. Their afraid of them. They will date the black girls who talk white though.

she "talks white" just fine, but when she's with her family she goes off like the black Hulk

lol, at "she talks white fine" almost sounds like a skill *laughs*

Anyway, when you say "black Hulk" you mean she goes ghetto?

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I find certain features to be attractive on a woman, skin color has little to do with it. If a black woman has all of the features that I like, I will be attracted to her.

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#18 lamprey263
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@PSP107 said:

@lamprey263 said:

@PSP107 said:

@lamprey263 said:

there are some black women I find attractive, physically at least, my black neighbor upstairs for instance has a rockin' body, except she's psycho as all hell and she's constantly screaming up a storm and stomping around... but damn, that body

I heard this is why white males don't date black women. Their afraid of them. They will date the black girls who talk white though.

she "talks white" just fine, but when she's with her family she goes off like the black Hulk

lol, at "she talks white fine" almost sounds like a skill *laughs*

Anyway, when you say "black Hulk" you mean she goes ghetto?

yeah, that's another way to put it

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#19  Edited By plageus900
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@themajormayor said:

Depends. Does she look like this:

Damn she's fine.

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#20 PSP107
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@lamprey263:

Well describe it.

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#21  Edited By lamprey263
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@lamprey263:

Well describe it.

she screams and yells but most time it's incomprehensible shrieking and rambling, but I can tell she just repeats herself a lot and then just raises her voice again and again, and it's incessant, she goes off nonstop and I don't even know how she finds time to breath, and lots of door slamming so hard it sounds like gunshots, then when she leaves her house she's as calm as ever but when she's inside those walls she's a maniac, and it's her kids she's yelling at from the sounds of it, I mean yeah kids are always mischievous and a handful but they don't deserve that kind of verbal abuse, she's been better because over the months neighbors have been complaining, I don't think she wants to loose her subsidized housing she only pays $50/month for, anyhow, I think it makes sense why none of the fathers wanted to stick around

there was another woman just like this two apartments down, though I think they kicked her out at the end of last summer because she was high on crack and running around the apartment complex naked in the dark, and she was always spying on other neighbors and making false reports, another section 8, anyhow she was just as bad as far as screaming went, she'd be on her back porch yelling into the phone, and it was almost like between the two of them that they were trying to out-ghetto each other, as if to say "hey bitch, top this!", and it's like they took turns trying to out perform the other

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#22  Edited By PSP107
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@lamprey263:

Wow I didn't expect that lengthy response. But yeah, what you describe I'm familiar with that. They are loud , seems like their never happy and quick to argue. But in their defense, black women are stronger. They stand their ground. Think Harriet Tubman and Rosa Parks.

Let me asked what race are you and what area you live in?

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@lamprey263 said:

@PSP107 said:

@lamprey263:

Well describe it.

she screams and yells but most time it's incomprehensible shrieking and rambling, but I can tell she just repeats herself a lot and then just raises her voice again and again, and it's incessant, she goes off nonstop and I don't even know how she finds time to breath, and lots of door slamming so hard it sounds like gunshots, then when she leaves her house she's as calm as ever but when she's inside those walls she's a maniac, and it's her kids she's yelling at from the sounds of it, I mean yeah kids are always mischievous and a handful but they don't deserve that kind of verbal abuse, she's been better because over the months neighbors have been complaining, I don't think she wants to loose her subsidized housing she only pays $50/month for, anyhow, I think it makes sense why none of the fathers wanted to stick around

there was another woman just like this two apartments down, though I think they kicked her out at the end of last summer because she was high on crack and running around the apartment complex naked in the dark, and she was always spying on other neighbors and making false reports, another section 8, anyhow she was just as bad as far as screaming went, she'd be on her back porch yelling into the phone, and it was almost like between the two of them that they were trying to out-ghetto each other, as if to say "hey bitch, top this!", and it's like they took turns trying to out perform the other

How do you know how much her rent was?

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#24  Edited By PSP107
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@BluRayHiDef:

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ghetto girls are gross.

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#26  Edited By platinumking320
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*shrug* Ask Robert De Niro, and Julius Cesear.

S'all I can tell ya homie.

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@BluRayHiDef said:

@lamprey263 said:

@PSP107 said:

@lamprey263:

Well describe it.

she screams and yells but most time it's incomprehensible shrieking and rambling, but I can tell she just repeats herself a lot and then just raises her voice again and again, and it's incessant, she goes off nonstop and I don't even know how she finds time to breath, and lots of door slamming so hard it sounds like gunshots, then when she leaves her house she's as calm as ever but when she's inside those walls she's a maniac, and it's her kids she's yelling at from the sounds of it, I mean yeah kids are always mischievous and a handful but they don't deserve that kind of verbal abuse, she's been better because over the months neighbors have been complaining, I don't think she wants to loose her subsidized housing she only pays $50/month for, anyhow, I think it makes sense why none of the fathers wanted to stick around

there was another woman just like this two apartments down, though I think they kicked her out at the end of last summer because she was high on crack and running around the apartment complex naked in the dark, and she was always spying on other neighbors and making false reports, another section 8, anyhow she was just as bad as far as screaming went, she'd be on her back porch yelling into the phone, and it was almost like between the two of them that they were trying to out-ghetto each other, as if to say "hey bitch, top this!", and it's like they took turns trying to out perform the other

How do you know how much her rent was?

Neighbors, she told my next door neighbor, who then relayed the info to me when she was venting how the woman's kids were climbing on top of her new car and chipped paint off of her hood.

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@themajormayor said:

Depends. Does she look like this:

Or this:

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Tyra Banks was really hot when younger. For sure though they don't seem to compete cuz she all I can think of.

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#30  Edited By Braun_Roid_Rage
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Nah, I have hooked up with black girls before. Same with some of my buds.

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@themajormayor said:

Depends. Does she look like this:

Or this:

mmm dat ass mmm

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#32 indzman
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I like black and blonde girls most :)

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#34  Edited By Ariabed
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@lightleggy: "Anyway, most of my life, I've found that the majority of men do not consider black women to be especially attractive"

What kind of racist place do you live in where a "majority" of guys think that? I only come to the conclusion of racism cos only a racist would label black women as "not especially attractive" which is what you said in your own words, you didn't say some black women you didn't say most black women, you said black women, so I don't know how that's not supposed to come across as racist, there are some beautiful black women out there and of course some ugly ones just like in any race.

And how many white men you see dating Chinese women Indian women? why you just singling out black women.

You my man are a troll if ever I saw one.

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I've seen a few hot black chicks, especially some half and half.

There are rare to come by and they are definitely the minority where I live (probably 2-5% in my city are probably black). Mostly hispanic and asian in here. There is beauty in every race.

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The color white is a bright color..thus more attractive.

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#37 PSP107
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@Alienware_fan said:

The color white is a bright color..thus more attractive.

That's a flawed statement. More attractive is your preference and that's fair. But saying white is a bright color seems odd.

White is just plain.

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#38  Edited By Newhopes
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Personally I don't really find black women attractive, half-casts on the over hand tend to be pretty good looking.

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Black girls wouldn't go for me. I'm not fly.

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#41 uninspiredcup
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Even within the black female community a white woman is (sadly) something of an aspiration. Good documentary with Chris Rock about it. They get hair imported from India to make it appear more fine as it would on a caucasian. It's big business.

For me personally, I rather like the voluptuous physic. It's very appealing. But I find many unattractive. This can be said for practically every color and creed though.

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I like some black girls I saw, nice and slim.. too many of them are nasty looking with too big of butts.

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I'm not racist and I'm not gay,but I still find myself very sexually turned off by dark skin woman.

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@brimmul777 said:

I'm not racist and I'm not gay,but I still find myself very sexually turned off by dark skin woman.

There are attractive and unattractive women in every color group. I guess that there are many unattractive white women as well.

But in general the following rule holds: good-looking men tend to stick with good-looking women and unattractive men tend to stick with unattractive women.

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#45  Edited By osirisx3
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i am white and i tired to date a black girl and long story short it went really....badly.

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It's impossible for a white men to be attracted to black women, because "a men" is a nonsense statement that combines a singular "a" with the plural "men."

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@Makhaidos said:

It's impossible for a white men to be attracted to black women, because "a men" is a nonsense statement that combines a singular "a" with the plural "men."

LOL

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It's funny to see people here front like there aren't ugly chiks of any category. If you think that white women are that bad, check your surroundings homie. For every bad white chick I can single out a couple ugly ones.

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#50  Edited By deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Halle Berry is hot.