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#1 googledotman
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On my evening bus there is this freshman who won't stop calling me names. I try to ignore him but he really bothers me a lot. Every time I get on the bus he insults me and sometimes it leads to some punching. He is a lot smaller than me and it would not be hard to just beat him up, but I would run the risk of getting suspended for 10 days. What should I do that could make him stop but not get me suspended. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated, if you have previous experience please tell me.

Help me please!:cry:

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#2 Witchsight
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The fact that your bigger than him should give you some answers. Maybe ditch the Tails avvie and get something cooler to toughen you up
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#3 Djammal86
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I'd personally get in his face and tell him if he touches me again, we're scrappin' after we get off this bus and it drives off. sometimes you've gotta bust some heads for peeps to leave you alone.
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#4 mattmaul5488
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Beat the crap out of him...Really...He's just going to keep bugging you...Or wait until he hits you first..Then it counts as self defense...I wouldn't even think about the suspension
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#5 Guiltfeeder566
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Well if he punched you first then just beat him up. It was self defence after all.
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#6 cougarwsu
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I have never been bullied so I don't know exactly what to say. I think though that since you say you are bigger than him, it probably means you aren't scared of him. I am not saying get in a fight with him at all, don't start fights, finish them. You should just sit by him on the bus see what he does, everyday sit by him. It would probably wierd him out and would be funny.
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#7 googledotman
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I could obviously destory him in a fight but I will be suspended and I simply can not afford to be suspended unless I want to ruin my suspension free record.
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#8 OfficialJab
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Just get a different way home or something than the bus. But it he hits you again then punch him in the ****in head. If he has friends with him on the bus that'll back him up, oh well, you might get hurt but that kid won't try it again if you really nail him.

Ofcourse violence isn't a good answer....but if it's already started by them, then it would be good to show yourself that you can take it to the next level if you need to. Good to know for the future. If you get suspended then it happens, but if he hit you first then you shouldn't be, if your.....(whoever handles suspensions, vp?)  is a decent guy, then you shouldn't. And spotting a perfect suspension record isn't that bad, when you said you can't get suspended I thought there was something bigger at work there.

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#9 blayser2007
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Beat him up, suspended for 10 days, ohwell, and if he hits you first then its selfdefence.
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#10 sukeboo
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Get suspended for 10 days
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#11 JustQuest
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Just ignore him or tell someone like your teacher, 2 options tell or ignore, violence is not an option it doesnt solve anything but get you in trouble as well.

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#12 Djammal86
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Just ignore him or tell someone like your teacher, 2 options tell or ignore, violence is not an option it doesnt solve anything but get you in trouble as well.

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It earns you respect. there a time for reason and a time to fight. 

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#13 Guiltfeeder566
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I can do it if you live near Maine.
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#14 ROLFCHANK
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offer to take him in your mouth. he will be creeped out and scared of you.
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#15 jerami
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Confront him and verbally abuse him into shame
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#16 Hinata237
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I could obviously destory him in a fight but I will be suspended and I simply can not afford to be suspended unless I want to ruin my suspension free record.googledotman
Dude, I was expelled from my school for drawing a grenade, don't even try to get in a fight.
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#17 Hinata237
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Also, if you don't know how to fight, don't even try it. I seen fights at my school and all I see are kids swinging their arms without even looking. Has anyone ever heard of kicking? I got suspended for 3 days because my and my friend always wrestled on a squared concrete circle. He is big, I am smaller, I still win by kicking his legs.
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#18 Outsider-G
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Kick his ass.
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#19 Brutal_Elitegs
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Beat him up outside of school grounds/transport. If it turns out that he is Bruce Lee's grandson and leaves you for dead in a ditch, I'm sorry you followed my advice.
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#20 zanzibar_land
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1200 shillings overpowers a nugget right away
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#21 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Eat him.  If he's smaller than you, then you are higher up on the food chain.  Might makes right.
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#22 squidder_doa
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Just scare him or something.  I did it to this kid that was pissing me off today.  He kept kicking my heels while I was walking down the corridor.  I just turned round, raised my fist and shouted....He nearly cried :shock:
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#23 -Murdock-
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It may be the wimpy way to go, but guess what, you need to somehow document that it is going on, be it through a cell phone video or audio recording, and then go to the principle or vice principle at your school. He'll get in trouble and hopefully it'll get him off your butt. If not, then beat the living daylights out of him. This way the incident has been reported, the school was aware of what was happening and you can claim self defense.

Going to higher powers is really the only way you can maybe get him to leave you alone. There is nothing you can really say or do short of showing him that you're not going to take it. He's a dumb kid and so long as he knows you're not going to do anything, and he can display his dominance over you through verbal means, he won't stop.

Either learn to ignore him or go to the principle. It might sound lame, but its the only way you're going to keep yourself from getting suspended.

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#24 RogerC44
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Report him.
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#25 Def_Jef88
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ignore him
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#26 T2girl79
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i dunno, this kid threw gum in my hair once. i wailed on him and got away with it. (i'm a female, so it was pretty embarassing to him). another kid used to pick on me, but one day i punched him in the face and gave him a bloody nose. needless to say, nobody **** with me after that.

 

honestly i would say beat the crap out of the kid and teach him a lesson since he was hitting you first.

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#27 DarkCarnage92
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dont try to hit HIM or anything, all you have to do is catch him whan he is alone and have a talk, since your bigger u have to act tuff and stonrg, dont luagh and have your poker face on 8)

ohhh yea btw dont tell a teacher, than you will  have a label on ur face "snitch"

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#28 ajc_176
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A guy was like that with me, he was smaller than me and he kept calling me names and insulting me, i ignored it, it didnt work, i went to the teachers Twice, it didnt work,


One day i just had enough and beat the hell outta him, i know you are worrying about getting suspended for 10 days but its worth it...10 days off and the relief of not being anoyed by some noob? yes please :)
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#29 geodisicdome
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i would also beat him a bit.
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#30 SolidSnake_108
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Kill him......go on....you know you want to......
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#31 nickmag
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kick him in the nuts, its not fighting if he can't hit you back if he's in so much pain
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#32 deactivated-583e5f64e0a7e
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He'll stop if you ignore him. Not too hard.
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#33 videogamer456
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Have the bus driver setup a Lord Of the Flies type thing on the bus. Survivor of the fittest and anything goes.
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#34 AngelB1ack
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Capture him and sell him to the black market slave trade.
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#35 EJ902
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Report him to the school staff, and use your height over him to your advantage. He's smaller than you and presumably younger, so mock him for that. Not to the extent where you end up bullying him, just to the point where you make it clear that he's just a silly child and you're bigger than him. I'd just pat him on the head and laugh at him.
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#36 Hexum-311
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On my evening bus there is this freshman who won't stop calling me names. I try to ignore him but he really bothers me a lot. Every time I get on the bus he insults me and sometimes it leads to some punching. He is a lot smaller than me and it would not be hard to just beat him up, but I would run the risk of getting suspended for 10 days. What should I do that could make him stop but not get me suspended. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated, if you have previous experience please tell me.

Help me please!:cry:

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Get off at his bus stop and follow him home. Tell him now you know where he lives. That should be enough to stop him.
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#37 AARONRULZ1
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If i were you,i would just stop taking **** from that n00b and beat the crap out of him.
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#38 clyde46
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only use violence as the last resort. exhaust all other means first.but if you are bigger than him. wait till he hits you then slap him around abit. or failing that just grab a criket bat (baseball bat if your american) and just chase him with it.
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#39 dante_123456
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next time he insults you just be like "i'll kill you:|" and see what he does :lol:
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#40 OODALOOP
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If you're allowing yourself to be bullied by someone littler than you, you've got bigger problems than him. I was going to offer genuine advice, but this is just stupid.
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#41 Adept533
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sometimes violence is the only way
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#42 boyblob
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=Lh_WQ8Wn5Ag

watch the Nashville player. It's a cheap shot but hell it is self defense.

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#43 Bourbons3
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Just hit him, bullies dont like people who fight back.
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=Lh_WQ8Wn5Ag

watch the Nashville player. It's a cheap shot but hell it is self defense.

boyblob
I saw the highlights of that game, it was a pretty wicked hit. Also, Orr gave that Flyers player a mean right hand last night during the Flyers game. That was a pretty good shot and for once it wasn't a Rangers player getting knocked unconscious or hurt.
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#45 Diablo112688
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Kick his ass.  Violence is the answer sometimes..  In this case it clearly is.  Go for it.  I am not saying kill him, but make him be fear you for the rest of his life. 
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#46 maplesyrup101
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I could obviously destory him in a fight but I will be suspended and I simply can not afford to be suspended unless I want to ruin my suspension free record.googledotman
who cares be a man!!!
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#47 NoWayOut69
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wow he is a freshman and he bothers you. Thats pretty sad. Just beat the crap out of him. What is the worst a freshman can do?
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On my evening bus there is this freshman who won't stop calling me names. I try to ignore him but he really bothers me a lot. Every time I get on the bus he insults me and sometimes it leads to some punching. He is a lot smaller than me and it would not be hard to just beat him up, but I would run the risk of getting suspended for 10 days. What should I do that could make him stop but not get me suspended. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated, if you have previous experience please tell me.

Help me please!:cry:

googledotman
wait, a FRESHMAN is giving you a hard time? My advice, the next time he pisses you off, pop him one in the socker, he'll surely remember that you aren't going to take that crap.
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#49 Quack_Attack
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Zidane please...
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#50 kyleali11
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if he touches you, punch him out. Self defence my little friend