Especially if its a girl youve only had a few conversations with and barely know them.
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I agree with this. Just call her when you feel most comfortable.Don't give into that 3-day waiting game nonsense. Call her up tomorrow (as it's too late tonight). If she wants to play games and thinks less of you for not waiting a few days, then good riddance.
Pirate700
I wait three days. Not really on purpose, but because I have things going on in my life that I forget for a few days._en1gma_
This. I would make sure I made enough of an impression on her before I got her digits, hate to waste both of our times and, it would be really awkward if I call her up and she say "Who are you?"....
[QUOTE="Nerd_Man"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]I agree with this. Just call her when you feel most comfortable. Touche. I would like to add that you should call her when you have a reason to.Don't give into that 3-day waiting game nonsense. Call her up tomorrow (as it's too late tonight). If she wants to play games and thinks less of you for not waiting a few days, then good riddance.
_en1gma_
The thing is. She probably doesnt even remember me. We only talked a couple of times. She probably already forgot she gave me her number.
[QUOTE="Nerd_Man"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]I agree with this. Just call her when you feel most comfortable. Touche. I would like to add that you should call her when you have a reason to. Or you could make up a reason. Do you have a class with her? Call and say did you write down the homework (even if you already know what it is) and then talk a little more and ask if she wants to hangout sometime.Don't give into that 3-day waiting game nonsense. Call her up tomorrow (as it's too late tonight). If she wants to play games and thinks less of you for not waiting a few days, then good riddance.
_en1gma_
Touche. I would like to add that you should call her when you have a reason to.[QUOTE="_en1gma_"][QUOTE="Nerd_Man"] I agree with this. Just call her when you feel most comfortable.Rob0_Jesus
The thing is. She probably doesnt even remember me. We only talked a couple of times. She probably already forgot she gave me her number.
Another reason why you should call by the next day.[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]
[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] Touche. I would like to add that you should call her when you have a reason to. Pirate700
The thing is. She probably doesnt even remember me. We only talked a couple of times. She probably already forgot she gave me her number.
Another reason why you should call by the next day.Did I forget to mention its been two weeks since I got her number?
Another reason why you should call by the next day.[QUOTE="Pirate700"]
[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]
The thing is. She probably doesnt even remember me. We only talked a couple of times. She probably already forgot she gave me her number.
Rob0_Jesus
Did I forget to mention its been two weeks since I got her number?
you should already have called her.
Another reason why you should call by the next day.[QUOTE="Pirate700"]
[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]
The thing is. She probably doesnt even remember me. We only talked a couple of times. She probably already forgot she gave me her number.
Rob0_Jesus
Did I forget to mention its been two weeks since I got her number?
In that case, you have failed.
Another reason why you should call by the next day.[QUOTE="Pirate700"]
[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]
The thing is. She probably doesnt even remember me. We only talked a couple of times. She probably already forgot she gave me her number.
Rob0_Jesus
Did I forget to mention its been two weeks since I got her number?
EPIC FAIL[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]Another reason why you should call by the next day.
_en1gma_
Did I forget to mention its been two weeks since I got her number?
Ouch that's not a good thing. Were you going to ask this girl on a date?I was but now I think not. Im gonna ask a girl from my school to homecoming instead. My feelings are confused.
[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Coming from a girl, If I were single, and gave a guy my number, and he waited 3 days to call me, I'd just tell him I'm unavailable. if you couldnt make time to call me the next day, why should I assume you'd make time for me if I were in a relationship with you? the only girl you'll hook if you wait a long time to call (unless for good reason, somebody dying/sick, or she knew you were going away for a few days) is a desperate, clingy, throw-herself-at-you, "please please date me I want to look cool too" girl.SajedeneOooh two of us girls say its stupid to wait 3 days.... who would have thought. HAHAHAHA :P
What am i? Chopped liver?
Oooh two of us girls say its stupid to wait 3 days.... who would have thought. HAHAHAHA :P[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Coming from a girl, If I were single, and gave a guy my number, and he waited 3 days to call me, I'd just tell him I'm unavailable. if you couldnt make time to call me the next day, why should I assume you'd make time for me if I were in a relationship with you? the only girl you'll hook if you wait a long time to call (unless for good reason, somebody dying/sick, or she knew you were going away for a few days) is a desperate, clingy, throw-herself-at-you, "please please date me I want to look cool too" girl.perphekt
What am i? Chopped liver?
Oops! Sorry! THREE GIRLS :D You were all the way on page one... by the time I got here it was all a jumbled mess and my brain cells are done for the day *more rambling excuses* but yeah... we girlies dont give out our numbers to guys we dont want us calling. :\ So really... why wait? Just call.well i never waited actually. i always called a day or so after to see what she was doing the coming weekend and maybe to see if she wanted to hang out or go out for a bite to eat or something simple like that.
[QUOTE="perphekt"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Oooh two of us girls say its stupid to wait 3 days.... who would have thought. HAHAHAHA :PSajedene
What am i? Chopped liver?
Oops! Sorry! THREE GIRLS :D You were all the way on page one... by the time I got here it was all a jumbled mess and my brain cells are done for the day *more rambling excuses* but yeah... we girlies dont give out our numbers to guys we dont want us calling. :\ So really... why wait? Just call. what would be the point of calling the first day seems clingy/desperate to me but hey i'm just a guy :(what would be the point of calling the first day seems clingy/desperate to me but hey i'm just a guy :( XD4NTESINF3RNOX
I don't think it's clingy or desperate at all. If you don't call her fairly soon, she'll give up on you. It shows you're interested when you call in good time. I don't mean call her five minutes after she gives you her number, but generally if I gave somebody my number in the morning I'd hope for a call before 10 pm, and if it was after 8pm, I'd hope by 3pm the next day.
I'd say somebody who calls sooner rather than later, shows they're eager to get to know you, wants to be around you and wants to do things with you. That makes a WAY better boyfriend than a guy who just says "whatever" to everything.
[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="perphekt"]Oops! Sorry! THREE GIRLS :D You were all the way on page one... by the time I got here it was all a jumbled mess and my brain cells are done for the day *more rambling excuses* but yeah... we girlies dont give out our numbers to guys we dont want us calling. :\ So really... why wait? Just call. what would be the point of calling the first day seems clingy/desperate to me but hey i'm just a guy :(What am i? Chopped liver?
XD4NTESINF3RNOX
Whats the point of making yourself interested in me and taking my number down only for you to suddenly not be as interested and wait 3 days or more after? If I am not worth your time... you're not worth mine.
Heck, I was already probably expecting you to ask me out right then and there but you didnt and asked for my number instead. So I give it... then you wait to call? Really?
Its only desperate and clingy if I DONT give you my number and you still figure out a way to contact me after.... its like get the hint then.
Don't give into that 3-day waiting game nonsense. Call her up tomorrow (as it's too late tonight). If she wants to play games and thinks less of you for not waiting a few days, then good riddance.
Pirate700
Exactly, if the girl likes you she'll be flattered that you didn't make her wait three days anxiously for a call
[QUOTE="perphekt"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Oooh two of us girls say its stupid to wait 3 days.... who would have thought. HAHAHAHA :PSajedene
What am i? Chopped liver?
Oops! Sorry! THREE GIRLS :D You were all the way on page one... by the time I got here it was all a jumbled mess and my brain cells are done for the day *more rambling excuses*but yeah... we girlies dont give out our numbers to guys we dont want us calling. :\ So really... why wait? Just call.:)
Cept, now i feel like an ass, cause i don't give out my number to guys. Ever. :(
Therefore, i'm not really in this conversation, except the fact that i understand girls and i understand the guys... on the subject, however, i get from a girls point of view that a girl wants a guy to call if the number is given and i'm a girl that gets girls numbers and i call the girls straight away, because i, in turn, understand that the girl wanted me to call or the number would not have been given to me. Because i am a girl. And they are girls. And... *sigh*
Oh forget it.
I win. Bottom line.
[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Coming from a girl, If I were single, and gave a guy my number, and he waited 3 days to call me, I'd just tell him I'm unavailable. if you couldnt make time to call me the next day, why should I assume you'd make time for me if I were in a relationship with you? the only girl you'll hook if you wait a long time to call (unless for good reason, somebody dying/sick, or she knew you were going away for a few days) is a desperate, clingy, throw-herself-at-you, "please please date me I want to look cool too" girl._en1gma_Actually, if a girl wants a call that day or pretty soon, she is desperate and clingy and not the type I would want to date.
If you didn't want to call her asap, why would you ask for her number in the first place?
also sajedene = completely correct with what she said there, too. Early bird gets the worm.
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