Have you ever used an e-dating service or app?

Well, I made a profile on eHarmony once just out of curiosity, and then I got a message saying that there were no potential matches for me.

I don't know if that speaks poorly of eHarmony or if it speaks poorly of the women who use eHarmony or if it speaks poorly of me, but that probably would have depressed the shit out of me if I wasn't just doing it out of pure curiosity.

I also didn't pay money. Like, they let me make a profile for free, but they also had other services that required payment. So, maybe, I just got rejected because I hadn't given them money yet. I don't know though.

NOPE.

Never have,never will.

I don't need that crap in my life.I am happy by myself.

No.

not modern sites or apps, there was just AOL chat before that

I've never even been on a date. The idea of meeting someone so that it may become a relationship just seems awkward to me, I prefer to let relationships grow naturally.

@toast_burner: what with a dude :-P

I been contemplating use e dating service for kicks but my last strip of dignity won't let me.

I'll try it and post results if someone else tries it with me. I do need a woman and it's 2014 we shouldn't care how it happens

yeah, i got some long lasting friendships from it.

Tinder is the shit.

U got laid using POF?

Aren't you in a relatioship?

mhm.

???

You want to ask me something Gerg? Or want me to ask you something more specifically? You said you were in a relationship on my question and i didn't ask you anything more :)

I use POF.

Funny thing is, I've made WAY more women on a facebook page confessions page where people talk about sex, drugs, liars, welfare,baby daddies, etc than on any dating site.

You know why i asked the question and you answered that. I didn't ask you anything else, just to clear everything up :)

POF.

Why a commited guy visit online dating sites? Thats why i asked.

I asked you and you answered that. I didn't ask you anything else about your personal life, or past after you said you are commited ya ?

I heard great things about christianmingle.com

They also like to keep it real in there:

Sticking with good ol' fashioned coitus.

I got my answers.

I got it all, don't worry gerg :)

Cut down the damn quote trees people...

Anyways, I met my GF on OKCupid. We have been dating almost 3 and a half years now! She actually just moved in with me during November as well so needless to say it is a pretty serious relationship.

I would definitely recommend the site to people. It is free, has a good layout, and it is a lot of fun to use. I remember enjoying going through and reading different profiles and then deciding whether or not to message! It was VERY exciting when you got a message of your own as well!

I will say that I met a couple of duds through the site before my GF, but in the end it was certainly worth it.

Lets not quote chain.

I have used neither =)

@thegerg - Yeah i got you used to visit POF before your current relationship, and don't use online dating sites anymore. Whats hard to understand to all that? :(

nvm :)

So everything cleared now? :)

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Yeah, stopped quoting chains further. Thank you :)

Its all clear to me now, hope you get it all sorted out also. Nothing rocket science in the discussion :)

You used to visit POF for getting action before your relationship. Whats not clear to you?