Guy is 19, hasn't had his first kiss or girlfriend before, what happens?

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#1 Jareally
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To guys like that in most cases?

Say you have a 19 year old kid who has not had a first kiss or girlfriend before due to the fact that he had a conservative family growing up, went to a very small high school, and never had the chance to actually put himself out there due to living in a smaller town conservative area which didn't have many night clubs or much of a night life.

What happens to guys like that in most cases? options being posted on poll

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#2 LovePotionNo9
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He learns to live without true love's first kiss and gets on with life. He might also get out some and try to find some girls he's interested in (since he's lonely & all).

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#3 Stavrogin_
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He will end up dying as a loser, but won't we all?
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#4 turtlethetaffer
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I would imagine he'll find someone eventually but I have no idea. I don't have a time machine.

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#5 ZumaJones07
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People like that are just waiting for the right first time, like I did.
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#6 Dark__Link
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I'd say life is pretty much over for y-- I mean him.
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#7 Aquat1cF1sh
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Err. I'm 20 and I've never kissed anyone like that. I've never even been on a date before. >o>;; I hope I turn out okay. :P
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#8 Jareally
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I actually knew a guy like that, interesting how he turned out.

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#9 CoolSkAGuy
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Yup :P

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#10 SolidSnake35
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I was turning 20 when I first got a girlfriend... so probably not much.
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#11 Setsa
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He learns to live without true love's first kiss and gets on with life. He might also get out some and try to find some girls he's interested in (since he's lonely & all).

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Pretty much.... Being isolated like that can often distort your perception of sex, but generall by just getting out there you can still experience things normally. A lot of people go into their 20s without experiencing sex, but just don't anticipate anything overly special. Most people place little value on sex now-a-days. Buuutttt if you're just looking to get laid, you're in luck!
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#12 guildclaws
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They end up dying as a Loner

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#13 Darthkaiser
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He'll get his kiss eventually and when he does he'll probably think "That's all?" The first kiss is a lil overrated. And even if he doesn't get one he can always drown on a beach and hope for a male lifeguard to not show up.
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#14 XilePrincess
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The world ends. Just like that. Snap. Seriously, it doesn't matter. Nobody really cares. They eventually find a girlfriend, kiss her, and life goes on.
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#15 jlevin860
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i voted he will marry the first woman who he falls in love with.

really, this guy needs to move to new city, for college or a change of life.

my dad was the same way. very shy in high school and not popular with the ladies, first kiss was 18 i believe.

by the time he was 30, he had slept with over 100 women.

once you are even in your mid 20's, someone who is 19 seems like a kid still. so no need to rush things. i have a friend from college who is 23 and still is a virgin. he is totally fine.

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#16 Jareally
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a guy I knew who is like that was like that due to being in a small town

after college at the age of 22 he moved here to Southern California, he has been with over 20 women (as him and people close to him say), personally I have seen him with about 3 in real life and he has kissed and made out with them

thing is his environment was just very limiting

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#17 xTheExploited
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they turn to prostitutes.
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#18 Blue-Sky
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make money.

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#19 PernicioEnigma
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Yup :P

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Argh! That second pic is me! Minus the straw though, I'm not THAT pathetic.

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#20 Twoyen
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If you don't use it, you lose it.

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#21 MgamerBD
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They find on this gamesite called gamespot. From there they post in Off Topic questions about "How to get a girlfriend?" and "Guy is 19,hasn't had his first kiss or girlfriend,what happens?" The person gets good advice like "Touch her shoulder" or "Try to talk to a girl".

He either

A: Takes the advice and actually tries to talk to the girl, fails and makes a thread about

B:Tries to talk to a girl, succeeds and makes a thread about it for follow up advice

C: Does nothing and still post on OT asking the same questions except stupider

D:Masturbates feverishly

Most likely each of these options ends with the guy being socially awkward around girl. And a movie deal for the movie 40 year old virgin

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#22 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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19 isnt that old. You still have most of college before you. Lots of guys are late starters. NO worries.

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#23 NoobisMaxcimus
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No one really cares. And if someone does, just pretend that you have. Viola.
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#24 MAILER_DAEMON
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He'll worry too much.
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#25 Zeviander
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The term "late-bloomer" comes to mind. The only reason a guy "like that" is not in a relationship is because he is too busy loathing in self-pity to realize that the perfect woman is not out their waiting for him. He has to strike out numerous times in order to learn not only what women are like and what he is attracted to (especially emotionally), but to find out what makes him who he is in order to sell that rather than try to please any woman that gives him the time of day. I have known guys who have not got into relationships well into their 20's. There seems to be this obsession in high school to settle down right after finishing. But I have seen the most success in people who figure things out for themselves before getting involved in serious relationships.
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He'll get his kiss eventually and when he does he'll probably think "That's all?" The first kiss is a lil overrated. And even if he doesn't get one he can always drown on a beach and hope for a male lifeguard to not show up.Darthkaiser
The only reason why the first kiss is overrated is because guys can get desperate.

This is why girls generally have a totally different view on a first kiss.

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#27 Dgalmun
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They join gamespot.
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#28 JPOBS
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He is going to be TERRIBLE at kissing. Its going to be a such a mess the first time he kisses someone, he better hope its not a girl he's overly interested in. Gotta slay some dragons befoe he tries to rescue the princess.
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#29 Easports48
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Well. I am 40. Never dated. Never been kissed. (family does not count) went to a public school. I am and my parents are Liberals.
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#31 PernicioEnigma
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Well. I am 40. Never dated. Never been kissed. (family does not count) went to a public school. I am and my parents are Liberals.Easports48
Are you just not interested or...?
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#32 rockguy92
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Exactly how I am.
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#33 MgamerBD
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He is going to be TERRIBLE at kissing. Its going to be a such a mess the first time he kisses someone, he better hope its not a girl he's overly interested in. Gotta slay some dragons befoe he tries to rescue the princess.JPOBS
The kiss part is not completely true...The first time I kissed was a new experience. But I don't think I was bad at it.
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#34 gamerguru100
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I'm 18.

I live in suburbia.

My graduating high school class was 697 students.

I've never had a girlfriend.

Who says you have to live with a conservative family or go to a small high school to not get a girlfriend?

On Topic: I think it just depends on the person. Some might stay alone while others won't.

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#35 Gamingclone
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who knows, I had my gf for 585 days and my first kiss was with her and she was my first gf. Sadly she broke up with me yesterday (do to long distance difficulties) :( But anyway, the guy will probably get a girl eventually.

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#36 Desulated
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We all drop dead sooner or later, so who cares.

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#37 Gamingclone
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[QUOTE="JPOBS"]He is going to be TERRIBLE at kissing. Its going to be a such a mess the first time he kisses someone, he better hope its not a girl he's overly interested in. Gotta slay some dragons befoe he tries to rescue the princess.MgamerBD
The kiss part is not completely true...The first time I kissed was a new experience. But I don't think I was bad at it.

Same, the first time I kissed a girl was last summer. It was the best experience in my life (she loved it too, she had kiss before dating me btw)

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#38 commonfate
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He'll post a topic on GS asking theoretically what happens to guys who have had similar or equivalent situations.

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#39 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="JPOBS"]He is going to be TERRIBLE at kissing. Its going to be a such a mess the first time he kisses someone, he better hope its not a girl he's overly interested in. Gotta slay some dragons befoe he tries to rescue the princess.Gamingclone

The kiss part is not completely true...The first time I kissed was a new experience. But I don't think I was bad at it.

Same, the first time I kissed a girl was last summer. It was the best experience in my life (she loved it too, she had kiss before dating me btw)

Lol I read your post seems your in a sobbing phase. But don't worry guy there will be other.There will be more...better experiences out there. I hear sex is nice too...
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#41 bluetadomonk
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First few times after i kissed i was drunk so it was nice. but honestly this is a sad story i feel bad for guys who are at this age and haven't even kissed. I mean lets be serious at least go and hook up with an ugly chick it's not that hard. The only thing holding someone back is being extremely nervous or ugly or both :D
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#42 mitu123
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Yup :P

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This is the correct answer.:P

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#43 commonfate
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OP needs edit. Should add in a poll option for the guy eventually turning into a homosexual out of neccessity.

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#44 Solid_Snake325
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Totally depends on the person.
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#45 Ghost_702
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We all know you're referring to yourself so just type it like that. Also, there's not timeframe for when you have to have your first girlfriend and kiss. Why would you think there is? Also, just because your friends have experienced it doesn't mean you're left out. I bet most of their gf's are trolls anyways.
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#46 JPOBS
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[QUOTE="JPOBS"]He is going to be TERRIBLE at kissing. Its going to be a such a mess the first time he kisses someone, he better hope its not a girl he's overly interested in. Gotta slay some dragons befoe he tries to rescue the princess.MgamerBD
The kiss part is not completely true...The first time I kissed was a new experience. But I don't think I was bad at it.

If you say so man.

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#47 PsychoRedFox666
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I've never kissed anyone or been on a date. I've never desired it either.

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#48 jacob2125
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I was 21 before I went on my first date and had my first kiss. A year and a half later I'm engaged (as of 3 hours ago), not to the same girl though. It all just depends on the person.

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#49 sinpkr
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take him out with my friends . let him drink till he is not tottally out of it ,btu more friedly and apporchable so like 9 or 10 beers then try too hook them up at a party

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#50 luisen123
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I have a conservative family, lived in a small town, just turned 19, never had a girlfriend. :|