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#101  Edited By comp_atkins
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internet drama...

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#102 Jacanuk
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@comp_atkins said:

internet drama...

Ya, its hard to see that this is actually adults who are supposed to set a good example for the younger gamers.

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#103 SaintLeonidas
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@SambaLele said:

So I'm saying things like "derp"? Do you really wish to continue arguing? What's your next mature move? Call me names and say I'm being offensive?

And I'm the one making random arguments? Look at this:

"Both sides are wrong to act this way, but gamers can't complain that people view them as a joke if the reason for that view is how they have been acting."

You before:

@SaintLeonidas said:

I have already mentioned in previous posts that this is only a small portion of gamers.

So "gamers" are the worst offenders? How can they be the worst offenders if you admit yourself that these people does not represent gamers?

How is that a random argument?...That point I made directly connects with the original post I made in regards to what you posted...so I am not sure how it can be considered random...

Also, as I have ALREADY said (as you even pointed out!), the "gamers" being talked about are only a small portion. I am not going to repeat myself in every post. So when I say "gamers" are the worst offenders I am clearly speaking about the small portion that this topic is discussing. And yes, these gamers have been the worst offenders - and again, they started these attacks. You can not start yelling at someone, but then when they start yelling back, bitch and cry that people are yelling at you. That should not be very hard to understand...

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#104  Edited By HailtotheQueen
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@SambaLele said:

"People on both sides made death threats. And truly, people on "my" side? Whose side do you think I'm on? Of these people propagating hate, slander and threats? None, I'm not on anyone's side in this. They are all wrong. Equally wrong. You can't talk with someone without antagonizing?"

Considering that I have seen you do nothing but bash feminists during this controversy, Its pretty obvious to me that you are indeed on a side. I haven't seen you bash any of the crazed anti-feminists yet, even when they are making ridiculous arguments and name-calling. For a feminist, you certainly spend a lot of time defending the anti-feminist people in several of the threads. ;O)

I'm a feminist myself, only that I side with my sister and fiancée, which are equality feminists; I'm not into this third-wave feminism that is all about imposing your stances, instead of bringing both men and women together as equals. Prevalence of reason, not force. Yes, I know that in the discourse level 3rd wave also say they defend the same thing, but it means nothing when they adopt their offensive means of discussion, hate-speech and accepts subversive means of spreading the ideology, instead of exposing it through open debate. Like a famous President once said "Armies by day, not guerrillas by night".

Open debate? Is this a joke? Have you actually tried to sit down and debate with an anti-feminist? LOL Its like a black person trying to debate a Klan member. You're not going to get anywhere with them because they are convinced that an entire group of people and ideology are out to destroy the world. LOL I have tried to reason with them countless times. Go look at some of my older posts on here and you'll see that I did indeed try but there just isn't any way to reason with people like that. Now I just spend my time mocking them and tearing down their poorly-conceived and fallacy-filled arguments. Hate-speech? Seriously? First of all, you're not seeing any hate-speech from the majority of feminists. Secondly, what about all of the hate-speech coming from anti-feminists and MRAs? I suppose that is completely acceptable. It must be since you never seem to say anything about it until one of us points it out, then you say, "Well, both sides are doing it," as if that makes it acceptable. This is exactly why I don't believe you are a feminist. You just spend far too much time bashing feminists while ignoring all of the bullshit coming from anti-feminists.

Guess what? I don't care what Christina H. Sommers has to say about feminism. Congratulations, you found a single person who shares your view. Do you know what an appeal to authority fallacy is? Well, you just committed one. ;O)

"But again, we're losing time here. This is not about feminists. This also shouldn't be about gamers, but journalists of the gaming medium. Feminists were literally used by journalists as a diversion, and as suppression of the issue that surfaced."

No, anti-feminists chose to make this about feminism and I'm not just going to sit aside and watch the endless attacks without defending my side of the topic. If you don't think this is about feminism then go tell that to the anti-feminists on here who make thread after thread bashing it. Until then, I just can't take you seriously.

"And so what if there are gamers that are like you described (I won't use a word I deem aggressive)? Does that warrant you to slander the whole group like that? Does that work well with black, fat or gay slander on stereotypes? Careful with double standards. Hate-speech through generalizing or by bashing what you take as a stereotype is just that: hate-speech, prejudice. And this applies equally to all groups."

Personally, I give back exactly what other people give me. If you make sweeping generalizations about any group I happen to be part of or use hate-speech against us then I will do the same just to prove a point after you get mad about it.

"Ok, you are a gamer. Thankfully at least you didn't fall for that campaign against the word itself."

No, I have been saying that a large percentage of gamers are awful people for YEARS. Long before this controversy started. I just find it funny that people are just now starting to see that I was right all along as we watch all of the neckbeards crawl out of their basements and make gamers look bad. I have been dealing with these imbeciles pretty much every day since I was a kid so I have to laugh when I see how upset everyone is after only dealing with these types of gamers for a week. LOL Welcome to my world, people.

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#105  Edited By vl4d_l3nin
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This makes me believe she is faking the whole being threatened thing. Not because she's asking for money (and frankly, NO ONE should care about someone voluntarily giving someone else money) but because she claims she contacted the authorities, put it on twitter, and claimed she wasn't at her home and staying with someone else she knows.

Anyone who has ever been threatened and contacted the authorities about it knows that the first and most important thing they tell you is not to tell ANYONE you are being threatened, never mind where you are staying and if your home is vacant.

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@hailtothequeen: appealing to strawman, ad hominem, and even actually faking points over my past posts? So the issue is about us now, not the topic at hand? I see the level of discussion you want this to be. Read the posts you talk about, where I insult and bash feminists. They simply do not exist. I do not engage in such things, and I'd never insult anyone or any group for any matter. Don't take criticism for insults, don't confuse things that aren't alike in the slighest. In the many threads and posts I talked about this issue, I always pointed that the equality feminists are the ones right on the issue. Only that there's a clear majority of 3rd wave radicals participating, and they are applying smearing, swearing and gratuitious slander based on stereotypes, which is hate-speech, at the same level or worse then their radical oppositors. Yes, I've tried many times to sit and discuss with people from opposing parties. I've managed to make people change some their political beliefs through reason, and I've changed mine before and will again in the future when showed a better argument, a logical proof, or a material proof, through open debate. This is how you manage to gain a common ground with others. That's how you arrive to an understanding. Not by giving back what others give you, like you said you do.

And no, you weren't right all along. A large proportion of gamers are normal people, like you and me, that plays games for fun, to enjoy a good story and which absolutely do not find pleasure in hating minorities through gaming. Like even your fellow debater below admitted, only a fraction, a small portion of gamers are like you're saying. I'm done discussing with you. It's clear by how easily you employ insults in your posts, that you're more interested in the conflict then in the solution. Thanks for the conversation.

@SaintLeonidas said:

@SambaLele said:

So I'm saying things like "derp"? Do you really wish to continue arguing? What's your next mature move? Call me names and say I'm being offensive?

And I'm the one making random arguments? Look at this:

"Both sides are wrong to act this way, but gamers can't complain that people view them as a joke if the reason for that view is how they have been acting."

You before:

@SaintLeonidas said:

I have already mentioned in previous posts that this is only a small portion of gamers.

So "gamers" are the worst offenders? How can they be the worst offenders if you admit yourself that these people does not represent gamers?

How is that a random argument?...That point I made directly connects with the original post I made in regards to what you posted...so I am not sure how it can be considered random...

Also, as I have ALREADY said (as you even pointed out!), the "gamers" being talked about are only a small portion. I am not going to repeat myself in every post. So when I say "gamers" are the worst offenders I am clearly speaking about the small portion that this topic is discussing. And yes, these gamers have been the worst offenders - and again, they started these attacks. You can not start yelling at someone, but then when they start yelling back, bitch and cry that people are yelling at you. That should not be very hard to understand...

Ok. So the worst offenders are such a small portion that they do not represent gamers. So the demographic of gamers, that is surely larger enough as to not be determined by their behavior, is not the worst offender, because they are not such offender. I'm glad we agreed there.

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Oh yeah. Let it sink in.

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#108  Edited By HailtotheQueen
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@SambaLele said:

@hailtothequeen: appealing to strawman, ad hominem, and even actually faking points over my past posts? So the issue is about us now, not the topic at hand? I see the level of discussion you want this to be. Read the posts you talk about, where I insult and bash feminists. They simply do not exist. I do not engage in such things, and I'd never insult anyone or any group for any matter. Don't take criticism for insults, don't confuse things that aren't alike in the slighest. In the many threads and posts I talked about this issue, I always pointed that the equality feminists are the ones right on the issue. Only that there's a clear majority of 3rd wave radicals participating, and they are applying smearing, swearing and gratuitious slander based on stereotypes, which is hate-speech, at the same level or worse then their radical oppositors. Yes, I've tried many times to sit and discuss with people from opposing parties. I've managed to make people change some their political beliefs through reason, and I've changed mine before and will again in the future when showed a better argument, a logical proof, or a material proof, through open debate. This is how you manage to gain a common ground with others. That's how you arrive to an understanding. Not by giving back what others give you, like you said you do.

And no, you weren't right all along. A large proportion of gamers are normal people, like you and me, that plays games for fun, to enjoy a good story and which absolutely do not find pleasure in hating minorities through gaming. Like even your fellow debater below admitted, only a fraction, a small portion of gamers are like you're saying. I'm done discussing with you. It's clear by how easily you employ insults in your posts, that you're more interested in the conflict then in the solution. Thanks for the conversation.

@SaintLeonidas said:

@SambaLele said:

So I'm saying things like "derp"? Do you really wish to continue arguing? What's your next mature move? Call me names and say I'm being offensive?

And I'm the one making random arguments? Look at this:

"Both sides are wrong to act this way, but gamers can't complain that people view them as a joke if the reason for that view is how they have been acting."

You before:

@SaintLeonidas said:

I have already mentioned in previous posts that this is only a small portion of gamers.

So "gamers" are the worst offenders? How can they be the worst offenders if you admit yourself that these people does not represent gamers?

How is that a random argument?...That point I made directly connects with the original post I made in regards to what you posted...so I am not sure how it can be considered random...

Also, as I have ALREADY said (as you even pointed out!), the "gamers" being talked about are only a small portion. I am not going to repeat myself in every post. So when I say "gamers" are the worst offenders I am clearly speaking about the small portion that this topic is discussing. And yes, these gamers have been the worst offenders - and again, they started these attacks. You can not start yelling at someone, but then when they start yelling back, bitch and cry that people are yelling at you. That should not be very hard to understand...

Ok. So the worst offenders are such a small portion that they do not represent gamers. So the demographic of gamers, that is surely larger enough as to not be determined by their behavior, is not the worst offender, because they are not such offender. I'm glad we agreed there.

First of all, its only a strawman if it isn't actually TRUE. Show me where you actually applied your arguments to the anti-feminists on this forum. Show me one post where you argue with them for doing the things you claim feminists are doing. Saying that they are guilty to me and saying it to THEM are two different things. Your problem, from what I have seen, mainly seems to be with feminists. Oh, I'm sorry.... "Non-Equality" feminists, even though there is no such thing. I think you need to buy yourself a dictionary and actually look up the definition of the word.

"I see the level of discussion you want this to be."

Oh no, I just adapt to the level of discussion that already existed on here. The thread starts out bashing feminists so what would you expect in this discussion?

"Read the posts you talk about, where I insult and bash feminists. They simply do not exist. I do not engage in such things, and I'd never insult anyone or any group for any matter. Don't take criticism for insults, don't confuse things that aren't alike in the slighest."

I never said insult, I said bash, which can include quite a few different things. I will get to that below.

"only that there's a clear majority of 3rd wave radicals participating, and they are applying smearing, swearing and gratuitious slander based on stereotypes, which is hate-speech, at the same level or worse then their radical oppositors."

Third-wave feminists ARE equality (no such thing as inequality feminist) feminists so stop with the sweeping generalizations just because there may be a tiny number of people claiming to be feminists, who have other motives. I get so tired of this nonsense. If you think the majority of current feminists believe what you claim, then I will tell you the same thing I say to MRAs... PROVE IT. Show us that a large percentage of them actually believe what you claim or have the intellectual honesty to admit that your view is just a baseless generalization.

"Yes, I've tried many times to sit and discuss with people from opposing parties. I've managed to make people change some their political beliefs through reason, and I've changed mine before and will again in the future when showed a better argument, a logical proof, or a material proof, through open debate. This is how you manage to gain a common ground with others. That's how you arrive to an understanding. Not by giving back what others give you, like you said you do."

No, I have tried that many times and you can't reason with people who use phrases like "they're a bunch of feminazis!" People with that mentality simply can't be reasoned with...

"And no, you weren't right all along. A large proportion of gamers are normal people, like you and me, that plays games for fun, to enjoy a good story and which absolutely do not find pleasure in hating minorities through gaming."

Of course some are like that but I am right when I say that a large number of gamers are also neckbearded morons. If you don't think that many gamers are like this, then pick any random FPS game and spend a few hours listening to them on voice chat. Or look at the posts on forums.

"Like even your fellow debater below admitted, only a fraction, a small portion of gamers are like you're saying. I'm done discussing with you."

Well, I disagree with her or him on that point. I think its funny how you always think you can prove a point by quoting someone who happens to be a feminist or shares some feminist views. That doesn't prove that your argument is true. LOL

"It's clear by how easily you employ insults in your posts, that you're more interested in the conflict then in the solution. Thanks for the conversation."

There is no solution as long as one side is being completely irrational and refuses to acknowledge that certain problems exist even if they personally don't experience them. As I pointed out, reasoning with them doesn't work. Its like going to Iraq and trying to reason with ISIS. Let me know how that works out. LOL

Since you asked for previous quotes in which you bash feminists:

"Funny. A respected feminist intellectual has manifested that she's against the 3rd wave of feminism that's becoming the voice of feminism in games. She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with hate towards men than actually solving gender equality problems. She's been twitting on the #gamergate issue, denouncing how wrong she deems it."

Clearly you must condone making sweeping generalizations about feminists based on ZERO actual evidence. And yet, no generalizations about anti-feminists or MRAs. Hmmm...

"I don't think they are evil. They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry. They should re-evaluate the movement, so that they can truly sit together with other groups and talk issues through, instead of trying to impose unilaterally and/or surreptitiously their valid points."

More nonsense where you make a blanket statement without actual evidence. And again, you don't seem to say anything about extremists in the MRA movement.

And then you make comments like the one below, in which you basically shred your OWN arguments.

"Sorry to jump into your discussion. But are those threatning her really representative of the whole "gamer" demographic though? Are we all like that? Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?"

According to some of your posts, yes, they do apparently represent all "third-wave" feminists. Explain how gamers who harass people don't represent all gamers but if a feminist harasses someone they represent an entire group of feminists. I'd love to hear how you come to this conclusion. ;O)

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#109  Edited By SambaLele
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Ok, I'll take the time and actually answer you.

@hailtothequeen said:

First of all, its only a strawman if it isn't actually TRUE. Show me where you actually applied your arguments to the anti-feminists on this forum. Show me one post where you argue with them for doing the things you claim feminists are doing (1). Saying that they are guilty to me and saying it to THEM are two different things. Your problem, from what I have seen, mainly seems to be with feminists. Oh, I'm sorry.... "Non-Equality" feminists, even though there is no such thing (3). I think you need to buy yourself a dictionary and actually look up the definition of the word.

"I see the level of discussion you want this to be."

Oh no, I just adapt to the level of discussion that already existed on here. The thread starts out bashing feminists so what would you expect in this discussion(2)?

"Read the posts you talk about, where I insult and bash feminists. They simply do not exist. I do not engage in such things, and I'd never insult anyone or any group for any matter. Don't take criticism for insults, don't confuse things that aren't alike in the slighest."

I never said insult, I said bash, which can include quite a few different things. I will get to that below.

"only that there's a clear majority of 3rd wave radicals participating, and they are applying smearing, swearing and gratuitious slander based on stereotypes, which is hate-speech, at the same level or worse then their radical oppositors."

Third-wave feminists ARE equality (no such thing as inequality feminist) feminists so stop with the sweeping generalizations just because there may be a tiny number of people claiming to be feminists, who have other motives. I get so tired of this nonsense. If you think the majority of current feminists believe what you claim, then I will tell you the same thing I say to MRAs... PROVE IT. Show us that a large percentage of them actually believe what you claim or have the intellectual honesty to admit that your view is just a baseless generalization. (3)

"Yes, I've tried many times to sit and discuss with people from opposing parties. I've managed to make people change some their political beliefs through reason, and I've changed mine before and will again in the future when showed a better argument, a logical proof, or a material proof, through open debate. This is how you manage to gain a common ground with others. That's how you arrive to an understanding. Not by giving back what others give you, like you said you do."

No, I have tried that many times and you can't reason with people who use phrases like "they're a bunch of feminazis!" People with that mentality simply can't be reasoned with... (4)

"And no, you weren't right all along. A large proportion of gamers are normal people, like you and me, that plays games for fun, to enjoy a good story and which absolutely do not find pleasure in hating minorities through gaming."

Of course some are like that but I am right when I say that a large number of gamers are also neckbearded morons. If you don't think that many gamers are like this, then pick any random FPS game and spend a few hours listening to them on voice chat. Or look at the posts on forums. (5)

"Like even your fellow debater below admitted, only a fraction, a small portion of gamers are like you're saying. I'm done discussing with you."

Well, I disagree with her or him on that point. I think its funny how you always think you can prove a point by quoting someone who happens to be a feminist or shares some feminist views. That doesn't prove that your argument is true. LOL (6)

"It's clear by how easily you employ insults in your posts, that you're more interested in the conflict then in the solution. Thanks for the conversation."

There is no solution as long as one side is being completely irrational and refuses to acknowledge that certain problems exist even if they personally don't experience them. As I pointed out, reasoning with them doesn't work. Its like going to Iraq and trying to reason with ISIS. Let me know how that works out. LOL (7)

Since you asked for previous quotes in which you bash feminists: (End - all in one)

"Funny. A respected feminist intellectual has manifested that she's against the 3rd wave of feminism that's becoming the voice of feminism in games. She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with hate towards men than actually solving gender equality problems. She's been twitting on the #gamergate issue, denouncing how wrong she deems it."

Clearly you must condone making sweeping generalizations about feminists based on ZERO actual evidence. And yet, no generalizations about anti-feminists or MRAs. Hmmm...

"I don't think they are evil. They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry. They should re-evaluate the movement, so that they can truly sit together with other groups and talk issues through, instead of trying to impose unilaterally and/or surreptitiously their valid points."

More nonsense where you make a blanket statement without actual evidence. And again, you don't seem to say anything about extremists in the MRA movement.

And then you make comments like the one below, in which you basically shred your OWN arguments.

"Sorry to jump into your discussion. But are those threatning her really representative of the whole "gamer" demographic though? Are we all like that? Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?"

According to some of your posts, yes, they do apparently represent all "third-wave" feminists. Explain how gamers who harass people don't represent all gamers but if a feminist harasses someone they represent an entire group of feminists. I'd love to hear how you come to this conclusion. ;O)

1. Your allegation, not mine. Your burden of proof. I defended myself, even though you didn't provide proof in the first place. You still don't. Funny, throwing ad hominem and asking for the person suffering the ad hominem to prove it's false is the same thing actual feminists are used to calling "blaming the victim".

2. You mean you entitle yourself to treat me like you would the topic creator, throwed an ad hominem against me for a post and a thread title I didn't make? Talk about generalization...

3. Of course there is. You think the concept behind it defines the reality of a movement? There are many political parties in my country that label themselves pro-labor, pro-workers, yet many of those only actually represent either their own interests or their lobbyists'. Discourse is one thing... especially when it gets so distant to what's actually put into practice. I already linked to some very heavy bullying (fat shaming, nerd shaming, gender+color shaming - 'white men', generalizations, slandering and gratuitious insults) happening online by those you name feminists. This is derailing a movement. Most youtube videos on the issue have very heated discussions with radicals from both sides throwing insults freely, yet the few trying to argue about the ethics in journalism issue are treated just like mras, or just dismissed (read, isolated) if they're lucky. The same goes for other places that are concentrating discussions. I just don't see that as putting equality discourse into practice. Actions and the way you treat others, at least to me, is more important than what you preach as your official guidelines and motives. History is full of dictatorships made "for the good of people", my country just got out of one in the late 80s, and for the bulk of it, it even had popular support. When it ended we discovered the many horrors they did "for us". Yet, it's actually a dark age for us. If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after.

4. Yes, it's possible to reason with anyone. It may take more time, it may not render any result at the course of the discussion, not even after it in some or most cases. But I do believe that even after the discussion has ended, the strongest of our points linger in the mind of others, and they may think again. It may be rare still, but it happens. It seems this is not an argument, but a belief. Being so... the discussion over this point can't really go farther than us expressing how we view this. But I do believe even radical people can think again about an issue.

5. Do you consider the age of the people you're gaming with? Do you take into account that the way they behave when gaming may not be the same way they behave in real life? The same goes for forum users like we have here in GS - there are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known. Funny though, adding to your anecdotal argument one of my own, that I don't face that many aweful gamers like you do when playing online. Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way.

6. I hope it helps you looking at things from another perspective though.

7. Who are you talking to them? The ones you say you can't reason with? I see no consistency here. Was this a hole in your argument... or you argue with them, even knowing there's no getting through, because you enjoy the fight? My point stands.

End - on the old posts of mine you brought. Thanks for illustrating it better for me and everyone else. Those posts, and I can't answer this without avoiding false humility, are respectful while also addressing the intended issues.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence, an argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying and logical evidence twice - my arguments, plus argument of authority, how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used.

"I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't.

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#110  Edited By HailtotheQueen
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@SambaLele said:

Ok, I'll take the time and actually answer you.

1. Your allegation, not mine. Your burden of proof. I defended myself, even though you didn't provide proof in the first place. You still don't. Funny, throwing ad hominem and asking for the person suffering the ad hominem to prove it's false is the same thing actual feminists are used to calling "blaming the victim".

2. You mean you entitle yourself to treat me like you would the topic creator, throwed an ad hominem against me for a post and a thread title I didn't make? Talk about generalization...

3. Of course there is. You think the concept defines the reality of a movement? There are many political parties in my country that label themselves pro-labor, pro-workers, yet many of those only actually represent either their own interests or their lobbyists'. Discourse is one thing... especially when it gets so distant to what's actually put into practice. I already linked to some very heavy bullying (fat shaming, nerd shaming, gender+color shaming - 'white men', generalizations, slandering and gratuitious insults) happening online by those you name feminists. This is derailing a movement. Most youtube videos on the issue have very heated discussions with radicals from both sides throwing insults freely, yet the few trying to argue about the ethics in journalism issue are treated just like mras, or just dismissed (read, isolated) if they're lucky. I just don't see that as putting equality discourse into practice. Actions and the way you treat others, at least to me, is more important than what you preach as your official guidelines and motives. History is full of dictatorships made "for the good of people", my country just got out of one in the late 80s, and for the bulk of it, it even had popular support. When it ended we discovered the many horrors they did "for us". Yet, it's actually a dark age for us. If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after.

4. Yes, it's possible to reason with anyone. It may take more time, it may not render any result at the course of the discussion, not even after it. But I do believe that even after the discussion has ended, the strongest of our points linger in the mind of others, and they may think again. It may be rare still, but it happens. It seems this is not an argument, but a belief. Being so... the discussion over this point can't really go farther than us expressing how we view this. But I do believe even radical people can think again about an issue.

5. Do you consider the age of the people you're gaming with? Do you take into account that the way they behave when gaming may not be the same way they behave in real life? The same goes for forum users like we have here in GS - there are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known. Funny though, adding to your anecdotal argument, that I don't face that many aweful gamers like you do when playing online. Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way.

6. I hope it helps you looking at things from another perspective though.

7. Who are you talking to them? The ones you say you can't reason with? I see no consistency here. Was this a hole in your argument... or you argue with them, even knowing there's no getting through, because you enjoy the fight? My point stands.

End - on the old posts of mine you brought. Thanks for illustrating it better for me and everyone else. Those posts, and I can't answer this without avoiding false humility, are respectful while also addressing the intended issues.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence of argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying, evidence by itself - how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used.

"I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't.

1. My allegation that you haven't said used the same arguments against anti-feminists in these threads? Well yeah, I can prove that easily. I read through your recent posts from the past several days and didn't find a single example. If anyone doesn't believe me, check yourself.

http://www.gamespot.com/profile/SambaLele/

So my point stands. You only go after feminists with this logic from what I have seen, at least on GameSpot.

2. No, what I am saying is that if you thought you could jump into a hostile thread and suddenly expect complete civility from everyone, you should know better. I know exactly what to expect anytime I get involved in a thread like this... I know there isn't going to be much civility or rational discussion so I adapt. If you want a civil discussion then a gaming forum isn't the best place, which brings me back to my earlier point about a lot of gamers.

3. No. A friend responded to this exact argument a while ago on another site so I'll just repost her response"

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While members of any group will disagree about a lot of different issues, there is always at least one core belief that applies to anyone in the group. It is a requirement to be considered a member of the group in question.

If you are a Christian, you have to believe Jesus existed.

If you want to be a capitalist, you need to at least have certain basic views in support of the free-market.

If you want to be a communist, you have to believe certain basic views like manufacturing and other industries being controlled by the state.

If you want to be a Muslim, you need to believe in Muhammad.

If you want to be an Anarchist, you have to be against the idea of a "coercive" government being in control of a society.

If you want to be an LGBT Rights activist, you have support promoting the equality of LGBT people.

If you want to a civil rights activist, you have to support civil rights.

Beyond the core beliefs of an ideology we can't really say who is and is not a true member of the group without committing a No True Scotsman fallacy.

This doesn't just apply to ideologies either. If you want to be considered a gamer, you have to play some type of games. To be considered a fan of a sports team, you actually have to be a fan of the team. To be considered an athlete you actually have to play some sort of sport. There is always some specific trait associated with any label.

If you want to be a Feminist, you have to belief in promoting the idea that women are equal to men. Beyond that basic idea, anything goes but you have to believe in at least that basic concept to be called a Feminist. It is part of the very definition of the word.

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So if a woman (or man for that matter) calls herself a feminist but actually doesn't believe in promoting the EQUALITY of women, then she is NOT a feminist. If said person were to promote superiority of women (not equality) then she is not a Feminist. Now with that said, there can of course be some feminists who hate men but still support equality. However, as someone who reads a lot of feminist sites, blogs, twitters and YT channels, I am not seeing anything like that coming from the majority. If you are going to suggest that the majority of "third-wave" feminists believe that sort of thing then you need to actually some evidence and that is something that every single anti-feminist has failed to do so far. They never have anything more than one or two anecdotal examples.

Also, as far as your bullying is concerned, are you now suggesting that a small number of people represent most members of a group? Even after you said the opposite earlier? You have only a tiny number of examples compared to the massive number of people on the internet who most likely share feminist views or call themselves feminists. And that is assuming that most of them are even feminists. Did you forget about the Ban Fathersday hoax, where a bunch of people from a Reddit group decided to pose as feminists to try to start up this big campaign to make feminism look bad? Only this one backfired.

"If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after."

Wait... what? From my point of view, when it comes to equality, there actually IS a moral high ground and it belongs to the people who support equality. For example, in the civil rights debate, who do you think has the moral high ground? People who think black people deserve equal rights or those who think they do not? When a person expresses a view like that, I don't believe we should just respect the view or the person expressing it.

Also, think about what you just said for a moment. Now reverse it and apply it to feminists as well. This goes BOTH ways. When I first started debating anti-feminists, I actually did try to reason with them for a long time and never said a single thing about neck-beards or anything else, even though i knew it was a waste of time from the start.. And what did I get in return? Insults, name-calling, etc... So how was I being treated on equal ground from the start? Look at how feminists are maligned in these threads right from the beginning and tell me how they are being treated on equal ground from the start.

4. No, its not possible to reason with everyone. I'll tell you what, the next time the Westboro Baptist Church shows up for a protest, go there and try to reason with them. LOL Let me know how that works out for you. Maybe some extremists can be reasoned with but I haven't met any yet.

5. Sadly most gamers I have played with are around 15 to mid 30's and I see them acting pretty much the same. I mean at least a 15 year old has an excuse for acting like an idiot. The adult man-child type of people I see often are beyond excuses.

"here are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known."

Okay, I find this puzzling and it brings us back to my earlier argument. You seem to be trying so hard to make excuses for the people on the other side of the battle but you are not applying this logic to the "feminists" that you dislike. Why is that? Why is it that the anti-feminists are just acting this way because they are young or because they act differently on the internet and are probably great people in real life. So why not apply that to the feminists you dislike? What is different about it?

"Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way."

Yes, much like words such as "********" which I see frequently on forums. I do everything for a reason and it is usually to make a point, as I did in the other thread. ;O)

6. Can YOU look at things from another perspective?

7. Its not for their benefit. Someone has to refute their garbage so that it doesn't sway any undecided people out there.

And now you try to take your quotes out of their context to defend yourself. Come on now. You know i'm just going to repost the full context.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence of argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying, evidence by itself - how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used."

No. First of all, you didn't give me proof of bullying by feminists unless you can show that they are indeed feminists. Secondly, even if they are feminists, it doesn't prove that the majority of "third-wave" feminists are like them. Neither you or Sommers has proven the claim that 3rd wave feminists all believe a certain thing or that they are actually harmful to the movement. Onew person's perception does not equal proof. Its a fallacious argument.

""I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?"

You forgot to post the rest of that paragraph... Specifically, where you go on to say "They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry."

Like I said, show evidence that the majority of third-wave feminists are misandrists. The reality is that you can't because the evidence doesn't exist. Its a baseless generalization, which is something you get mad at other people for doing when it involves gamers. The hypocrisy is off the charts here. At least when I talk about gamers, I only said a certage percentage and I acknowledge that its based on personal experiences. You are generalizing the entire movement and passing off your opinion as a fact.

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't."

Wait, so you don't think they represent most third-wave feminists now?

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@hailtothequeen said:
@SambaLele said:

Ok, I'll take the time and actually answer you.

@hailtothequeen said:

First of all, its only a strawman if it isn't actually TRUE. Show me where you actually applied your arguments to the anti-feminists on this forum. Show me one post where you argue with them for doing the things you claim feminists are doing (1). Saying that they are guilty to me and saying it to THEM are two different things. Your problem, from what I have seen, mainly seems to be with feminists. Oh, I'm sorry.... "Non-Equality" feminists, even though there is no such thing (3). I think you need to buy yourself a dictionary and actually look up the definition of the word.

"I see the level of discussion you want this to be."

Oh no, I just adapt to the level of discussion that already existed on here. The thread starts out bashing feminists so what would you expect in this discussion(2)?

"Read the posts you talk about, where I insult and bash feminists. They simply do not exist. I do not engage in such things, and I'd never insult anyone or any group for any matter. Don't take criticism for insults, don't confuse things that aren't alike in the slighest."

I never said insult, I said bash, which can include quite a few different things. I will get to that below.

"only that there's a clear majority of 3rd wave radicals participating, and they are applying smearing, swearing and gratuitious slander based on stereotypes, which is hate-speech, at the same level or worse then their radical oppositors."

Third-wave feminists ARE equality (no such thing as inequality feminist) feminists so stop with the sweeping generalizations just because there may be a tiny number of people claiming to be feminists, who have other motives. I get so tired of this nonsense. If you think the majority of current feminists believe what you claim, then I will tell you the same thing I say to MRAs... PROVE IT. Show us that a large percentage of them actually believe what you claim or have the intellectual honesty to admit that your view is just a baseless generalization. (3)

"Yes, I've tried many times to sit and discuss with people from opposing parties. I've managed to make people change some their political beliefs through reason, and I've changed mine before and will again in the future when showed a better argument, a logical proof, or a material proof, through open debate. This is how you manage to gain a common ground with others. That's how you arrive to an understanding. Not by giving back what others give you, like you said you do."

No, I have tried that many times and you can't reason with people who use phrases like "they're a bunch of feminazis!" People with that mentality simply can't be reasoned with... (4)

"And no, you weren't right all along. A large proportion of gamers are normal people, like you and me, that plays games for fun, to enjoy a good story and which absolutely do not find pleasure in hating minorities through gaming."

Of course some are like that but I am right when I say that a large number of gamers are also neckbearded morons. If you don't think that many gamers are like this, then pick any random FPS game and spend a few hours listening to them on voice chat. Or look at the posts on forums. (5)

"Like even your fellow debater below admitted, only a fraction, a small portion of gamers are like you're saying. I'm done discussing with you."

Well, I disagree with her or him on that point. I think its funny how you always think you can prove a point by quoting someone who happens to be a feminist or shares some feminist views. That doesn't prove that your argument is true. LOL (6)

"It's clear by how easily you employ insults in your posts, that you're more interested in the conflict then in the solution. Thanks for the conversation."

There is no solution as long as one side is being completely irrational and refuses to acknowledge that certain problems exist even if they personally don't experience them. As I pointed out, reasoning with them doesn't work. Its like going to Iraq and trying to reason with ISIS. Let me know how that works out. LOL (7)

Since you asked for previous quotes in which you bash feminists: (End - all in one)

"Funny. A respected feminist intellectual has manifested that she's against the 3rd wave of feminism that's becoming the voice of feminism in games. She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with hate towards men than actually solving gender equality problems. She's been twitting on the #gamergate issue, denouncing how wrong she deems it."

Clearly you must condone making sweeping generalizations about feminists based on ZERO actual evidence. And yet, no generalizations about anti-feminists or MRAs. Hmmm...

"I don't think they are evil. They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry. They should re-evaluate the movement, so that they can truly sit together with other groups and talk issues through, instead of trying to impose unilaterally and/or surreptitiously their valid points."

More nonsense where you make a blanket statement without actual evidence. And again, you don't seem to say anything about extremists in the MRA movement.

And then you make comments like the one below, in which you basically shred your OWN arguments.

"Sorry to jump into your discussion. But are those threatning her really representative of the whole "gamer" demographic though? Are we all like that? Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?"

According to some of your posts, yes, they do apparently represent all "third-wave" feminists. Explain how gamers who harass people don't represent all gamers but if a feminist harasses someone they represent an entire group of feminists. I'd love to hear how you come to this conclusion. ;O)

1. Your allegation, not mine. Your burden of proof. I defended myself, even though you didn't provide proof in the first place. You still don't. Funny, throwing ad hominem and asking for the person suffering the ad hominem to prove it's false is the same thing actual feminists are used to calling "blaming the victim".

2. You mean you entitle yourself to treat me like you would the topic creator, throwed an ad hominem against me for a post and a thread title I didn't make? Talk about generalization...

3. Of course there is. You think the concept defines the reality of a movement? There are many political parties in my country that label themselves pro-labor, pro-workers, yet many of those only actually represent either their own interests or their lobbyists'. Discourse is one thing... especially when it gets so distant to what's actually put into practice. I already linked to some very heavy bullying (fat shaming, nerd shaming, gender+color shaming - 'white men', generalizations, slandering and gratuitious insults) happening online by those you name feminists. This is derailing a movement. Most youtube videos on the issue have very heated discussions with radicals from both sides throwing insults freely, yet the few trying to argue about the ethics in journalism issue are treated just like mras, or just dismissed (read, isolated) if they're lucky. I just don't see that as putting equality discourse into practice. Actions and the way you treat others, at least to me, is more important than what you preach as your official guidelines and motives. History is full of dictatorships made "for the good of people", my country just got out of one in the late 80s, and for the bulk of it, it even had popular support. When it ended we discovered the many horrors they did "for us". Yet, it's actually a dark age for us. If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after.

4. Yes, it's possible to reason with anyone. It may take more time, it may not render any result at the course of the discussion, not even after it. But I do believe that even after the discussion has ended, the strongest of our points linger in the mind of others, and they may think again. It may be rare still, but it happens. It seems this is not an argument, but a belief. Being so... the discussion over this point can't really go farther than us expressing how we view this. But I do believe even radical people can think again about an issue.

5. Do you consider the age of the people you're gaming with? Do you take into account that the way they behave when gaming may not be the same way they behave in real life? The same goes for forum users like we have here in GS - there are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known. Funny though, adding to your anecdotal argument, that I don't face that many aweful gamers like you do when playing online. Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way.

6. I hope it helps you looking at things from another perspective though.

7. Who are you talking to them? The ones you say you can't reason with? I see no consistency here. Was this a hole in your argument... or you argue with them, even knowing there's no getting through, because you enjoy the fight? My point stands.

End - on the old posts of mine you brought. Thanks for illustrating it better for me and everyone else. Those posts, and I can't answer this without avoiding false humility, are respectful while also addressing the intended issues.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence of argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying, evidence by itself - how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used.

"I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't.

1. My allegation that you haven't said used the same arguments against anti-feminists in these threads? Well yeah, I can prove that easily. I read through your recent posts from the past several days and didn't find a single example. If anyone doesn't believe me, check yourself.

http://www.gamespot.com/profile/SambaLele/

So my point stands. You only go after feminists with this logic from what I have seen, at least on GameSpot.

2. No, what I am saying is that if you thought you could jump into a hostile thread and suddenly expect complete civility from everyone, you should know better. I know exactly what to expect anytime I get involved in a thread like this... I know there isn't going to be much civility or rational discussion so I adapt. If you want a civil discussion then a gaming forum isn't the best place, which brings me back to my earlier point about a lot of gamers.

3. No. A friend responded to this exact argument a while ago on another site so I'll just repost her response"

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While members of any group will disagree about a lot of different issues, there is always at least one core belief that applies to anyone in the group. It is a requirement to be considered a member of the group in question.

If you are a Christian, you have to believe Jesus existed.

If you want to be a capitalist, you need to at least have certain basic views in support of the free-market.

If you want to be a communist, you have to believe certain basic views like manufacturing and other industries being controlled by the state.

If you want to be a Muslim, you need to believe in Muhammad.

If you want to be an Anarchist, you have to be against the idea of a "coercive" government being in control of a society.

If you want to be an LGBT Rights activist, you have support promoting the equality of LGBT people.

If you want to a civil rights activist, you have to support civil rights.

Beyond the core beliefs of an ideology we can't really say who is and is not a true member of the group without committing a No True Scotsman fallacy.

This doesn't just apply to ideologies either. If you want to be considered a gamer, you have to play some type of games. To be considered a fan of a sports team, you actually have to be a fan of the team. To be considered an athlete you actually have to play some sort of sport. There is always some specific trait associated with any label.

If you want to be a Feminist, you have to belief in promoting the idea that women are equal to men. Beyond that basic idea, anything goes but you have to believe in at least that basic concept to be called a Feminist. It is part of the very definition of the word.

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So if a woman (or man for that matter) calls herself a feminist but actually doesn't believe in promoting the EQUALITY of women, then she is NOT a feminist. If said person were to promote superiority of women (not equality) then she is not a Feminist. Now with that said, there can of course be some feminists who hate men but still support equality. However, as someone who reads a lot of feminist sites, blogs, twitters and YT channels, I am not seeing anything like that coming from the majority. If you are going to suggest that the majority of "third-wave" feminists believe that sort of thing then you need to actually some evidence and that is something that every single anti-feminist has failed to do so far. They never have anything more than one or two anecdotal examples.

Also, as far as your bullying is concerned, are you now suggesting that a small number of people represent most members of a group? Even after you said the opposite earlier? You have only a tiny number of examples compared to the massive number of people on the internet who most likely share feminist views or call themselves feminists. And that is assuming that most of them are even feminists. Did you forget about the Ban Fathersday hoax, where a bunch of people from a Reddit group decided to pose as feminists to try to start up this big campaign to make feminism look bad? Only this one backfired.

"If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after."

Wait... what? From my point of view, when it comes to equality, there actually IS a moral high ground and it belongs to the people who support equality. For example, in the civil rights debate, who do you think has the moral high ground? People who think black people deserve equal rights or those who think they do not? When a person expresses a view like that, I don't believe we should just respect the view or the person expressing it.

Also, think about what you just said for a moment. Now reverse it and apply it to feminists as well. This goes BOTH ways. When I first started debating anti-feminists, I actually did try to reason with them for a long time and never said a single thing about neck-beards or anything else, even though i knew it was a waste of time from the start.. And what did I get in return? Insults, name-calling, etc... So how was I being treated on equal ground from the start? Look at how feminists are maligned in these threads right from the beginning and tell me how they are being treated on equal ground from the start.

4. No, its not possible to reason with everyone. I'll tell you what, the next time the Westboro Baptist Church shows up for a protest, go there and try to reason with them. LOL Let me know how that works out for you. Maybe some extremists can be reasoned with but I haven't met any yet.

5. Sadly most gamers I have played with are around 15 to mid 30's and I see them acting pretty much the same. I mean at least a 15 year old has an excuse for acting like an idiot. The adult man-child type of people I see often are beyond excuses.

"here are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known."

Okay, I find this puzzling and it brings us back to my earlier argument. You seem to be trying so hard to make excuses for the people on the other side of the battle but you are not applying this logic to the "feminists" that you dislike. Why is that? Why is it that the anti-feminists are just acting this way because they are young or because they act differently on the internet and are probably great people in real life. So why not apply that to the feminists you dislike? What is different about it?

"Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way."

Yes, much like words such as "********" which I see frequently on forums. I do everything for a reason and it is usually to make a point, as I did in the other thread. ;O)

6. Can YOU look at things from another perspective?

7. Its not for their benefit. Someone has to refute their garbage so that it doesn't sway any undecided people out there.

And now you try to take your quotes out of their context to defend yourself. Come on now. You know i'm just going to repost the full context.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence of argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying, evidence by itself - how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used."

No. First of all, you didn't give me proof of bullying by feminists unless you can show that they are indeed feminists. Secondly, even if they are feminists, it doesn't prove that the majority of "third-wave" feminists are like them. Neither you or Sommers has proven the claim that 3rd wave feminists all believe a certain thing or that they are actually harmful to the movement. Onew person's perception does not equal proof. Its a fallacious argument.

""I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?"

You forgot to post the rest of that paragraph... Specifically, where you go on to say "They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry."

Like I said, show evidence that the majority of third-wave feminists are misandrists. The reality is that you can't because the evidence doesn't exist. Its a baseless generalization, which is something you get mad at other people for doing when it involves gamers. The hypocrisy is off the charts here. At least when I talk about gamers, I only said a certage percentage and I acknowledge that its based on personal experiences. You are generalizing the entire movement and passing off your opinion as a fact.

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't."

Wait, so you don't think they represent most third-wave feminists now?

My favorite part this whole rant is you won't give a shit about any of this in 5-7 years tops.

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@purplelabel said:

My favorite part this whole rant is you won't give a shit about any of this in 5-7 years tops.

Wrong. Well, first of all, I'll always be a gamer and care about gaming issues, especially sexism in gaming. I have been fighting against this since I was a kid being called names and threatened by adults back on the Tribes series and Counterstrike and as long as I'm playing games I'm pretty sure that won't change because there will always be a supply of sexist imbeciles around. I plan to still be beating them mercilessly when I'm a granny and can barely see the screen anymore.

Secondly, your comment about me in a hypothetical future isn't actually PART OF the rant.

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@MBirdy88 said:

1) Incase you havn't noticed how trolling works, you specifically say bad things about people to get a reaction, worse s*it is said while playing games or argueing about anything on the internet. everything used on her is not new, not more severe than many other forms of internet abuse. and none of us say it is ok. we are saying she KNOWS THIS. yet most of the people her advertising is aimed at clearly DONT. And once again, so called GENIUS. DISCUSSING AND TWISTING A VIEW ARE NOT THE SAME THING! her videos are full of s*it and proven to be... she is not the first feminist on gaming... but she is the first major corrupt money milking Jack Thompson sequal looking to profit GET THAT INTO YOUR SKULL.

2) I dont care about the made up bit? I already said "if real or not" ... most of my arguements come from her own s*itty research, lying to everyone "Im a life long gamer" yet one of her uni lectures she says "Now I barely play any games? why would I, I find violence gross, so I had to do a lot of research!" and the crap about hitman ect.

3) Important? twisting information and scenarios is important? most of the people that click her crap are casual internet goer's that watch her video, without questioning, without sources.... without knowing a thing about the topic and go "Hmmm this appeals to me as a woman.... sounds good, shes well spoken and has a nice camera... and uses acedmic quotes... directly from the wiki.

any decent feminist... OH WAIT THERE ARE LOADS THAT ALREADY HAVE posted better material for free.

just stop. your an embarrassment .

Yup, you have proven yourself just as pathetic and blinded as those harassing her. Good job.

good rebutal... let me know when you have anything to back up what you say. mindless tool.

ffs like, a 15 year old just got arrested for 25+ years to life for sending a SWAT team to a twitch streamer who he lost to... and that streamers dad got shot in the process.... OH NO ANITA HAD SOME TROLL PHONE CALLS!"

get a f*cking grip on reality and your over enphasis on the female-victim card.... the irony being that since the topic is about woman it somehow deserves for more attention, what a suprise... go modern feminism.

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@hailtothequeen said:

1. My allegation that you haven't said used the same arguments against anti-feminists in these threads? Well yeah, I can prove that easily. I read through your recent posts from the past several days and didn't find a single example. If anyone doesn't believe me, check yourself.

http://www.gamespot.com/profile/SambaLele/

So my point stands. You only go after feminists with this logic from what I have seen, at least on GameSpot.

2. No, what I am saying is that if you thought you could jump into a hostile thread and suddenly expect complete civility from everyone, you should know better. I know exactly what to expect anytime I get involved in a thread like this... I know there isn't going to be much civility or rational discussion so I adapt. If you want a civil discussion then a gaming forum isn't the best place, which brings me back to my earlier point about a lot of gamers.

3. No. A friend responded to this exact argument a while ago on another site so I'll just repost her response"

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While members of any group will disagree about a lot of different issues, there is always at least one core belief that applies to anyone in the group. It is a requirement to be considered a member of the group in question.

If you are a Christian, you have to believe Jesus existed.

If you want to be a capitalist, you need to at least have certain basic views in support of the free-market.

If you want to be a communist, you have to believe certain basic views like manufacturing and other industries being controlled by the state.

If you want to be a Muslim, you need to believe in Muhammad.

If you want to be an Anarchist, you have to be against the idea of a "coercive" government being in control of a society.

If you want to be an LGBT Rights activist, you have support promoting the equality of LGBT people.

If you want to a civil rights activist, you have to support civil rights.

Beyond the core beliefs of an ideology we can't really say who is and is not a true member of the group without committing a No True Scotsman fallacy.

This doesn't just apply to ideologies either. If you want to be considered a gamer, you have to play some type of games. To be considered a fan of a sports team, you actually have to be a fan of the team. To be considered an athlete you actually have to play some sort of sport. There is always some specific trait associated with any label.

If you want to be a Feminist, you have to belief in promoting the idea that women are equal to men. Beyond that basic idea, anything goes but you have to believe in at least that basic concept to be called a Feminist. It is part of the very definition of the word.

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So if a woman (or man for that matter) calls herself a feminist but actually doesn't believe in promoting the EQUALITY of women, then she is NOT a feminist. If said person were to promote superiority of women (not equality) then she is not a Feminist. Now with that said, there can of course be some feminists who hate men but still support equality. However, as someone who reads a lot of feminist sites, blogs, twitters and YT channels, I am not seeing anything like that coming from the majority. If you are going to suggest that the majority of "third-wave" feminists believe that sort of thing then you need to actually some evidence and that is something that every single anti-feminist has failed to do so far. They never have anything more than one or two anecdotal examples.

Also, as far as your bullying is concerned, are you now suggesting that a small number of people represent most members of a group? Even after you said the opposite earlier? You have only a tiny number of examples compared to the massive number of people on the internet who most likely share feminist views or call themselves feminists. And that is assuming that most of them are even feminists. Did you forget about the Ban Fathersday hoax, where a bunch of people from a Reddit group decided to pose as feminists to try to start up this big campaign to make feminism look bad? Only this one backfired.

"If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after."

Wait... what? From my point of view, when it comes to equality, there actually IS a moral high ground and it belongs to the people who support equality. For example, in the civil rights debate, who do you think has the moral high ground? People who think black people deserve equal rights or those who think they do not? When a person expresses a view like that, I don't believe we should just respect the view or the person expressing it.

Also, think about what you just said for a moment. Now reverse it and apply it to feminists as well. This goes BOTH ways. When I first started debating anti-feminists, I actually did try to reason with them for a long time and never said a single thing about neck-beards or anything else, even though i knew it was a waste of time from the start.. And what did I get in return? Insults, name-calling, etc... So how was I being treated on equal ground from the start? Look at how feminists are maligned in these threads right from the beginning and tell me how they are being treated on equal ground from the start.

4. No, its not possible to reason with everyone. I'll tell you what, the next time the Westboro Baptist Church shows up for a protest, go there and try to reason with them. LOL Let me know how that works out for you. Maybe some extremists can be reasoned with but I haven't met any yet.

5. Sadly most gamers I have played with are around 15 to mid 30's and I see them acting pretty much the same. I mean at least a 15 year old has an excuse for acting like an idiot. The adult man-child type of people I see often are beyond excuses.

"here are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known."

Okay, I find this puzzling and it brings us back to my earlier argument. You seem to be trying so hard to make excuses for the people on the other side of the battle but you are not applying this logic to the "feminists" that you dislike. Why is that? Why is it that the anti-feminists are just acting this way because they are young or because they act differently on the internet and are probably great people in real life. So why not apply that to the feminists you dislike? What is different about it?

"Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way."

Yes, much like words such as "********" which I see frequently on forums. I do everything for a reason and it is usually to make a point, as I did in the other thread. ;O)

6. Can YOU look at things from another perspective?

7. Its not for their benefit. Someone has to refute their garbage so that it doesn't sway any undecided people out there.

And now you try to take your quotes out of their context to defend yourself. Come on now. You know i'm just going to repost the full context.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence of argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying, evidence by itself - how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used."

No. First of all, you didn't give me proof of bullying by feminists unless you can show that they are indeed feminists. Secondly, even if they are feminists, it doesn't prove that the majority of "third-wave" feminists are like them. Neither you or Sommers has proven the claim that 3rd wave feminists all believe a certain thing or that they are actually harmful to the movement. Onew person's perception does not equal proof. Its a fallacious argument.

""I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?"

You forgot to post the rest of that paragraph... Specifically, where you go on to say "They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry."

Like I said, show evidence that the majority of third-wave feminists are misandrists. The reality is that you can't because the evidence doesn't exist. Its a baseless generalization, which is something you get mad at other people for doing when it involves gamers. The hypocrisy is off the charts here. At least when I talk about gamers, I only said a certage percentage and I acknowledge that its based on personal experiences. You are generalizing the entire movement and passing off your opinion as a fact.

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't."

Wait, so you don't think they represent most third-wave feminists now?

1. You provided evidence against yourself here when linked one post from me were I say feminists aren't evil. Is that defending or bashing them (us)? Stop facking and twisting arguments. Instead of giving proof in your favor, you bring proof that goes against you. Are you going to insist in the ad hominem part of your argument? I'm going to drop this discussion if it ends being a "me vs. you" discussion. There's no point in that.

2. Still proving you want conflict, not understanding.

3. That's coming down to the conceptual basis all over again. Says nothing on the issue of practice dissonance from discourse. If a Christian says he believes in Jesus but doesn't practice anything he preached, he just uses the person's name and the religious dogma as rethorical demagogy. But in fact, he may be a practical atheist, satanist or whatever.

The moral high ground is not predetermined. Every movement preaches among themselves, through peer affirmation/confirmation that they have monopoly over it. But the true moral high ground is brought by consensus, mutual understanding. Actually, this is the actual reason for equality: you bring people together, not force them to act this or that way. A party that forces another one to behave in some way, or think a certain way, policing thoughts, and that does not tolerate discussion is not practicing the defense of equality, but trying to implement their vision of it through oppression.

4. Again, proving you enjoy the conflict then, by engaging in discussions with those you predetermined as not being open for the debate. Again, though, this is belief, your belief. Not logic, nor fact. A creed over human nature. Though I've many times come to an understanding with parties from opposing ideologies many times, thus personally I do believe otherwise.

5. Sadly, the words you employ (calling 15 y.o. acting typically as expected as idiots with an excuse, instead of typical 15 y.o.; calling adults "man-childs" which dennounces your position and bias, not to mention the previous posts' gratuitious swearing and insults to opposing parties) indicate that you expect such behaviors and have a very selective attention to give more importance to that, thus improving perception of what you previously expected to happen. This is bias, or could even be a result from peer stimulied collective paranoia.

6. All the time, since I do think that discussions can be productive. I already pointed this out.

7. Ok, sway as many undecided as you can.

8. I didn't take then out of context. Your point is just one here, repeated many times: prove that those people are feminists and a majority of 3rd wave. I actually showed you evidence from a respected scholar old time feminist who actually study the field and what she concluded on the issue, and also have given valid logical evidence, still not refuted by you. But you only ask for more. If you have no rebuttal to these evidences, I don't have to give more evidence.

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@MBirdy88 said:

@SaintLeonidas said:

@MBirdy88 said:

1) Incase you havn't noticed how trolling works, you specifically say bad things about people to get a reaction, worse s*it is said while playing games or argueing about anything on the internet. everything used on her is not new, not more severe than many other forms of internet abuse. and none of us say it is ok. we are saying she KNOWS THIS. yet most of the people her advertising is aimed at clearly DONT. And once again, so called GENIUS. DISCUSSING AND TWISTING A VIEW ARE NOT THE SAME THING! her videos are full of s*it and proven to be... she is not the first feminist on gaming... but she is the first major corrupt money milking Jack Thompson sequal looking to profit GET THAT INTO YOUR SKULL.

2) I dont care about the made up bit? I already said "if real or not" ... most of my arguements come from her own s*itty research, lying to everyone "Im a life long gamer" yet one of her uni lectures she says "Now I barely play any games? why would I, I find violence gross, so I had to do a lot of research!" and the crap about hitman ect.

3) Important? twisting information and scenarios is important? most of the people that click her crap are casual internet goer's that watch her video, without questioning, without sources.... without knowing a thing about the topic and go "Hmmm this appeals to me as a woman.... sounds good, shes well spoken and has a nice camera... and uses acedmic quotes... directly from the wiki.

any decent feminist... OH WAIT THERE ARE LOADS THAT ALREADY HAVE posted better material for free.

just stop. your an embarrassment .

Yup, you have proven yourself just as pathetic and blinded as those harassing her. Good job.

good rebutal... let me know when you have anything to back up what you say. mindless tool.

ffs like, a 15 year old just got arrested for 25+ years to life for sending a SWAT team to a twitch streamer who he lost to... and that streamers dad got shot in the process.... OH NO ANITA HAD SOME TROLL PHONE CALLS!"

get a f*cking grip on reality and your over enphasis on the female-victim card.... the irony being that since the topic is about woman it somehow deserves for more attention, what a suprise... go modern feminism.

...that swatting story is a hoax...you really aren't helping your case.

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IN other news, there are still assholes in the world that take trivial shit too seriously.

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@hailtothequeen said:

@purplelabel said:

My favorite part this whole rant is you won't give a shit about any of this in 5-7 years tops.

Wrong. Well, first of all, I'll always be a gamer and care about gaming issues, especially sexism in gaming. I have been fighting against this since I was a kid being called names and threatened by adults back on the Tribes series and Counterstrike and as long as I'm playing games I'm pretty sure that won't change because there will always be a supply of sexist imbeciles around. I plan to still be beating them mercilessly when I'm a granny and can barely see the screen anymore.

Secondly, your comment about me in a hypothetical future isn't actually PART OF the rant.

You let people in an ONLINE GAME get you to that bad? Man you need therapy.

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@SambaLele said:

@hailtothequeen said:

1. My allegation that you haven't said used the same arguments against anti-feminists in these threads? Well yeah, I can prove that easily. I read through your recent posts from the past several days and didn't find a single example. If anyone doesn't believe me, check yourself.

http://www.gamespot.com/profile/SambaLele/

So my point stands. You only go after feminists with this logic from what I have seen, at least on GameSpot.

2. No, what I am saying is that if you thought you could jump into a hostile thread and suddenly expect complete civility from everyone, you should know better. I know exactly what to expect anytime I get involved in a thread like this... I know there isn't going to be much civility or rational discussion so I adapt. If you want a civil discussion then a gaming forum isn't the best place, which brings me back to my earlier point about a lot of gamers.

3. No. A friend responded to this exact argument a while ago on another site so I'll just repost her response"

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While members of any group will disagree about a lot of different issues, there is always at least one core belief that applies to anyone in the group. It is a requirement to be considered a member of the group in question.

If you are a Christian, you have to believe Jesus existed.

If you want to be a capitalist, you need to at least have certain basic views in support of the free-market.

If you want to be a communist, you have to believe certain basic views like manufacturing and other industries being controlled by the state.

If you want to be a Muslim, you need to believe in Muhammad.

If you want to be an Anarchist, you have to be against the idea of a "coercive" government being in control of a society.

If you want to be an LGBT Rights activist, you have support promoting the equality of LGBT people.

If you want to a civil rights activist, you have to support civil rights.

Beyond the core beliefs of an ideology we can't really say who is and is not a true member of the group without committing a No True Scotsman fallacy.

This doesn't just apply to ideologies either. If you want to be considered a gamer, you have to play some type of games. To be considered a fan of a sports team, you actually have to be a fan of the team. To be considered an athlete you actually have to play some sort of sport. There is always some specific trait associated with any label.

If you want to be a Feminist, you have to belief in promoting the idea that women are equal to men. Beyond that basic idea, anything goes but you have to believe in at least that basic concept to be called a Feminist. It is part of the very definition of the word.

---------------------------------

So if a woman (or man for that matter) calls herself a feminist but actually doesn't believe in promoting the EQUALITY of women, then she is NOT a feminist. If said person were to promote superiority of women (not equality) then she is not a Feminist. Now with that said, there can of course be some feminists who hate men but still support equality. However, as someone who reads a lot of feminist sites, blogs, twitters and YT channels, I am not seeing anything like that coming from the majority. If you are going to suggest that the majority of "third-wave" feminists believe that sort of thing then you need to actually some evidence and that is something that every single anti-feminist has failed to do so far. They never have anything more than one or two anecdotal examples.

Also, as far as your bullying is concerned, are you now suggesting that a small number of people represent most members of a group? Even after you said the opposite earlier? You have only a tiny number of examples compared to the massive number of people on the internet who most likely share feminist views or call themselves feminists. And that is assuming that most of them are even feminists. Did you forget about the Ban Fathersday hoax, where a bunch of people from a Reddit group decided to pose as feminists to try to start up this big campaign to make feminism look bad? Only this one backfired.

"If a person treats people on the basis of unequal grounds from start, if that person discusses with people on the grounds that he/she has the moral high ground to begin with, that others have to agree with you or else... face shaming, isolation, etc... then that person is not that which he/she calls him/herself after."

Wait... what? From my point of view, when it comes to equality, there actually IS a moral high ground and it belongs to the people who support equality. For example, in the civil rights debate, who do you think has the moral high ground? People who think black people deserve equal rights or those who think they do not? When a person expresses a view like that, I don't believe we should just respect the view or the person expressing it.

Also, think about what you just said for a moment. Now reverse it and apply it to feminists as well. This goes BOTH ways. When I first started debating anti-feminists, I actually did try to reason with them for a long time and never said a single thing about neck-beards or anything else, even though i knew it was a waste of time from the start.. And what did I get in return? Insults, name-calling, etc... So how was I being treated on equal ground from the start? Look at how feminists are maligned in these threads right from the beginning and tell me how they are being treated on equal ground from the start.

4. No, its not possible to reason with everyone. I'll tell you what, the next time the Westboro Baptist Church shows up for a protest, go there and try to reason with them. LOL Let me know how that works out for you. Maybe some extremists can be reasoned with but I haven't met any yet.

5. Sadly most gamers I have played with are around 15 to mid 30's and I see them acting pretty much the same. I mean at least a 15 year old has an excuse for acting like an idiot. The adult man-child type of people I see often are beyond excuses.

"here are many that vent out aggressiveness online, yet are perfectly leveled people outside. In these places, we are not assuming our own identities like most do on Twitter or Facebook. Many use the pseudonyms to be able to act differently then they actually would if their actual identity was known."

Okay, I find this puzzling and it brings us back to my earlier argument. You seem to be trying so hard to make excuses for the people on the other side of the battle but you are not applying this logic to the "feminists" that you dislike. Why is that? Why is it that the anti-feminists are just acting this way because they are young or because they act differently on the internet and are probably great people in real life. So why not apply that to the feminists you dislike? What is different about it?

"Plus... I don't really get how using words like "neckbeard" or "morons" add maturity or logical strenght to your point. For me it works the opposite way."

Yes, much like words such as "********" which I see frequently on forums. I do everything for a reason and it is usually to make a point, as I did in the other thread. ;O)

6. Can YOU look at things from another perspective?

7. Its not for their benefit. Someone has to refute their garbage so that it doesn't sway any undecided people out there.

And now you try to take your quotes out of their context to defend yourself. Come on now. You know i'm just going to repost the full context.

"She's an equality feminist, and she's claiming that the new wave is more concerned with" - I'm citing Sommers. She's a logical evidence of argument of authority I validly applied. Until now, I gave you evidence of the bullying, evidence by itself - how a respected old time intellectual feminist perceives the 3rd wave majority as harmful to the movement. In a more recent tweet, she points out how dissenting feminists are voicing their opinions in defense of the gamergate. Dissenting... interesting word she used."

No. First of all, you didn't give me proof of bullying by feminists unless you can show that they are indeed feminists. Secondly, even if they are feminists, it doesn't prove that the majority of "third-wave" feminists are like them. Neither you or Sommers has proven the claim that 3rd wave feminists all believe a certain thing or that they are actually harmful to the movement. Onew person's perception does not equal proof. Its a fallacious argument.

""I don't think they are evil." - Sorry, but you just took yourself an arrow to the knee here. You just quoted me saying that feminists are not evil. I defended the movement from another poster, and you quote that as bashing (which is the complete opposite)? And even try to twist and pull a strawman all over again?"

You forgot to post the rest of that paragraph... Specifically, where you go on to say "They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry."

Like I said, show evidence that the majority of third-wave feminists are misandrists. The reality is that you can't because the evidence doesn't exist. Its a baseless generalization, which is something you get mad at other people for doing when it involves gamers. The hypocrisy is off the charts here. At least when I talk about gamers, I only said a certage percentage and I acknowledge that its based on personal experiences. You are generalizing the entire movement and passing off your opinion as a fact.

"Are feminists that bullies people online or that base their arguments on ad hominem and straw men representative of feminists?" - I'm obviously limiting the behavior to a faction, implying it doesn't represent the entirety of it. Are the ones that bully representative of feminists? I don't think so. Never did, still don't."

Wait, so you don't think they represent most third-wave feminists now?

1. You provided evidence against yourself here when linked one post from me were I say feminists aren't evil. Is that defending or bashing them (us)? Stop facking and twisting arguments. Instead of giving proof in your favor, you bring proof that goes against you. Are you going to insist in the ad hominem part of your argument? I'm going to drop this discussion if it ends being a "me vs. you" discussion. There's no point in that.

Wow, I stopped right here because you are being very intellectually dishonest and just seem to want to dance around the points being made. Like I said in the LAST post, you say feminists are not evil but then you still go on to bash and generalize them in the same paragraph when you say, "They are just accepting radicalization by following the wrong leaders, that are almost derailing the movement into misandry."

You just make a sweeping generalization based on absolutely ZERO evidence. Like every other person to speaks against feminists you have not provided a shred of evidence showing that most or even a large percentage of third-wave feminists believe what you claim they believe and yet you continue to make that claim over and over and over. And you also didn't show any examples of where you apply your logic to anti-feminists. I couldn't find any in your recent posting history and you haven't shown me any either so clearly you have different standards for feminists and anti-feminists. You also seem to have different standards for feminists and gamers since you enjoy making generalizations about the first group but hate it when people generalize gamers.

I feel like I am arguing with someone on FOX News here with all the spinning that is going on so I am actually going to be the one to go ahead and end this futile conversation. You obviously aren't interested in an honest debate and I have no interest at all in repeating arguments and having you dance around them all day.

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@hailtothequeen: Then you should have read it entirely. That's answered as well. Oh, and check #notyourshield if you have the time. Stop spinning yourself. It's become too obvious 2 posts ago.