Do you hate your father?

I hate mine because I'm alot like him but anyone like him doesn't get along at all. Do you hate your father because I want to know if it's normal. I'm thirteen, did you hate you father when you where about my age?sexy-hippo

lol emo kid hates hid dad.

[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"]I hate mine because I'm alot like him but anyone like him doesn't get along at all. Do you hate your father because I want to know if it's normal. I'm thirteen, did you hate you father when you where about my age?a-c-slater

lol emo kid hates hid dad.

Kids hate many things. It's their hobby.

I lost my father not long ago, I never hated him and I miss him very much.double_decker

I lost my father not long ago, I never hated him and I miss him very much.espoac

Yeah the ungrateful TC doesn't deserve a dad! The dad should be taken away and given to you!

Sorry for your loos. At least it seems like you appreciated him while he was around, unlike this kid. All parents are annoying at some point.espoac

[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"]I hate mine because I'm alot like him but anyone like him doesn't get along at all. Do you hate your father because I want to know if it's normal. I'm thirteen, did you hate you father when you where about my age?MagnumPI

All kids hate their fathers. If he's a good dad they do. "Dad I wanna play with dynamite." says child. "No." says dad. "But IWANNA I WANNA! I HATE YOU, I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!!"exclaims son as he runs away crying.. like a little girl.

Yeah, I'm going to have to go ahead and sort of disagree with you there.  What you're describing there is a father that spoils his

child to the point where they think they can do whatever they want.  Not quite a father of the year.  If that father was anything

decent, the kid would be asking for something alot more realistic in the first place and they would agree on something that

would make father and son (or daughter) both happy.  I am very grateful my dad had the patience to sit down with me and

show me the ups and downs of what I did in life.  If I wanted a new video game before Christmas or my birthday, I wouldn't

beg like a brat for it, he would tell me what I could do to get it by reminding me  to save up my allowance or by reminding me 

that there was extra chores around the house I could do to earn extra money.  Or he would take me to the game store and

let me trade in my old games.  But before I did that, he made sure that I knew that once I traded a game in, it was gone for 

good. 

He was very good at showing me the ups and downs of stuff.  I always listened to him and he always listened to me.  Because

of that, we never drove each other away.  He never flipped out when I had a question and never brushed me away during

a TV show he was watching or something else he was doing.  But because he was so damn nice like that, I would have the 

respect to let him finish what he was in the middle of rather than interupt.  He knew this and would extend me the same

courtesy.  If I was playing video games in my room with a friend, he would not come in and interupt.  He waited until I was 

done and then asked me to do the dishes.  And I would do the dishes without complaining.  And the next day he would take 

me to the local Blockbuster when there was something I wanted to rent without complaining.  I really wish other kids could

have the same kind of relatonship me and my dad had when I was growing up and the kind we have now that we're

both adults.   

[QUOTE="MagnumPI"]

[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"]I hate mine because I'm alot like him but anyone like him doesn't get along at all. Do you hate your father because I want to know if it's normal. I'm thirteen, did you hate you father when you where about my age?MetalGearRex007

All kids hate their fathers. If he's a good dad they do. "Dad I wanna play with dynamite." says child. "No." says dad. "But IWANNA I WANNA! I HATE YOU, I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!!"exclaims son as he runs away crying.. like a little girl.

Yeah, I'm going to have to go ahead and sort of disagree with you there.  What you're describing there is a father that spoils his

child to the point where they think they can do whatever they want.  Not quite a father of the year.  If that father was anything

decent, the kid would be asking for something alot more realistic in the first place and they would agree on something that

would make father and son (or daughter) both happy.  I am very grateful my dad had the patience to sit down with me and

show me the ups and downs of what I did in life.  If I wanted a new video game before Christmas or my birthday, I wouldn't

beg like a brat for it, he would tell me what I could do to get it by reminding me  to save up my allowance or by reminding me 

that there was extra chores around the house I could do to earn extra money.  Or he would take me to the game store and

let me trade in my old games.  But before I did that, he made sure that I knew that once I traded a game in, it was gone for 

good. 

He was very good at showing me the ups and downs of stuff.  I always listened to him and he always listened to me.  Because

of that, we never drove each other away.  He never flipped out when I had a question and never brushed me away during

a TV show he was watching or something else he was doing.  But because he was so damn nice like that, I would have the 

respect to let him finish what he was in the middle of rather than interupt.  He knew this and would extend me the same

courtesy.  If I was playing video games in my room with a friend, he would not come in and interupt.  He waited until I was 

done and then asked me to do the dishes.  And I would do the dishes without complaining.  And the next day he would take 

me to the local Blockbuster when there was something I wanted to rent without complaining.  I really wish other kids could

have the same kind of relatonship me and my dad had when I was growing up and the kind we have now that we're

both adults.   

Oh, Okay. Thanks for missing the point and solving that mind boggling mystery lieutenantColumbo. Did you ask some questions?

No, I don't hate anyone.

I'm not sure what a father really is, to be honest. My parents got a divorce when I was two, and so we went through some rough times. My mother had to work full-time and I was always left with a babysitter.....that I didn't particularly like. I had some abandonment issues. Then at four, out of no where, my mom meets this guy, half a month later they're married. I don't remember much, but I do remember how harsh he was. Yelling and threatening and other stuff. When he was "nice", I couldn't tell if he was joking or being serious. He would joke around, I would try to joke with him and he got mad at me. I stopped attempting a relationship. It always seems so funny how people are around others, full of fun and jokes, then at home it's a different story. Eventually, after a few years my mom was able to get him to back off. She would tell my sister and I that he did love us, but he sure had a funny way of showing it. It's been almost eleven years and I'm still not comfortable around him, and there is no way I can talk to him. As for my real dad, I haven't seen him in four years. He's never bothered to come visit us, in all this time. We always had to drive to visit him.

That was nice to get out:P I became indifferent a while ago. It's so much easier to just not care.

The media & sitcomsportray unrealistic expectations of a family. Both my mother & father worked full time. I never saw much of them. My dad was always busy evern while off of work. He usually ignored me, but he wasalways there to discipline and always knew what I was up to and when I got in trouble. My mom never payed much attention to any of us either.

But what do you expect? Are they supposed to pay attention the childall of the time? They have an agenda and lif too. Kids just happen. I'm notsure what people expect a parent to be. A parent is merely and instructor and a guardian. People watch too many half hour fantasies. Hate & love are irrelevant.

The media & sitcomsportray unrealistic expectations of a family. Both my mother & father worked full time. I never saw much of them. My dad was always busy evern while off of work. He usually ignored me, but he wasalways there to discipline and always knew what I was up to and when I got in trouble. My mom never payed much attention to any of us either.

But what do you expect? Are they supposed to pay attention the childall of the time? They have an agenda and lif too. Kids just happen. I'm notsure what people expect a parent to be. A parent is merely and instructor and a guardian. People watch too many half hour fantasies. Hate & love are irrelevant.

MagnumPI

Well, I'd try to explain to you again why I think you're wrong, but then I don't think I could take another insult like being called "Lieutenant Columbo".

[QUOTE="lord_mordain"] Every kid instantly hates their parents at the age of 13...

It's biological or something...

But once you're not a kid anymore, you'll get over it.
VetteMan85

I never hated my parents.

Me neither.

I didn't realise this was Complainaboutyourparentsspot. Guess I'm at wrong site. :|Happy_Cloud

I didn't realise this was Complainaboutyourparentsspot. Guess I'm at wrong site. :|Happy_Cloud

Note that we're in the off-topic forum. There are plenty of other forums for talking about games.

[QUOTE="Happy_Cloud"]I didn't realise this was Complainaboutyourparentsspot. Guess I'm at wrong site. :|pink_floyd123

Note that we're in the off-topic forum. There are plenty of other forums for talking about games.

Yeah, but my point is that I tend to see a lot of these kinds of threads.

I like my dad

I love my dad.

I haven't said 20 words to him in the past four years.