Do you even like your opposite sex?

Wow, this makes me wonder just how many people are gay and just hiding it. This is just a revelation to me, I never ever would of guessed you guys were gay/bi. That's totally cool, I'm glad all of you are out.

Me? I'm straight and have never questioned my sexuality, and besides, I have a girlfriend :oops:

majoras_wrath

I am here (Internet anonymity, ftw!) but I haven't been able to work up the courage to tell anyone aside from my sister.  

Funny, you were precisely the one who came to mind when I read that (I was going to say "Theo?"). :P

black_cat19

Oh, God, I don't actually talk like that. My voice isn't the most masculine in the world, but I don't do that lisp **** nor do I refer to other homosexual men as "sister."

I think every person at one point (Especially when you hit puberty and go through your phases) have questioned their own sexuality. Me, I'm pretty sure at one point when I was young questioned myself very briefly too.
I think when kids first hit their teens (Puberty), it is really the first time we ever really explore human nature and start getting attracted to other people in different ways. It just comes to you, really. You'll start noticing either one gender or the other more at this time, and I guess that's just how one can truly be sure of what their sexuality is.

At that age it wasn't long before I concluded that I am straight - because I only get attracted to women, and only desire to have a woman in my life when I find that special someone, And any thoughts of men sickened me. So yep.. I'm straight.

[QUOTE="majoras_wrath"]

Wow, this makes me wonder just how many people are gay and just hiding it. This is just a revelation to me, I never ever would of guessed you guys were gay/bi. That's totally cool, I'm glad all of you are out.

Me? I'm straight and have never questioned my sexuality, and besides, I have a girlfriend :oops:

Dark_Knight6

I am here (Internet anonymity, ftw!) but I haven't been able to work up the courage to tell anyone aside from my sister.  

haha , i wont force you to say anything, but, for example, i find some girls attractive through their......mammary glands hahaha.......but, dudes obviously dont have those...but what if they do....see, these are the kind of things that interest mee, just what goes through your mindTHE_BRUTALIZER

Men do have those, actually. They're just not as developed.

[QUOTE="socked_feet"]I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always preferred boys, I love them. :) blazinpuertoroc

ugh....maybe that dude that tries to sit next to me in class is gay.....he gets frightenly close to me when he talks, does all he can to laugh, and seems sad if i try to get him to shut up or go away....oh my God thats......different.....

I mean, please get this straight, i dont want another suspension from gamespot.....gay and bi people are one thousand percent cool with me, just as long as they stay away from trying to hook me.

THE_BRUTALIZER

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]haha , i wont force you to say anything, but, for example, i find some girls attractive through their......mammary glands hahaha.......but, dudes obviously dont have those...but what if they do....see, these are the kind of things that interest mee, just what goes through your mindTheokhoth

Men do have those, actually. They're just not as developed.

Being honest with myself, I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always been attracted to females and see no reason to play for the other team. :PNightStalkerBX

We have pizza whenever we score a goal!

Yeah, that's kind of like how I am... My friends at school know I'm bi, my online friends know I am, all my Facebook friends know I am due to my user info stating so, but my family... yeah.Aquat1cF1sh

Well, I'm slowly warming up to the idea of telling my friends.  I don't think any of them would care becuase I still act like a normal person. I do drop hints here and there, it would make things so much easier if someone would pick up on it  :x.  I doubt that I'll tell anyone else in my family for a long time.  

ugh....maybe that dude that tries to sit next to me in class is gay.....he gets frightenly close to me when he talks, does all he can to laugh, and seems sad if i try to get him to shut up or go away....oh my God thats......different.....

I mean, please get this straight, i dont want another suspension from gamespot.....gay and bi people are one thousand percent cool with me, just as long as they stay away from trying to hook me.

THE_BRUTALIZER

Can't you just take it as a compliment (you're hot) and politely tell the guy you're straight? The whole gay people are 100% cool with me, just STAY THE **** AWAY!" mentality isn't very tolerant, imo...

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

ugh....maybe that dude that tries to sit next to me in class is gay.....he gets frightenly close to me when he talks, does all he can to laugh, and seems sad if i try to get him to shut up or go away....oh my God thats......different.....

I mean, please get this straight, i dont want another suspension from gamespot.....gay and bi people are one thousand percent cool with me, just as long as they stay away from trying to hook me.

stevenk4k5

[QUOTE="NightStalkerBX"]Being honest with myself, I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always been attracted to females and see no reason to play for the other team. :PTheokhoth

We have pizza whenever we score a goal!

[QUOTE="NightStalkerBX"]Being honest with myself, I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always been attracted to females and see no reason to play for the other team. :PTheokhoth

We have pizza whenever we score a goal!

Well...that is tempting...  >_>

Ive wondered about it, yes, but the simple fact is the physical act of homosexuality (i.e. intercourse) revolts me. Hell, I come from San Francisco and while my mouth doesnt drop open like my farmer-friend from the central valley, I do find it a little odd still when I see men holding hands, kissing, or making out under the sunny sky on a bench on Pier 39. Ive been exposed to gay porn and I had to turn away; I did not even glance back at it out of curiosity.

Thats not to say I consciously object to homosexuality; last weekend I went with some gay friends for a Prop 8 protest. But, in the words of that pretty white girl from Chapelle's Show: Gay sex is gross; sorry, I just find it to be gross".

Still, I would say I "like" the opposite sex. Physically, yes, but at this point in my life a girlfriend is just a royal pain in the ass.

My instinct says "mate with females" so naturally I am not attracted to men. Hope I did not offend anyone, it was not my intention, thats just how I feel.

[QUOTE="Aquat1cF1sh"] Yeah, that's kind of like how I am... My friends at school know I'm bi, my online friends know I am, all my Facebook friends know I am due to my user info stating so, but my family... yeah.Dark_Knight6

Well, I'm slowly warming up to the idea of telling my friends.  I don't think any of them would care becuase I still act like a normal person. I do drop hints here and there, it would make things so much easier if someone would pick up on it  :x.  I doubt that I'll tell anyone else in my family for a long time.  

[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

Funny, you were precisely the one who came to mind when I read that (I was going to say "Theo?"). :P

Theokhoth

Oh, God, I don't actually talk like that. My voice isn't the most masculine in the world, but I don't do that lisp **** nor do I refer to other homosexual men as "sister."

Oh, crap...

No! Don't get mad at me, you've got it all wrong, I meant you're NOT the "creepy feminine type". :( 

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

ugh....maybe that dude that tries to sit next to me in class is gay.....he gets frightenly close to me when he talks, does all he can to laugh, and seems sad if i try to get him to shut up or go away....oh my God thats......different.....

I mean, please get this straight, i dont want another suspension from gamespot.....gay and bi people are one thousand percent cool with me, just as long as they stay away from trying to hook me.

black_cat19

Can't you just take it as a compliment (you're hot) and politely tell the guy you're straight? The whole gay people are 100% cool with me, just STAY THE **** AWAY!" mentality isn't very tolerant, imo...

[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="socked_feet"]I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always preferred boys, I love them. :) THE_BRUTALIZER

[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="socked_feet"]I've never questioned my sexuality. I've always preferred boys, I love them. :) THE_BRUTALIZER

I'm definitely straight and have never questioned it. I don't think the sexiest men in the world could take my mind off my girlfriend for one minute.

Except, of course, for John Cooper from Skillet. He's my man crush. Everyone's allowed to have one, right?:P

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="black_cat19"]

Funny, you were precisely the one who came to mind when I read that (I was going to say "Theo?"). :P

black_cat19

Oh, God, I don't actually talk like that. My voice isn't the most masculine in the world, but I don't do that lisp **** nor do I refer to other homosexual men as "sister."

Oh, crap...

No! Don't get mad at me, you've got it all wrong, I meant you're NOT the "creepy feminine type". :( 

I know that feeling. My current girlfriend used to be my best friend (and still is), and apparently we both liked each other for like 3 years without EVER picking up on each others hints.majoras_wrath

Wow, bummer.  I'm just wondering if people pick up on them and just don't want to say anything or if they are all really that clueless.  

[QUOTE="Aquat1cF1sh"] Yeah, that's kind of like how I am... My friends at school know I'm bi, my online friends know I am, all my Facebook friends know I am due to my user info stating so, but my family... yeah.Dark_Knight6

Well, I'm slowly warming up to the idea of telling my friends.  I don't think any of them would care becuase I still act like a normal person. I do drop hints here and there, it would make things so much easier if someone would pick up on it  :x.  I doubt that I'll tell anyone else in my family for a long time.  

Ive wondered about it, yes, but the simple fact is the physical act of homosexuality (i.e. intercourse) revolts me. Hell, I come from San Francisco and while my mouth doesnt drop open like my farmer-friend from the central valley, I do find it a little odd still when I see men holding hands, kissing, or making out under the sunny sky on a bench on Pier 39. Ive been exposed to gay porn and I had to turn away; I did not even glance back at it out of curiosity.

Thats not to say I consciously object to homosexuality; last weekend I went with some gay friends for a Prop 8 protest. But, in the words of that pretty white girl from Chapelle's Show: Gay sex is gross; sorry, I just find it to be gross".

Still, I would say I "like" the opposite sex. Physically, yes, but at this point in my life a girlfriend is just a royal pain in the ass.

My instinct says "mate with females" so naturally I am not attracted to men. Hope I did not offend anyone, it was not my intention, thats just how I feel.

mrbojangles25

I've questioned my sexuality on MANY occasions...

I'm still not positive on what I am...

Hey_Jay

If I have an answer, it's this one. 

Some days I swear I know what's going on, but then I'll walk by the wrong person and...

Out of curiosity, how old are you?Tauruslink

I'm sixteen.  

[QUOTE="Aquat1cF1sh"] Yeah, that's kind of like how I am... My friends at school know I'm bi, my online friends know I am, all my Facebook friends know I am due to my user info stating so, but my family... yeah.Dark_Knight6

Well, I'm slowly warming up to the idea of telling my friends.  I don't think any of them would care becuase I still act like a normal person. I do drop hints here and there, it would make things so much easier if someone would pick up on it  :x.  I doubt that I'll tell anyone else in my family for a long time.  

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"][QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"]8) sooo uhm you free friday night?socked_feet

I'm definitely straight and have never questioned it. I don't think the sexiest men in the world could take my mind off my girlfriend for one minute.

Except, of course, for John Cooper from Skillet. He's my man crush. Everyone's allowed to have one, right?:P

elmo90

Depends on his hair. This:

Is cool.

This:

Is not.

I don't even know what the hell this is. >_>

[QUOTE="Tauruslink"] Out of curiosity, how old are you?Dark_Knight6

I'm sixteen.  

Damn it. :(

Yes I like my opposite sex.  I really like the girls that can cook but those are becoming less and less common these days.  Guess i better marry an Amish girl.

Have I ever questioned it.  Yes for about 1.5 seconds.  Some gays have asked me how do I know if I have never tryed it.  Well I have never put my hand in a blender but I know how it would feel.

Wow, what a stupid thing for them to say.  If you aren't attracted to others of the same sex, there isn't any reason to try it.  

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

wow, are all of these posts for real?

dont get me wrong im straight, and i have nothing against bi or gay or anything, but i didnt know it was this common.

yes i have asked myself, but i only get boners from women.

[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

[QUOTE="Tauruslink"] Out of curiosity, how old are you?Theokhoth

I'm sixteen.  

Damn it. :(

Internet dating :shock:

Only tell those who know you better then anybody else. Family can come later, they will always be there and have pleanty of time to tell them.trubluah

I was just going to tell my closest friends (who are all very comfortable with having full blown conversations about sex, so there aren't very many barriers).  My only problem is wrapping words around it.  It took me like five mintues to actually say it to my sister, during which I felt light headed and numbness in my legs.  :P

[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

[QUOTE="Tauruslink"] Out of curiosity, how old are you?Theokhoth

I'm sixteen.  

Damn it. :(

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

 

I'm sixteen.  

majoras_wrath

Damn it. :(

Internet dating :shock:

Damn it. :(

Theokhoth

:lol:   In all honesty, it wouldn't work.

man you guys would hate my school....it would be gay HELL

man you guys would hate my school....it would be gay HELL

 

THE_BRUTALIZER