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#1 MgamerBD
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So I know this girl, close friend, would love to get into a relationship with her and know I can. But there is one big problem. She is a control freak, everytime I talk to her, ask her about sex, a career or etc. It always seems like she is in control. Which kinda conflicts with me because I've always beena "leader type". I despise followers especially men that are not the head of a relationship. I can't see myself being controlled by anyone, especially a girlfriend. But I digress.

So OT, can you play the inferior role? The beta role? There is nothing wrong with it, you won't be judged(I think lol).

???

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#2 Fightingfan
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Not really, too tall and big, and in shape.., and I drive a nice car...
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#3 MgamerBD
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Not really, too tall and big, and in shape.., and I drive a nice car...Fightingfan
Wish I was taller, I'm kinda skinny brolic, got no car...but I still can't see myself as beta...
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#4 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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You should just give it a shot, TC. Try something new.

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#5 dkdk999
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I don't even understand how men can be attracted to control freaks. Makes me wanna freaking puke.
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#6 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]Not really, too tall and big, and in shape.., and I drive a nice car...MgamerBD
Wish I was taller, I'm kinda skinny brolic, got no car...but I still can't see myself as beta...

Yeah, but you got abs, that's a plus :P As for no car, that sucks, get a car bro, that's like the main tool you need for getting laid.
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#7 TacticalDesire
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If she's hot.

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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"]Not really, too tall and big, and in shape.., and I drive a nice car...Fightingfan
Wish I was taller, I'm kinda skinny brolic, got no car...but I still can't see myself as beta...

Yeah, but you got abs, that's a plus :P As for no car, that sucks, get a car bro, that's like the main tool you need for getting laid.

My car does the work for me:P

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#9 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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No, if you can't act yourself then what's the point?

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#10 ZumaJones07
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i've got the dick so i make the rules
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#11 Pearl_of_Egypt
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I'm curious, since you feel you are a leader type and wouldn't want to be "inferior", do you find the girls you have relationships with to be "inferior"?
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#12 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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Haven't been in enough (any) relationships to notice.

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speech class sucks, I don't blame u for being distracted.

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#14 JIT93
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Nah, I can play, up to a point. If she gets out of control, I'll just have to pull her back to reality
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#15 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"] Wish I was taller, I'm kinda skinny brolic, got no car...but I still can't see myself as beta...TacticalDesire

Yeah, but you got abs, that's a plus :P As for no car, that sucks, get a car bro, that's like the main tool you need for getting laid.

My car does the work for me:P

Ditto. I noticed chicks from high school wouldn't give me a shot, but after high school it's like "OHHH, Javier drives about seven different cars" and now they're feelin' me.

Hmm, interesting, but to quote Mike Jones.

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#16 branketra
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Negative
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#17 MgamerBD
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You should just give it a shot, TC. Try something new.

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No, lets not...I hang out with her sometimes. She says something like a command(for fun), then I automatically get rebellious, or when I'm at work too. I'm not a super alpha or anything, I listen to people. But on a whole I love to feel in control of many situations.
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#18 MgamerBD
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I'm curious, since you feel you are a leader type and wouldn't want to be "inferior", do you find the girls you have relationships with to be "inferior"?Pearl_of_Egypt
Nope, not at all...I just have to find them not to be control freaks. Like "oh I have to be on top all the time" or They are S when I am an S(most of the time).
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#19 Shottayouth13-
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I hate seeing men being controlled by their woman.
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#20 Fightingfan
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I hate seeing men being controlled by their woman.Shottayouth13-
Sex must be good though.
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#21 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"]Not really, too tall and big, and in shape.., and I drive a nice car...Fightingfan
Wish I was taller, I'm kinda skinny brolic, got no car...but I still can't see myself as beta...

Yeah, but you got abs, that's a plus :P As for no car, that sucks, get a car bro, that's like the main tool you need for getting laid.

I know...I'm about to get my license to use my mom car. Mass transportation is lame...especially on dates.
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#22 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]I hate seeing men being controlled by their woman.Fightingfan
Sex must be good though.

True that.
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#23 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]I hate seeing men being controlled by their woman.Shottayouth13-
Sex must be good though.

True that.

But it just be her on top all the time....that is no fun :(...all the time at least...
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#24 Pearl_of_Egypt
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[QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]I'm curious, since you feel you are a leader type and wouldn't want to be "inferior", do you find the girls you have relationships with to be "inferior"?MgamerBD
Nope, not at all...I just have to find them not to be control freaks. Like "oh I have to be on top all the time" or They are S when I am an S(most of the time).

I was curious, because I'm attracted to men who lead the relationship. But I'd never go near a guy if he felt I was inferior for it.
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#25 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"] Sex must be good though.

True that.

But it just be her on top all the time....that is no fun :(...all the time at least...

Not necessarily. A woman with legs apart, pointing down there and ferociously commanding me to *insert X-rated stuff here* would give me some wicked cold bumps and erection that would last for hours. Kinky.
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#26 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"] Sex must be good though.

True that.

But it just be her on top all the time....that is no fun :(...all the time at least...

I like it like that or doggy.
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#28 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]I'm curious, since you feel you are a leader type and wouldn't want to be "inferior", do you find the girls you have relationships with to be "inferior"?Pearl_of_Egypt
Nope, not at all...I just have to find them not to be control freaks. Like "oh I have to be on top all the time" or They are S when I am an S(most of the time).

I was curious, because I'm attracted to men who lead the relationship. But I'd never go near a guy if he felt I was inferior for it.

Oh I don't think like that. Even if I do have a slight superiority complex towards a few people :P. I just love the feeling of being in control, it feels great. But I also want a women who can take control when it is necessary, not all the time. To me...being the lead= power,fun, better "relations". I was raised up with a lead mentality, being a beta must be sooo demeaning to me.
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#29 ghoklebutter
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I don't care about superiority with regards to relationships. Partners should have equal, voluntary roles. I'm also not sexist, so I don't care if I think a female I'm talking to is dominating our conversation.

Therefore, yes, I don't mind playing the "inferior" role.

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#30 soulless4now
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No, I rather have a battle of dominance instead. That's a turn on.

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#31 mindstorm
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I would not define either role as "inferior" but I do very much do intend to be a "servant leader" in that I lead by way of actively seeking the other's benefit.
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#32 Victorious_Fize
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No, I rather have a battle of dominance instead. That's a turn on.

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Feisty. On-topic though, no, I can't play that role, either we do sh!t together or none at all.
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#33 VaguelyTagged
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inferior..LOL. yes i can.actually it's the only role i know how to play in a relationship.

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#34 branketra
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]

No, I rather have a battle of dominance instead. That's a turn on.

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Feisty.

Indeed.
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#35 Ilovegames1992
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I prefer being the inferior one.

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#36 DigitalExile
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If you don't think it'd work because she likes being in control then you don't really want to be in a relationship with her do you?

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#37 wii60_3
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If shes reaaaly hot
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MgamerBD, I'd tell you the vagina is like that damn jedi hand trick, but you really need to do that speech work.
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#39 Jackc8
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I can't stand loud, bossy people - be they male or female. It just shows that the person doesn't have any respect for the other person's opinion and that they don't really give a crap about them - they just care about themselves and getting what they want. That's not relationship material. Not for me at least.

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#40 PiscesChick93
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No, I rather have a battle of dominance instead. That's a turn on.

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Aye, same

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#41 LJS9502_basic
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I don't like control freaks.....and eventually you'll get tired of it....unless you are a submissive personality of course.
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#42 Artekus
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Nope, I'm an old fashioned manly man.

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#43 almasdeathchild
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i can play inferior role cause im laid back and dont care. but in my current 5 year relationship no one is in control no one is jelous of eachothers friends and such. were just chill and happy to be together sure we argue but all and all were equal in it.

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#44 indzman
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I like to follow my lady . equal role , no dominance :)

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#45 BiancaDK
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youre a male chauvenist, shes an assertive female

you should put the progression of your relationship on youtube

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#46 supa_badman
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When it comes to women? No. I won't.

But if it comes to stuff that I don't know and I would look like a jackass if I acted I knew, only then would I be a 'follower'.

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#47 indzman
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youre a male chauvenist, shes an assertive female

you should put the progression of your relationship on youtube

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HEY YOU ARE BACK , welcome Bianka :)

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#48 ZombieKiller7
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Always dom, never sub.

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#49 TwighlightBlade
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youre a male chauvenist, shes an assertive female

you should put the progression of your relationship on youtube

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Hey, me and Socrates tried too get you to post in RC the other day, but you didn't respond.:(

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#50 one_plum
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Role play eh? Nice.