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#1 Revolutionary91
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Okay. I love video games. I am a boy going into middle school. So... you get it. I have a Wii, DS, and a PSP.

But heres the catch.

I can't get any FPS. Why? Guns. My parents HATE guns. No blood games. Why. My parents HATE bloody games.

Guess what. I could even get Final Fantasy Dissida today because of the Partial Nuditiy in the game. I got the game AND THE GUIDE. THE GUIDE!!!

And when my mom saw the picture on one of the girls she flipped. We went back to the store and returned it. And got Lego Batman. As luck would have it. Lego Batman was... you guessed it. Broken. Since it was used.

So basically I can't get any good games.

What I am trying to ask is...

Should I give up on gaming?

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#2 Rocky32189
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There are tons of great games that are not bloody and do not have guns. Play them.
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#3 Revolutionary91
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But I want to play those kind of games. (The one I was talking about in the first post.) I want to play/own an FPS.

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#4 Electr1c-Shot
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Can't choose your parents, but your gonna have to find a way or ask them how to show your mature enough to play/own bloody games. My way was well they gave up and said its my life, if I want violence I already see it on TV whats a few video games gonna do.

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#5 ydnarrewop
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Well, since Ive been a gamer for over 20 years I am biased. So don't give up on ye olde games. And remember, the day will come when you can make your own decisions :)
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#6 Oakfront
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No man, don't give up gaming, there's still plenty out there.
Just curious, how old are you?

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#7 flowersjf
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My parents weren't as strict as that when I was in middle school when it came to games but all you can do is prove to them that they aren't as bad as they seem by showing them videos of the game in action. That's all I can think of.
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#8 UT_Wrestler
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Well if you're just going into middle school that means you're what, 11? 12? Most of the games you are referring to are rated M, meaning they are not designed for children (and yes, you are still a child, believe it or not). It sounds to me like your parents actually have some respect for the ESRB ratings; this is unlike most of the idiot parents who seem to claim they had no idea what kind of content was in the games when their kids start imitating what they see in it (they must be illiterate because the ratings are clearly spelled out on the box). Maybe you can negotiate with your parents on playing T rated games since you're almost 13, but don't push your luck and expect them to let you play M-rated games any time soon.
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#9 Spoiledgenius
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Buddy don't give up on gaming.I think you'r age is enough to play FPS.Your parents should understand that it doesn't harm and let you play.My bro. is juts 10 years old he play bloody games along with me.

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#10 bad_fur_day
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Your stuck with their rules for awhile, especially if the're paying for your games.Get a job, move out, play whatever you damn well please. :D

Or, be creative and find a different solution to your problem. A FPS without people or blood perhaps? So you wouldn't actually be hurting people whilst shooting at things. :p

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#11 Moppy64
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Okay. I love video games. I am a boy going into middle school. So... you get it. I have a Wii, DS, and a PSP.

But heres the catch.

I can't get any FPS. Why? Guns. My parents HATE guns. No blood games. Why. My parents HATE bloody games.

Guess what. I could even get Final Fantasy Dissida today because of the Partial Nuditiy in the game. I got the game AND THE GUIDE. THE GUIDE!!!

And when my mom saw the picture on one of the girls she flipped. We went back to the store and returned it. And got Lego Batman. As luck would have it. Lego Batman was... you guessed it. Broken. Since it was used.

So basically I can't get any good games.

What I am trying to ask is...

Should I give up on gaming?

Revolutionary91
Heck no! Try showing them a vid of a few 'tame' FPS..... like on DS, Metroid Prime: Hunters is an FPS with no blood... My mum don't like them either, so I showed her vids of a few. Next day got Far Cry for PC. Nice...
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#12 treedoor
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Just sneak your games, I donno.

My mom couldn't keep my brother and I from getting our hands on shooters, and such, but she saw that we never actually changed our attitudes, or anything. She just eventually realized that games aren't a problem.

When I first started going online she was interested in that. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't talking to anyone in some chat room or something, so she'd always walk in my room to see what I was actually doing. Always just playing CS or TFC, so she'd go back to what she was doing.

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#13 Videogamefan123
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No, you should not, if you want a shooter that has no blood what so ever, look into games like Contra 4 on the DS and vertical shooters

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#14 Hockeystud92
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just play sport games which are alot of fun but that does suck

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#15 GamerJess
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I think it would be pretty stupid to give up on gaming altogether just because your parents won't allow you to own a fps game... There are way more video games out there than fps, and I'm sure you would enjoy them just as equally :|
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#16 ASK_Story
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There are plenty of awesome games that you can still play. You just have to look. For example, can't play Dissida? Well, then play Powerstone Collection instead, or Super Smash Bros. Brawl. Can't play FPSs, well, than try the Metroid Prime games or and show your parents the rating and that it's not guns you're using but plasma beams. These are examples. But you have to listen to your parents, man. It's just the way it is.
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#17 ViewtifulScott
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But you have to listen to your parents, man. It's just the way it is.ASK_Story

Not really. Some parents are frequently wrong, and it's healthy for them to have their ignorance and baseless assumptions highlighted every now and then. Especially in this day and age, with the average parent being more and more a massive tool and an absolute failure, such as my own father. Never listened to him, was much better off for it. Dad was/is a cheap ass, a hypocorite, a neo con, and a radical bible thumper. When I was thirteen and mature games were really just coming into the spotlight on Genesis and SNES, he tried to convince me that these games were evil, and by playing them I was allowing demons to posess me. He's a lunatic, he was wrong and ignorant, and frankly, even at thirteen, I felt like my intelligence was being insulted.I say as long as you know the difference between reality and gaming, you're ok playing most games that aren't too extreme with their content at that age.

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#18 Rhen_Var
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Parents that stop you from gaming? I honestly wish I had them but then, I love my Dad the way he is. The only thing you can do is simply buy games that meet their expectations. You're still young after all. I've seen friends of mine who get pissed at their parents for caring, as much as I want to talk about how much their parents care, I'm sure they know it but aren't in the mood to appreciate it. When you grow older pal, patience is a virtue
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#19 ShortTall
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Go buy a 'T' ratedshooting game for new so you can't return it.

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#20 Dire_Weasel
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Yes.

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Okay. I love video games. I am a boy going into middle school. So... you get it. I have a Wii, DS, and a PSP.

But heres the catch.

I can't get any FPS. Why? Guns. My parents HATE guns. No blood games. Why. My parents HATE bloody games.

Guess what. I could even get Final Fantasy Dissida today because of the Partial Nuditiy in the game. I got the game AND THE GUIDE. THE GUIDE!!!

And when my mom saw the picture on one of the girls she flipped. We went back to the store and returned it. And got Lego Batman. As luck would have it. Lego Batman was... you guessed it. Broken. Since it was used.

So basically I can't get any good games.

What I am trying to ask is...

Should I give up on gaming?

Revolutionary91

I don't know. Are there any fun games that your parents will let you play?

I mean, if you aren't getting any fun out of the games that your parents will let you play, then why keep playing games? Yeah...if they aren't fun, then quit.

But I'm sure there are some pretty good E-rated games out there. They may not interest you personally, but I suppose it's worth checking them out.

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#22 MrGeezer
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Also, how do your parents feel about WWII shooters? Would they find the game more acceptable if you are killing Nazis?

Try to get a better sense of exactly what it is that they don't like. Do they dislike the blood period, or do they dislike you killing people?

If it's the whole killing people thing, then maybe you can get around that. Like, in Doom you only kill demons and zombies. Isn't killing demons and zombies GOOD? Maybe your parents will let you play games in which you only kill demons.

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#23 MADKLOWN8480
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so they don't let you play violent games, yet they let you post and be a member of a websites forums where you can be exposed to things much worse than violence. i think your parents need to sort out their worrries.
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#24 jJaAmMeEsS2184
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Tell them you want to play war FPS like CoD..for the learning aspect..how do you tell a child they can't learn...:D

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#25 aryoshi
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Well just play by the rules for now 'til you're 17, then they can't control what games you buy. :) There's tons of games out there that you could play and probably enjoy, one doesn't need guns, blood and guts to enjoy a game. What about all those awesome old-school Mario and Zelda games? Gun-free, blood-free and some of the best games to exist!

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#26 nicknees93
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No, eventually you're parents will let you buy those types of games. Your, I'm assuming, only 11-12 years old. I wasn't allowed M rated games until I was about 15. Just keep playing what games you're allowed until your parents lighten up.
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#27 mhh91
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yes,gaming is a total waste of time,if you got addicted to it
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#28 Rekunta
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Sorry to break it to you, but you're a minor and under your parents jurisdiction. That sucks I know, but they havethe final word asto what's in your best interest until you're 18. Either find a way to play the games you want behind their backs and risk the consequences, try to prove to them you can handle such mature material, or wait it out. There's not much else you can do.

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#29 ASK_Story
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No, eventually you're parents will let you buy those types of games. Your, I'm assuming, only 11-12 years old. I wasn't allowed M rated games until I was about 15. Just keep playing what games you're allowed until your parents lighten up.nicknees93
Yeah, 11-12 is too young to play certain M rated games.
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#30 awssk8er716
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You can't really give up something if you're not sure you want to give it up. The only way you can really stop something is if you kind of don't see the point of doing it anymore, and can forget about (Unless it's something you NEED to quit like smoking).

Don't quit gaming all together, just play less. This entire summer, I've been doing so much stuff, that I have like 25 hours of video games racked up. I don't know really how to explain it, but I hope you understood what I was trying to say.

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#31 Sweet_Genocide
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Rebel. Overthrow your mom. Or you can always run away from home.

But seriously, sucks dude.

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#32 PCFr3ak89
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I think there are plenty games that would keep you more than satisfied. I remember being that age and yes, at one point it did suck. Wanting GTA and Manhunt...etc. Funny thing is now that I'm older I can play those games, but I can easily enjoy anything nintendo has to offer. Never give up on something you love. My .2....
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#33 ASK_Story
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^^ Good answer! More examples, if you love Japanese RPGs, they're mostly T ratings and they're fun to play. The Final Fantasy games, Dragon Quest series, Suikoden, and the DS RPGs can keep me busy enough to be satisfied. I can live off of these and not touch a M-rated or Call of Duty game! You just have find these games. Like a lot of us mentioned, there are good ones out there, and I'm not talking about things like Lego Batman or Kung Fu Panda. Games like Lock's Quest, Little King's Story, New Super Mario Bros., Super Mario Galaxy, Super Smash Bros. Brawl, Mario Kart Wii, etc. All great stuff!
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#34 znator
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Some parents are a little overprotective, they think the games are going to make you into psychopaths on killing sprees, all I can say is try to work it out with them, try to let them know their are way worst stuff just flipping channels on a TV, and try to get them to lessen up on what's purchased, if that doesn't work get friends whose parents don't care and pay half for a system with this friend and share it, and then any of these games you buy keep them at your friends, so that when your over there you can actually play them, the almighty loophole. :P
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#35 Grallis
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Well its quite normal at your age to want to do something you havent dont or have something you dont. Its part of growing up, but unfortunately, your parents are there to make sure you mainly do the right things. You should be happy your parents care and feel lucky, though I wouldnt blame you for not since youre so young. I know you wont want to hear this but, as stated before, there are plenty of great games that you could play that dont have the things your parents dont like in games. I play a lot of strategy games on pc and a lot fo sports games on consoles. I also love puzzle games(which Id firmly recommend for someone your age).

Many games also have parental settings, as in turn off blood, limit violence, no curse words, no nudity and the list goes on. Perhaps that's a good option for you to argue if you wish to go that route? Research your games on the net(or however you can) and find out if they have parental restrictions on them, and exactly what content the parental restrictions limit, then perhaps approach your parents in a mature fashion with a good presentation and knowledge on the game.

Thats the best explanation and advice I can give to you. Take care :)

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#36 S3XYT1M3
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If your a little kid it takes alot of shmoozing on your parents to play M games i went through that stage with my parents i buttered them up and they said yes

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#37 Anthony01355
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That sucks for you man. My parents let me play whatever I wanted and would fall asleep through the "This game has blood and boobs, do you still want to get it?" speech from retailers.

I would 1. play them at your friends house, 2. beg your parents until they're so annoyed they cave, or 3. give up on video games until later.

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#38 salxis
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That's the annoying part about Wii games, either you go all the way (No more Hero, Mad World, House fo the Dead) or you are stuck with T rated games, where are the in betweens! ( Not sure about NDS/PSP since I don't own them) But yeah, try out Metroid Prime trilogy, I am sure shooting aliens are not considered "violent" and another way is to ask your parents to watch you play for a while and maybe they will accept it.
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#39 optiow
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You should not give up on gaming. My mum hates blood games and killing games as well, but I argued with her saying that I should be allowed to have them.
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#40 LithuanianGamer
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I`ve been playing M rated games since I was 6. How old are you ?
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#41 ASRCSR
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just play sport games which are alot of fun but that does suck

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Sports games for any system he has suck. I am sorry but they do.

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#42 akmex
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never give up on gaming. play sports games, racing games, action/adventure game... just make sure its clean. dude im 30 years old. I'm responsible;with 2 kids and i still love to game.

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Times like these it`s good that I live not in US.Where parents look what games their children play.My parents watched when I played games like CoD and GTA and didn`t said a thing that there violent or anything.They just always say don`t waste your time playing games.I don`t know will they ever change there opinion about gaming.How sad :(.
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#44 brumley53
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Okay. I love video games. I am a boy going into middle school. So... you get it. I have a Wii, DS, and a PSP.

But heres the catch.

I can't get any FPS. Why? Guns. My parents HATE guns. No blood games. Why. My parents HATE bloody games.

Guess what. I could even get Final Fantasy Dissida today because of the Partial Nuditiy in the game. I got the game AND THE GUIDE. THE GUIDE!!!

And when my mom saw the picture on one of the girls she flipped. We went back to the store and returned it. And got Lego Batman. As luck would have it. Lego Batman was... you guessed it. Broken. Since it was used.

So basically I can't get any good games.

What I am trying to ask is...

Should I give up on gaming?

Revolutionary91

HAHA i was playing doom when i was three. Seriously though only buy games when your with your dad cause he will probably care less.

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#46 sonnyminchin
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Yes

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#47 nikola96
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There are plenty of awesome games that you can still play. You just have to look. For example, can't play Dissida? Well, then play Powerstone Collection instead, or Super Smash Bros. Brawl. Can't play FPSs, well, than try the Metroid Prime games or and show your parents the rating and that it's not guns you're using but plasma beams. These are examples. But you have to listen to your parents, man. It's just the way it is.ASK_Story

yeah

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You should feel lucky that your parents care about you. There are plenty of E and T rated game out there that are perfectly fun games. Your best bet is to just listen to your parents or, better yet, sit down and discuss with them why you think you should be able to play the games you want. You need to show your parents that these games won't affect you negatively. That means not crying about it when they tell you that you can't have a certain game.
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#50 Revolutionary91
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Oh and my parents hate killing.