I can't speak for all women, but I don't mind a little facial hair on guys. It's just that when it gets over a couple days without shaving, it's kind of rough when you kiss a guy and their cheeks and jawline are very scratchy, itchy and hurts my lips. It's like kissing a cactus. And, I'm not really big on full grown beards. Don't worry! Some girls out there find it really super sexy.
Thanks, guys, I'm feeling a lot better. Getting alot of insight from you all was far better than my girlfriend's input, or even the few guys I do know; they're mostly a little miffed that I got involved with another guy 'emotionally' when I was getting or trying to get over the other relationship. And, to make matters worse, one of the guys I knew for years dropped me as a friend too. Because, yes, I got 'involved' with that other guy I was discussing about in this thread. But that's another issue, and one I'm not really worried about anymore. It's like one drama to another. And it made my situation evolve into one giant molehill that I didn't really need.
I've done this in the past. I hate to be in love due to certain issues of the past and therefor, I do my best to keep myself out of feeling that to avoid getting being vulnerable again. Some say I'm a coward for doing that, I like to think I'm being smart by focusing my energy and time into more important things, productive things.ForsakenWicked
I read this and, this actually makes a lot of sense. He did mention he didn't like his emotions going crazy and all he could think of was me, and when it came to sex, yes, he thought of me when he went to sleep and thought of me when he woke up. Now, I don't know how much that is true, but I did admit that I also thought of him. But anyway, that's past. I think, yeah, what you said here, reminded me of him. I'm just sorry that we can't be friends like he is with his other friends who are female.
he runs because he seriously cares for his future and doesn't want to be dragged down
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Dragged down by what? I was willing to have a friendship with him. Just like he and I have other friendsihps with other people. Are you referring dragged down by 'emotions'? I think, in time that friendship should allieviate all that 'romantic' notion. I think, personally having a friendship is much more important.
I just want to say, thanks guys for the comments and a bit of insight. You guys actually gave me more perspective in what's probably going on with him.
As for the other questions, it's been over a week, so yeah, the feelings are still strong and that's why I'm still so confused. I know I'm supposed to give it time, but it's just sometimes, you meet someone, and there's this amazing connection/chemistry. But it just wasn't the right time. I guess even friendship isn't even an option for him. It just makes me sad.
[QUOTE="Avrile"][QUOTE="Good-Apollo"]You're not making sense. You like him and he likes you, what's the problem?DeadMagazines
Because, I was getting out of a relationship then, and I cant really jump into another one. There's just so much going on. And I'm moving far, and the distance would be horrible. But why not keep in touch as friends? I wasn't asking for a friendship that demanded to see eachother every week or even every other week. it's still soul crushing no matter how often the communication happens..he'd be constantly reminded what he can't have.. Well whatever. he got what he wanted. He made me cry.
You're not making sense. You like him and he likes you, what's the problem?Good-Apollo
Because, I was getting out of a relationship then, and I cant really jump into another one. There's just so much going on. And I'm moving far, and the distance would be horrible. But why not keep in touch as friends? I wasn't asking for a friendship that demanded to see eachother every week or even every other week.
[QUOTE="Avrile"][QUOTE="DeadMagazines"]If he said he loves you, and you said "let's be friends"..why in the hell are you blaming him for not wanting to keep holding on to some false hope? Obviously if he tried to "be friends" it'd stir up feelings or make it difficult.. I would say he's in the right. He's trying to move on since nothing will come of it. Xx_Hopeless_xX
Well I did tell him I liked him too, in that way, but it's best we stay/remain friends. It's just best. I thought we would be very cool with it and have our friendship relationship. I would have loved that, but no, he just runs. It's not as if I wanted to marry the guy, no way!
Maybe he just feels better that way...as if seeing you may stir up emotions again...and leaving fixes everything...plus..i'd be hurt if a girl did that..and i would be so very jealous of every guy she talked to...it would be a mess...so i would say he did the right thing in that situation...
Then again i may just be crazy...:x
Ok, I'll give some clarification in our 'relationship'; we had a really fun one. We did some really awesome things together; we had some similar interests, and the ones he showed me that weren't my interested, I became interested in. And vice versa. It was a really fun relationship. Of course I cared about the guy, and I would have loved our friendship to continue. But he couldn't even give me the satisfaction of saying goodbye? Or tell me WHY he did what the did? It's not as if he didnt have other friends that were girls, and I have friends of male and female too.
If he said he loves you, and you said "let's be friends"..why in the hell are you blaming him for not wanting to keep holding on to some false hope? Obviously if he tried to "be friends" it'd stir up feelings or make it difficult.. I would say he's in the right. He's trying to move on since nothing will come of it. DeadMagazines
Well I did tell him I liked him too, in that way, but it's best we stay/remain friends. It's just best. I thought we would be very cool with it and have our friendship relationship. I would have loved that, but no, he just runs. It's not as if I wanted to marry the guy, no way!
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