@LJS9502_basic said:
I've heard that. Anyway if they want to use the opposite sex's rest room because of how they feel....why doesn't anyone else's feelings matter to them? Just something I've wondered.
You honestly think that we don't take anyone else's feelings into account? Every time we trans people use a public restroom we have to do a mental calculation to decide whether to risk our personal safety (and out ourselves in the process) or possibly make someone uncomfortable. Here are my following options:
Use the male restroom. I have been on hormone replacement therapy for over 2 years at this point. I look, sound, and act like a woman. Not only is there the possibility of being assaulted if I intentionally go into the male restroom, but my presence (as someone who by all means looks like a normal woman) is bound to make the men in the restroom uncomfortable as well.
Use the female restroom. This comes with its own challenges. If someone finds out that I'm trans, then I risk public humiliation and, again, possible assault (the beating of Chrissy Lee Polis in 2011 is just one example). If I'm not found out, then it's just a normal trip to the restroom.
With this in mind, I'm guaranteed to have a negative and/or awkward experience if I use the male restroom, but there is the possibility of me having a neutral experience if using the female restroom. With that said, I haven't used a public restroom in over a year. This isn't a big deal for me since I'm a borderline recluse and I have a long history of paruresis so I'm used to avoiding public restrooms, but others are not so fortunate. A 2013 UCLA study surveying transgender people in Washington DC (typically thought as a liberal city) found that 54% of transgender people reported health effects such as dehydration, kidney infections, and UTIs as a result of 'holding it' until they get to a restroom they're comfortable using. 58% of people reported avoiding going out in public due to a lack of safe public restroom facilities. In relation to this case, 10% of people reported skipping or dropping out of school due to not having proper access to restrooms.
Again, you're out of your mind if you think that we don't care about anyone else's feelings other than our own. You're better than this, LJS.
@the actual topic: As mentioned before, this is just a stay on a lower court's order. While I don't particularly agree with the stay, I can see why the supreme court would want to actually hear the case and set a precedent.
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