Would you lose respect for someone if you discovered they had an abortion?

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#1 Jocubus
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Not including cases of rape or incest.

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#2 bloodling
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Just a little bit, not much. If it is repeated, yes.
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#3 zero9167
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No.

**** happens.

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#4 -R3Vo
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Depending on the situation, if it's a teen pregnancy and she can't raise it - she obviously has a future to worry about - then I could care less. Probably give them props for doing the mature thing.
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#5 Kritical_Strike
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For some chicks, I would lose more respect if she kept the baby. Some people just aren't meant to raise children (or breed).
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#6 automaticxpanic
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depending on who it is for me i suppose. if its a slut thats sleeping around then yes. if its an honest girl, cant blame her for having hormones or not wanting a baby at 16. (assuming we're talking teen pregnancy)
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#7 FlaminDeath
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Would not give a crap unless they had more than one.
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#8 Xeros606
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i would be proud of them for execising their rights. though that is a little unnatural.
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#9 Cube_of_MooN
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I would lose a little in all honesty.
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#10 -R3Vo
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i would be proud of them for execising their rights. though that is a little unnatural.Xeros606

What would you prefer? A clothes hanger? A Falcon Punch to make it natural.

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#11 Jocubus
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I would lose some respect for them. I can't help but to see the would-be mother as a reckless hedonist and in the carless pursuit of her own pleasure she is willing to destroy what would eventually become a human being. I don't understand the responses that claim an abortion would be the responsible thing to do. Its more responsible to use contraceptives or abstinence than run the risk of needing an abortion.
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#12 ElArab
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Depends, but my short answer is:

No, if done early.

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#13 double_decker
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Her body, her choice. I have no room to judge
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#14 SAURON221
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Using it just for birth control? yes, they would drop some notches in my book.
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#15 peaceful_anger
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As harsh as it may sound, absolutely YES!
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#16 Jocubus
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Her body, her choice. I have no room to judgedouble_decker

Wow that is absurd logic. So if I want to commit suicide by jumping out of an airplane in the middle of an elementary school playground filled with kids, thats fine because its my body? Think of the janitor...

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#17 artichoke
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Depending on the circumstances but mostly yes.
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#18 KG86
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No I wouldn't.

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#19 bloodling
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Her body, her choice. I have no room to judgedouble_decker

You actually do judge it right to do it if you think that way.

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#20 Vax45
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Only if her fun area is being treated as a circus by tons of other men.

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#21 double_decker
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You actually do judge it right to do it if you think that way.

bloodling
Sure, if you say so
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#22 Bravo_Delta
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To be honest i would lose respect for that person, obviously certain circumstances i would understand.

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#23 123625
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Yes i would. They denied a human being life.
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#24 SmashBrosLegend
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Yes. If rape is not a factor, then this person is basically taking what will become a human life because she cannot keep her legs closed. Use the birth control pill. Can't afford them? Condoms are cheap. Broken condom? Use the morning after pill. Don't have access to any of those? Don't have sex. Disregarding rape, there is absolutely no excuse for an unwanted pregnancy. You made the mistake, and now you have to live with the consequences. If you're not in a position to raise a child, give the kid up for adoption. I have many friends who were adopted, and they grew up to have happy, normal lives. If you don't want to deal with a pregnancy, you shouldn't have put yourself in that situation.
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#25 00Raziel00
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No that's their own personal life i don't care if they decide to remove their legs and arms. Alot of people get it because they just cant handle a kid. Altho i guess i would care if its their third abortion then its getting weird.
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#26 AnotherKill
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No.
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#27 Jocubus
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I've been gathering some statistics for you guys:

854,122 Abortions performed in the United States in 2003 (http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss5511a1.htm)

"In 2004-2005, 64,080 women were raped. According to medical reports, the incidence of pregnancy for one-time unprotected sexual intercourse is 5%. By applying the pregnancy rate to 64,080 women, RAINN estimates that there were 3,204 pregnancies as a result of rape during that period." (http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims)

A study, in 1998, revealed that women reported the following reasons for choosing an abortion:

•25.5% Want to postpone childbearing

•21.3% Cannot afford a baby

•14.1% Has relationship problem or partner does not want pregnancy

•12.2% Too young; parent(s) or other(s) object to pregnancy

• 10.8% Having a child will disrupt education or job

• 7.9% Want no (more) children

• 3.3% Risk to fetal health

• 2.8% Risk to maternal health

• 2.1% Other

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#28 double_decker
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A study, in 1998, revealed that women reported the following reasons for choosing an abortion

Jocubus
That was 10 years ago..
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#29 ElArab
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[QUOTE="double_decker"]Her body, her choice. I have no room to judgeJocubus

Wow that is absurd logic. So if I want to commit suicide by jumping out of an airplane in the middle of an elementary school playground filled with kids, thats fine because its my body? Think of the janitor...

I wanna sig that. Although, I think a better example would have been, say, the suicide bomber who killed Bhuto.

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#30 Jocubus
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Based on that information it seems some women are too promiscuous and careless: willing to trample what would become another being for their own hedonism.
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#31 Lord_Daemon
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No I wouldn't lose any respect for them, but I would question their intelligence if this action occurred multiple times.
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#32 Jocubus
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[QUOTE="Jocubus"]

A study, in 1998, revealed that women reported the following reasons for choosing an abortion

double_decker
That was 10 years ago..

I tried to find more recent data but thats the best I could get. The abortion rate hasn't changed much over the last 10 years so I doubt the reasons have either.
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#33 AnotherKill
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[QUOTE="double_decker"]Her body, her choice. I have no room to judgeJocubus

Wow that is absurd logic. So if I want to commit suicide by jumping out of an airplane in the middle of an elementary school playground filled with kids, thats fine because its my body? Think of the janitor...

No now you're adding stuff on, If you want to commit suicide go ahead. But if you want to commit suicide in front of children, Just No. That's like you're saying that the person wants to have an abortion on a school lunch table in front of a bunch of children.

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#34 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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Yep, I won't lie...In most cases I would lost some respect for someone who had an abortion.
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#35 Youareinsecure
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Would not give a crap unless they had more than one.FlaminDeath

Why would you care for one more? If they had an abortion once,what's the difference between just another?

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#36 freshgman
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I know someone who gets abortions every couple of weeks, everytime im like wtf? stop havin sex!
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#37 bloodling
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[QUOTE="FlaminDeath"]Would not give a crap unless they had more than one.Youareinsecure

Why would you care for one more? If they had an abortion once,what's the difference between just another?

Well, one big mistake is fine as long as you don't do it again.

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#38 MrGeezer
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I would lose some respect for them. I can't help but to see the would-be mother as a reckless hedonist and in the carless pursuit of her own pleasure she is willing to destroy what would eventually become a human being. I don't understand the responses that claim an abortion would be the responsible thing to do. Its more responsible to use contraceptives or abstinence than run the risk of needing an abortion.Jocubus

maybe we can give all pregnant women a time machine.

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#39 Gh0st_Of_0nyx
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Nope not at all Im all for abortions it saves me money :D
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#40 Jocubus
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Nope not at all Im all for abortions it saves me money :DGh0st_Of_0nyx
How do abortions save you money? Last I checked a condom is much cheaper than an abortion.
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#41 Achilles438
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I probably would. Just because the person wanted to have a good time with someone doesnt mean the child should die just because they couldnt take care of him or her. They could put the child up for adoption for the good parents out there.
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#42 Link256
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No. On the other hand, difference of opinion or morals, is enitrely different issue...

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#43 The_Last_Ride
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why not, it doesn't make them a bad person...
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#44 ClassicPlayer
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Nope, I would respect them even more for doing so. As long as they weren't forced into doing so.

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#45 deactivated-59d151f079814
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NO because its none of my business.
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#46 lycrof
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Nope.
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#47 camreeno360
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I honestly don't have much at all against abortions. Seriously.
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#48 194197844077667059316682358889
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Of course not
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#49 DrSponge
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No :lol:
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#50 Dracargen
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Yes.