would you go out with this girl?

If you found a girl who was extremely nice, very loving, had an amazing heart, very beautiful(your opinion of her), BUT you felt that your level of intelligence was like 500 times hers would you go out with her? My girlfriend right now isn't an idiot, but she's definitely not intelligent by any means and its ****ed up that I'm saying this, but its true. She IS an AMAZING gf, but I feel like i can never hold an intelligent conversation with her and if I do I have to seriously dumb it down. Thing is I'm not sure if its her fault or the school systems fault. I tried reading a few of her text books and I felt like they were written for a 4th grader... Also her Spanish text book was like 80% English. She also *****es at me saying I don't need a teacher I need a boyfriend when ever I try correcting something she messes up on, but I HAVE taught her a lot and she does speak a lot better, but her writing skills are a joke and her reading ability is decent. Whats your view on this? Would you go out with a chick like this?

Shes mexican right? Makes sure shes a legal citizen first; then decide.Kasceis18

She's Puerto Rican and I honestly don't see how that relates to anything as I am Puerto Rican as well...

yes, i dont need a smart girl in bedDjCristii

A wide margin in intelligence could be a problem but I think the most important thing is if you love spending time with her. If her intelligence is too low for you to enjoy yourself with her then it might not be worth it.

I would if I was looking for a short term relationship, I could never get into a serious relationship with her no matter how good looking she is.

Then again I can't say I've been put in this situation to many times.

[QUOTE="Kasceis18"]Shes mexican right? Makes sure shes a legal citizen first; then decide.bigblunt537

She's Puerto Rican and I honestly don't see how that relates to anything as I am Puerto Rican as well...

Just for clarification, this isn't one of those 'situations' where she's 12 and you're, like, 25 is it?67gt500

Just for clarification, this isn't one of those 'situations' where she's 12 and you're, like, 25 is it?67gt500

Uhh no I'm 19 and she's 18. Thanks for the replies though, but how would you feel if you thought you could possibly help her with her education? I mean I feel like I cant put all this on her as her fault because of the **** i witnessed.

i dont know i do get kinda anoyed having to explain everything and do everything because im the only one who knows how even for my gf

Shes mexican right? Makes sure shes a legal citizen first; then decide.Kasceis18

The band in your avatar has pretty much broken up :o

Time to change it?

I think i'm going to wait about a month and see if I can try and overlook this because in reality I dont think I've ever found an attractive girl that I could relate to on an intellectual level(although most are smarter then she is), and if I do find an attractive one they're taken or they're sluts.

If you found a girl who was extremely nice, very loving, had an amazing heart, very beautiful(your opinion of her), BUT you felt that your level of intelligence was like 500 times hers would you go out with her? My girlfriend right now isn't an idiot, but she's definitely not intelligent by any means and its ****ed up that I'm saying this, but its true. She IS an AMAZING gf, but I feel like i can never hold an intelligent conversation with her and if I do I have to seriously dumb it down. Thing is I'm not sure if its her fault or the school systems fault. I tried reading a few of her text books and I felt like they were written for a 4th grader... Also her Spanish text book was like 80% English. She also *****es at me saying I don't need a teacher I need a boyfriend when ever I try correcting something she messes up on, but I HAVE taught her a lot and she does speak a lot better, but her writing skills are a joke and her reading ability is decent. Whats your view on this? Would you go out with a chick like this?

bigblunt537

Its so hard to find a loyal, caring, genuine girl it doesn't matter how acadamically intelligent she is. As long as she's not mentally retarded. The only type of stupid girls I dont like are ones that are ignorant.

[QUOTE="67gt500"]Just for clarification, this isn't one of those 'situations' where she's 12 and you're, like, 25 is it?bigblunt537

Uhh no I'm 19 and she's 18. Thanks for the replies though, but how would you feel if you thought you could possibly help her with her education? I mean I feel like I cant put all this on her as her fault because of the **** i witnessed.

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

If you found a girl who was extremely nice, very loving, had an amazing heart, very beautiful(your opinion of her), BUT you felt that your level of intelligence was like 500 times hers would you go out with her? My girlfriend right now isn't an idiot, but she's definitely not intelligent by any means and its ****ed up that I'm saying this, but its true. She IS an AMAZING gf, but I feel like i can never hold an intelligent conversation with her and if I do I have to seriously dumb it down. Thing is I'm not sure if its her fault or the school systems fault. I tried reading a few of her text books and I felt like they were written for a 4th grader... Also her Spanish text book was like 80% English. She also *****es at me saying I don't need a teacher I need a boyfriend when ever I try correcting something she messes up on, but I HAVE taught her a lot and she does speak a lot better, but her writing skills are a joke and her reading ability is decent. Whats your view on this? Would you go out with a chick like this?

Silvereign

Its so hard to find a loyal, caring, genuine girl it doesn't matter how acadamically intelligent she is. As long as she's not mentally retarded. The only type of stupid girls I dont like are ones that are ignorant.

Thats exactly how I feel...

I don't know. I hate stupid people. I could probably go out with her but as for a lasting relationship, I don't think it would work.Immortalica

The only stupid people I hate are stupid people who refuse to learn anything. If a girl is stupid but she's good looking, good heart, good morales and she's willing to learn and grow I would have no hangups about going exclusive with her.

There somethings that I can ignore or let go.

Can't critize much about someone grades because mine are only average, but if she is blantly an idiot then no.

[QUOTE="Silvereign"]

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

If you found a girl who was extremely nice, very loving, had an amazing heart, very beautiful(your opinion of her), BUT you felt that your level of intelligence was like 500 times hers would you go out with her? My girlfriend right now isn't an idiot, but she's definitely not intelligent by any means and its ****ed up that I'm saying this, but its true. She IS an AMAZING gf, but I feel like i can never hold an intelligent conversation with her and if I do I have to seriously dumb it down. Thing is I'm not sure if its her fault or the school systems fault. I tried reading a few of her text books and I felt like they were written for a 4th grader... Also her Spanish text book was like 80% English. She also *****es at me saying I don't need a teacher I need a boyfriend when ever I try correcting something she messes up on, but I HAVE taught her a lot and she does speak a lot better, but her writing skills are a joke and her reading ability is decent. Whats your view on this? Would you go out with a chick like this?

bigblunt537

Its so hard to find a loyal, caring, genuine girl it doesn't matter how acadamically intelligent she is. As long as she's not mentally retarded. The only type of stupid girls I dont like are ones that are ignorant.

Thats exactly how I feel...

Everyone has their faults, their flaws. Where not perfect. You have to sacrfice. Some girl may be ugly but smart and good personality. Some girl may be good looking smart but a cold her b****.

A girl being a little bit behind but excelling in everything else is nothing to complain about.

At least you know she will never try to make you feel stupid. ;)

[QUOTE="Immortalica"]I don't know. I hate stupid people. I could probably go out with her but as for a lasting relationship, I don't think it would work.Silvereign

The only stupid people I hate are stupid people who refuse to learn anything. If a girl is stupid but she's good looking, good heart, good morales and she's willing to learn and grow I would have no hangups about going exclusive with her.

That what I was trying to say.

I hate the kind of people who are just lazy and don't want improve themselves. It is actually really unattractive.

Although i prefer smart girls... i would probably still date her.

Yes, I'd go out with her, but it'd be short term.GodLovesDead

Why would you waste your time and effort for a short term relationship? I've neevr understood that...

This is why I dont go out with the chearleader stereotype I need intelligent conversations and I am willing to sacrafice some beauty in the women I go out with to get this because there will come a point in time when you are just talking to each other without having sex.

Intelligence is the most important thing I look for in a woman. As great a person as she may be, I want her to be either as smart as me or smarter. I personally find intelligence very sexy.

[QUOTE="GodLovesDead"]Yes, I'd go out with her, but it'd be short term.bigblunt537

Why would you waste your time and effort for a short term relationship? I've neevr understood that...

Intelligence is the most important thing I look for in a woman. As great a person as she may be, I want her to be either as smart as me or smarter. I personally find intelligence very sexy.

foxhound_fox

I see girls like this all the time. I'll humor them if I must, but I've a rule against dating people who are dumber than me. Or smarter than me. Or dating at all.

As long as she is loving, caring, supporting, and is willing to stick with you until the end and as long as you love her, nothing else should matter. Ever.Im_single

TC IM TELLING YOU this is your answer. Judge someone on their morales and personality. Not how well their grades are.

I don't care if she is smarter than me or if I am smarter than her, or if we are equal in intelligence. Now I wouldn't want a complete ditzy girl, she needs some knowledge in that cranium of hers.

If she is caring and loving and has some physical attractiveness to her, she is okay in my boooks.

For a long-term relationship I couldn't be with an unintelligent girl. It's really your choice, though.

thanks for the well thought out replies I truly appreciate it.

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]

Intelligence is the most important thing I look for in a woman. As great a person as she may be, I want her to be either as smart as me or smarter. I personally find intelligence very sexy.

thepwninator

I disagree. Intelligence is not the most important thing you should look for in a women. Their's some smart gold diggers, and female playas out there. Actually pretty much all the girls I have personally witnessed cheating on their boyfriends were pretty smart.

I say

1) Morales

2) Personality

3) Looks

4) Intelligence

Theirs just as many smart women as their is dumb women who suck at conversation.

[QUOTE="thepwninator"][QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]

Intelligence is the most important thing I look for in a woman. As great a person as she may be, I want her to be either as smart as me or smarter. I personally find intelligence very sexy.

Silvereign

I disagree. Intelligence is not the most important thing you should look for in a women. Their's some smart gold diggers, and female playas out there. Actually pretty much all the girls I have personally witnessed cheating on their boyfriends were pretty smart.

I say

1) Morales

2) Personality

3) Looks

4) Intelligence

Theirs just as many smart women as their is dumb women who suck at conversation.

1) integrity=intelligence

2) see above

3) personality

i really can't judge unless i see pics tbqh

I would date someone like that, honestly I would love dating someone like that.

If she has a good sense of humor too, I fail to see any problems really.

Honestly speaking it is rare for me to meet someone who is on my mental level, and theyre often dry as a corpse, with the humor of a dead Tuna.

So Ive always prefered people who are less brainpower, more feeling (is it just me? or do smart people usually show less emotion then more grounded people?)

I would date someone like that, honestly I would love dating someone like that.

If she has a good sense of humor too, I fail to see any problems really.

Honestly speaking it is rare for me to meet someone who is on my mental level, and theyre often dry as a corpse, with the humor of a dead Tuna.

So Ive always prefered people who are less brainpower, more feeling (is it just me? or do smart people usually show less emotion then more grounded people?)

Maddie_Larkin

lmao the dead tuna made me laugh, but its true. Also to the other poster no pic, because it would be photoshopped a million times and end up on the interwebz forever although she is on my myspace which I'm not giving out either because then she'd have stupid friend request.

I disagree. Intelligence is not the most important thing you should look for in a women. Their's some smart gold diggers, and female playas out there. Actually pretty much all the girls I have personally witnessed cheating on their boyfriends were pretty smart.

I say

1) Morales

2) Personality

3) Looks

4) Intelligence

Theirs just as many smart women as their is dumb women who suck at conversation.

Silvereign