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#1 PrinceofTHEATL
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I mean who cares if two people of different races get married. They are both human and consenting. People say that the "culture" will be lost but i disagree both backgrounds and culture will be mixed and there kids can learn about both. Plus im a Pakistani boy and i probably get married with a non pakistani since im an atheist, and to tell u the truth i like american culture better than Pakistani , but i will still share tidbits of my culture with my wife and children. I know most people over here have no problem with interracial marriages but i still want to know why people have such a negative connotation towards it.

thank you

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I like your sig. :oops:
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#3 mrbojangles25
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because theyre racists.

There is no reason to forbid two different races from marrying and having kids.

Unless youre a believer in Eugenics (correct name?); if that is the case, a white female should not breed with an African male because they have a higher risk of heart disease.

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#4 TheHimura
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I dunno but my girlfriend is of a different race than me and I don't care what anyone else thinks about it, and you probably should be the same way.
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#5 hydralisk86
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because theyre racists.

There is no reason to forbid two different races from marrying and having kids.

Unless youre a believer in Eugenics (correct name?); if that is the case, a white female should not breed with an African male because they have a higher risk of heart disease.

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#6 Xbxg32000
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Yeah, tell me about it. Some people are just too attached to traditional perspectives. I am Bengali and an Atheist too, so I am in scenario similar to yours.

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#7 PrinceofTHEATL
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Yeah, tell me about it. Some people are just too attached to traditional perspectives. I am Bengali and an Atheist too, so I am in scenario similar to yours.

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oh cool were u a muslim too?

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#8 ConfessiBear
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I'm all for interracial marriage, and why shouldn't I be? This is a non-issue.
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[QUOTE="Xbxg32000"]Yeah, tell me about it. Some people are just too attached to traditional perspectives. I am Bengali and an Atheist too, so I am in scenario similar to yours.

-gl hf
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oh cool were u a muslim too?

Yeah, I was really religious and into Islam. In fact I used to do all the extra stuff like fast an extra week after Ramadan and pray Fajr in the morning. I've actually gotten my brother to leave Islam as well after a lot of talking and explaining.

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[QUOTE="PrinceofTHEATL"]

[QUOTE="Xbxg32000"]Yeah, tell me about it. Some people are just too attached to traditional perspectives. I am Bengali and an Atheist too, so I am in scenario similar to yours.

-gl hf
~Xbx
Xbxg32000

oh cool were u a muslim too?

Yeah, I was really religious and into Islam. In fact I used to do all the extra stuff like fast an extra week after Ramadan and pray Fajr in the morning. I've actually gotten my brother to leave Islam as well after a lot of talking and explaining.

-gl hf
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Have you told your parents yet?

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#11 Xbxg32000
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[QUOTE="Xbxg32000"][QUOTE="PrinceofTHEATL"]

[QUOTE="Xbxg32000"]Yeah, tell me about it. Some people are just too attached to traditional perspectives. I am Bengali and an Atheist too, so I am in scenario similar to yours.

-gl hf
~Xbx
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oh cool were u a muslim too?

Yeah, I was really religious and into Islam. In fact I used to do all the extra stuff like fast an extra week after Ramadan and pray Fajr in the morning. I've actually gotten my brother to leave Islam as well after a lot of talking and explaining.

-gl hf
~Xbx

Have you told your parents yet?

There's a long story behind that. I'll PM you, lol.

-gl hf
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#12 Gameslave_
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theres is nothing wrong with it, its just that when its your sister and the guy is another race, and he is bad to her, than it causes you to be racist when it isnt fair to generalize everyone because of one person in a race.
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#13 vidplayer8
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I'm not against it.

Some of my great great grandparents married others of different marriages, Thats why im fairly light.

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#15 UssjTrunks
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Some people would like to preserve their cultural identity, especially if it's dying. That's not to say I'm against it.
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#16 ConfessiBear
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I'm a white dude and used to be engaged to a Malaysian law student, until she dumped me. I'm all for any combination of anything.

Copied from Wikipedia:

Mixed race children are often perceived to be more attractive than their parents because their genetic diversity protects them from the inherited errors of their individual parents.
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#17 SegaGenesisfan
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I just feel more comfortable dating someone who is the same race, nothing wrong with race preferance. Maybe if they were a very genuine person, then I guess I would not mind, it be kind of unique. But, most likely I am going to my own race, which is natural to be around your own pack.
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#18 dangerd0g24
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i don't see any thing wrong with interracial marriages. i guess the people who think that are still stuck thinking in the wrong place.
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I'm a white dude and used to be engaged to a Malaysian law student, until she dumped me. I'm all for any combination of anything.

Copied from Wikipedia:

Mixed race children are often perceived to be more attractive than their parents because their genetic diversity protects them from the inherited errors of their individual parents.ConfessiBear


I couldn't disagree more with the attractiveness part (that's based on my personal tastes though).
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#21 crzza
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Thank you! This person on TV.com forums was calling me a fool and liberal because my girlfriend is bi-racial and im white.
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#22 M8ingSeezun
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I'm Scots-Irish Catholic and honestly I prefer women who are darker tanned, brunette and exotic. I'm pale as a ghost with a little freckles and I love how thier skin compares to mine. I mainly date Hispanic and Asian women. But that's me. I'm also open to all kinds of women. I would love to date Mid-Eastern, Indian or Black.

Interracial Marriage - I'm all for it.

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#23 AtrumRegina
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I have a friend. Her mom is Japanese and her dad is from Pakistan .

Well she grew up in Japan and is asian and she is more close to the Japanese culture but still she turned out fine.

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I dont know why people have problems with that, its their life and that's all that matters, im black and im currently dating a white girl who i really really think im going to marry and have kids with, if anyone has a problem with that..........KISS MY ***!!!!
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#25 PrinceofTHEATL
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Some people would like to preserve their cultural identity, especially if it's dying. That's not to say I'm against it.UssjTrunks

why cant both cultures be perserved

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#26 Adonymous
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i hear a lot of white girls won't date black dudes because they cheat.

also an interesting thing...i have never seen a asian male with a black female.

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#27 Squire_Ramza
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People are against many things for some stupid reasons. I personally support it. I'm a mix of Caucasian and Hispanic. Who ever I marry, the marriage will be mixed anyway.
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#28 deactivated-5a79221380856
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I don't know. I think it's rather sad that some people can only be tied down to people of their own race.
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#29 Theokhoth
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Who knows? It's impossible to get into the minds of people like that.
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#30 TheStore
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i hear a lot of white girls won't date black dudes because they cheat.

also an interesting thing...i have never seen a asian male with a black female.

Adonymous

Where do you stay? Where I stay the white females love the black males and vice versa.

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#31 Adonymous
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[QUOTE="Adonymous"]

i hear a lot of white girls won't date black dudes because they cheat.

also an interesting thing...i have never seen a asian male with a black female.

TheStore

Where do you stay? Where I stay the white females love the black males and vice versa.

Las Vegas, NV.

well I see them hooking up, but as far as serious relationships, hardly ever do i see a white f and black m.

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#32 Kikouken
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Donno, it is pretty dumb though. Doesn't matter who you marry...and it doesn't matter what they look like; just as long as they treat you well.

I'm Korean but my boyfriend isn't Asian, he's black. At first my parents were shocked because they thought I was going to be with an asian guy but they wholeheartedly accepted him and so did the rest of the family. And we've been together for 4 years :) Nothing wrong with interracial marriage at all.

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#33 Cube_of_MooN
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I see no reason to be against it...
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#34 MgamerBD
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Racism, religion u know the usual.
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#35 Theokhoth
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Racism, religion u know the usual.MgamerBD

I'm religious. . . .hint hint.

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#36 SIapshot
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The disease factor is one, black females have a much higher rate of HIV infection than White females. 14 to 1 to be exact (some estimates put it much higher) link which leaves white females on the much-to-be-desired list.

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#37 mayormoose
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Because some people are racist. Duh.

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#38 Zaeryn
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There's nothing wrong with it. I guess some people are just comfortable with their own race.
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I mean who cares if two people of different races get married. They are both human and consenting. People say that the "culture" will be lost but i disagree both backgrounds and culture will be mixed and there kids can learn about both. Plus im a Pakistani boy and i probably get married with a non pakistani since im an atheist, and to tell u the truth i like american culture better than Pakistani , but i will still share tidbits of my culture with my wife and children. I know most people over here have no problem with interracial marriages but i still want to know why people have such a negative connotation towards it.

thank you

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I agree that there is nothing wrong with interracial marriage.

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#40 Blitz_Nemesis
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I like your sig. :oops:DFan17902
same:) first thing i noticed when i opened this thread.

Im all for interrcail marriage. im more into girl of other races anyway.
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There is absolutely nothing wrong about it. No one should tell you otherwise.

You can't control who you are attracted to or who you fall for.

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The disease factor is one, black females have a much higher rate of HIV infection than White females. 14 to 1 to be exact (some estimates put it much higher) link which leaves white females on the much-to-be-desired list.

SIapshot

The question was "why are people against interracial marraiges?"

Just because there are more black women who have HIV isn't a reason to be against interracial marraiges. And I don't place white females on the must-to-be-desired list because they have less of a chance to have HIV. That would be silly.

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[QUOTE="SIapshot"]

The disease factor is one, black females have a much higher rate of HIV infection than White females. 14 to 1 to be exact (some estimates put it much higher) link which leaves white females on the much-to-be-desired list.

muffincakes87

The question was "why are people against interracial marraiges?"

Just because there are more black women who have HIV isn't a reason to be against interracial marraiges. And I don't place white females on the must-to-be-desired list because they have less of a chance to have HIV. That would be silly.

Think of it from a parental point of view. Would you, by course of teachings, expose your son to 14 times the risk of contracting a deadly disease? It's like teaching your son to smoke cigarettes. No parent in their right mind would willingly expose their child to the risks that blacks spread amongst themselves.
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[QUOTE="muffincakes87"][QUOTE="SIapshot"]

The disease factor is one, black females have a much higher rate of HIV infection than White females. 14 to 1 to be exact (some estimates put it much higher) link which leaves white females on the much-to-be-desired list.

SIapshot

The question was "why are people against interracial marraiges?"

Just because there are more black women who have HIV isn't a reason to be against interracial marraiges. And I don't place white females on the must-to-be-desired list because they have less of a chance to have HIV. That would be silly.

Think of it from a parental point of view. Would you, by course of teachings, expose your son to 14 times the risk of contracting a deadly disease? It's like teaching your son to smoke cigarettes. No parent in their right mind would willingly expose their child to the risks that blacks spread amongst themselves.

you could just ask the person to get tested than get married

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#45 A_Tarkovsky
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What does being athiest have to do with this?
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#46 SIapshot
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[QUOTE="SIapshot"][QUOTE="muffincakes87"][QUOTE="SIapshot"]

The disease factor is one, black females have a much higher rate of HIV infection than White females. 14 to 1 to be exact (some estimates put it much higher) link which leaves white females on the much-to-be-desired list.

PrinceofTHEATL

The question was "why are people against interracial marraiges?"

Just because there are more black women who have HIV isn't a reason to be against interracial marraiges. And I don't place white females on the must-to-be-desired list because they have less of a chance to have HIV. That would be silly.

Think of it from a parental point of view. Would you, by course of teachings, expose your son to 14 times the risk of contracting a deadly disease? It's like teaching your son to smoke cigarettes. No parent in their right mind would willingly expose their child to the risks that blacks spread amongst themselves.

you could just ask the person to get tested than get married

Do you even KNOW anything about HIV? it has a 6 month incubation period where all the tests in the world are completely useless. 6 months AFTER your last sexual contact/intravenous drug injection the tests MIGHT be accurate.

"just ask them to get a test" SUUUURE, roll the dice, more power to ya bro :)

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I don't know I didn't think people were until yesterday when a someone posted that they are against Interracial Marriages.
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[QUOTE="SIapshot"][QUOTE="muffincakes87"][QUOTE="SIapshot"]

The disease factor is one, black females have a much higher rate of HIV infection than White females. 14 to 1 to be exact (some estimates put it much higher) link which leaves white females on the much-to-be-desired list.

PrinceofTHEATL

The question was "why are people against interracial marraiges?"

Just because there are more black women who have HIV isn't a reason to be against interracial marraiges. And I don't place white females on the must-to-be-desired list because they have less of a chance to have HIV. That would be silly.

Think of it from a parental point of view. Would you, by course of teachings, expose your son to 14 times the risk of contracting a deadly disease? It's like teaching your son to smoke cigarettes. No parent in their right mind would willingly expose their child to the risks that blacks spread amongst themselves.

you could just ask the person to get tested than get married

Exactly.

Let's put take from the love point of veiw. Marriage is a serious thing and you shouldn't marry unless your in love. If she loves you she would tell you the truth if she has a disease and get tested.

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#49 Link256
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Ignorance -- usual suspect.

Beyond that, to play devil's advocate, I have heard some people say they are afraid of the effect it will have on child being bi-racial/culture.

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#50 Greatgone12
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Do you even KNOW anything about HIV? it has a 6 month incubation period where all the tests in the world are completely useless. 6 months AFTER your last sexual contact/intravenous drug injection the tests MIGHT be accurate.

"just ask them to get a test" SUUUURE, roll the dice, more power to ya bro :)

SIapshot

Wait 6 mos. to get the test, goddammit.

That will give you 6 mos. to know what it feels like to cheat on somebody. Hot.