I'm 21 never had a girlfriend and I seem to have trouble finding single girls that are available to approach.
I don't know anything about girls haha
Where do single girls like to go to meet single guys? Where are they open to meeting single guys?
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i keep seeing advertisements online that there are hundreds of local sexy ladies that want to get with me now.
Girls are not just available to approach, much like you they travel from A to B, hold down jobs, have hobbies and interests and enjoy socialising.
The question is not, where are girls available to approach....its...simply...approaching the girls that you like.
The first step to success with women is realising that they are not alien, or scary, they are just people. Saying that pretty much every girlfriend/sexual experience I have had has stemmed directly from asking a girl for a cigarette lighter. Easiest approach known to man.
Not that I would recommend smoking as a resolution to this particular problem your having lol.
They will go to richest spot in the city,find a guy,built their friendship,starts shopping with her guyz wallet. =D
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Online Dating sites
Clubs and such
Any place where people go to seek out their hobbies.
Fairly simple. Women are not really diffrent then men, and tends to have the same issues as men. So any of the above tends to Work, heck even a gym (although you will mostly find incredibly superficial types those Places), a mall or show up early for the movies (if the theatre has a sort of cafe out front) will Work.
It is however really rare that women walks up to a man and start talking to him, so that non verbal communication is a thing you might want to get a refresh on. *shrug*
What, didn't your Mom teach you anything about Girls?
She doesn't know anything about girls believe me shes tried, shes 59 so her advice is old and classical I've told her that girls are completely different nowadays than they were in the 60s, so shes really useless in this area trust me you guys know more about girls than she ever would haha.
Find a facebook secrets page for your city where the anonymous users post things about sex or random things (mostly sex though) and say really nice things to people and post a really romantic confession or two.
That's what I did and now I'm a hit with the ladies in this city. Met lots of friends this way too.
Bars/clubs. When I was in my early 20's, I used match.com for a little while. That was like fishing with dynamite!
Bars, clubs, sex clubs, Christian single mixers, online dating, friends of friends, friends of you friends' girlfriends/wives, school (stay in school), work.
Social networking has shifted the balance between the sexes in the world of dating. The unprecedented level of attention that females now receive, regardless of their level of attraction, has transformed most of them into narcissists who feel entitled to men far out of their league. Subsequently, average or below average males are left with no one while average or below average females have more options than they can count.
You've come to the wrong place asking the wrong people.
I don't know, man. When I was young and single I was pulling tail like a slow kid at a petting zoo.
What, didn't your Mom teach you anything about Girls?
She doesn't know anything about girls believe me shes tried, shes 59 so her advice is old and classical I've told her that girls are completely different nowadays than they were in the 60s, so shes really useless in this area trust me you guys know more about girls than she ever would haha.
Use the old approach then. With the excessive use of "Milady". There's a general lack of gentlemen in this modern world. Any girl would be happy to see one.
If you want to find a girlfriend, you don't have to go to clubs or bars. Time has changed and using social media or dating sites is your best bet on finding single girls or where they like to hang out with. My best advice is you start talking to random girls and get to know them, if you can show confidence and not be too nice, maybe you'll be ready for a next step on taking them out. Just be yourself and be presentable.
What, didn't your Mom teach you anything about Girls?
She doesn't know anything about girls believe me shes tried, shes 59 so her advice is old and classical I've told her that girls are completely different nowadays than they were in the 60s, so shes really useless in this area trust me you guys know more about girls than she ever would haha.
Use the old approach then. With the excessive use of "Milady". There's a general lack of gentlemen in this modern world. Any girl would be happy to see one.
It wasn't even remotely good advice and every time I used it the girl got really creeped out and never spoke to me again.
What, didn't your Mom teach you anything about Girls?
She doesn't know anything about girls believe me shes tried, shes 59 so her advice is old and classical I've told her that girls are completely different nowadays than they were in the 60s, so shes really useless in this area trust me you guys know more about girls than she ever would haha.
Use the old approach then. With the excessive use of "Milady". There's a general lack of gentlemen in this modern world. Any girl would be happy to see one.
It wasn't even remotely good advice and every time I used it the girl got really creeped out and never spoke to me again.
Then buddy, your vicinity has a general lack of ladies. Those are all sluts. Trust me, they're not worth it.
the answer is simple: women are asking the same question. Search "where do I go to meet guys?" There are lots of answers like this site for example : http://allwomenstalk.com/10-best-places-to-meet-eligible-men. Make an effort to go to one of these places regularly, at least once a week, and notice the women that go there regularly as well. That's all you really need to do. Go outside. Video games are great, but it's hard to meet people through them unless you go to conventions and release events. All you have to do is talk to people. say hi to the people you know. Ask them polite questions. Come back again the next day or next week and do it over.
Now the question changes from "how do i get a girlfriend", to "how do I get money to meet a girl?"
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