Do you think its rude to show up at someones door ahead of time without a call? My bro and his wife and kids just came by unanncounced and then they had the nerve to open the door which was unlocked at that! Even tho they are family, I felt and still am pissed. I would never show up at my friends house without calling him ahead of time to see if it was cool. And I would wait till he/she opens up the door. Now back in the day I know they didn't have phones so showing up unexpected was the norm. Plus if they call ahead of time atleast I can tidy up the house a bit for guests not even giving me a chance to do that just aint right.OT whats your thoughts on this I would really like to know.