What to do? Please tell me what to do about my cousins "crush"

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#1 BlakcCrow
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Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

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Nothing...

...or call rawsavon.

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Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

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I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses please
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#4 BlakcCrow
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[QUOTE="Dylan_11"]

Nothing...

...or call rawsavon.

[/QUOTE

Call rawsavon!!!

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kick his ass

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#6 CongressManStan
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It's your cousin. Most likely you will lose close contact to each other when you grow older. I would do nothing. Now if it was my sister, I would have a different opinion.
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[QUOTE="BlakcCrow"]

Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

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I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses please

Awesome. rawsavon is awesome.
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[QUOTE="BlakcCrow"]

Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

rawsavon
I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses please

*shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*
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Its not as if he's like an adult or something, maybe he just has trouble finding girls his own age. :?

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#10 the_foreign_guy
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Kick his ass, give him a warning, and confront him, in that order.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="BlakcCrow"]

Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

xaos
I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses please

*shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*

It was really hot today too (inside union joke) -I feel sorry for this kid
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses please

*shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*

It was really hot today too (inside union joke) -I feel sorry for this kid

[spoiler] Take pics for me [/spoiler]
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#13 Fire_Ants
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Clearly you should call rawsavon.

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#14 XilePrincess
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He's not 30. 2-3 years difference is normal for a highschool crush/relationship, whatever. So you don't like the looks of him and big deal, he isn't a virgin. Neither am I, but I'm not on a hunt for 13 year olds to deflower or anything. Non-virgins are not sex maniacs that will hump anything that gets near them, so don't categorize them as such. You don't even live in the same city as her, so how can you tell what "the looks of him" are? Pictures don't show a person's personality. If he's an idiot, whatever. She has to learn the hard way to pick quality guys. It's none of your business, so leave her alone.
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confront him?

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Kick his ass, give him a warning, and confront him, in that order.the_foreign_guy
Backwards.
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He's not 30. 2-3 years difference is normal for a highschool crush/relationship, whatever. So you don't like the looks of him and big deal, he isn't a virgin. Neither am I, but I'm not on a hunt for 13 year olds to deflower or anything. Non-virgins are not sex maniacs that will hump anything that gets near them, so don't categorize them as such. You don't even live in the same city as her, so how can you tell what "the looks of him" are? Pictures don't show a person's personality. If he's an idiot, whatever. She has to learn the hard way to pick quality guys. It's none of your business, so leave her alone.XilePrincess

Really? HMMM interesting opinion.... So you are saying i should not cal rawsavon? Or can I do both?

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[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"]Kick his ass, give him a warning, and confront him, in that order.auron_16
Backwards.

Not where I come from
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#19 Mario2007
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="BlakcCrow"]

Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

xaos

I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses please

*shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*

TT! *clap clap* TT!*clap clap* TT!*clap clap*

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Hmm.... have her make a GameSpot account. She'll lose all want to have contact with the outside world.
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Seduce the guy away from her.
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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses pleaserawsavon
*shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*

It was really hot today too (inside union joke) -I feel sorry for this kid

Did you rip your shirt off?
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#23 Ken_Masterz
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I was almost 16 when I started dating my future wife and she was 13. Things worked out. I'm not sure if 3 years is a make or break difference there.
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Really? HMMM interesting opinion.... So you are saying i should not cal rawsavon? Or can I do both?

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Nah call him anyway, guaranteed lulz if you do.
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#25 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="xaos"] *shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*Travo_basic
It was really hot today too (inside union joke) -I feel sorry for this kid

Did you rip your shirt off?

*a rabid, sweaty, shirtless rawsavon appears at his door* I think the mental damage to this poor kid will be worse than the physical pain
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#26 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I'll take care of the problem and save you the trip Names and addresses pleaseMario2007

*shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*

TT! *clap clap* TT!*clap clap* TT!*clap clap*

The Texas Tech references have made my day
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#27 Martel100
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I'd at least meet the guy first. Then you can decide whether or not you need to call in the big guns. I mean, if you just call in rawsavon right off the bat, you don't have anything left in reserve. There's no way to escalate later.

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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] It was really hot today too (inside union joke) -I feel sorry for this kidrawsavon
Did you rip your shirt off?

*a rabid, sweaty, shirtless rawsavon appears at his door* I think the mental damage to this poor kid will be worse than the physical pain

WIN!
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[QUOTE="Mario2007"]

[QUOTE="xaos"] *shines a spotlight with the Texas Tech logo onto the clouds*rawsavon

TT! *clap clap* TT!*clap clap* TT!*clap clap*

The Texas Tech references have made my day

I wish Bob Knight still coached... (thread hijacked!)
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[QUOTE="clyde46"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Travo_basic"] Did you rip your shirt off?

*a rabid, sweaty, shirtless rawsavon appears at his door* I think the mental damage to this poor kid will be worse than the physical pain

WIN!

Double WIN.
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#31 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Mario2007"]TT! *clap clap* TT!*clap clap* TT!*clap clap*

Mario2007

The Texas Tech references have made my day

I wish Bob Knight still coached... (thread hijacked!)

Me too :( |
TT Basketball is now irrelevant...again

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#32 xhellcatx
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i am honestly not close to my cousins... and i have over 100 cousins... so... my suggestion would be just to leave her live her own life and make her own mistakes. Chances are if shes going to give 'it' up then shes gonna give 'it' up... no matter who its with. Its a thought that gets into ones head that is hard to get out. ... If your close to her tho and wanna protect her then... call Rawsavon. He will ensure the kick gets paired with the ass.
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#33 Jdog30
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leave them both alone its a 3 year age difference , his personal life is none of your business
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Rawsavon seems to be quite the enigma. Something tells me see what happens if he jumps in, yet at the same time as the old saying goes the crap might hit the ceiling.
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#35 positivebalance
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beat him up

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#36 rawsavon
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Rawsavon seems to be quite the enigma.mystic_knight
An enigma would require some depth of character :lol: I am as shallow as they come...all id all the time
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#37 Jdog30
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Its not as if he's like an adult or something, he most definately has trouble finding girls his own age. :?

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he probably is short or has baby face, or looks really young so only fits in with 13 yr olds

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Take her virginity yourself...Then all would be settled
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[QUOTE="mystic_knight"]Rawsavon seems to be quite the enigma.rawsavon
An enigma would require some depth of character :lol: I am as shallow as they come...all id all the time

You are a riddle unwrapped from an enigma!
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] An enigma would require some depth of character :lol: I am as shallow as they come...all id all the time

You are a riddle unwrapped from an enigma!

I'll play the part of the riddler any day

Can someone translate this cryptic metaphor?
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#42 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="xaos"] You are a riddle unwrapped from an enigma!

I'll play the part of the riddler any day

Can someone translate this cryptic metaphor?

\ It is a ****ed up one...I thought Xaos said something else (that's why I deleted it) "a riddle wrapped in an enigma...me playing the part of the riddler"
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Okay my cousin has this guy she liikes but hes 16 and shes only 13. She really likes him and she just found out he likes her. They are going to "get together" now. He has already lost his virginity and i dont like the looks of him. So im going down to texas where she lives and i was wondering, what to do?

BlakcCrow

Call rawsa....

I see its been done

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#44 ice_radon
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]He's not 30. 2-3 years difference is normal for a highschool crush/relationship, whatever. So you don't like the looks of him and big deal, he isn't a virgin. Neither am I, but I'm not on a hunt for 13 year olds to deflower or anything. Non-virgins are not sex maniacs that will hump anything that gets near them, so don't categorize them as such. You don't even live in the same city as her, so how can you tell what "the looks of him" are? Pictures don't show a person's personality. If he's an idiot, whatever. She has to learn the hard way to pick quality guys. It's none of your business, so leave her alone.

I agree here. You are being a little over-protective here. I mean 3 years at this age is not the worst. It is hard to stay in ones grade. Say something to her about him if you really do have some concerns that ARE warranted. otherwise, just maybe forget about it.
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#45 mystic_knight
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All i can say is speak to her. If she is 100% adamant that she likes him, just guide here with safe sex practices. Tell her to make sure she keeps some protection with her.. This may be one of the hardest things to talk about to your female cousin but its better than finding her knocked up so to say or any STD begetting her.