What do woman want from men exactly? To be perfect but not too perfect?

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#1 Second_Hokage
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I just dont understand what woman want, they give you vague answers like, he has to be tall but not too tall, he has to talk but not talk too much, he has to be sensitive but not too sensitive? Whaaaa? No one is perfectly balanced!

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#2 Apocalypse97
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They don't know what they want
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This is why you regulate women

Just tell em to shut up and take your dick.

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#4 CoolSkAGuy
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They don't know what they wantApocalypse97
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#5 nontroll
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They don't know what they wantApocalypse97
Ding ding ding. Women want a winner, it all comes down to that. Don't believe movies, nice guys get none. You gotta be a dick, it's want they want.
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#7 ghoklebutter
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Ok.
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#8 Yurahze
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They want the kind of men which do not exist
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#9 001011000101101
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This is why you regulate women

Just tell em to shut up and take your dick.

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Excellent!
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#10 Jynx_1991
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[QUOTE="Apocalypse97"]They don't know what they wantnontroll
Ding ding ding. Women want a winner, it all comes down to that. Don't believe movies, nice guys get none. You gotta be a dick, it's want they want.

^ Not always true. While I cannot speak for every girl out there, the qualities I look for in a guy have nothing to do with a guy being a "dick," which is such a huge turnoff btw. Intelligence, kindness, and confidence is what I look for in a guy.

Any girl that likes cocky jerks is just asking for trouble. Bad boys are so overrated lol.

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Do you know what you want in a woman?
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Money

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#13 nontroll
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[QUOTE="nontroll"][QUOTE="Apocalypse97"]They don't know what they wantJynx_1991

Ding ding ding. Women want a winner, it all comes down to that. Don't believe movies, nice guys get none. You gotta be a dick, it's want they want.

^ Not always true. While I cannot speak for every girl out there, the qualities I look for in a guy have nothing to do with a guy being a "dick," which is such a huge turnoff btw. Intelligence, kindness, and confidence is what I look for in a guy.

Any girl that likes cocky jerks is just asking for trouble. Bad boys are so overrated lol.

I can be all three of those while being a dick. Except kindness, to the person I'm being a dick to, which probably isn't you if we're gonna screw. So yeah.
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#14 Ugalde-
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You have to be cool.
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#15 horgen  Moderator
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What they want changes through the month... IT goes in cycles :P
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#16 Jynx_1991
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My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.

And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.

Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.

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My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.

And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.

Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.

Jynx_1991

I agree 100%. It's amazing how many people ignore those things blithely.

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#18 nontroll
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[QUOTE="Jynx_1991"]

My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.

And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.

Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.

ghoklebutter

I agree 100%. It's amazing how many people ignore those things blithely.

Nah it's all not true, just be a dick
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#19 nontroll
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trust me guys
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My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.

And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.

Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.

Jynx_1991
So true. This is basic advice, yet sometimes I admit it and try to act like the "cool" guy which is pretty embarrassing to admit actually.
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#21 super600  Moderator
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Most women(which are all the reasonable ones) want men to be themselves and to not focus on being a perfect friend or boyfriend to them.

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#22 jesuschristmonk
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They don't know what they wantApocalypse97
Amazed this thread kept on going.
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#23 fidosim
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Do you know what you want in a woman?MistressMinako
Attractive, but not too attractive, otherwise she might leave me for someone else. Smart, but not too smart, because I want intelligent conversation but not a know-it-all. Fun and spontaneous but not so fun and spontaneous that she seems insane. Flirty, but not a whore. Driven and successful, but not so successful that she becomes the main breadwinner, because that would be an affront to my masculinity. See? Completely unambiguous.
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#25 Barbariser
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Not all women have the same tastes, so naturally the question "what's the balance" is a meaningless one, because that actually varies from woman to woman.

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#26 bebexo
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mhm, just be yourself and you'll know you'll get the right one that likes you for YOU, and not one that later down the track will see who you really are and change their mind. all girls aren't the same, so we look for different traits .
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#27 nontroll
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[QUOTE="bebexo"]mhm, just be yourself and you'll know you'll get the right one that likes you for YOU, and not one that later down the track will see who you really are and change their mind. all girls aren't the same, so we look for different traits .

hey guys look im a girl check out my avatar its me
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#28 fidosim
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[QUOTE="nontroll"][QUOTE="bebexo"]mhm, just be yourself and you'll know you'll get the right one that likes you for YOU, and not one that later down the track will see who you really are and change their mind. all girls aren't the same, so we look for different traits .

hey guys look im a girl check out my avatar its me

I have a hard time believing your username, mister.
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#29 nontroll
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[QUOTE="fidosim"][QUOTE="nontroll"][QUOTE="bebexo"]mhm, just be yourself and you'll know you'll get the right one that likes you for YOU, and not one that later down the track will see who you really are and change their mind. all girls aren't the same, so we look for different traits .

hey guys look im a girl check out my avatar its me

I have a hard time believing your username, mister.

hahaha, I'm just a dick, I'm not troling, i'm existing.
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#30 deactivated-5d0e4d67d0988
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He has to be human, but not too human.....

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#31 AussieePet
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All i want is love , idk what the other girls want
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#32 fidosim
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He has to be human, but not too human.....

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That was Nietzsche's problem. :(
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All i want is love , idk what the other girls wantAussieePet
dick
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#34 Zeviander
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They want someone to tell them what they want.
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#35 mAArdman
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let me ask the female hive mind

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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]

[QUOTE="Jynx_1991"]

My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.

And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.

Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.

nontroll

I agree 100%. It's amazing how many people ignore those things blithely.

Nah it's all not true, just be a dick

God you are dumb.
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Money and a car where I'm from.
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All i want is love , idk what the other girls wantAussieePet
So no hugs then?! :D
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#39 WilliamRLBaker
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yeah pretty much already been said they dont know what they want.

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#40 THE_DRUGGIE
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Who knows?

Some women get all hot and bothered when you roll up in a Cadillac. Some women get all gooey when a guy's wearing an eyepatch.

They're all their own planet of fetishes.

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#41 MrGeezer
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I just dont understand what woman want, they give you vague answers like, he has to be tall but not too tall, he has to talk but not talk too much, he has to be sensitive but not too sensitive? Whaaaa? No one is perfectly balanced!

Second_Hokage
How about this...you focus on the few women who you care about, and then concern yourself with what THEY want? I mean, you know that women are actually PEOPLE, right? Anytime someone brings up a "men are all the same" kind of criticism, people here adamantly defend themselves, saying stuff like "I may be a man, but first and foremost I'm an independent agent capable of free thought. You can't describe me as just another mindless numbered sheep in the herd." Yet, when it comes to women, it's all "women are all the same, they do that, they do this...I can't figure them out." Well, maybe it's time to stop thinking of all women as just women. If there's a woman for whom you want to understand, then stop asking what WOMEN want and start thinking about what SHE wants. Otherwise, it's sort of like the time when one of my friends gave me a Sir Mixalot CD for my birthday. I gave no indication that I would like it. But hey...I'm black and we all like the hip-hop, right?
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#42 deactivated-5d0e4d67d0988
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[QUOTE="October_Tide"]

He has to be human, but not too human.....

fidosim

That was Nietzsche's problem. :(

Indeed, Human, all too human.

All i want is love , idk what the other girls wantAussieePet

Love? Is that what we are calling it now. Whatever floats your boat.

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#43 MikeMoose
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Honestly, they want drama. I was in a year long relationship a while back where I treated her like a princess, we never argued and I thought everything was perfect. Next thing I knew, she cheated on me because she "got bored". Females are ridiculous.

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#44 deactivated-5d0e4d67d0988
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Honestly, they want drama. I was in a year long relationship a while back where I treated her like a princess, we never argued and I thought everything was perfect. Next thing I knew, she cheated on me because she "got bored". Females are ridiculous.

MikeMoose

Should have punched her in the face. Chicks dig it when you treat them like crap.

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#45 indzman
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They don't know what they wantApocalypse97

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My wife always find something to complain about, women are very hard to live with
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#47 one_plum
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Teh confidence

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#48 sayyy-gaa
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This is a simple answer. Women want an (at least reasonably) attractive dude that will listen to them, value their opinion, and give them input in the relationship. Having money helps too.

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Woman always want men to call them beautiful...... Calling them Ugly is not an option and could lead to suicide ... ugggg .....ly