I just dont understand what woman want, they give you vague answers like, he has to be tall but not too tall, he has to talk but not talk too much, he has to be sensitive but not too sensitive? Whaaaa? No one is perfectly balanced!
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I just dont understand what woman want, they give you vague answers like, he has to be tall but not too tall, he has to talk but not talk too much, he has to be sensitive but not too sensitive? Whaaaa? No one is perfectly balanced!
[QUOTE="Apocalypse97"]They don't know what they wantnontrollDing ding ding. Women want a winner, it all comes down to that. Don't believe movies, nice guys get none. You gotta be a dick, it's want they want.
^ Not always true. While I cannot speak for every girl out there, the qualities I look for in a guy have nothing to do with a guy being a "dick," which is such a huge turnoff btw. Intelligence, kindness, and confidence is what I look for in a guy.
Any girl that likes cocky jerks is just asking for trouble. Bad boys are so overrated lol.
Ding ding ding. Women want a winner, it all comes down to that. Don't believe movies, nice guys get none. You gotta be a dick, it's want they want.[QUOTE="nontroll"][QUOTE="Apocalypse97"]They don't know what they wantJynx_1991
^ Not always true. While I cannot speak for every girl out there, the qualities I look for in a guy have nothing to do with a guy being a "dick," which is such a huge turnoff btw. Intelligence, kindness, and confidence is what I look for in a guy.
Any girl that likes cocky jerks is just asking for trouble. Bad boys are so overrated lol.
I can be all three of those while being a dick. Except kindness, to the person I'm being a dick to, which probably isn't you if we're gonna screw. So yeah.My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.
And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.
Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.
I agree 100%. It's amazing how many people ignore those things blithely.My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.
And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.
Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.
Jynx_1991
I agree 100%. It's amazing how many people ignore those things blithely. Nah it's all not true, just be a dick[QUOTE="Jynx_1991"]
My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.
And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.
Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.
ghoklebutter
So true. This is basic advice, yet sometimes I admit it and try to act like the "cool" guy which is pretty embarrassing to admit actually.My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.
And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.
Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.
Jynx_1991
Do you know what you want in a woman?MistressMinakoAttractive, but not too attractive, otherwise she might leave me for someone else. Smart, but not too smart, because I want intelligent conversation but not a know-it-all. Fun and spontaneous but not so fun and spontaneous that she seems insane. Flirty, but not a whore. Driven and successful, but not so successful that she becomes the main breadwinner, because that would be an affront to my masculinity. See? Completely unambiguous.
Not all women have the same tastes, so naturally the question "what's the balance" is a meaningless one, because that actually varies from woman to woman.
[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]I agree 100%. It's amazing how many people ignore those things blithely. Nah it's all not true, just be a dickGod you are dumb.[QUOTE="Jynx_1991"]
My advice is just be yourself (I know it's such a cliche but it's true) despite how difficult that can be at times, and don't ever feel compelled to change your interests/hobbies just to please a girl or guy (if your gay If you have to change who you are to try and please someone, it won't work forever in that it shows through the way you talk, act, etc. Confidence will always be your biggest assest which is very attractive, at least for me anyways. It's cool talking to a guy that's passionate about something he truly loves, vs the ones that lie about what they do for fun and that kind of stuff.
And if the girl doesn't like you for you, move on because she's probably not worth your time anyways.
Oh one more thing, as tacky as this is going to sound, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Some people I've met believe that finding that special someone will magically change everything and make them happy. So not true.
nontroll
Who knows?
Some women get all hot and bothered when you roll up in a Cadillac. Some women get all gooey when a guy's wearing an eyepatch.
They're all their own planet of fetishes.
How about this...you focus on the few women who you care about, and then concern yourself with what THEY want? I mean, you know that women are actually PEOPLE, right? Anytime someone brings up a "men are all the same" kind of criticism, people here adamantly defend themselves, saying stuff like "I may be a man, but first and foremost I'm an independent agent capable of free thought. You can't describe me as just another mindless numbered sheep in the herd." Yet, when it comes to women, it's all "women are all the same, they do that, they do this...I can't figure them out." Well, maybe it's time to stop thinking of all women as just women. If there's a woman for whom you want to understand, then stop asking what WOMEN want and start thinking about what SHE wants. Otherwise, it's sort of like the time when one of my friends gave me a Sir Mixalot CD for my birthday. I gave no indication that I would like it. But hey...I'm black and we all like the hip-hop, right?I just dont understand what woman want, they give you vague answers like, he has to be tall but not too tall, he has to talk but not talk too much, he has to be sensitive but not too sensitive? Whaaaa? No one is perfectly balanced!
Second_Hokage
[QUOTE="October_Tide"]That was Nietzsche's problem. :(He has to be human, but not too human.....
fidosim
Indeed, Human, all too human.
All i want is love , idk what the other girls wantAussieePet
Love? Is that what we are calling it now. Whatever floats your boat.
Honestly, they want drama. I was in a year long relationship a while back where I treated her like a princess, we never argued and I thought everything was perfect. Next thing I knew, she cheated on me because she "got bored". Females are ridiculous.
MikeMoose
Should have punched her in the face. Chicks dig it when you treat them like crap.
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