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#1 Shenmue_Jehuty
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When looking for a possible girlfriend or boyfriend what is your look/personality ratio. For me it is 30/70(30% looks, 70% personality). What is yours?
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#2 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Totally depends on the girl, every time.
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#3 Dylan_11
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40/60 probably, I like a girl that takes care of herself and cares about the way she looks but I also like a girl that I can talk to for hours on end without conversation awkwardness and all that jazz ;)
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#4 DrSponge
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Using a scale is stupid...Both are important to me.
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#5 -starman-
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the ratio? i'm not sure i could pinpoint it.

it's pretty important that i find her physically attractive. if that's not there, then friendship is a better option.

but if i find her boring, annoying, vapid, then no matter how hot she is, a relationship won't last.

So, 50/50 I guess? She doesn't need to be a bombshell, but I don't think I could sleep with a troll. She doesn't need to be a rocket scientist, but she needs to have her own opinions.

Luckily I found a girl who is all that and more.

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#6 -Twilight-
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50/50? If I'm looking for a girlfriend (meaning a romantic relationship) I better find her ridiculously attractive.
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#7 BiancaDK
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uber polarization ftl i cant differentiate between looks and personality. Often, youll notice that how a person carries him/herself whenever displayed in public, has alot to do with their personality :| Clothes, tattoos, shoes, accessories. They all have a saying.
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#8 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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i cant differentiate between looks and personality.BiancaDK
yeah, people you like seem more attractive than if you didn't like them
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#9 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]i cant differentiate between looks and personality.Jandurin
yeah, people you like seem more attractive than if you didn't like them

indeed :)
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#10 00game00
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i really don't know. about the same
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#11 Morning_Revival
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Every girl Ive gone out with was atleast pretty (to me), but the personality is what really matters.
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#12 Quick-Time
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Bit of both. No ratio.
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#13 -starman-
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Every girl Ive gone out with was atleast pretty (to me), but the personality is what really matters.Morning_Revival

Looks to bed her. Personality to wed her.

That's what my friend always says.

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#14 z4twenny
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i need to find her attractive but ya know everybodies tastes on that are different and the older you get the less looks matter and the more important a personality is. if i date a chick she needs to have a seriously kick ass personality. i'd take really awesome mildly attractive girl over really hot barely tolerable chick any day (i've had both, so i can say this without question)
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#15 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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80/20 I'd say.
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#16 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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80/20 I'd say.jointed
so, what is it about boxxy, then? :o
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[QUOTE="Morning_Revival"]Every girl Ive gone out with was atleast pretty (to me), but the personality is what really matters.-starman-

Looks to bed her. Personality to wed her.

That's what my friend always says.

LOL! Im gonna start saying that now xP
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#18 00game00
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[QUOTE="Morning_Revival"]Every girl Ive gone out with was atleast pretty (to me), but the personality is what really matters.-starman-

Looks to bed her. Personality to wed her.

That's what my friend always says.

they don't have to be exclusive though. and cant you bed and wed.
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#19 DrSponge
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[QUOTE="-starman-"]

[QUOTE="Morning_Revival"]Every girl Ive gone out with was atleast pretty (to me), but the personality is what really matters.00game00

Looks to bed her. Personality to wed her.

That's what my friend always says.

they don't have to be exclusive though. and cant you bed and wed.

No one has sex once they're married :(
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#20 z4twenny
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80/20 I'd say.jointed

hey as long as you're not superficial:roll:

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#21 xTheExploited
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probably like 60/40.
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#22 DrSponge
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[QUOTE="jointed"]80/20 I'd say.z4twenny

hey as long as you're not superficial:roll:

This is jointed you're talking to here :P
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[QUOTE="jointed"]80/20 I'd say.Jandurin
so, what is it about boxxy, then? :o

This sacle does not apply to boxxy, her wisdom and outer beauty is above such mortal rustics.
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#24 -starman-
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haha, i sure hope that's true! i'm getting married in May, so I guess I'll find out.

honestly, he's wrong about women about 80% of the time, and pretty much every relationship he's had has ended in a train wreck.

but it still makes me laugh.

edit: whoops, quoted the wrong person. meant to quote Dr. Sponge.

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[QUOTE="jointed"]80/20 I'd say.z4twenny

hey as long as you're not superficial:roll:

I like hot girls...sue me. If a girl has a very good personality but isn't attractive, she'd be a great friend. It's not as if I'll completely reject her. I just don't want to have a sexual relationship with someone who's not attractive.
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#26 cr4zychri5
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I just asked a friend to hook me up with one of her friends. Couldn't think of a person to ask to our school's formal, so I took the easy way out. Apparently she's attractive, and we should really get along. Still haven't actually talked to her, but I got her MSN and that's a start. Fingers crossed. Anyway, I wouldn't want a relationship with a person I didn't like, no matter what she looked like.
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Really depends on the girl. In the long run personally is the best, but if you have a unattractive woman as your girlfriend, you will find it increasinly hard to stay with her.
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#28 z4twenny
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[QUOTE="z4twenny"]

[QUOTE="jointed"]80/20 I'd say.jointed

hey as long as you're not superficial:roll:

I like hot girls...sue me. If a girl has a very good personality but isn't attractive, she'd be a great friend. It's not as if I'll completely reject her. I just don't want to have a sexual relationship with someone who's not attractive.

don't get me wrong, i like hot chicks too. i'm not saying i'd date some nasty chick, but i wonder if you've ever had to endure hearing a girl prattle endlessly onwards about trite boredom.

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#29 deactivated-58188738395f3
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I'm not gonna lie. Her face, eyes and nose matter to me alot so I guess it's about 55% for looks and 45% for personality. In many cases it's possible to know the personality from looks if there's really a match between them but in many other cases looks can be deceiving so in many times I simply delude myself.
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#31 Nifty_Shark
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I'm afraid it is not a numbers game.
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50/50. she is as hot as she is nice999realthings
So if she's ugly and a right *****, she passes muster? :o
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#33 AirGuitarist87
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In all honesty it varies from girl to girl. I'm willing to make sacrifices in either department.
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#34 SpidersRMe
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50/50, I guess. I need both.
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#35 mindstorm
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It really varies. There has to be at least some redeeming value if I'm going to date someone... Example, I'm not going to date a screaming yeti from hell...
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#36 Blitz_Nemesis
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50/50? If I'm looking for a girlfriend (meaning a romantic relationship) I better find her ridiculously attractive.-Twilight-
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#37 GTR2addict
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40/60 probably, I like a girl that takes care of herself and cares about the way she looks but I also like a girl that I can talk to for hours on end without conversation awkwardness and all that jazz ;)Dylan_11
wow that is definately my answer
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#38 luke1889
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50/50. They're equally important to me.
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#39 bigblunt537
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50/50
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#40 foolio_67
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Looks are extremely important to begin the relationship, but from then on personality is absolutely the most important factor.
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#41 Bloodbath_87
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I don't think I could put a number on it.
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#42 deactivated-58188738395f3
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Looks are extremely important to begin the relationship, but from then on personality is absolutely the most important factor.foolio_67

True looks are important in the first time before you know the person. It gives you the first impression.

David DeAngelo says that for men looks are more important than for women. He says that most women care more about personality than looks. He says that women care more about how a man handles what he has.

http://e-phero-x.com/pheromone/files/Double%20Your%20dating.pdf

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#43 AAllxxjjnn
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Usually personality is most important for me, because even if the chick was hot, if her personality was annoying like Boxxy i wouldn't be able to stand her for more than an hour.
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#44 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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Hmm...When I'm looking for a guy, I take personality into mind way more than looks. I care more about talking to them than looking at them, but physical traits do factor in a bit. I'd say my ratio is something like 90/10, with personality being 90 and looks being 10.
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#45 HybridPhoenix
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When looking for a possible girlfriend or boyfriend what is your look/personality ratio. For me it is 30/70(30% looks, 70% personality). What is yours?Shenmue_Jehuty
40/60....or 50/50
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#46 remmbermytitans
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Totally depends on the girl, every time.Jandurin
Bingo.
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#47 Dark_Knight6
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I can't really put in number form. People who have attractive personalities often begin to look more physically attractive, in my eyes.

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#48 Forerunner-117
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50/50? If I'm looking for a girlfriend (meaning a romantic relationship) I better find her ridiculously attractive.-Twilight-
Yep, pretty much.
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#49 xpnaisooosweetx
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it's always been 40/60 for me. with my serious relationships its always the 40/60 scale. i need substance more than looks. BUT if it's just a casual relationship and this is for the shallow side of me, i do a 70/30 scale.
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#50 wizard90
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LOL so you think because someone looks good, that takes away the good from their personality? That if there ugly they must be good? :S