Stuck up girl asks you out?

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#1 Kimbo_Slyce
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What if a girl you hate, but is hot and high up in the "food chain" (work place, high school, college, etc) asks you out? Would you accept or REJECT? Why the hell did I make a thread about this? About three days ago a member of an elitist group of airheads asked me out, despite seemingly refusing to acknowledge my existance and condescend towards me (I noticed her staring at me a few times :/). That must have been heremessed up way of screaming, "HEY FERRIS BEULLER! I LIKE YOU!"

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#2 Atmanix
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If I hate her why would I date her?

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#3 spazzx625
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Why would anyone reject her?
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#4 Serraph105
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What if a girl you hate, but is hot and high up in the "food chain" (work place, high school, college, etc) asks you out? Would you accept or REJECT?

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that would be your big chance to tell her to **** off.
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#6 fastesttruck
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Shed have to be fun to be around for me to consider it
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#7 astrozombie37
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I would never date anyone I hate.:?

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#8 fastesttruck
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I wouldn't date someone i hated. That's just weird :?

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you could think you hate them but really like them
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#9 Vandalvideo
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Why would anyone reject her?spazzx625
I would. I'm more interested in personality. I have my own social status to leach off of.
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#10 markop2003
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REject, i don't see why anyone would date someone they hated.
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#11 mindstorm
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Back in high school there were a few girls that would flirt with me. While they were beautiful, they very much fit the description of "stuck up." I never had a desire to date any of them and thus, didn't. To put this in context, I wasn't the most popular or best looking, just many had the impression that I was one of the few that would do something with my life. In other words, if anyone was expected to make money in the future, it would have been me (from their imagining). Thus, there would be a few to flirt with me. Heck, one of them only ever referred to me as her husband. >_>
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#13 XilePrincess
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By "high up on the food chain" do you mean she's more powerful in what she's doing than you, or more popular? that's no reason to automatically decline. But if you hate her for any reason other than because she's above you in said "food chain" then why would you even entertain the idea of dating her?
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#14 xhellcatx
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If I choose to hate someone, its for a Very valid reason, so.. No. Not a chance. In fact, I would take that opportunity to tell them exactly how I felt about them.
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#15 kidsmelly
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If I don't know them to well I might say yes maybe the person actually has a good personality. If I know them good enough and I think their personality sucks then no.

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#16 thriteenthmonke
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I'd accept, because she might eat me otherwise.
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#17 Mr_Leonis
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lol, I see all the comments here. Some people don't date for love you know. On topic: It would be kinda weird if a girl I dislike or likes to annoy me would randomly ask me out. I'd feel a little uncomfortable. ...buuuuuut if she's serious. go on and date her. pretend that you like her and treat her like she's the best person in the world. then when she feels like she can't live without you...break it off. :twisted: Sometimes you have to fill in for Karma. :P

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#18 Arctic_Grillz
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idk..it depends on my mood.
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#19 spazzx625
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[QUOTE="spazzx625"]Why would anyone reject her?Vandalvideo
I would. I'm more interested in personality. I have my own social status to leach off of.

I think I would be willing to try to get to know someone better, but maybe I'm thinking too highly of my own actions...I'd probably be a jerk to her.
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#20 Wolls
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Sounds like by hate you are talking more about jealousy. I would never date someone i hate because i dont hate for no reason
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#21 cd_rom
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I value knocking people down a peg more than I value a date. Seeing as I wasn't the "cool" guy in high school, being rejected by me would have been humiliating for her. It would make me lol like I've never lol'd in my life.
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#22 Omega_Zero69
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i dont think i would go out with them if i didnt like her
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#23 CyleM
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Accept, then do her and leave her.
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#24 needled24-7
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in high school i might say yes. in college... maybe. if she was a ***** to everyone but nice to me, i would like that. for some reason, that's a turn on for me :P i've never had it actually happen, but i imagine that i'd like it.

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#25 wstfld
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Hell yes.
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#26 NightStalkerBX
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That would be a strange occurence, every girl I've ever liked has proven to be stuck up in their own way. Honestly, at this point I'd just turn them down, after watching them degrade themselves the way the have I'd want nothing to do with them dating-wise.

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#27 redstorm72
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I would go out with her. I've found that most of the times I've disliked someone, it's because I really didn't know them very well. Either I didn't understand where they were coming from, or they put up a shell because they didn't know me. Usually when I get to know these types of people, they are actually decent personality wise. So yeah, I would date her, get to know her, and if I still didn't like her after going out with her for a while, I would break it off.

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#28 Teenaged
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With sadness I would have to turn her down...

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#29 weezyfb
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id get all up in there

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#30 lloveLamp
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I'd accept, because she might eat me otherwise. thriteenthmonke
yeah, the food chain's a real ..
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#31 krunkmastax
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Well if I hate her she must have given me reasons to right? So then why would she ask me out? Hmmm.
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#32 Mystic-G
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I shall accept so I can get money from her. Hottness doesn't phase me when I hate them, but money does. But I guess I'd have to take one for the team here and there to keep the relationship afloat.

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#33 Symphonycometh
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Why would anyone reject her?spazzx625
I've done it before and hopefully won't have to do it again. They're so annoying just by walking up to you. To answer the TC, YES, YES I would reject her! It would take class A blackmail to get me to comply to Hell on Earth.
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#34 Poissons
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Get in, Get out, and on my way.
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#35 JPOBS
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hating someone because they are in a better social circle than you is dumb. even if they seem "stuck up" who the **** are you to be the judge of moral character. i'd give her a shot

also, its kinda pathetic to see all the people in this thread who wuld date her just to later hurt her feelings as some sort of revenge outburst for the cruelty the suffered during their unpopular high school years. sad really.

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#36 F1_2004
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Hit it 'n Quit it
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#37 GazaAli
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I would say no then hate myself because of it.
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#38 Kimbo_Slyce
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Original post updated.

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#39 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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I would say she's not my type and move on lol
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#40 Kimbo_Slyce
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hating someone because they are in a better social circle than you is dumb. even if they seem "stuck up" who the **** are you to be the judge of moral character. i'd give her a shot

also, its kinda pathetic to see all the people in this thread who wuld date her just to later hurt her feelings as some sort of revenge outburst for the cruelty the suffered during their unpopular high school years. sad really.

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Yeah it is. I wasnt too popular a while back but I'm nice to people now and hope they dont go through what I did. Look man I dont blame you for thinking I'm an douche for judging people, but you REALLY do not know these people. They are THE EPITOME OF DISGUSTING.

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#41 pianist
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I can't date someone who annoys me... but I wouldn't always jump to conclusions about a person over what you see on the outside.

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#42 WheresKinggiAt
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I'm getting from the tone of your posts that this hot girl is way out of your social group who "asked you out". I'd be careful that this wasn't some sort of trap - either she is looking to humiliate you or lost a bet of some kind.

If I was sure it was legitimate why not? You guys are confusing hanging out with someone and starting a relationship. First of all OP says girl is hot and he probably doesn't have many options so going out with any girl is +LifeValue. Secondly if you go out and the girl ends up being insufferable you just don't go out again its not very difficult.

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#43 Kimbo_Slyce
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I can't date someone who annoys me... but I wouldn't always jump to conclusions about a person over what you see on the outside.

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I wouldnt quite say annoyance...its more disgust. The thing is there might be something pretty hiding in the bowels of the beast!

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#45 metallica_fan42
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I wouldn't date her, but I'd have no problems doing other things.
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#46 Symphonycometh
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I'm getting from the tone of your posts that this hot girl is way out of your social group who "asked you out". I'd be careful that this wasn't some sort of trap - either she is looking to humiliate you or lost a bet of some kind.

If I was sure it was legitimate why not? You guys are confusing hanging out with someone and starting a relationship. First of all OP says girl is hot and he probably doesn't have many options so going out with any girl is +LifeValue. Secondly if you go out and the girl ends up being insufferable you just don't go out again its not very difficult.

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#48 WheresKinggiAt
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[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

I'm getting from the tone of your posts that this hot girl is way out of your social group who "asked you out". I'd be careful that this wasn't some sort of trap - either she is looking to humiliate you or lost a bet of some kind.

If I was sure it was legitimate why not? You guys are confusing hanging out with someone and starting a relationship. First of all OP says girl is hot and he probably doesn't have many options so going out with any girl is +LifeValue. Secondly if you go out and the girl ends up being insufferable you just don't go out again its not very difficult.

Symphonycometh

Some girls be crazy when you try to break-off a relationship. Be crazy!

There is no relationship unless you choose to enter one. Going out does not signal relationship. You could go out and have sex in the parking lot and it still isn't a relationship.

She probably won't act crazy in public anyway because of her reputation. Even if she does you can laugh it off and the hot popular girl going crazy because you rejected her is some of the best social proof you can get.

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#49 xTheExploited
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Yeah. I've gone out with that type of girl before so I reckon I would do it again.
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#50 rsiedelmann
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Nine times out of ten people aren't what they act like in high school. Watch how quickly all of those iron-clad social groups fall apart once everybody graduates. If all you've got against her is that she hangs out with a stuck up crowd, then maybe you should get to know her. Maybe she just thinks you seem nice. I mean, she went out on a limb by asking. The least you can do is turn her down privately and politely. It's pretty jerky to go into it with an attitude like you need to knock somebody down a peg just on principle. You wouldn't want someone doing that to you.