Hey guys, title really says it all. I think il explain the whole situation first. Its going to be pretty long so bare with me please.
Well me and my gf are both 26 years old and have been with each other for the past 4 years. Met her in my last year of College and have been with her since. We started living together about 3 months of getting together and everything was lovely, for about 2 years. Recession hit us hard, really hard. We both lost our jobs (I was programmer at a pretty large business and she was a hairdresser at a salon).
With no jobs, bills started to pile up and what not, eventually we had to leave our flat. My gf's grandma was moved to an old peoples home and with all things sorted, we were allowed to live at her grandmas house. Let me emphasise that despite all this happening, we were still rock solid. So we both got **** jobs to hold us over and some time passed. After a while, i found a really good job (programming) that pays brilliantly and is what i love. After a while, we were back on our feet but had grown attached the house/neighbours so we decided to stay, atleast for the short term.
She eventually quit her job since she HATED it which was fine by me as i was making enough to support 4 people (theres only 2 of us). So some time passed. I started to notice that she was acting differently. She was still very affectionate to me. But the way she was was different. As in looking guilty-ish and keeping to herself alot more. I was starting to get worried for her, the thought of her cheating did cross my mind but i passed it off because i thought she would never do it to me.
Then she started to get on her phone more. She was on her phone quite alot before both private and normal conversations but now, whenever i walked in to the room, she would start to whisper or go outside/to another room, ALWAYS.One of my bestfriends from High School who lives across our current home mentioned to me that she saw a guy leaving our home (while i was at work). I asked for a description and she gave me one, dont think it was anyone i knew. Oh i also forgot to mention. She also started to become very distant in the bed. Like i said, she was still very affectionate towards me but just didnt want to go there.
My friend is a housewife and is usually at home. I think she also knew something was up. I asked her to just look if this guy keeps coming and she did. I met up with her today and i was horrified to find out that the guy came to our house 5 times in a week (Im at work 6 days a week). She says they're in their for 2-3 hours.
Im so heart-broken right now and have been crying for the past hour (not yelling but tears constantly running down my face). I really loved this girl and was going to propose to her soon. But theres no going back, I could never forgive any partner of mine for cheating. It hurts too much.
Tommorow............im not going into work and have took my 2 week holiday (she doesnt know). Instead i'll be at my friends house looking through the window. When i see him go in, im going to wait a while and sneak into our house. i want her to be seen in her shame and beat the living day lightsout ofthat guy. Thats one thing im certain of doing.
As i sit here typing this, i look to my left and can see the cheater peacefully sleeping not knowing our worlds going to be crumbling down tommorow. And if he doesnt come tommorow, i will wait till he does show. I want to catch her in the act so theres no denial.
Sorry if theres alot of spelling mistakes guys, i dont think i could re read all of this. I really needed to get this all out.
**UPDATE**
FOR ****SAKEITS TRUE.
Its 11:42am here now. Im at my friends house and some man has came and she let him in. My friend said its the same man that keeps coming. My blood is boiling right now. I've read all the great suggestions you guys have posted but im just so angry right now i need to hurt him. Seeing how happy they looked on the front door......It hurts so much.
Im waiting 10 minutes and then going over, our back door doesnt make any sound when you enter so im going through there. My friend is coming too because i want her to see them in their shame. She asked to film it and i said no. Sorry guys, but i want to forget this as quickly as possible after and not be reminded.
OK IM GOING NOW, CAN'T WAIT ANY LONGER......
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