Is this pathetic?

21 years old and never had a girlfriend?

I'm 17 and have never had a girlfriend. But I'm also not very social and when I am around people, I've never really met a girl that I liked.

Go out and talk to a girl and demand that you need rid of your virginity.

Do a star wars kid video, then boom just got laid.

Depends. If you never met someone you're interested in, then no, it's not really pathetic. Either you have really high standards or you just weren't comfortable around other people. If you ever saw a girl that you liked and she walked up to you, said "Hey," and you shriveled up in a corner and cried, then yeah, that's pathetic. Rheiken

Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?xaos

Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?xaos

Why?

[QUOTE="xaos"]Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?Pffrbt

Why?

[QUOTE="xaos"]Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?SolidSnake35

soo true, gay men has 5 or more female friends who will claim that his their best friend, they even kiss each other in the cheeks.

[QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

[QUOTE="xaos"]Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?xaos

Why?

soo true, gay men has 5 or more female friends who will claim that his their best friend, they even kiss each other in the cheeks.

gugler990

[QUOTE="xaos"]Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?SolidSnake35

What, have you never met a f** hag?please excuse the crude term it's the only way I've ever heard it put, even by gay guys and the girls themselves.

Go out and talk to a girl and demand that you need rid of your virginity.

ThePerro

the only pathetic thing about it , is you asking if its pathetic.

Im 20 now and i have never had a real GF either. but i have been asked by many girls, and i have been out with some. But never the right ones at the right time.

foreveralone.jpg and feelsgoodman.jpg at the same time :P

[QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

[QUOTE="xaos"]Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?xaos

Why?

Why would that be easier than not having a girlfriend?

I guess it depends on what you're looking for in life. If having a girlfriend isn't or hasn't been a top priority, then I wouldn't call it "pathetic" that you haven't had one yet. Everyone matures and seeks those strong emotional bonds at different times, if at all. Ultimately you have to determine what is most important to you or what makes you most happy. Is it financial success? Going to school? Having a good job or career? Having good friendships? Having fun? Having good relationships with your family? Owning nice things? Feeling intellectually stimulated? I could go on, but I think you get the point. If having a girlfriend isn't one of the top priorities, then I don't think that you are any worse or any better than someone who is different.

Even if having a girlfriend is a top priority of yours - which is fine - I don't necessarily think that you're "pathetic." I'm having a hard time justifying that word anyway. I guess I just think that 21 is still really quite young. There's such an emphasis on losing your virginity and having bragging rights and all of that, but honestly, don't buy into the hype. Your sex life is your own business. Share it if you want, but ultimately it's personal, and everyone is ready at different times. No one is better or worse in that regard.

I'd also like to add that the vast majority of relationships started before age 21 end up failing anyway. High school relationships rarely amount to much more than just that. Of course there are the odd exceptions here or there. I suppose they do give you experience, but I still don't think that they're worth much. I had a few relationships in high school, and I don't feel like I'm really that much better off than if I'd not had any relationships in high school.

very pathetic

21 years old and never had a girlfriend?

pero2008

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="xaos"]Dude, I'm gay and I'd had several girlfriends by 21 :?Guybrush_3

What, have you never met a f** hag?please excuse the crude term it's the only way I've ever heard it put, even by gay guys and the girls themselves.

[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

Why?

Pffrbt

Why would that be easier than not having a girlfriend?

[QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

[QUOTE="xaos"] I was in rural Alabama through high school and it made my life easierxaos

Why would that be easier than not having a girlfriend?

That isn't a satisfactory answer.

[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

Why would that be easier than not having a girlfriend?

Pffrbt

That isn't a satisfactory answer.

It is you just don't get it.

It is you just don't get it.

gugler990

I get it, it's just not as descriptive as I wanted.

Only if you think it is.

21 years old and never had a girlfriend?

pero2008

not pathetic, but a little sad. You shouldnt be afraid of them, just get out there and talk to a few cuties. OR just take the easy route and try free online dating sites. warning though, some are scams, but a few are actually free.

1-Get a good degree

2-Get a good job

3-Get money and responsibility

4-Be a man

5-Lick the lady parts

There was this one girl that seemed to like me, and she asked if I had a girlfriend. I wanted to be funny so I said, "No, but it's alright because I have my dog." She did not understand the joke and took it the wrong way.

Never saw her again.

Nah, a good friend if mine is 19 and gorgeous, but the only person she's ever been with is my scuzzy friend.

Sometimes it's best to wait things out and land a good one.

Nah. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Its not like its a requirement for life, you just haven't met the right person yet.

21 years old and never had a girlfriend?

pero2008

I guess not.

I've been asked out. In my life I haven't had to ask out a girl they basically asked out me I either say no or I choke.

Nah, it's not pathetic.