Is it wrong to have sexual relations with your Best Friend?

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#1 usaaaaaa
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If one is a girl and the other is a guy, they're not girlfriend/boyfriend but they're having sex/phone sex/etc.


Personally I don' t think so, but that's probably biased seeing my situation right now.

What do you think?

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#2 Jaks_Secret
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Friends-with-benefits are never a bad thing.
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#3 elektrixxx
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Does it matter? Just do it.
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#4 fighter91
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is it a sex buddy? it's good to have those kind of friends.
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#5 freshgman
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yeah but the best friends things ends there.
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#6 Toriko42
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I have sex with my best friend, aka girlfriend =\
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#7 usaaaaaa
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I have sex with my best friend, aka girlfriend =\Toriko42

Nop

yeah but the best friends things ends there.freshgman

wat y

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#8 black_cat19
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If it doesn't harm the friendship, I guess it's ok.
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#9 Solid_Link22
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Hey Seinfeld did it to see if Elane was faking it and they were still freinds after so yeah it is ok.
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#10 Lansdowne5
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Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends. Anyway, that's the Christian input take it or leave it.
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#11 DJ_Novakain
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No, but it seems as though it would make things pretty damn awkward...
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#12 Link256
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So long as neither of the said friends are already involved relationship, morally, I do not see anything wrong with it.

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#13 Toriko42
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Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends. Anyway, that's the Christian input take it or leave it. Lansdowne5
This it OT

Sort of asking for it...
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#14 usaaaaaa
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No, but it seems as though it would make things pretty damn awkward...DJ_Novakain

Eh no not at all o.O

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#15 RabidChocobo1
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Well...if they feel like taking their relationship farther, shouldnt be too bad...If theyre just having sex....its weird that theyre "best" friends...
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#16 Ravirr
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seems dumb
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#17 esbastica
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if u were a guy couple i would say it's ok but sexual relations with a girl? i'm sorry ,it's wrong
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#18 Jazz_Fan
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It will get awkward I bet.

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#19 69ANT69
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If it doesn't effect the relationship then I guess its OK. In fact it would probably make the relationship stronger.

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#20 nirvana563
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I guess not. I suspose it depends on the situation.
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#21 ElectronicMagic
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I don't see anything wrong with it, I had something like that going with a friend of mine but she wanted to be boyfriend/girlfriend or go back to the way it was before and so we went back to the way it was before. It's really not as awkward as that sounds.
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#22 WhiteSnake5000
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Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends. Anyway, that's the Christian input take it or leave it. Lansdowne5
You have to keep in mind that not everyone is a Christian.
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#23 Lansdowne5
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[QUOTE="Lansdowne5"]Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends. Anyway, that's the Christian input take it or leave it. WhiteSnake5000
You have to keep in mind that not everyone is a Christian.

Which is why I said 'that is the Christian input' and also why I said 'take it or leave it'.

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#24 Lansdowne5
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I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children.
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#25 trick6952
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well it depends how long youve been friends for if it was for a couple of months i guess so
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#26 black_cat19
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I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5

Morals are completely subjective, there's very few things that are really universally right or wrong, most of it is more about culture and upbringing than anything else. You should have added the "christian input, take it or leave it" thing to this post as well.

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I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5

1. Morality is subjective. What you think is immoral isn't necessarily so for everyone else.
2. Marriage isn't really that big a deal, besides the tax breaks.
3. There is absolutely no reason to think homosexuality is wrong.
4. Slippery slope arguments are fail.
5. Sex with a consenting, legal of age adult is completely different than sex with a young child or animal.

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#28 1mpaler-w6rbnd
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Not really. Why should there be limitations to friendship? think of it as a way to bond. :D
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I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5
Eh... What I believe is that consensual sex with any woman and man, as long as they aren't related in blood, and are at least of accetpable and close to equal age (Let's say a 25 year old woman having sex with a 30 year old man) Perfectly fine, it's not hurting anyone. You don't need Christianity to prove what is morally right and what is wrong. Sex with children is sick and twisted and should never be accepted in society. Animals cannot consent to sex due to a barrier in communication so therefor it should remain illegal. As for gay sex. What do you care if a woman wants to have sex with another woman or a man on a man? It's a personal sexual preffrence, it's not invading your rights in any way. And keep in mind, there will always be straight people, and there will always be gay people. The difference? One will reproduce, the other will not. So yeah that's what I think. Sex is just sex. It doesn't matter, don't get anyone unintentionally pregnant, don't hurt anyone, and there's nothing wrong with it.
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#31 Greywyne
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[QUOTE="Lansdowne5"]I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. DJ_Novakain

1. Morality is subjective. What you think is immoral isn't necessarily so for everyone else.
2. Marriage isn't really that big a deal, besides the tax breaks.
3. There is absolutely no reason to think homosexuality is wrong.
4. Slippery slope arguments are fail.
5. Sex with a consenting, legal of age adult is completely different than sex with a young child or animal.

Haha, tell it like it is...

Also, what do you think cavemen did? If they didn't have sax outside of marrige you probably wouldn't exist as well as your morales

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#32 Funkyhamster
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Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends. Anyway, that's the Christian input take it or leave it. Lansdowne5

I have to say, I respect you for offering a viewpoint that contradicts the opinions of many here without trying to shove it down their throats like so many opinionated people these days do.

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#33 wizard90
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PHONE SEX LOL
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#34 Travo_basic
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I don't see why it would be a problem.
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#35 ArmoredAshes
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I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5

technically...it was like that in history before...while religion was around. Its just one big loop and will eventually go back to how it was. More of a concern who be wars and how people have to choose from heating their house and eating/buying medication. Those can and should be changed before people's sexual habits...but i digress haha..

yeah its not bad i guess if both people consent. just try not to screw up the friendship

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#36 black_cat19
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PHONE SEX LOLwizard90

What? It's great to "get things going". ;)

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#37 agentzero23
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PHONE SEX LOLwizard90

How does that work?

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#38 quadraleap
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I dont see anything wrong with it, but it can lead to complications, especially if one person wants more out of the relation than the other.

Course STD's and unplanned pregnancy can also add some problems as well.

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#39 Hungry_bunny
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...it would complicate things too much so I wouldn't do it, not if she was truly a best friend...

If I accidentally evolved feelings for her I'd probably have to struggle too much with jealousy to hang out with her normally when she's starting to date other guys.

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#40 hippiegamergirl
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Don't do it if you think you're going to fall for her or vise versa. And the minute one of you gets a boyfriend or girlfriend, the sex stops but you guys go back to being normal best friends. As long as the both of you are mature enough to not let it harm your friendship in anyway then its fine. (In my opinion)

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#41 Lonelynight
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I see it as cheating if you have a GF.
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#42 CptJSparrow
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Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends.Lansdowne5
if u were a guy couple i would say it's ok but sexual relations with a girl? i'm sorry ,it's wrongesbastica
Prove it, both of you.
I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5
You mean slipping away from what you believe is right.
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#43 black_cat19
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[QUOTE="Lansdowne5"]Yes it is wrong, that should be for Man and Wife not friends.CptJSparrow
if u were a guy couple i would say it's ok but sexual relations with a girl? i'm sorry ,it's wrongesbastica
Prove it, both of you.
I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5
You mean slipping away from what you believe is right.

Um, I DO believe esbastica was j/k...

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#44 CptJSparrow
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Um, I DO believe esbastica was j/k...

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But am I?
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#45 black_cat19
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[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

Um, I DO believe esbastica was j/k...

CptJSparrow

But am I?

Ooh, got me! :P

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I don't know what society is coming to. Morals are constantly slipping. We accept sex outside marriage. We basically accept gay sex, and even parterships between same sex couples we now accept. I guess in a few years sex with animals will be accepted too. And then of course with children. Lansdowne5

:roll: And your proof that gay sex, sex outside of marriage and gay marriage is wrong is...?

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#47 Blackfriend8
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Friends-with-benefits is the best kind of relationship
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#48 totalmachine
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Friends-with-benefits are never a bad thing.Jaks_Secret

What he said.

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#49 Vuud
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is it gay if it's with your clone?
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#50 pugsy44
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If it doesn't harm the friendship, I guess it's ok.black_cat19