I kind of messed up with a girl. I need OT's wise advice.

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

Ask Lai, he'll know what to do.

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

Ask Lai, he'll know what to do.

heeweesRus

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

the_bi99man

Maybe its not a definite no, but a way of saying "dont come onto me like that", or she could have seen the assgrab as a joke because I said her ass was big enough.

It was the best ass I've ever touched btw.

[QUOTE="the_bi99man"]

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

lightleggy

Maybe its not a definite no, but a way of saying "dont come onto me like that", or she could have seen the assgrab as a joke because I said her ass was big enough.

It was the best ass I've ever touched btw.

Then you MUST persist.

I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking.

lightleggy

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

[QUOTE="the_bi99man"]

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

the_bi99man

Maybe its not a definite no, but a way of saying "dont come onto me like that", or she could have seen the assgrab as a joke because I said her ass was big enough.

It was the best ass I've ever touched btw.

Then you MUST persist.

[QUOTE="the_bi99man"]

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

lightleggy

Maybe its not a definite no, but a way of saying "dont come onto me like that", or she could have seen the assgrab as a joke because I said her ass was big enough.

It was the best ass I've ever touched btw.

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

[QUOTE="the_bi99man"]

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

VaguelyTagged

Maybe its not a definite no, but a way of saying "dont come onto me like that", or she could have seen the assgrab as a joke because I said her ass was big enough.

It was the best ass I've ever touched btw.

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

lightleggy

Looks like the ass grab worked, go forth brother.

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

GummiRaccoon

Looks like the ass grab worked, go forth brother.

Why would you grab her ass? I mean, you don't want to go so slow that she thinks of you too much as a friend, but that is way over the top.monkeytoes61

Besides, everyone saying "WHY YOU GRABBED HER ASS FOR DAWG?" I'm sure any straight guy would have done the same :Plightleggy

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]If she says she wants to go out with you again, then that obviously means she wasn't repulsed. Honestly, you came on way too strong and you surely put her in an uncomfortable spot at first. I don't know many girls that would agree to, "Hey, let's make out although we've never been together and haven't seen each other in a good while." She seems interested. Just let her get comfortable with you.Shottayouth13-

This seems like good advice to me!

Wow. You're horrible.

Her reactions were a bit confusing so just meet her again and see what her real intentions are.

Her reactions were a bit confusing so just meet her again and see what her real intentions are.

johnd13

[QUOTE="johnd13"]

Her reactions were a bit confusing so just meet her again and see what her real intentions are.

LJS9502_basic

But he made it clear he wants to be more than friends and so the ass-grabbing could very well be meant in a "romantic" manner(as it was). I would expect her to feel a little uncomfortable about it after his proposal to make out. And she just casually asked to go out again sometime - it seems to me like she could be a bit undecided so I would guess he might have a chance with her(even a small one).

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

Her reactions were a bit confusing so just meet her again and see what her real intentions are.

johnd13

But he made it clear he wants to be more than friends and so the ass-grabbing could very well be meant in a "romantic" manner(as it was). I would expect her to feel a little uncomfortable about it after his proposal to make out. And she just casually asked to go out again sometime - it seems to me like she could be a bit undecided so I would guess he might have a chance with her(even a small one).

[QUOTE="johnd13"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] What's confusing? She thinks he's a friend. Friends go out. She did tell him she wasn't interested in the next step with him....LJS9502_basic

But he made it clear he wants to be more than friends and so the ass-grabbing could very well be meant in a "romantic" manner(as it was). I would expect her to feel a little uncomfortable about it after his proposal to make out. And she just casually asked to go out again sometime - it seems to me like she could be a bit undecided so I would guess he might have a chance with her(even a small one).

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="johnd13"]

But he made it clear he wants to be more than friends and so the ass-grabbing could very well be meant in a "romantic" manner(as it was). I would expect her to feel a little uncomfortable about it after his proposal to make out. And she just casually asked to go out again sometime - it seems to me like she could be a bit undecided so I would guess he might have a chance with her(even a small one).

Master_Live

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

the_bi99man

lmao yep.  sounds immature and kinda like teasting to me.  I see no harm in pursuing it tactfully if you arent worried about hurting your friendship, but of course I am not saying this could be a great relationship either :P.

I'd say you ended well lol

The first thing was quite ballsy and kinda funny although I'd understand why she'd think you came on a bit strong. You grabbed her ass pretty much making your intentions clear and she wants to see you again.

Dude, you did good, no worries. Just bring that bravado next time and sculpt it into actual confidence

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

the_bi99man

I'll recommend what others said, don't go too hard on her, it might come off as desperate. Deff keep being physical, however try not to randomly touch her privates, unless you know for sure it's safe. And again I think someone else said this, NEVER ask to kiss, just do it if it feels right. 

As for my personal advise, open some doors for her. Girls love that kind of stuff! After a while she'll open something else for you (if you know what I mean :cool: )

I smell a success story brewing here. Keep us updated on the following week. ;)

[QUOTE="the_bi99man"]

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

mingmao3046

Jack off.

44 posts and nobody has asked for pics?

44 posts and nobody has asked for pics?

Barbariser

Pics or BS!

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You didn't mess up man.  If she let you squeeze her ass, and then agreed to hang out with you, you are relatively safe.  Unless you whip your c*ck out and slap her with it, you can establish a GF/BF relationship with this one.

InEMplease

[QUOTE="InEMplease"]

Pics or BS!

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You didn't mess up man.  If she let you squeeze her ass, and then agreed to hang out with you, you are relatively safe.  Unless you whip your c*ck out and slap her with it, you can establish a GF/BF relationship with this one.

lightleggy

[QUOTE="heeweesRus"]

Ask Lai, he'll know what to do.

lightleggy