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#1 joeytentz
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I really want to get a boyfriend, but am not sure how to go about doing it.

I know some of you will suggest bars, but I want a long term relationship, not random sex. And some of those places are just downright scary.

Also AIDS/STD is another concern of mine. I just had hernia surgery, so I won't be having any sex for awhile anyway.

I was really in love with one of my friends, but he was just not attracted back. Plus he has a gf now. He was in this one relationship, where he bet the other guy through another friend. It just by chance happenened that he was homosexual.

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#2 randomhero5677
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I really want to get a boyfriend, but am not sure how to go about doing it.

I know some of you will suggest bars, but I want a long term relationship, not random sex. And some of those places are just downright scary.

Also AIDS/STD is another concern of mine. I just had hernia surgery, so I won't be having any sex for awhile anyway.

I was really in love with one of my friends, but he was just not attracted back. Plus he has a gf now. He was in this one relationship, where he bet the other guy through another friend. It just by chance happenened that he was homosexual.

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Well....all I can do to help is say Be Yourself. That's the key. They Either love you (Figure Of Speech sorry) or hate you.
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Take out ad-space in the newspaper.
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#4 SSBFan12
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[QUOTE="joeytentz"]

I really want to get a boyfriend, but am not sure how to go about doing it.

I know some of you will suggest bars, but I want a long term relationship, not random sex. And some of those places are just downright scary.

Also AIDS/STD is another concern of mine. I just had hernia surgery, so I won't be having any sex for awhile anyway.

I was really in love with one of my friends, but he was just not attracted back. Plus he has a gf now. He was in this one relationship, where he bet the other guy through another friend. It just by chance happenened that he was homosexual.

I think you should find a guy that is just like you that could work.
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#6 Oleg_Huzwog
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Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.
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#7 jakndaxter7223
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hold an interview? Idk, just an idea
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#8 gotdangit
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Well are you in school? If you are then ask someone out or hang out with a boy you like more to get him to like you.

If you are out of school get a job and maybe find someone there.

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Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.Oleg_Huzwog
win win ;)
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#10 RiseAgainst12
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well i hear a swift boot in the genitils is a good way to get a new boyfriend.
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#11 Rocky32189
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Do know anyone who you are interested in? If so, ask them out. Do you have any friends that could hook you up with someone?
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#12 chikinlad
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seduce them
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#13 Teenaged
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First try and build frienships with potential guys so that you may possibly know that they are homosexual before suggesting a relationship.
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#14 randomhero5677
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^Win. Or just become Bi-Sexual:| Or neither.
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#15 Nevlim
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Talk to whoever you want to be GF with and hang with him like if he was a good friend and wait till he asks to be you BF or if you are really disparate you ask him
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Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.Oleg_Huzwog
Hey, that's how I met mine; well, actually the sign said "WILL **** FOR BOOZE" but you get the idea
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#17 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.xaos
Hey, that's how I met mine; well, actually the sign said "WILL **** FOR BOOZE" but you get the idea

You can find just about anything you desire if you stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign.

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#18 Travo_basic
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Meet some guys and get to know them.
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#19 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.Oleg_Huzwog

Hey, that's how I met mine; well, actually the sign said "WILL **** FOR BOOZE" but you get the idea

You can find just about anything you desire if you stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign.

:shock: I'll sure try it, I suppose...
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#20 XilePrincess
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there's probably a youth group where you live for LGBTQ so i'd suggest there.
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#21 megagene
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Spend more time here in OT.
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#22 194197844077667059316682358889
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Spend more time here in OT.megagene
Talk about a target-rich environment
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#23 Blackfriend8
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you need to go to bars and stuff why do you assume you cant find a guy in a bar?? not all guys are scum that go to bars. work on yourself your self image inside and out. Exercise and just go out and have fun in general. Dont go out to just pick up a guy go out to have fun with friends and if other guys see you are a fun person they will flock to ya.
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#24 the_foreign_guy
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There's a ton of people on the Gamespot OT looking for a girlfriend. I think you've found a good place.
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#25 Loporadaso
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There's a ton of people on the Gamespot OT looking for a girlfriend. I think you've found a good place.the_foreign_guy

Somehow I don't think the TC is a girl:P

Seriously, either see if any of your friends know someone who you might like or go out to a bar with a few friends and see if you meet someone you like there. If yo do then ask them for their phone number then call them and ask if they want to meet up for coffee or lunch etc.

Try not to worry about it, you will eventually meet the right person for you, you just have to out yourself out there.

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#26 fanboy-buster
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Go to San Francisco
Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.Oleg_Huzwog
That + High Heels + ??? = PROFIT!!!
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This topic is a new twist..

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#28 StrawberryHill
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]Stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign describing exactly what you're looking for.xaos
Hey, that's how I met mine; well, actually the sign said "WILL **** FOR BOOZE" but you get the idea

So, you are willing to "bowl" for booze? Interesting.

Are you in school, topic person?...Because school is a great place to meet people. Offer someone to "study" with you.

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Take out ad-space in the newspaper.Darth_Tyrev
Lol, teh m0st l0jicol anser :P
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#30 Dark_Knight6
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Just drop bars of soap in highly crowded areas, worked for me.;) On a serious note, if you're in school (highschool, college), find out if your school has a LGBT group. I dunno, that may work.

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#31 Lois_Saphir
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a bar is not exactly a bad idea. Yes, many go there for random sex and such, but others go there for social networking. And that is the means of finding a bf. you have to know people who know people. Make friends. Talk to people. Interact with othersat wherever it is you find yourself. School? Then talk in class with you mates. Like that. Just focus on making friends first, and when you find a friend you think you feel for as more than jus a friend, then pursue that.
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#32 cyberdarkkid
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Are you hot?
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#33 Toriko42
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Fine a guy with common interests, that's how I got into my relationship.
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Make him the best sandwich of his life, best way to a guys heart is through his stomach:P
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#35 Tjeremiah1988
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you can always try love-meet.net
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#36 Dark_Knight6
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Make him the best sandwich of his life, best way to a guys heart is through his stomach:PDanteSuikoden

You...that's....wow. Why did I never think of that? :o.....:P

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#37 Tjeremiah1988
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you need to go to bars and stuff why do you assume you cant find a guy in a bar?? not all guys are scum that go to bars. work on yourself your self image inside and out. Exercise and just go out and have fun in general. Dont go out to just pick up a guy go out to have fun with friends and if other guys see you are a fun person they will flock to ya. Blackfriend8
I wouldnt recommend a bar. Yes all guys arent scums but the chances of running into one in a bar is rather high. Same goes for a club, the place where its easy to fool girls. Also TC, how old are you? IF you are in HS it shouldnt be hard to find but hard to keep.
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#38 Deihjan
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Just get out and hunt, war-brother *raises spear over head and roars* We must stand alone on the field of battle, in the search for a victim to call "love".
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#39 observer77
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LGBTQ related events and such things are the easiest way to find a "real" partner because most people participating in them are intersted in important things like poitics and stuff well if you go for that kind of guy. and it also depends on f you are ok with becoming friends first my friend has had lots of lovers but he only ever becomes involved with men that start out as his friends because he has had time ot know them and not have that sexual tension in the way so yeah friends is the best way into anyones heart.
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#40 cyberdarkkid
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Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused here
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#41 Deihjan
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Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused herecyberdarkkid
a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebz
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#42 trentman7
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Touch his shoulder? Just find someone (if you're in high school) who's company you enjoy or like talking to, go on a date etc and see what happens. If you're graduated then possibly meet someone at a job, or go to a dating site.
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[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused hereDeihjan
a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebz

Probably. I'm not sure how many girls go on internet forums looking for a boyfriend. :D
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#44 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused hereremmbermytitans
a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebz

Probably. I'm not sure how many girls go on internet forums looking for a boyfriend. :D

besides me? Zilch. Maybe I'm just special like that :D
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[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused hereDeihjan
a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebz

oh I see........
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#46 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused herecyberdarkkid
a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebz

oh I see........

you..saw.. nothing! *snarl*
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#47 Tauruslink
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]Wait is TC a guy or a girl? I'm confused herecyberdarkkid
a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebz

oh I see........

And you asked him if he was hot!:lol:

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#48 remmbermytitans
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[QUOTE="remmbermytitans"][QUOTE="Deihjan"] a guy I reckon. inb4 no gurlz on teh interwebzDeihjan
Probably. I'm not sure how many girls go on internet forums looking for a boyfriend. :D

besides me? Zilch. Maybe I'm just special like that :D

So you're on GameSpot looking for a boyfriend? :P
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#49 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="remmbermytitans"] Probably. I'm not sure how many girls go on internet forums looking for a boyfriend. :Dremmbermytitans
besides me? Zilch. Maybe I'm just special like that :D

So you're on GameSpot looking for a boyfriend? :P

well, I'm on Gamespot, and I'm looking for a boyfriend... does that qualify? *sigh* now that I think about it.. Gosh I'm a looser :cry:
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#50 KHfanboy2
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Maybe you should talk to Theokhoth. :P