How should I ask this girl out?

  • 52 results
  • 1
  • 2

This topic is locked from further discussion.

Avatar image for AP_Ravens52
AP_Ravens52

261

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#1 AP_Ravens52
Member since 2010 • 261 Posts

Hello, I am in High school. I have a Graphic Imaging 2 class at the end of the day. There is this girl who I've only known for a short while and had little talking with. She sits beside me at the computers ( I chose a spot next to her). I've seen her at the begining of class and after take little looks at me. As I look at her, her eyes look away. I don't know if this means she likes me or she just looks around the room and somtimes at people. She seems really nice and shy. Somtimes when i make the teacher laugh at somthing i make she'll look over and laugh too. I would ask her out but here are some setbacks.

* I never went straight up to a girl and asked her out ( i have had GF's before)

* I am nervous

* I know the worst thing she can say is "no" but I'm still nervous outa my skull

*The room is mostly silient, so.... kinda acward for the only voice to be a guy asking a girl out.

* She doesn't take the bus so IDK where to ask her.

*None of my friends are in that class so I can't find out if she would say yes even if I asked her

So what do you think I should do. It's hard for me to figure this out on my own

Avatar image for pygmahia5
pygmahia5

7428

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#2 pygmahia5
Member since 2007 • 7428 Posts
ball up and and ask her!
Avatar image for Swanogt19
Swanogt19

24159

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 10

User Lists: 0

#3 Swanogt19
Member since 2008 • 24159 Posts

Ask to talk to her alone

Avatar image for Gladestone1
Gladestone1

5695

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#4 Gladestone1
Member since 2004 • 5695 Posts

Girls like a guy with self confidence nuff said..Go up to her an say are you free tommorow..Maybe get a phone number is a start..Just say hello and start from there..Confidence is the key to every thing..Dont be cocky just confident..

Avatar image for mahlasor
mahlasor

1278

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#5 mahlasor
Member since 2010 • 1278 Posts

If you are nervous, your instincts are telling you "this is not good, dont do it." Go with your instincts.

Avatar image for Ravensmash
Ravensmash

13862

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#6 Ravensmash
Member since 2010 • 13862 Posts
Get to know her better.
Avatar image for AP_Ravens52
AP_Ravens52

261

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#7 AP_Ravens52
Member since 2010 • 261 Posts
Main thing is I don't want to ask her in the middle of class. I want to ask her alone. I dont know where to do that.
Avatar image for mohfrontline
mohfrontline

5678

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 11

User Lists: 0

#8 mohfrontline
Member since 2007 • 5678 Posts
well you have to know her first. If you know her, then meet her in the hallway and ask her out. If your only option is to ask during class where everyone can hear, you probably haven't talked enough.
Avatar image for Overlord93
Overlord93

12602

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#9 Overlord93
Member since 2007 • 12602 Posts

try consulting her on work or anything to do with chit chat going before asking her

Avatar image for DroidPhysX
DroidPhysX

17098

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#10 DroidPhysX
Member since 2010 • 17098 Posts

All i know is, if you dont, you will be going through the 'What If' thoughts for a long time

Avatar image for Ravensmash
Ravensmash

13862

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#11 Ravensmash
Member since 2010 • 13862 Posts
Main thing is I don't want to ask her in the middle of class. I want to ask her alone. I dont know where to do that.AP_Ravens52
Get to know her better then, not to be harsh (and not to say give up), but the fact that she occasionally looks at you and sometimes laughs does not = wants to hook up.
Avatar image for xxFallenAngel
xxFallenAngel

753

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#12 xxFallenAngel
Member since 2011 • 753 Posts

lol i cant stop thinking of you being a troll because you got a WoW troll of ur avy. :lol: but anyways yes go ask her out. confidence my friend.

Avatar image for Oleg_Huzwog
Oleg_Huzwog

21885

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#13 Oleg_Huzwog
Member since 2007 • 21885 Posts

Somtimes when i make the teacher laugh at somthing i make she'll look over and laugh too.AP_Ravens52

From this statement, we can conclude that she likes to mimic the behavior of her teachers. It's a common form of brown nosing.

Ask your teacher out. Date for a week or two. The brown noser will be eager to copy your teacher by dating you.

Avatar image for cd_rom
cd_rom

13951

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#14 cd_rom
Member since 2003 • 13951 Posts

[QUOTE="AP_Ravens52"]Somtimes when i make the teacher laugh at somthing i make she'll look over and laugh too.Oleg_Huzwog

From this statement, we can conclude that she likes to mimic the behavior of her teachers. It's a common form of brown nosing.

Ask your teacher out. Date for a week or two. The brown noser will be eager to copy your teacher by dating you.

well I was going to do one of my usual advice, but I can't top this logic.
Avatar image for stanleycup98
stanleycup98

6144

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 6

User Lists: 0

#15 stanleycup98
Member since 2006 • 6144 Posts
Add her on Facebook
Avatar image for -Fromage-
-Fromage-

10572

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 5

User Lists: 0

#16 -Fromage-
Member since 2009 • 10572 Posts
Go up to her and tell her not to make any sudden movements as you have something important to say. Then look around to make sure nobody else is looking, then flat out ask her.
Avatar image for gugler990
gugler990

2009

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#17 gugler990
Member since 2010 • 2009 Posts

"Face your enemy on too battle, if ever you shall fail Commit seppuko to regain your honor upon death." -Japanese Proverb

Apply this quote to your current situation and you will find success

Avatar image for cd_rom
cd_rom

13951

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#18 cd_rom
Member since 2003 • 13951 Posts
Also, if you wank in the bathroom just before you ask her out, your body will release pheromones that her subconscious will pick up and make her conscious more attracted to you.
Avatar image for BreakTheseLinks
BreakTheseLinks

2601

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#19 BreakTheseLinks
Member since 2005 • 2601 Posts

Exposing yourself should do the trick.

Avatar image for mems_1224
mems_1224

56919

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#20 mems_1224
Member since 2004 • 56919 Posts
dude just ask her out after class or have lunch with her or something. if she says no who cares? its just high school. chances are in a few years you wont speak to anyone you went to school with anyways.
Avatar image for not_wanted
not_wanted

1990

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#21 not_wanted
Member since 2008 • 1990 Posts

Main thing is I don't want to ask her in the middle of class. I want to ask her alone. I dont know where to do that.AP_Ravens52
WTF man? You make it sound like the moment the class ends she disappears or something. Can't you just ask her after the class ends?

Avatar image for metroidfood
metroidfood

11175

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#22 metroidfood
Member since 2007 • 11175 Posts

Just do it when you're leaving class. Everyone's shuffling around and you can ask her what she's doing later.

Avatar image for mahlasor
mahlasor

1278

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#23 mahlasor
Member since 2010 • 1278 Posts

dude just ask her out after class or have lunch with her or something. if she says no who cares? its just high school. chances are in a few years you wont speak to anyone you went to school with anyways. mems_1224

I disagree, it can be harmful to your self esteem when you hype yourself up, only for it all to come crashing down. Only asks if you are mentally prepared to be rejected.

Avatar image for muffincakes87
muffincakes87

3913

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#24 muffincakes87
Member since 2008 • 3913 Posts

[QUOTE="mems_1224"]dude just ask her out after class or have lunch with her or something. if she says no who cares? its just high school. chances are in a few years you wont speak to anyone you went to school with anyways. mahlasor

I disagree, it can be harmful to your self esteem when you hype yourself up, only for it all to come crashing down. Only asks if you are mentally prepared to be rejected.

Do not listen to this comment. You shouldn't have an emtional scar after one rejection in highschool. If she says no, then you have your whole life still ahead of you. Just ask her and don't be a wuss. No risk, no reward.

Avatar image for mems_1224
mems_1224

56919

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#25 mems_1224
Member since 2004 • 56919 Posts

[QUOTE="mahlasor"]

[QUOTE="mems_1224"]dude just ask her out after class or have lunch with her or something. if she says no who cares? its just high school. chances are in a few years you wont speak to anyone you went to school with anyways. muffincakes87

I disagree, it can be harmful to your self esteem when you hype yourself up, only for it all to come crashing down. Only asks if you are mentally prepared to be rejected.

Do not listen to this comment. You shouldn't have a emtional scar after one rejection in highschool. If she says no, then you have your whole life still ahead of you. Just ask her and don't be a wuss. No risk, no reward.

yea, if anything getting rejected will only give you thicker skin for future rejections. plus girls dig confidence.
Avatar image for Suzy_Q_Kazoo
Suzy_Q_Kazoo

9899

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#26 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
Member since 2010 • 9899 Posts

Try stopping her after class and asking. Just rip off that band-aid and do it! Don't listen to anyone who discourages you :P

Avatar image for Wii4Fun
Wii4Fun

1472

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#27 Wii4Fun
Member since 2008 • 1472 Posts

Get to know her better.Ravensmash

Avatar image for Mr_Alexander
Mr_Alexander

1686

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 8

User Lists: 0

#28 Mr_Alexander
Member since 2007 • 1686 Posts

Ask to talk to her alone

Swanogt19
That's kinda creepy, just add her on facebook or IM.
Avatar image for CptJSparrow
CptJSparrow

10898

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#29 CptJSparrow
Member since 2007 • 10898 Posts
You've got to get through the nevousness crap. chances of getting with her if you don't ask? Slim to none. Chances are better if you take the risk. Most people are friendly once you break the ice, and it really doesn't take anything extraordinary to do that.
Avatar image for -Big_Red-
-Big_Red-

7230

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#30 -Big_Red-
Member since 2006 • 7230 Posts
Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.
Avatar image for Nick3306
Nick3306

3429

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#31 Nick3306
Member since 2007 • 3429 Posts
[QUOTE="Swanogt19"]

Ask to talk to her alone

Mr_Alexander
That's kinda creepy, just add her on facebook or IM.

Sadly this is what todays world has come to......
Avatar image for CptJSparrow
CptJSparrow

10898

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#32 CptJSparrow
Member since 2007 • 10898 Posts
Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.-Big_Red-
You mean her shoulder?
Avatar image for Ravensmash
Ravensmash

13862

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#33 Ravensmash
Member since 2010 • 13862 Posts
[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.CptJSparrow
You mean her shoulder?

I wouldn't touch her when I was asking her on a date and barely knew her. Honestly, get to know her better then worry about asking her out on a date. You have the perfect opportunity to talk and become friendly (thus at ease around her) in class.
Avatar image for -Big_Red-
-Big_Red-

7230

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#34 -Big_Red-
Member since 2006 • 7230 Posts
[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.CptJSparrow
You mean her shoulder?

No her back. Listen. If you touch a womans back too high she'll think that you just want to be friends, too low she'll think that you just want to f***. You want it to be just right. Like the lower middle of her back.
Avatar image for CptJSparrow
CptJSparrow

10898

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#35 CptJSparrow
Member since 2007 • 10898 Posts
[QUOTE="CptJSparrow"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.Ravensmash
You mean her shoulder?

I wouldn't touch her when I was asking her on a date and barely knew her. Honestly, get to know her better then worry about asking her out on a date. You have the perfect opportunity to talk and become friendly (thus at ease around her) in class.

You must be new here.
Avatar image for mems_1224
mems_1224

56919

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#36 mems_1224
Member since 2004 • 56919 Posts
Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.-Big_Red-
awful idea, TC dont do that unless you want her to think you're creepy.....
Avatar image for rcignoni
rcignoni

8863

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#37 rcignoni
Member since 2004 • 8863 Posts
Never hurts to ask, dude.
Avatar image for -Big_Red-
-Big_Red-

7230

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#38 -Big_Red-
Member since 2006 • 7230 Posts
[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]Just make sure you are walking behind her when she walks out of the classroom, gently touch her back, her mid-lower back, and tell her that you like her/ETC.mems_1224
awful idea, TC dont do that unless you want her to think you're creepy.....

Let it play out in your head. Tell me what happens.
Avatar image for abentwookie
abentwookie

463

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 28

User Lists: 0

#39 abentwookie
Member since 2010 • 463 Posts

Just write a noting that says, "Hey I think you're as cute as a shaved hamster (*), would you like to go out sometime?" and then tie it to a big rock and throw it through the windshield of her car. If she doesn't call the police it means she is interested, :D

*

Avatar image for tepni
tepni

3214

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#40 tepni
Member since 2008 • 3214 Posts

Ask her out...but maybe get to know her first? Talk to her more. You can't tell by how she looks at you if she likes your or not, you're going to have to actually have conversations with her. Then go from there.

Avatar image for tocklestein2005
tocklestein2005

5532

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#41 tocklestein2005
Member since 2008 • 5532 Posts

slip her a note.

Avatar image for tocklestein2005
tocklestein2005

5532

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#42 tocklestein2005
Member since 2008 • 5532 Posts
Also, if you wank in the bathroom just before you ask her out, your body will release pheromones that her subconscious will pick up and make her conscious more attracted to you.cd_rom
:lol: good one dude.
Avatar image for darkmark91
darkmark91

3047

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#43 darkmark91
Member since 2006 • 3047 Posts

I am guessing facebook is blocked. So download this on the computers (I suggest putting it on a flashdrive, and make sure you update it before you go to school.)

http://download.cnet.com/Tor/3000-2092_4-10391040.html?tag=mncol;1

Then chat with her on facebook

Avatar image for th3warr1or
th3warr1or

20637

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 8

User Lists: 0

#44 th3warr1or
Member since 2007 • 20637 Posts
Also, if you wank in the bathroom just before you ask her out, your body will release pheromones that her subconscious will pick up and make her conscious more attracted to you.cd_rom
:lol:
Avatar image for GEE_WIZZ
GEE_WIZZ

428

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#45 GEE_WIZZ
Member since 2010 • 428 Posts

[QUOTE="Swanogt19"]

Ask to talk to her alone

Mr_Alexander

That's kinda creepy, just add her on facebook or IM.

Doing it on the facebook is creepy.

Avatar image for lamprey263
lamprey263

44685

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 10

User Lists: 0

#46 lamprey263
Member since 2006 • 44685 Posts
How should I ask this girl out? - like this! and get some Sex Panther, 60% of the time it works every time
Avatar image for GEE_WIZZ
GEE_WIZZ

428

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#47 GEE_WIZZ
Member since 2010 • 428 Posts

Thisworks everytime... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo2FzvftPGg&feature=related

Avatar image for jrhawk42
jrhawk42

12764

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 19

User Lists: 0

#48 jrhawk42
Member since 2003 • 12764 Posts

step 1: small talk (don't really expect her to talk back much, some girls talk too much, some talk too little)

step 2: flirt (small talk opens you up for some causal flirting, look it up if you're not sure how, basically you're preparing her for step 3)

step 3: ask her out (most guys will tell you just skip to step 3, but don't. Think of small talk and flirting as foreplay for asking her out. If you just skip to step 3 she's not going to be prepared, and it's just a disaster. Also don't take to long getting to step 3 or wait till you're sure she'll say yes. She'll assume you aren't interested and you get friendzoned.)

step 4: realize women are the devil (fact of life, not much else to say)

Avatar image for DreamnDayUnite
DreamnDayUnite

428

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#49 DreamnDayUnite
Member since 2011 • 428 Posts
Get to know her better first. You also need to finf if there is a place to ask her out aswell.
Avatar image for Hell-Lord
Hell-Lord

25

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#50 Hell-Lord
Member since 2010 • 25 Posts
Touch her shoulder.