Homsexuals born that way or turned that way through their life experiences?

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#1 caribo2222
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Homosexuality does it come into effect when the child is born?, or is it through life experience they have turned that way?

Beinga homosexual i believe we are born that way. I remember feeling attracted to guys from an early age.

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#2 FragStains
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Well, this looks like a fun thr.... *sprints out of thread*
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#3 Theokhoth
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Being a homosexual, I don't care; it's immutable either way.
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#4 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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We can only speculate...
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#5 metroidprime55
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I think your born that way.

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#6 DreamnDayUnite
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You are born gay
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#7 jimmyjammer69
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I've heard homosexual males are far more likely to be estranged from their fathers as children.
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#8 Overlord93
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Well, this looks like a fun thr.... *sprints out of thread*FragStains

*reclines in chair*

I say its nurture.....

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#9 markop2003
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I believe that it dosn't really matter either way.
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#10 Rizelea
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Life experiences. Most of it is nurtured as one goes to his life........ I think. It doesn't matter.
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#11 comp_atkins
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so if it is caused by raising a child a certain way, how should child be raised to ensure they don't "turn" homosexual? what if a person did raise their child in a manner to ensure heterosexuality and they still "turned" gay
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#13 xLFTMx
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I support gays in all ways, shapes, and forms, but I believe its entirely nurture. I dont think people are born straight or gay Its all about the enviroment they are raised in.

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#14 rawsavon
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I USED to think it was 'born that way' ...then I met Xaos
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#15 YellowOneKinobi
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My guess is that it can be either/or. I think probably some are born with their mind wired that way. In other instances, I can see how it's possible that certain events in someone's life (probably during younger years) could cause them to become homosexual, when otherwise they might not be. Just a guess.

Does it matter?

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#16 comp_atkins
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I support gays in all ways, shapes, and forms, but I believe its entirely nurture. I dont think people are born straight or gay Its all about the enviroment they are raised in.

xLFTMx
then how do siblings or even twins raised the same way end up having different preferences?
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#17 Rizelea
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[QUOTE="xLFTMx"]

I support gays in all ways, shapes, and forms, but I believe its entirely nurture. I dont think people are born straight or gay Its all about the enviroment they are raised in.

comp_atkins
then how do siblings or even twins raised the same way end up having different preferences?

Because twins aren't exactly the same person. They both have minds of their own to pick their own preferences
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#18 xLFTMx
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[QUOTE="xLFTMx"]

I support gays in all ways, shapes, and forms, but I believe its entirely nurture. I dont think people are born straight or gay Its all about the enviroment they are raised in.

comp_atkins

then how do siblings or even twins raised the same way end up having different preferences?

Because every brain is different. Presented with the same enviroment people might perceive it differently. Also, the enviroment cant be exactly the same of any two people unless its done in a scientific setting.

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#19 YellowOneKinobi
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[QUOTE="comp_atkins"][QUOTE="xLFTMx"]

I support gays in all ways, shapes, and forms, but I believe its entirely nurture. I dont think people are born straight or gay Its all about the enviroment they are raised in.

then how do siblings or even twins raised the same way end up having different preferences?

Even among twins living together, no two people ever have the EXACT same experiences in life. If I'm in a meeting with 10 people, we all walk away from it with our own views and perspectives.
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#20 Clydefrog92
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Born that way like some animals..gene defect (or not) prob good now that we need population control i hope it is more prominant

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#21 SkyWard20
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I think it's a little bit of both/depends on the case.

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#22 michaelP4
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It's already been scientifically proven that gay people do not choose to be gay There's been a series of detailed scientific studies that prove this. Even then, using logical thinking, being gay disadvantages people in society. They'll be discriminated against, treated differently and perhaps even killed for simply being gay so it would make no sense for someone to choose to be gay as there is really no advantage to it.
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#23 Leejjohno
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[QUOTE="comp_atkins"][QUOTE="xLFTMx"]

I support gays in all ways, shapes, and forms, but I believe its entirely nurture. I dont think people are born straight or gay Its all about the enviroment they are raised in.

YellowOneKinobi

then how do siblings or even twins raised the same way end up having different preferences?

Even among twins living together, no two people ever have the EXACT same experiences in life. If I'm in a meeting with 10 people, we all walk away from it with our own views and perspectives.

How you percieve it could be at least partly because of your orientation.

So basically, was it the egg, or the chicken?

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#24 Gen007
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I think it's a little bit of both/depends on the case.

SkyWard20

Yeah id say its both as well. Ive seen people who can swear theyve felt that way their whole life and ive also met people who link it to events in their lives. I think everyone has seen the female turned lesbian because she's tired of dealing with men at one point time. So its def a mix and of course everything in between.

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#25 xLFTMx
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It's already been scientifically proven that gay people do not choose to be gay There's been a series of detailed scientific studies that prove this. Even then, using logical thinking, being gay disadvantages people in society. They'll be discriminated against, treated differently and perhaps even killed for simply being gay so it would make no sense for someone to choose to be gay as there is really no advantage to it.michaelP4

Being raised in an enviroment that led them to their sexual orientation doesn't mean that they simply chose to be gay I dont' think anyone here is saying that being gay is just a simple decision that someone makes.

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I was born straight, so I can only assume that gay dudes are born gaythegerg

Pretty much this, i don't think there is a formula to turn gay.

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#27 Clydefrog92
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[QUOTE="thegerg"]I was born straight, so I can only assume that gay dudes are born gaymadsnakehhh

Pretty much this, i don't think there is a formula to turn gay.

Watch alot of oprah

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#28 mattisgod01
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Maybe a bit of both, some people are born that way and some people choose it based on the enviroment they are in. Isn't prison proof of this? Where most of the men who rape other men in prison gay before going in?

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#29 madsnakehhh
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[QUOTE="SkyWard20"]

I think it's a little bit of both/depends on the case.

Gen007

Yeah id say its both as well. Ive seen people who can swear theyve felt that way their whole life and ive also met people who link it to events in their lives. I think everyone has seen the female turned lesbian because she's tired of dealing with men at one point time. So its def a mix and of course everything in between.

But, is she really a lesbian then? i don't think so, she is just choosing to be one, so it doesn't mean she really feel it.

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#30 madsnakehhh
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[QUOTE="madsnakehhh"]

[QUOTE="thegerg"]I was born straight, so I can only assume that gay dudes are born gayClydefrog92

Pretty much this, i don't think there is a formula to turn gay.

Watch alot of oprah

Nah, that just make you retarded :)

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I believe that it dosn't really matter either way.markop2003
I disagree, especially if you're an advocate of gay rights. If people are gay by choice, then they aren't protected by the same discrimination rights as many other Americans. If however sexuality is genetic, then they are. Personally I believe that some gay people are born that way and others choose that lifestyle based on life experience and their environment.
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#32 lightleggy
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Homosexuality does it come into effect when the child is born?, or is it through life experience they have turned that way?

Beinga homosexual i believe we are born that way. I remember feeling attracted to guys from an early age.

caribo2222
I personally dont think it is...imo that would mean that homosexuality is a disease, which I dont believe
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it develops over time if you let it
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#34 mexicangordo
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Havn't you been paying attention to Lady Gaga? If she says they're," Born this way" then it must be true. She is they're leader after all. :P

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#35 Pirate700
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What's with all the curiosity on homosexuality on these forums?

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#37 Rizelea
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Maybe a bit of both, some people are born that way and some people choose it based on the enviroment they are in. Isn't prison proof of this? Where most of the men who rape other men in prison gay before going in?

mattisgod01
Meh. I just think it was their sexual urge. Can't find a woman, so they spot the next target.... >.> Topic wise. Like what I've said. The environment people had turns them into homosexuals..... sometimes......
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#38 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="caribo2222"]

Homosexuality does it come into effect when the child is born?, or is it through life experience they have turned that way?

Beinga homosexual i believe we are born that way. I remember feeling attracted to guys from an early age.

thegerg
I personally dont think it is...imo that would mean that homosexuality is a disease, which I dont believe

Haha. In what way would that make homosexuality a disease?

thats why I said "imo" and again imo because it would be congenite
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#39 samuraiguns
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I believe born, because I remember a point in my life due to constant rejection by females, I wanted to be gay....but, that didn't turn out too well as soon as I saw the naked males body my member turned to silly putty.

I say born, but, doesn't matter.

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#41 James161324
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Does it really matter.

Let people be who ever they wish to be.

And in before lock

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#42 Mordred19
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homosexuality is not a disease if it's genetic, it's just one of the many traits that make up human beings. to a degree, what we are is determined by genes, no way around it. homosexuality is not inherently harmful, seeing as homosexuals have the exact same mental competence as everyone else.

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#43 Sajo7
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Sexuality is confusing, I wouldn't feel right declaring it one way or the other.
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#44 nintendofreak_2
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It could very well be both nature and nurture...

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Top secret liberal gay rays as part of a vast homosexual conspiracy to turn everyone gay Even the teletubbies are in on it. And that's why god hates America and allowed 9/11 to happen.

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#46 Clydefrog92
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I encourage all men to be Gay!!

More women for meee!!!!

..or not

FOREEEEEEEEEEVEER ALOOOOOONE!

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there are certain periods in history that had spikes in homosexuality. which leads me to believe that it's at least possible to influence someones sexuality with enviroment. but there might as well be genetic reasons. we just dont know yet.
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#48 Mochyc
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there are certain periods in history that had spikes in homosexuality. which leads me to believe that it's at least possible to influence someones sexuality with enviroment. but there might as well be genetic reasons. we just dont know yet.lloveLamp
Maybe in those periods homosexuality was more accepted by society, thus more people felt free to come out of the closet.
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Being a homosexual, I don't care; it's immutable either way.Theokhoth
What she said.
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#50 Darthmatt
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People are born that way. I have an older relative who is gay and he was secretly gay back as early as the 1960's. He grew up, and lived most of his life in a middle class, family values suburbs. Not exactly the haven of gay culture that would give him homosexual experiences.