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#1 mr_poodles123
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Ok, so here is the full story: About 3 months ago, a kid at my school threw my bicicle down the stairs, and then i discovered that it was completely trashed. Well, winter break went by and i finally decided to bring it to the shop: The total? 93.72. I then told this kid that he owes me that much, and he says that "well you let me touch your bike, so it is half your fault" and agreed to pay me back 40 dollars. That was 3 weeks ago. Now, i sent him an e-mail saying that i need the money, and he just says that "I don't owe you anything" and claims that it is all my fault. When I ask him to give me his parents phone number, he just says no and that his parents won't talk to me. So, i am out 90 bucks, and this kid is not going to pay me back. What should i do? Find out his parents phone number? Call the police to report vandolism? What would you do?

Edit: Oh, and this kid weighs probably 80 pounds more than me, 2 inches taller, and freshman quarterback.

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#2 Dark__Link
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Get a job or a phone book?

Or you could kill his parents, make chili out of them and feed it to the bully at your own Chili Con Carnival...

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#3 barcx17
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You can use a phonebook.

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#4 Pffrbt
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Burn his house down.

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#5 rcignoni
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I would beat him up.
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#6 ImaPirate0202
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sue him

No wait, sue everyone.

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#7 mr_poodles123
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You can use a phonebook.

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I could go to the school and get his number, but i am not sure if that is a good idea to call his parents.
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#8 lamprey263
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file a police complaint for destruction of property, you could get the school to help you but schools usually back their sports players and treat anybody interfering with their sports like liars and crooks so I'd avoid that
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#9 ImaPirate0202
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[QUOTE="barcx17"]

You can use a phonebook.

mr_poodles123

I could go to the school and get his number, but i am not sure if that is a good idea to call his parents.

That's probably the best idea...

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#10 Pffrbt
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[QUOTE="barcx17"]

You can use a phonebook.

mr_poodles123

I could go to the school and get his number

You could use a phonebook.

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#11 RetroCity
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I think you're better off telling to your school's principal. That way, the kid will get expelled perhaps and he won'tbother you again.

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#12 mr_poodles123
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[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"][QUOTE="barcx17"]

You can use a phonebook.

ImaPirate0202

I could go to the school and get his number, but i am not sure if that is a good idea to call his parents.

That's probably the best idea...

Except that his parents will probably look at me as some rich white kid who wants money from free. "My mom would probably laugh and not take you seriously and wouldnt believe your side vs mine. Good luck. " That is what he said when i told him that. I heard some rumors that he told his parents that I just wanted money out of him.
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#13 ImaPirate0202
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[QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"] I could go to the school and get his number, but i am not sure if that is a good idea to call his parents.mr_poodles123

That's probably the best idea...

Except that his parents will probably look at me as some rich white kid who wants money from free. "My mom would probably laugh and not take you seriously and wouldnt believe your side vs mine. Good luck. " That is what he said when i told him that. I heard some rumors that he told his parents that I just wanted money out of him.

Hey, it all depends on how much you want that 90 dollars. Chances are they'll be more mature about it.

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#14 mr_poodles123
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[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"][QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

That's probably the best idea...

ImaPirate0202

Except that his parents will probably look at me as some rich white kid who wants money from free. "My mom would probably laugh and not take you seriously and wouldnt believe your side vs mine. Good luck. " That is what he said when i told him that. I heard some rumors that he told his parents that I just wanted money out of him.

Hey, it all depends on how much you want that 90 dollars. Chances are they'll be more mature about it.

I really want it, because I still have 6 more weeks of no allowance if i don't get it.
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#15 AutoPilotOn
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[QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"][QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

That's probably the best idea...

Except that his parents will probably look at me as some rich white kid who wants money from free. "My mom would probably laugh and not take you seriously and wouldnt believe your side vs mine. Good luck. " That is what he said when i told him that. I heard some rumors that he told his parents that I just wanted money out of him.

Hey, it all depends on how much you want that 90 dollars. Chances are they'll be more mature about it.

That kinda depends on the parents. My friend was having trouble with neighbor kids stealing stuff from his garage and when he confronted their parents they yelled at him and and told him to get his white ass off their property and that he was lying.
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#16 mr_poodles123
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[QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"] Except that his parents will probably look at me as some rich white kid who wants money from free. "My mom would probably laugh and not take you seriously and wouldnt believe your side vs mine. Good luck. " That is what he said when i told him that. I heard some rumors that he told his parents that I just wanted money out of him.AutoPilotOn

Hey, it all depends on how much you want that 90 dollars. Chances are they'll be more mature about it.

That kinda depends on the parents. My friend was having trouble with neighbor kids stealing stuff from his garage and when he confronted their parents they yelled at him and and told him to get his white ass off their property and that he was lying.

Ya, they are indian so...

(Not to be racist or anything)

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#17 no_more_fayth
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There's nothing more burly than a frosh quarterback.

Dude, just bite his balls.

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#18 lamprey263
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[QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"] I could go to the school and get his number, but i am not sure if that is a good idea to call his parents.mr_poodles123

That's probably the best idea...

Except that his parents will probably look at me as some rich white kid who wants money from free. "My mom would probably laugh and not take you seriously and wouldnt believe your side vs mine. Good luck. " That is what he said when i told him that. I heard some rumors that he told his parents that I just wanted money out of him.

I'd file a complaint with police because of this. The principle will have his hands tied because it's one word against another, when he asks the bully what happened if he lies then there's nothing he can do. If you file a complaint with police then maybe then maybe the bully will take the situation more seriously and stop messing around.
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#19 willx10121013
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So...have you not told your parents yet? Asking them first would most likely be the best idea...

Or egg/TP the kids house, if nothing else comes out of this at lest you'd feel better

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#20 mr_poodles123
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Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.
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#21 atony12
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Don't worry about height and weight differences, you can easily drop him if you have any idea on what your doing trust me. I'd go to the school first and if they don't do anything then go to the cops. Hes just a silly little freshman who cares if hes a QB
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#22 jdc6305
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Your parents would have to sue his parents. It sounds like you have a case though as long as you save your reciet for the cost of damages. You'll have to take him to small claims court and you can sue for the fileing fee which is $25-$50. You don't need a lawyer or anything. Your parents have to file the claim for you. Also it would be a good idea to let your parents and the principal know about the bully. Kids now adays take things too far sometimes. If that don't work walk up to him and kick him in the webbels. When he grabs them punch him in the face. Worse case scenario is you get your but kicked. That isIF he gets up.You'll probobly gain some respect from people. I did it before.

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#23 AutoPilotOn
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Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.mr_poodles123
thats not what I would expect..
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#24 Pffrbt
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Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.mr_poodles123

Could they be any more unhelpful and unsupporting?

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#25 -RocBoys9489-
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Get a hold of his parents, that's the best thing to do in your situation. Making it a legal decision would be a waste of your parent's time.
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#26 Dark__Link
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[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"]Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.Pffrbt

Could they be any more unhelpful and unsupporting?

How would he learn anything if they held his hand for everything..?
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#27 mr_poodles123
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[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"]Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.Pffrbt

Could they be any more unhelpful and unsupporting?

No, not really. Lol. They want me to stick up for myself, and learn the hard way.
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#28 Bloodseeker23
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Tsk, as a dude who played DLineman in HS, I woulda sack his sorry ass every opportunity I can get. Sound like a pompous bastard to me, report him up to your Bully Counselor thingy *we have this in HS, idk about you guys*

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#29 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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Get his parent's phone number from the school, phonebook or whatever and try speaking with them. If that doesn't work then file a police report.

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#30 jdc6305
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Get his parent's phone number from the school, phonebook or whatever and try speaking with them. If that doesn't work then file a police report.

Suzy_Q_Kazoo

If the kid is a jerk where do you think he probobly got it from? Some parents are more delenquent then thier kids.

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#31 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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[QUOTE="Suzy_Q_Kazoo"]

Get his parent's phone number from the school, phonebook or whatever and try speaking with them. If that doesn't work then file a police report.

jdc6305

If the kid is a jerk where do you think he probobly got it from? Some parents are more delenquent then thier kids.

Well I still think that order of steps is better than than the other way around, don't you?
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#32 XilePrincess
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Sucks somebody screwed with your bike, but you don't come back 3 months later saying he owes you. You bring it to the principal's attention right away so that it'd be documented that the vandalism happened on school property and witnesses could be asked questions THAT DAY, and get the damage looked at right away, to see how much it'd cost. Not wait and then come back later asking for money. You waited 3 months to try and get money back. You're out 90 bucks and that's your own fault, because you waited so long. Sucks that he trashed your bike, but you could have had it all sorted out a week after it happened, but you didn't do anything then. You snooze you lose.
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Ok, so here is the full story: About 3 months ago, a kid at my school threw my bicicle down the stairs, and then i discovered that it was completely trashed. Well, winter break went by and i finally decided to bring it to the shop: The total? 93.72. I then told this kid that he owes me that much, and he says that "well you let me touch your bike, so it is half your fault" and agreed to pay me back 40 dollars. That was 3 weeks ago. Now, i sent him an e-mail saying that i need the money, and he just says that "I don't owe you anything" and claims that it is all my fault. When I ask him to give me his parents phone number, he just says no and that his parents won't talk to me. So, i am out 90 bucks, and this kid is not going to pay me back. What should i do? Find out his parents phone number? Call the police to report vandolism? What would you do?

Edit: Oh, and this kid weighs probably 80 pounds more than me, 2 inches taller, and freshman quarterback.

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He may weight as much as 200 pounds, but dont we all men have certain weakspot that when kicked generates inglorious amounts of pain?
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#34 MHA2010
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tell the police. I think this is the best thung to do.
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#35 weezyfb
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its too late, that was 3 months ago, pay for it yourself
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#36 mercenaryy
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i would punch him on the stairs so he would fall down ... heyyy it's his fault he MET ME
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#37 Goobberzz
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Tell him you'll leave him alone in exchange for never pestering you again. Or go beat him up and demand the money.
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#38 supergoat777
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Ok, so here is the full story: About 3 months ago, a kid at my school threw my bicicle down the stairs, and then i discovered that it was completely trashed. Well, winter break went by and i finally decided to bring it to the shop: The total? 93.72. I then told this kid that he owes me that much, and he says that "well you let me touch your bike, so it is half your fault" and agreed to pay me back 40 dollars. That was 3 weeks ago. Now, i sent him an e-mail saying that i need the money, and he just says that "I don't owe you anything" and claims that it is all my fault. When I ask him to give me his parents phone number, he just says no and that his parents won't talk to me. So, i am out 90 bucks, and this kid is not going to pay me back. What should i do? Find out his parents phone number? Call the police to report vandolism? What would you do?

Edit: Oh, and this kid weighs probably 80 pounds more than me, 2 inches taller, and freshman quarterback.

mr_poodles123

1.workout, until you get strong (not really recommended)

2. TELL YOUR PARENTS OR CALL THE POLICE.

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#39 the_ChEeSe_mAn2
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Why did you wait 3 months???
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#40 Solid_Snake325
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Carve out his heart and eat it.
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#41 supergoat777
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[QUOTE="Pffrbt"]

[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"]Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.mr_poodles123

Could they be any more unhelpful and unsupporting?

No, not really. Lol. They want me to stick up for myself, and learn the hard way.

Then call the police or tell the teachers.

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Police - Vandalism

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#43 BornDEAD92
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Do what I always did. In my mechanics class, someone kept on picking on me and calling me a witch so I hit him with a tire iron. He sure shut up after that but thankfully he didn't call the police or anything. Tell your parents, they always know the best answer.
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#44 lasseeb
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Get a job or a phone book?

Or you could kill his parents, make chili out of them and feed it to the bully at your own Chili Con Carnival...

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There's nothing more burly than a frosh quarterback.

Dude, just bite his balls.

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You do that a lot?
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#46 Shmiity
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[QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

[QUOTE="mr_poodles123"][QUOTE="barcx17"]

You can use a phonebook.

I could go to the school and get his number, but i am not sure if that is a good idea to call his parents.

That's probably the best idea...

Second that. He's a freshman in highschool? His parents are the best option
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#47 LordQuorthon
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Baseball bat. Problem solved.

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#48 mikegtfc
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Yes, my parents know and say that it is beetween me and him, not them.mr_poodles123
They sound like wonderful parents.
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#49 Blaminator1221
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True story: Back when i was at elementary school there was this kid that bullied me all the time, i hit him with a wooden plank several times in a rare burst of rage and no one had bullied me since... I swear it's true so this is a honest advice. Stand up for yourself.

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#50 Alter_Echo
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Option A : Try to file a report even though it has been 3 months and likely wont go anywhere.

Option B : Get your parents to contact his parents even though it likely wont have any results.

Option C ( best option ) : Since you arent going to get **** from him regardless, beat his ass. Your parents cant break bad on you since they already said "its between you and him not us". You might get in trouble but it wont happen again and you may even save someone else down the road.