Having to be with someone you hate

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#1 Disturbed_Dude
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So I'm in this situation where I have to be around someone I hate. We used to be friends, but kept on fighting...and I basically said I don't want to associate with you anymore because I have better things to do then fight. Well the thing is, is that she is friends with my friends in which I always am going to be around her if I want to be with my friends.

So what should I do? Just play it cool and act like everything is ok? Completely ignore her....Ugh. Shes the type of person who makes mountains out of mole hills, and its like walking on eggshells with her. So if I ignore her shes probably going to go off...if I act like everything is normal we will probably continue fighting.:roll:
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#2 Shadow_Spinner
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Just use close ended replies when speaking with her. Dont answer her with a question at all....either that...or you could take the Jason approach....*machete*

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#3 Cyrax-Sektor
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Wait for her to make a move. Then follow-up with a low-risk reply.
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#4 CuDDKiDD
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If you really want to stop fighting and never have to talk to her again, just keep repeating what she says word for word. Keep it up as long as possible.
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#5 quadraleap
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Get all of your friends to disown her.

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#6 Shadow_Spinner
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You could use any of the above or below suggestions...but still...the Jason approach never fails. *machete*:roll:
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#7 MrGeezer
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And here it goes again. You "have" to be with her.

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If being with her is that damn bad, then don't be with her. If being with your friends outweighs the negative effects of being with the person who you hate, ten learn to deal with it.

Look, I hate my siblings, but I don't have to be with them. And they're my freaking brother and sister, my own flesh and blood. If I think that being with them on Christmas eve is all that bad, then I just plain don't have to go to my family's Christmas dinner. It really is that simple.
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#8 Disturbed_Dude
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Damnit, I'm having some problems posting. So my messages my not be the full length they are suposed to. Have no idea whats going on.
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#9 Disturbed_Dude
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Quoting Geezer

Well I do have to be with her somewhat. Because I drive my friend to school and vise versa who has his last with her, so if she is with him when we meet up...I atleast have to be around her for a time frame. I guess I could completely ignore all my friends if I really wanted to...but it seems a little unfair to them.