Do women find skinny guys with abbs really attractive still?

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#1 sonofsmeagle
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Just asking since back when i was in highschool the girls used to be like "OHHHHH he has abbs" when all it was, was a guy that was about 5'10 and 140 pounds with 5% body fat, and the chicks would find this attractive and a breif glance at my friends little brothers facebook has shown this is still the case.

Do women i:e over 20 find this attractive around the world because where i am most really dont once they reach 20.

And just another question, would you ladies and men (the ones who are attracted to men obviously) find a guy with a 6 pack more attractive than say a guy with a well built upperbody and no visible abdominal defenition.

And finally what about your stance on how a guys legs and glutes look, are you turned off by chicken legs and flat bum?

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#2 Pffrbt
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I find skinny guys really unattractive and abs don't really do anything for me. I prefer thicker guys.

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#3 Hate_Squad
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yes,they do.of course they prefer if you are slightly built(not too built).but being skinny with abs is successful enough with women

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#4 junglist101
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I think women, like men, like all different types of builds but there is this sweet spot where your ripped with abs but not skinny that all woman seem to like whether they admit it or not.

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#5 mack10
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I'm sorry OP but if you're over 20 and you're on gamespot asking women for advice for turning around your love life that we can only assume is lacking at the moment, you need to worry less about abs and worry more about taking a few risks here and there. Women are attracted to all sorts of men and the ones who are superficial to a point where they choose a man for his abs over all other things are usually beach barbies who spend 3 hours in front of a mirror every morning because their self esteem is too low without an inch thick layer of foundation and half a ton of mascara on their face. Don't know, maybe you're just as shallow and thats the kind of woman that does it for you but I prefer a real girl with a little more intellect and a little less glamour. They can be pretty hot and sexy too without all the fake. So look for something else and be confident in yourself and I'm sure you'll find Mrs. Sonofsmeagle with or without the abs (most women will tell you they're just bonus anyway).

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#6 junglist101
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with or without the abs (most women will tell you they're just bonus anyway).

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Women always down play a hot body but you should see there faces when a good looking guy with an awesome body walks by. Even the older women get all excited.

Also, that other stuff is non sense. Looking great simply gives you more selection. Peronally, I choose the regular looking chicks even though I could score 10's any day of the week.

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I think abs are over-rated. In fact, overly ripped abs dont look that good to me.

I prefer a nice chest (if we're talking about torso only).

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#8 mack10
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Peronally, I choose the regular looking chicks even though I could score 10's any day of the week.

You just completely complemented my post after calling it nonsense. It all comes down to taste. Just like you think you're a "10" I'm assuming since you think you can land "10s" yet you still go for "regular looking chicks", there are girls who would go for "regular looking guys" because while abs are as attractive to a girl as the hourglass figure or big boobs or whatever are attractive to a guy, they aren't things you stick around for if that's all there is. I dunno man but I'm just attracted to girls for their personalities over everything else as cliche as that sounds because I've been attracted to "10s" before and found them very repulsive for whatever reason and those attractions just shot out the door and vise versa with "regular looking girls". A hot body gives you attention but its not the only way, its the most shallow way though.
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#9 junglist101
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I think abs are over-rated. In fact, overly ripped abs dont look that good to me.

I prefer a nice chest (if we're talking about torso only).

Teenaged

You're right, sometimes ripped abs look weird. Just a flat stomach with a little definition looks nicer.

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#10 junglist101
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Peronally, I choose the regular looking chicks even though I could score 10's any day of the week.mack10

You just completely complemented my post after calling it nonsense. It all comes down to taste. Just like you think you're a "10" I'm assuming since you think you can land "10s" yet you still go for "regular looking chicks", there are girls who would go for "regular looking guys" because while abs are as attractive to a girl as the hourglass figure or big boobs or whatever are attractive to a guy, they aren't things you stick around for if that's all there is. I dunno man but I'm just attracted to girls for their personalities over everything else as cliche as that sounds because I've been attracted to "10s" before and found them very repulsive for whatever reason and those attractions just shot out the door and vise versa with "regular looking girls". A hot body gives you attention but its not the only way, its the most shallow way though.

I never said I was a 10 lol. You are assuming because someone is good looking they are shallow and not desirable which is just not true.

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#11 almasdeathchild
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it's the skinny guys with long hair these days if i remember correctly.

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#12 mack10
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I never said I was a 10 lol. You are assuming because someone is good looking they are shallow and not desirable which is just not true.

No I'm not. I'm saying there are good looking people who are undesirable for other flaws in them. I'm saying that choosing on looks alone is shallow. I'm not saying I wouldn't date an attractive girl because she's attractive. I'm saying her being attractive wouldn't be the defining factor for me. And you being a 10 is irrelevant I was making a point.

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I'm sorry OP but if you're over 20 and you're on gamespot asking women for advice for turning around your love life that we can only assume is lacking at the moment, you need to worry less about abs and worry more about taking a few risks here and there. Women are attracted to all sorts of men and the ones who are superficial to a point where they choose a man for his abs over all other things are usually beach barbies who spend 3 hours in front of a mirror every morning because their self esteem is too low without an inch thick layer of foundation and half a ton of mascara on their face. Don't know, maybe you're just as shallow and thats the kind of woman that does it for you but I prefer a real girl with a little more intellect and a little less glamour. They can be pretty hot and sexy too without all the fake. So look for something else and be confident in yourself and I'm sure you'll find Mrs. Sonofsmeagle with or without the abs (most women will tell you they're just bonus anyway).

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Where did i ask for advice on turning my love life around? If you read my post you'd have noticed that i was comparing attraction trends from today to back when i was in highschool to see of they had changed or not, Also on a sidenote i do not worry at all about my body unless its about making a weight cut
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#14 Jackboot343
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Women prefer being skinnier than their man

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#15 almasdeathchild
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Women prefer being skinnier than their man

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my gf would be a skeleton then

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#16 mack10
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[QUOTE="mack10"]

I'm sorry OP but if you're over 20 and you're on gamespot asking women for advice for turning around your love life that we can only assume is lacking at the moment, you need to worry less about abs and worry more about taking a few risks here and there. Women are attracted to all sorts of men and the ones who are superficial to a point where they choose a man for his abs over all other things are usually beach barbies who spend 3 hours in front of a mirror every morning because their self esteem is too low without an inch thick layer of foundation and half a ton of mascara on their face. Don't know, maybe you're just as shallow and thats the kind of woman that does it for you but I prefer a real girl with a little more intellect and a little less glamour. They can be pretty hot and sexy too without all the fake. So look for something else and be confident in yourself and I'm sure you'll find Mrs. Sonofsmeagle with or without the abs (most women will tell you they're just bonus anyway).

sonofsmeagle
Where did i ask for advice on turning my love life around? If you read my post you'd have noticed that i was comparing attraction trends from today to back when i was in highschool to see of they had changed or not, Also on a sidenote i do not worry at all about my body unless its about making a weight cut

My apologies I was just making an assumption for the sake of conversation. That's the problem with forums since they're not live you can't give and take off people's tones and expressions :S anyway my bad but I'll leave my post up just to see people's take on things.
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I've noticed that women generally like skinny guys with muscle tone, or medium sized gents with some meat on them. I.E. No skeletons, no body builders, and no fatasses. Normalcy wins, but it's all up to the individual of course. In the end, money and power open more legs than looks.
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#18 marluxia101
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Abs are just like a plus for me, chest and biceps turn me on more xD...I i think muscle stocky is the best :3

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#19 SteverXIII
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it's the skinny guys with long hair these days if i remember correctly.

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#20 MgamerBD
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Kinda, Slim is pretty much in right now.
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#22 The_Gaming_Baby
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Seems to me that only very young girls like skinny guys with a six pack because they think they are musclar. Young people are silly

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#23 KiIIyou
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It's just that fat looks soo bad is all that is.
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#24 markop2003
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I don't think skinny guys have ever been seen as especially hot however neither have ripped guys. I think you've just got a messed up idea of skinny as 5'10" and 140lbs is a perfectly normal BMI. The studies I've seen say a good ass matters more however Ok Cupid's stats say that profile pics with abs get far more comments though they do not age well and most of these comments do not lead to a relationship of any kind.
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#25 Gamefan1986
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You know what women are attracted to?

Money.

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Depends on your personality. :P
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#27 megagene
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Women are attracted to confidence. But not arrogance. There is a distinctive difference.
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#28 VanDammFan
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ive never known women to think skinny guys with abs attractive? Most women want a man with some meat on them be it a little fat OR a little muscle. AND most people are turned off by too much of anything...

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I think abs are over-rated. In fact, overly ripped abs dont look that good to me.

I prefer a nice chest (if we're talking about torso only).

Teenaged

this x13094804594

mind reader:o

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#30 PiscesChick93
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I think abs are over-rated. In fact, overly ripped abs dont look that good to me.

I prefer a nice chest (if we're talking about torso only).

Teenaged

This for sure

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#31 sandlot76
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There's more to a man than abs. ABS....just saying.
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#32 jwsoul
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I've noticed that women generally like skinny guys with muscle tone, or medium sized gents with some meat on them. I.E. No skeletons, no body builders, and no fatasses. Normalcy wins, but it's all up to the individual of course. In the end, money and power open more legs than looks.cd_rom
So true but yeah woman like an attractive man with good defined torso and features. My Misses is always perving! Tuh should just dump her really let her free lol
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I've noticed that women generally like skinny guys with muscle tone, or medium sized gents with some meat on them. I.E. No skeletons, no body builders, and no fatasses. Normalcy wins, but it's all up to the individual of course. In the end, money and power open more legs than looks.cd_rom
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#34 AussieePet
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lol i sure don't i like slim guys not skinny men with abs
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#35 TheFatPerson
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Nope. Women go for wealth and social status.

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#36 branketra
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Not sure atm. I guess it's better than being skinny-fat.
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#37 Jackc8
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No, these days girls like chubby guys with no ab's.

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#38 m25105
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You know what women are attracted to?

Money.

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Pretty much lol.
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#39 m25105
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If I was to turn into a woman or went gay this would be the kind of man I would be attracted to.

Not this kind

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So women and girls of offtopic, who's the more attractive of those two?

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#40 ristactionjakso
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Depends on the girl. Most highschool girls are immature and dont know what they like. And most skinny highschool guys gain weight after school, as they get older.

I think girls would like a athletic build. Not ripped, but not fat. Just fit. But then again, it still depends on the girl. Some girls like the rugged mountain man, some like the prissy city boy, some still like the skinny midget highschool type of guy.

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#41 Nengo_Flow
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Im skinny................. trust me, girls dont find me attractive mainly becuz of me figure. In fact, I feet like some girls dont take me seriously becuz Im tall and skinny. I bet if I weigh 20 pounds heavier and was relatively fit (not necessarily muscular) , they would take me seriously
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#42 sonofsmeagle
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[QUOTE="sonofsmeagle"][QUOTE="mack10"]

I'm sorry OP but if you're over 20 and you're on gamespot asking women for advice for turning around your love life that we can only assume is lacking at the moment, you need to worry less about abs and worry more about taking a few risks here and there. Women are attracted to all sorts of men and the ones who are superficial to a point where they choose a man for his abs over all other things are usually beach barbies who spend 3 hours in front of a mirror every morning because their self esteem is too low without an inch thick layer of foundation and half a ton of mascara on their face. Don't know, maybe you're just as shallow and thats the kind of woman that does it for you but I prefer a real girl with a little more intellect and a little less glamour. They can be pretty hot and sexy too without all the fake. So look for something else and be confident in yourself and I'm sure you'll find Mrs. Sonofsmeagle with or without the abs (most women will tell you they're just bonus anyway).

mack10
Where did i ask for advice on turning my love life around? If you read my post you'd have noticed that i was comparing attraction trends from today to back when i was in highschool to see of they had changed or not, Also on a sidenote i do not worry at all about my body unless its about making a weight cut

My apologies I was just making an assumption for the sake of conversation. That's the problem with forums since they're not live you can't give and take off people's tones and expressions :S anyway my bad but I'll leave my post up just to see people's take on things.

thankyou for your apologies other than the assumption it was a good post, Shows how mature you are to say that your wrong on an internet forum,
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#43 bobaban
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Being jacked with abs is where its at.
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#44 Pffrbt
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If I was to turn into a woman or went gay this would be the kind of man I would be attracted to.

m25105

This guy is very attractive.

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#45 Fightingfan
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Women prefer being skinnier than their man

Jackboot343

That's not gonna happen because women are naturally fattier(higher bf%).

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#46 branketra
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Being jacked with abs is where its at. bobaban
That's preferred. Good muscles for strength and stamina, and good abs are a sign of good overall fitness, which only means a stronger body.

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#47 Nintendevil
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Well, one size does not fit all. There are a lot of men who like sticks, and others don't mind seeing more bulk on a woman as long as it's in the right places. It works the other way around too, but most people probably fall in the middle. The ideal girl in my mind would be thin, but not frail enough that I could snap in half, or didn't have any curves ;).

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I think women just like abs period.

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#49 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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I've noticed that women generally like skinny guys with muscle tone, or medium sized gents with some meat on them. I.E. No skeletons, no body builders, and no fatasses. Normalcy wins, but it's all up to the individual of course. In the end, money and power open more legs than looks.cd_rom
This is probably the most realistic answer. Personally, I'm not that picky about body type, TC. So long as the guy digs mine, then I'm fine with whatever. So long as we're not talking about a skeleton or a whale..
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#50 noscope-ak47
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My personal experience is having a good body gives you a huge selection of women to choos.e from. However there is the emo guys that some women like till the built guy comes along. As for abs women love them you go to the beach and strange women come up like can I touch them. So getting in shape is alot of work but it makes it all worth it.