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#1 SaintWalrus
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I did, for the longest, I actually thought I was a female.

My mom bought me backstreet boys music, sometimes I'd try on dresses that I found and everything

It started at 6 and ended around 8 years old.

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#2 Omni-Slash
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Yeah....No...... :?
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#3 pspdseagle
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No. O course not.
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#4 almasdeathchild
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yea my dad wasnt around being in the military so i tried on skirts and leggings and make up which by my older brothers dubbed me "little sister"im 19 and still do.:/ wonder what id be like if he actually stayed

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#5 deactivated-5e9044657a310
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trying to justify your love of penis?

Go with it, nothing wrong with being Gay.

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#6 NiKva
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What. I rode bikes, scooters, and skateboards when I was younger. Lol at op and his dolls.
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#7 SaintWalrus
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trying to justify your love of penis?

Go with it, nothing wrong with being Gay.

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#8 hippiesanta
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some mother gone too far to treat their boys like a girl just because she dont have a real female child. . . or she use to play make-up with her dolls and pets
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#9 CHOASXIII
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From the time I was born my mummy made me wear girls clothes and I always thought I was a girl until the age of 20 when I realized I am a man.

[spoiler] jking :P [/spoiler]

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#10 THE_DRUGGIE
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Barbie's Horse Adventure was the game of my childhood.

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#11 TacticalDesire
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If by masculine you mean normal then yeah, that one. I wasn't out wrestling bears or anything though. I enjoyed the indoors as much as the outdoors.

I did watch a ton of sports though, even when I was really young, went fishing, and camped out in Boy Scouts. Although Boy Scouts could be considered kinda gay:P

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#12 TecmoGirl
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Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

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#13 THE_DRUGGIE
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Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

TecmoGirl


Nothing wrong with being sensitive and empathetic.

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#14 AtlanticRock
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I had a geeky childhood.

Weekends with my cousins either outside getting into mischief(robbing the corner store for candy, fireworks in neighors lawn at night, etc.)

Weekdays afterschool with my friends til the sun went down.

If I was home I'd be sitting in front of the tv watching saturday morning cartoons or playing Sega Genesis.

I didn't get into sports(i'm a skinny sloth), so nothing too masculine for me.

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#15 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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I was and always will be a lonely nerd. Fortunately even lonly nerd can find lov and get married.

And I played sports and did other masculine things, but that says little about how I turned out.

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#16 Boddicker
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I'm a child of the 80's so I was riding the shyte out of BMX bikes, making forts, getting lost in the woods, obsessed with bugs, shooting every living thing with my BB gun, and in the Boy Scouts.

Idk what to think about kids today. My little nephew is here today and all he talks about is videogames. Don't get me wrong, I loved my NES, but there was so much else to do.

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#17 SolidSnake35
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I dressed up as the White Ranger. Doesn't get more manly than that.
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#18 ghoklebutter
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Personality-wise, I had a nearly equal mix of masculinity and femininity. I'm still like that, in fact.
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#19 Teenaged
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Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

TecmoGirl

In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

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#20 Nengo_Flow
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I did, for the longest, I actually thought I was a female.

My mom bought me backstreet boys music, sometimes I'd try on dresses that I found and everything

It started at 6 and ended around 8 years old.

SaintWalrus

:?

if you were my son, I would of ...

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#21 TecmoGirl
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[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

Teenaged

In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

lol! Yes, a real man. Forgive me Teenaged if I find things like this and that flat out disturbing. Real men(and little boys) who are in their right state of mind don't do things like that -- at least not the strong ones who actually understand their gender role in life.

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#22 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

TecmoGirl

In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

lol! Yes, a real man. Forgive me Teenaged if I find things like this and that flat out disturbing. Real men(and little boys) who are in their right state of mind don't do things like that -- at least not the strong ones who actually understand their gender role in life.

>2012

>having preconceived notions of gender roles dictate a vague definition of strength and mental stability

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#23 themajormayor
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Yeah....No...... :?Omni-Slash
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#24 FMAB_GTO
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Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

TecmoGirl
I am sorry but I think you need help.
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#25 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

TecmoGirl

In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

lol! Yes, a real man. Forgive me Teenaged if I find things like this and that flat out disturbing. Real men(and little boys) who are in their right state of mind don't do things like that -- at least not the strong ones who actually understand their gender role in life.

I didnt hear the "clang".

Try again.

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#26 Legenkiller59
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no i don't

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#27 TecmoGirl
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[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

FMAB_GTO

I am sorry but I think you need help.

Why do I need help for stating the obvious? :?

I didnt hear the "clang".

Probably because you have your head buried in the sand.

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#28 SteverXIII
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Why do I need help for stating the obvious? TecmoGirl
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#29 IdioticIcarus
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Honestly, I don't think it is that big of a deal when you are that young. My nephew just turned 5. He has an older sister and would rather play dolls with her and have his finger nails painted then playing sports or whatever. But come on, he's only 5.

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#30 juden41
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Not really either. Neither was pushed.
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#31 branketra
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It wasn't macho butt it wasn't girly, either.
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#32 FMAB_GTO
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Why do I need help for stating the obvious? :?TecmoGirl

haven't you thought of it as something nice rather than disgusting?

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#33 TopTierHustler
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effeminate, but not that weird.

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#34 Chicken453
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It wasn't macho butt it wasn't girly, either.BranKetra
This. I wrestled, used to fight and play sports but i used to enter loads of competitions for all sorts like, arts and crafts, drama, construction. :P
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#35 BMD004
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I played lots of sports, played outside all day riding bikes, football and basketball and baseball in the street, etc.

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#36 Goyoshi12
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I had a childhood.

I'll leave it at that.

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#37 Teenaged
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Probably because you have your head buried in the sand.

TecmoGirl

Oh maybe.

I'll take your word for it that your head is indeed empty though. ^_^

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#38 l4dak47
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Wow! That sucks. I feel sorry for any male that has to suffer effeminacy. Im sure that matters similar to this would explain why so many boys/men are so disgustingly emotional with lots of feminine ways nowadays(with the media only making it worse).

TecmoGirl

In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

lol! Yes, a real man. Forgive me Teenaged if I find things like this and that flat out disturbing. Real men(and little boys) who are in their right state of mind don't do things like that -- at least not the strong ones who actually understand their gender role in life.

Gender role? Are you a female because if so, then your traditional "gender role" is to shut the fvck up and go back to the kitchen and let the real men talk.
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#39 Mystic-G
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I had a masculine one for the most part. I was in-touch with my feelings, but I wasn't a punk about it. The last thing this world needs is more gender confusion and refusal to accept what they were born as.

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#40 rocinante_
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[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

l4dak47

lol! Yes, a real man. Forgive me Teenaged if I find things like this and that flat out disturbing. Real men(and little boys) who are in their right state of mind don't do things like that -- at least not the strong ones who actually understand their gender role in life.

Gender role? Are you a female because if so, then your traditional "gender role" is to shut the fvck up and go back to the kitchen and let the real men talk.

rofl. i don't think i've ever seen a female so enthusiatic about their own subordination.

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#41 THE_DRUGGIE
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I had a masculine one for the most part. I was in-touch with my feelings, but I wasn't a punk about it. The last thing this world needs is more gender confusion and refusal to accept what they were born as.

Mystic-G

Gender does not equal sex, brosephina.

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#42 Teenaged
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I had a masculine one for the most part. I was in-touch with my feelings, but I wasn't a punk about it. The last thing this world needs is more gender confusion and refusal to accept what they were born as.

Mystic-G

Really?

I'd say the last thing this world needs is more cancer and wars, but ok whatever you say. e5054228.gif

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#43 Fightingfan
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yea my dad wasnt around being in the military so i tried on skirts and leggings and make up which by my older brothers dubbed me "little sister"im 19 and still do.:/ wonder what id be like if he actually stayed

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Skirts are breezy?
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#44 DroidPhysX
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[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]In stead of being a real man,eh?

Hit your pretty head on a desk, will you, and report back if you hear a "clang".

l4dak47

lol! Yes, a real man. Forgive me Teenaged if I find things like this and that flat out disturbing. Real men(and little boys) who are in their right state of mind don't do things like that -- at least not the strong ones who actually understand their gender role in life.

Gender role? Are you a female because if so, then your traditional "gender role" is to shut the fvck up and go back to the kitchen and let the real men talk.

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#45 Mystic-G
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[QUOTE="Mystic-G"]

I had a masculine one for the most part. I was in-touch with my feelings, but I wasn't a punk about it. The last thing this world needs is more gender confusion and refusal to accept what they were born as.

Teenaged

Really?

I'd say the last thing this world needs is more cancer and wars, but ok whatever you say. e5054228.gif

War is apart of being human. Fighting is unavoidable. However we can avoid boys growing up in a female's childhood. The end result is typically why Michael Jackson was so avidly mocked. Nice way to read a little too hard into what I was saying though to stray it off topic.
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#46 Mystic-G
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[QUOTE="Mystic-G"]

I had a masculine one for the most part. I was in-touch with my feelings, but I wasn't a punk about it. The last thing this world needs is more gender confusion and refusal to accept what they were born as.

THE_DRUGGIE

Gender does not equal sex, brosephina.

Do you think I'm a female?
Gender role? Are you a female because if so, then your traditional "gender role" is to shut the fvck up and go back to the kitchen and let the real men talk.l4dak47
That's to assert that she sees the males speaking as 'real men'.
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#47 l4dak47
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="Mystic-G"]

Gender does not equal sex, brosephina.

Mystic-G
Do you think I'm a female?
Gender role? Are you a female because if so, then your traditional "gender role" is to shut the fvck up and go back to the kitchen and let the real men talk.l4dak47
That's to assert that she sees the males speaking as 'real men'.

She most certainty is not being a real female by going outside of the kitchen and questioning men.
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#48 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Mystic-G"]

I had a masculine one for the most part. I was in-touch with my feelings, but I wasn't a punk about it. The last thing this world needs is more gender confusion and refusal to accept what they were born as.

Mystic-G

Really?

I'd say the last thing this world needs is more cancer and wars, but ok whatever you say. e5054228.gif

War is apart of being human. Fighting is unavoidable. However we can avoid boys growing up in a female's childhood. The end result is typically why Michael Jackson was so avidly mocked. Nice way to read a little too hard into what I was saying though to stray it off topic.

Um it was said in jest. I knew what you meant but its so ridiculous I wasnt gonna seriously argue against it.

The fact that you still seriously deflect and think that war supposedly being part of being human (what a pseudo-philosophic statement that is!) really weighs into the comparison is ridiculous as well.

But I guess its positive that you effectively admit that the phrase "the last thing this world needs is" was used to convey the idiocy of your view to its full potential.

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#49 Mystic-G
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[QUOTE="l4dak47"] She most certainty is not being a real female by going outside of the kitchen and questioning men.

One would need reason to submit to a man in the first place. I don't think she's finding that here.
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#50 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="l4dak47"] She most certainty is not being a real female by going outside of the kitchen and questioning men. Mystic-G
One would need reason to submit to a man in the first place. I don't think she's finding that here.

This is her view we're discussing, not yours.