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#1 Keyblade_150
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Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

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#2 majadamus
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Date. It sounds more casual, and she won't feel like it's too serious at first...unless you want it to be.
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#3 Keyblade_150
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So should I just be like,
"Hey, want to go see a movie together next week?"

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#4 Darthkaiser
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Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

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#5 Keyblade_150
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[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

Darthkaiser

You've come to the right place

I was only asking for people's opinions, if you don't have a positive contribution then don't post...

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#6 Random__
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Ask her out a date, something casual. Then whenever you two start conversing about whatever, just to turn the conversation into something relating to relationships. Then drop the ' i like you ' bomb
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#7 gubrushadow
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Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

Keyblade_150

Date , and tell her in the date , how's that ??

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#8 Keyblade_150
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Ok, thanks guys, Im gonna ask her if she wants to see a movie tomororw and then tell her on the date that I like her. :)

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#9 bradders9
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You dont have to tell her you like her. Man up and dont be a freaking ***** about it, ask her out on a date and see how things go. If she accepts then you can only assume she's interested or 'likes' you, you dont have to tell her. If the date is succesful, ask her out and again and see where things go.
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#10 Darthkaiser
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[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

Keyblade_150

You've come to the right place

I was only asking for people's opinions, if you don't have a positive contribution then don't post...

I got an error, Let me put a positive contribution to make it up ;) Dating is like Poker, if you reveal your cards too early you are vulnerable, if you do it too late someone else may have won already, the key in the dating process it to know when to reveal your cards in this case, your intentions Ask her out first, if she says no then you will know you did good in not telling her you liked her, you probably would've ended up embarrased and sad. But if she says yes then the game starts, don't reveal your intentions but show interest at the same time, if you don't you might get friend zone and that's a no no You want to prove her you are a possible boyfriend or dating partner that can be there for her, NOT a friend, avoid the friend zone at all costs If you managed to get a 3d date THAT's when you reveal your intentions, if you wait more than that you lose. Why? Because she had the opportunity to say no TWICE it's the third date now, if she said yes it's because she also likes you There, how's that for a contribution, did it help? got any questions?? :)

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#11 T_REX305
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[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

Keyblade_150

You've come to the right place

I was only asking for people's opinions, if you don't have a positive contribution then don't post...

that wasnt really negative... and u did come to the right place





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#12 Darthkaiser
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Take a look at my contribution tc Now tell me if that banner and my first post were lying ;) and I can keep contributing all day long baby! Thnx TREX305
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#13 Keyblade_150
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[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]

You've come to the right place

I was only asking for people's opinions, if you don't have a positive contribution then don't post...

I got an error, Let me put a positive contribution to make it up ;) Dating is like Poker, if you reveal your cards too early you are vulnerable, if you do it too late someone else may have won already, the key in the dating process it to know when to reveal your cards in this case, your intentions Ask her out first, if she says no then you will know you did good in not telling her you liked her, you probably would've ended up embarrased and sad. But if she says yes then the game starts, don't reveal your intentions but show interest at the same time, if you don't you might get friend zone and that's a no no You want to prove her you are a possible boyfriend or dating partner that can be there for her, NOT a friend, avoid the friend zone at all costs If you managed to get a 3d date THAT's when you reveal your intentions, if you wait more than that you lose. Why? Because she had the opportunity to say no TWICE it's the third date now, if she said yes it's because she also likes you There, how's that for a contribution, did it help? got any questions?? :)

Aha, Oh that makes sense then. Thanks for the advice :)
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#14 kidsmelly
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Definately date first. Then if all goes well after a few dates tell her you like her. If that goes well thats when you give her my number.

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#15 needled24-7
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just ask her to hang out. don't make it sound like a date. unless you have social problems or something, you should be able to tell if it is going well or not. that is, if she even says yes to wanting to hang out with you. if she says no the first time, wait a week or two, and ask again. if she still says no, try a different girl.

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#16 F1_2004
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Tell her you "like" her? Unless you're 10, you can skip that step, or do it much more subtly. If you want to go out with her, it's pretty obvious you like her.
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#17 TehFuneral
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[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

Hi all,
So I like this girl, do I ask her out on a date first or tell her I 'like' her first?

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You will receive 1337 advice.

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#18 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]

You've come to the right place

Darthkaiser

I was only asking for people's opinions, if you don't have a positive contribution then don't post...

I got an error, Let me put a positive contribution to make it up ;) Dating is like Poker, if you reveal your cards too early you are vulnerable, if you do it too late someone else may have won already, the key in the dating process it to know when to reveal your cards in this case, your intentions Ask her out first, if she says no then you will know you did good in not telling her you liked her, you probably would've ended up embarrased and sad. But if she says yes then the game starts, don't reveal your intentions but show interest at the same time, if you don't you might get friend zone and that's a no no You want to prove her you are a possible boyfriend or dating partner that can be there for her, NOT a friend, avoid the friend zone at all costs If you managed to get a 3d date THAT's when you reveal your intentions, if you wait more than that you lose. Why? Because she had the opportunity to say no TWICE it's the third date now, if she said yes it's because she also likes you There, how's that for a contribution, did it help? got any questions?? :)

you're definitely right,although i find it quite sad that there is no room for honesty in most of relationships,and that's why i dislike being involved in one.
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#19 F1_2004
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[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"]

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"]

I was only asking for people's opinions, if you don't have a positive contribution then don't post...

VaguelyTagged

I got an error, Let me put a positive contribution to make it up ;) Dating is like Poker, if you reveal your cards too early you are vulnerable, if you do it too late someone else may have won already, the key in the dating process it to know when to reveal your cards in this case, your intentions Ask her out first, if she says no then you will know you did good in not telling her you liked her, you probably would've ended up embarrased and sad. But if she says yes then the game starts, don't reveal your intentions but show interest at the same time, if you don't you might get friend zone and that's a no no You want to prove her you are a possible boyfriend or dating partner that can be there for her, NOT a friend, avoid the friend zone at all costs If you managed to get a 3d date THAT's when you reveal your intentions, if you wait more than that you lose. Why? Because she had the opportunity to say no TWICE it's the third date now, if she said yes it's because she also likes you There, how's that for a contribution, did it help? got any questions?? :)

you're definitely right,although i find it quite sad that there is no room for honesty in most of relationships,and that's why i dislike being involved in one.

Maybe in the first three dates. There's definitely plenty of room for honesty in a relationship that goes past a few weeks, provided it's a good one. You might have just had bad relationships and are letting that colour your judgement.