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#1 MgamerBD
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So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

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#2 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Yeah, sure. Not everyone thinks with their libido and there's more to attraction than just looks.

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#3 dave123321
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Yeah, sure. Not everyone thinks with their libido and there's more to attraction than just looks.

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#4 indzman
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[QUOTE="Aljosa23"]

Yeah, sure. Not everyone thinks with their libido and there's more to attraction than just looks.

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#5 Big_Pecks
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Yes. It's completely normal to have friends of the opposite gender without 'falling in love' with any of them.

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#6 DroidPhysX
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[QUOTE="dave123321"][QUOTE="Aljosa23"]

Yeah, sure. Not everyone thinks with their libido and there's more to attraction than just looks.

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#7 MgamerBD
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Yeah, sure. Not everyone thinks with their libido and there's more to attraction than just looks.

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So your telling me you can be friends with the girl of your dreams? I know you been friendzoned? Have you just accepted it?
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#8 CHOASXIII
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Yes...

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#9 deactivated-5d0e4d67d0988
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If you have no physical attraction to them, then yeah sure. Once alcohol/meth becomes involved though, woah watch out.

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#10 Socialist696
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Lets be realistic, persistence pays off. And even if it doesn't soon, eventually most girls (that know) you like them will become oddly jealous when you show another girl that attention you used to show them. At least thats the way its been from experience, either one or the other. And now for the question at hand, I do and I don't believe so. Its entirely on the two peoples views.
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#11 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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[QUOTE="Aljosa23"]

Yeah, sure. Not everyone thinks with their libido and there's more to attraction than just looks.

MgamerBD

So your telling me you can be friends with the girl of your dreams? I know you been friendzoned? Have you just accepted it?

Well I'd never be friends with a chick that just friendzoned me because that would mean I have feelings for her and I could possibly end up hurt. I've been friendzoned a few times and just stopped talking to those girls. It's not a big deal tbh, there's a lot of girls out there.

As for your question, I don't know. Probably not lol.

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#12 mccoyca112
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I have a couple friends like that. Doesn't always stop me from having thoughts once in awhile, but I legitimately like being "just friends" with them and would never try to ruin that. It's a different, and imo, needed relationship.

Of course, I've been friend zoned as well, and that really, really sucks. Once you're in there, it's almost positive you ain't ever getting out. At least for me. I'm not exactly rico suave.

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#13 chaoscougar1
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So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

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lol Fvck you are a peasant
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#14 indzman
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

chaoscougar1

lol Fvck you are a peasant

:lol:

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#15 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

chaoscougar1

lol Fvck you are a peasant

haha love you

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#16 Guybrush_3
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Yup, one of my best friends is a girl. I live with her and we've been friends so long that there just isn't any sexual tension between us. We're both good friends with each other's significant other.

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#17 Socialist696
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

chaoscougar1
lol Fvck you are a peasant

Fvck you are rude but funny :P
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#18 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

chaoscougar1
lol Fvck you are a peasant

Well if it isn't choascougar. Still getting off to trolling little kids homie :)
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#19 chaoscougar1
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[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

So lately, I've been friendzoned. For literally at least the second time of my life(happens) and this time its slightly bothering me. At least until the semester ends.

So I've been talking to my friend and he says that girls and guys can be friends. Unfortunately, I don't believe in it. Only because most of my girl friends are either ugly or have done something sexual with me at some point.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

MgamerBD
lol Fvck you are a peasant

Well if it isn't choascougar. Still getting off to trolling little kids homie :)

Did you just call yourself a little kid?
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#20 MgamerBD
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If you have no physical attraction to them, then yeah sure. Once alcohol/meth becomes involved though, woah watch out.

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Clearly said physical attraction...
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#21 Fightingfan
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I can't, while I can have a platonic friendship with a female friend that I enjoy, I'd still have sex with them if they wanted.
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#22 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] lol Fvck you are a peasant

Well if it isn't choascougar. Still getting off to trolling little kids homie :)

Did you just call yourself a little kid?

Pretty sure i didn't :?.
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#23 deactivated-5d0e4d67d0988
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[QUOTE="October_Tide"]

If you have no physical attraction to them, then yeah sure. Once alcohol/meth becomes involved though, woah watch out.

MgamerBD

Clearly said physical attraction...

Didntreadlol.gif the OP

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#24 Socialist696
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I can't, while I can have a platonic friendship with a female friend that I enjoy, I'd still have sex with them if they wanted. Fightingfan
Well put because eventually one or the other gets the notion for more.
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#25 MgamerBD
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I can't, while I can have a platonic friendship with a female friend that I enjoy, I'd still have sex with them if they wanted. Fightingfan
Fightingfan never lets down the homie :,). I mean I never heard of a guy approaching a girl just to be "friends".
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#26 chaoscougar1
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"] Well if it isn't choascougar. Still getting off to trolling little kids homie :)

Did you just call yourself a little kid?

Pretty sure i didn't :?.

f sh*zzle Which little kids have I been trolling?
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#27 ghoklebutter
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Of course.
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#28 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]I can't, while I can have a platonic friendship with a female friend that I enjoy, I'd still have sex with them if they wanted. MgamerBD
Fightingfan never lets down the homie :,). I mean I never heard of a guy approaching a girl just to be "friends".

Of course mane, I ain't gonna be friends with no ugly chicks.
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#29 SaudiFury
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of course guys and girls can be friends, even if the other is exceptionally beautiful/handsome.

it's just hard if you develop unrequinted feelings.

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#30 Socialist696
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Ugly girls need love too :( lol
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#31 SirWander
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Yes, in response to the question in the thread title.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.

MgamerBD

That's a little more tricky, as either person might want more from the relationship than the other wants to offer.

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#32 Pffrbt
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So lately, I've been friendzoned.
I hate this term. Not every member of the opposite sex is going to want to have sex with you simply because you want to. F*cking get over it.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.MgamerBD


Yes. It's easier if one or both are gay.

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#33 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

So lately, I've been friendzoned.
I hate this term. Not every member of the opposite sex is going to want to have sex with you simply because you want to. F*cking get over it.

So I come to ask you OT. Can an attractive guy and/or attractive girl just be friends.Pffrbt


Yes. It's easier if one or both are gay.

To the friendzone thing. I know they don't. But I want too
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#34 TrainerCeleste
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Only because most of my girl friends are either uglyMgamerBD
Sodo es this make them not friends then? :P

Yeah you can be friends, the majority of my classmates are girls and i'm friends with most of them but I don't try to get in their pants :P They have no indication of wanting inside mine either really :lol: even the single ones are simply friends with myself and the other men in my class. Relationships can tend to happen between them though, I mean it's very possible for two people who can be friends to start dating :P That's how most of the relationships that I know of have started :P

Also from my own experience, I seem to be able to be friends with people and not want to stick my dick in anything that has bewbs :lol:

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#35 LLYNCES
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No unless the guy is gay or generally has 0 interest, which is unlikely if he is close enough with a female, and even then he probably still wants to fvck her. Anybody who says otherwise is lying. Females on the other hand are notorious for putting dudes in the friend zone, mostly because every guy friend they have wants to fvck them.



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#36 TehFuneral
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Yes, I don't want to have sex with any of the females whom I consider friends.

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#37 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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Sure.

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#38 Optical_Order
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Yes, but generally no.

also I'll just leave this here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA

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#39 soulless4now
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Yes. It isn't that hard. Seems like you never really take the time to find common interest in a girl if she isn't willing to drop her drawers for you.

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#40 MgamerBD
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Yes. It isn't that hard. Seems like you never really take the time to find common interest in a girl if she isn't willing to drop her drawers for you.

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I do though. Me and a lot of girls have a lot of common interests. Its just that...I'm a slut.
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#41 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]

Yes. It isn't that hard. Seems like you never really take the time to find common interest in a girl if she isn't willing to drop her drawers for you.

MgamerBD
I do though. Me and a lot of girls have a lot of common interests. Its just that...I'm a slut.

I know. The first thing was going to post was "TC, stop whoring around" but I'm feeling rather nice so I didn't. Maybe you should try talking to some chicks that you don't find sexually attractive.
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#42 Socialist696
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I think TC would have trouble controlling his man-whoreness if every woman he sees he wants to turn into his cum-mule. But its ok, look at Genghis Khan. Hes fathered over 1000 children, and spread his genes across all the continents of the world. At least its good for something right lol
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#43 Shottayouth13-
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Only if they're ugly :P But seriously, yes its possible. Not every girl that I find attractive I'm going to actually pursue, or feel compelled to pursue. I'd have to like them to an extent for that to happen. Not to say I won't think about screwing them, but yeah it's possible.
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#44 wis3boi
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as someone with many girl friends ,yes. Lol @ friendzoning

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#45 lilasianwonder
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I think so.

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Yes!As long as you're not too nice around girls or stress yourself like crazy around them.:P

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#47 deactivated-5b19214ec908b
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I'm friends with some girls and I',m friends with some guys. So yeah.

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#49 deactivated-61cc564148ef4
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Yes

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#50 hippiesanta
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Yes...

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