Askiing first girl out tommorow, Where should I take Her???

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#1 ravine1
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I finnaly got the balls to ask my first girl out tommorow. I believe she has been wacthing me for a while now and I finnaly got the courage to respond. Where should i ask her to go with me?

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#2 PlzDuntBanMe
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Well, what does she like?


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#3 ravine1
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She is knid of shy, but i think she wouldn't like something too extreme.
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#4 usaaaaaa
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Doesn't matter, she'll probably say no to anything :)
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#5 hot_juicy_steak
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take her to the wishing well. then kick her down saying "THIS IS WISHING WELL!". mission complete
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#6 ravine1
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I am 100% sure she will say yes to at least going out with me.

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#7 goodlay
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Movies = best first date.
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#8 usaaaaaa
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Go see a movie.

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#10 ravine1
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Movies = best first date.goodlay

That was my first thought, but I kind of what to do something unique.

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#11 Berzz
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Coffee!
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#12 goodlay
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[QUOTE="goodlay"]Movies = best first date.dreDREb13
No. That equals an easy way of saying you've been on a date with her. Not much interaction at all.

The first date is so awkward though. It's a nice start, plus he sounds like a teenager, so it would be really weird for him to take her out to dinner or something.

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#13 IgNIght
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Miniature golf is always good. Or a scarey movie. Who really cares what the movie is anyway?

There's not much to do in my town, so that's all I got.

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#14 ravine1
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Yeah, I'm 16 and that would sound kind of wierd.
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#16 goodlay
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Yeah, I'm 16 and that would sound kind of wierd.ravine1

Yeah, whatever you do, make it real casual and relaxed, make her feel comfortable.

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#17 ravine1
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You know, maybe after I get some sleep I can think of something more creative. I do like that mall idea.....
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#18 cheeselover
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Just say to her,"so, i was thinking a movie would be good?" easy first date because doesn't involve much interaction, gives you some easy stuff to discuss on the way home. Make sure to pay for her tickets and candy :)
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Movies = best first date.goodlay
I've never done that on the first date, since wasting half the night sitting quietly next to each other sounds like a bit of a waste... but at least it leads to an easy conversation afterwards.

A Zoo, a picnic, a restaurant, a beach, climbing or an ice arena would be my suggestions.

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#20 Krigen89
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Coffee!Berzz

Exactly! Gives you a couple hours to talks things out and figure out where her intentions are at...

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#21 elblanquito_81
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If she's kind of shy then don't try and take her to a party or something where she'll feel awkward. Try something simple but that also lets you two get to know each other without having to talk really loud and have fun. Try an amusement park like Six Flags if there's one in your area. Or you could just take her to a movie like someone said only be sure to do something afterwards, like grab a bite to eat so that the two of you have time to talk.
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#22 SpootyHead
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Going to see a movie is always good for a first date.

Usually I ask a girl to hang out first (1 on 1), and then if i feel that she is more comfortable with me, and i am with her, then i'd ask her out on a date. But that's just me. Usually I just have one night stands. Haven't actually dated for about half a year.

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Take her out to a park or somekind of beautiful nature hike. youll have much to talk about as you explore new things
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#24 Jolly_Lolly
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[QUOTE="goodlay"]Movies = best first date.Hungry_bunny

I've never done that on the first date, since wasting half the night sitting quietly next to each other sounds like a bit of a waste... but at least it leads to an easy conversation afterwards.

A Zoo, a picnic, a restaurant, a beach, climbing or an ice arena would be my suggestions.

what?? you're not supposed to just SIT there....have you ever been on a date lol?

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#25 myLIFEjustFINE
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movie is always safe, like a lot of people have said.
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#26 allnamestaken
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I'm a big fan of bowling for a first date, great way to break the ice.
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#27 ravine1
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THanks, you have all given me some good ideas.
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#28 Hungry_bunny
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[QUOTE="Hungry_bunny"]

[QUOTE="goodlay"]Movies = best first date.Jolly_Lolly

I've never done that on the first date, since wasting half the night sitting quietly next to each other sounds like a bit of a waste... but at least it leads to an easy conversation afterwards.

A Zoo, a picnic, a restaurant, a beach, climbing or an ice arena would be my suggestions.

what?? you're not supposed to just SIT there....have you ever been on a date lol?

I'm afraid to ask what you think you should do with a shy girl on the first date while you're sitting there in the dark >.>
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#29 Judo_boy
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Ice skating is always a good one. It's a nice icebreaker........(I had to say it). But seriously it will encourage holding hands and touching eachother which is the first hurdle.
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#30 Kuhu
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Take her to pleasureville
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#31 Clampdown79
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You want to be unique? I would suggest taking her to an exotic flower garden. that might be a unique first date.

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#32 firebreathing
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I finnaly got the balls to ask my first girl out tommorow. I believe she has been wacthing me for a while now and I finnaly got the courage to respond. Where should i ask her to go with me?

ravine1

you dont have to buy a womans attention. aka buy her meals, gifts and the like. I not saying you should starve her, just be sure she realizes tha if you go out again she is paying. Social stereotypes, like these, are a big part of what make chicks think guys are complete wusses and that will not get you laid my friend.

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bareback horse riding on the beach! if JD can do it on scrubs so can you!
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#34 Mercury_May2112
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I remember I took my first girlfriend bowling on our first date. But since this girl is shy that wouldn't be good.

Basically ask a couple (at school) what a good first date would be and don't do whatever they say. That's always the best way to get a good first date.

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#36 Jolly_Lolly
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[QUOTE="Jolly_Lolly"][QUOTE="Hungry_bunny"]

[QUOTE="goodlay"]Movies = best first date.Hungry_bunny

I've never done that on the first date, since wasting half the night sitting quietly next to each other sounds like a bit of a waste... but at least it leads to an easy conversation afterwards.

A Zoo, a picnic, a restaurant, a beach, climbing or an ice arena would be my suggestions.

what?? you're not supposed to just SIT there....have you ever been on a date lol?

I'm afraid to ask what you think you should do with a shy girl on the first date while you're sitting there in the dark >.>

well i dont mean like grabbing her and stuff. just pull the arm rest up so it's not between you, put your arm around her, and let her rest her head on your schoulder. and if stuff happens it happens :D

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#37 Aznsilvrboy
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go out for dinner, then a walk in a park.
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#38 deactivated-5a3583b110a97
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ok. actually I don't think dinner would be a bad date. I took girls out to dinner when I was 16 and it wasn't awkward at all. however, it can be expensive and may not be the best first date. I would tell you to take her out to lunch someplace cheap and kinda quick that you both like. I'm not talking like fast food or anything, but something kind of relaxed like a deli or something could be good. after that your options are open. you can take her to a movie if you want, or you could go to the park or whatever else cool your town has to offer, depending on what type of girl she is and what you think she would like. don't stress out too much about it, it really doesn't have to be perfect. it should just be an excuse for you guys to have some fun and spend time together.
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If she likes Italian or Mexican food,take her to a nice resturaunt that serves that food.
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#40 Lonelynight
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Have a meal with her.
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#41 Ghost_702
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I like how you call her "your" girl when you aren't even an item. You sound like a stalker. I don't know how old you are, but i'm thinkin' around 15. Just take her to a movie. However if you're like in your 20s or older, don't be so cheap and take her somewhere nice to eat.
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#42 remmbermytitans
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Bowling, it's a great way to start laughing with each other. Chances are you can get a really good laugh with her because it's unlikely that either of you are pros. Gutterballs, or playing with bumpers are always a gerat source for laughter. :)
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You know, maybe after I get some sleep I can think of something more creative. I do like that mall idea.....ravine1
Take her to the movies. Congratulations on having the balls though, i'm in the process of working up to it myself, im the same age.
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#45 Poedon
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Bowling, pool, mini-golf, a picnic and a walk in the park. A movie, as long as you guys grab a bite to eat afterwards that way you ahve something to talk about.
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#46 RmanForLife
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Well, If your a bit older, go to a "hole-in-the-wall" resturaunt with live music. Good food plus music in the evening drives girls nuts.
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Haha, play video games with her! But seriously...
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You know, maybe after I get some sleep I can think of something more creative. I do like that mall idea.....ravine1

That's easy you just say you need new jeans or something. If she is shy I don't think it's the best idea though because you have to talk a lot if you are walking around the shops... if she is shy and doesn't talk much or might be a bit nervous to talk, it will be very awkward walking around... :lol:

Meaning movies is easier. You don't have to do much and it gets any first nerves you or she have out of the way...

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#49 cheese_game619
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Haha, play video games with her! But seriously...Lord__Darkstorn

I haven't tried it properly but from what I've heard that isn't the worst idea in the world...

Just make sure you beat her real bad!

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