Lazy's not really the right word. I'm not particularly interested in having a girlfriend. Also, I'd probably have to change myself if I wanted to be with someone. So maybe, in a way, I am lazy.
Its more about making good decisions with what you say and do than hard work. Girlfriends are on this cycle where they like you, than they start thinking/questioning, then they give you a test. Pass the test and reset the cycle. Fail the test and proceed to the hard work/talking/additional tests stage.
I'm lazy and married... I'm not sure what that means.
Atmanix
That just means people like me still still have a job to do for you. See, I am a humanitarian. I keep your spouse satisfied so that she doesn't leave you. I should get a medal of some sort.
I'm lazy and married... I'm not sure what that means.
UltimoIce
That just means people like me still still have a job to do for you. See, I am a humanitarian. I keep your spouse satisfied so that she doesn't leave you. I should get a medal of some sort.
I was wondering why it takes her 15 minutes extra lately to get home from the bus stop. I have to imagine at least 13 of that is spent getting in and out of her clothes.
I'm lazy and married... I'm not sure what that means.
Atmanix
That just means people like me still still have a job to do for you. See, I am a humanitarian. I keep your spouse satisfied so that she doesn't leave you. I should get a medal of some sort.
I was wondering why it takes her 15 minutes extra lately to get home from the bus stop. I have to imagine at least 13 of that is spent getting in and out of her clothes.
laziness is part of it. the other part is not really knowing what to do. i know that meeting chicks is really just as easy as walking up to them and talking to them, but i guess i'm too shy to just go do that.
No, but there's absolutely no way I could date someone with kids. Especially babies who cry all the time. That's way too stressful.
VigilanteArtist
My last ex had a young kid. He was actually a pretty cool little guy and I liked playing with him and teaching him things. Her I don't give a rat's @$$ about, but I miss the little dude.
laziness is part of it. the other part is not really knowing what to do. i know that meeting chicks is really just as easy as walking up to them and talking to them, but i guess i'm too shy to just go do that.
needled24-7
If it was easy as just talking to them, it wouldn't be such a problem for so many of us :) I tried doing just that on the weekend at a club with friends and when I tried talking, I was looked at as if I am an alien from outer space. Doesn't do much for self-confidence heh.
I'm too restrictive with information to be in a relationship. I don't like to divulge personal information and whenever I have an emotional dilemma, I prefer to keep it to myself. Also, I don't take good care of myself. I always appear tired because I tend to stay up way past midnight while playing video games or browsing the internet. I'm pretty sure that most girls don't want to hook up with a guy who always looks like he's low on sleep.
Are you too lazy to have a girlfriend? I want a girlfriend but im always too lazy to ask one out. I do anything to save me from breaking a sweat. Even if I had a girlfriend,I wouldnt do anything different than what I do when I lay around and play video games. She probably would call me but I would be in my bed worrying about if getting up to answer it would make me exert myself.
slipknot0129
that seems more like an excuse for not being able to get one than actually being true.
I think laziness is an excuse for your own insecurities. Not insulting by any means, just trying to be real. By the way being lazy attracts nothing, let alone a chick.
short answer: Yes Long answer: If laziness includes me being too lazy/apathetic to go out and meet new people who I might want to date then still short answer.
I think laziness is an excuse for your own insecurities. Not insulting by any means, just trying to be real. By the way being lazy attracts nothing, let alone a chick.
Kori-san
Totally agree on this one. It's one of the many excuses people use to cover up a lack of trying. I haven't been here long, but from what I've seen, there are plenty of awesome guys and girls with killer personalities.
Technology has been great!! The side affect has been people have become more fat and lazy. Anyways, all laziness will get you is an early grave, alone, and no job. Also, known fact... Laziness is a side effect of depression. It seems to me that one would have to fix themselves before trying to find a gf/bf, otherwise you are just projecting your own problems on them... and that typically doesnt end well nor is it fair.
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