Are you friends with a ex lover? a crush?

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#1 greenleaflink
Member since 2006 • 3686 Posts

Are you?

What do you do for peace of mind?

How much information do you know about them, out of sigh out of mind etc?

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#2 _Horde
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I'm friends, but we really don't talk that much anymore.
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#3 kingdre
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We're still friends but we don't keep in touch as much as we used to.
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#4 SinkO
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Yes, best of friends.
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#5 Bluestorm-Kalas
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Actually, I just recently found out that my crush considers me her best friend that's a guy and one of the nicest guys that she ever has met/thinks she will ever meet and she loves me to death as a friend....But I'm still not a dateable guy for some reason, because I'm not one of the jerks and **** she usually dates. Nope, they are apparently better than me. :?
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#6 CreamBeav
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When you decide to part ways with an ex-lover, the right thing to do is to do so, with no questions asked. It is over, and move on with your life.
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#7 Zaeryn
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Funny, I just had a long talk about things with an ex, who I'm friends with still.
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#8 xmitchconnorx
Member since 2007 • 2649 Posts
no. i try to make sure every exgirlfriend i have hates me. so i go out of my way to do so.
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#10 gohan2710
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no, mainly because she just stop having feelings for me, and i didnt, which still hurts like crazy.....and i know thats gonna get in the way, but i do hope she is happy and stuff, even if till this day i still think of her.....
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#11 greenleaflink
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When you decide to part ways with an ex-lover, the right thing to do is to do so, with no questions asked. It is over, and move on with your life.CreamBeav

Hmm..I am realizing just knowing their day to day, or the slighest mention or something triggers a cycle of emotions and confusion, especially with email/txt/msn/and facebook

I understand a bit now why "out of sight out of mind" works

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#12 SunofVich
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Actually, I just recently found out that my crush considers me her best friend that's a guy and one of the nicest guys that she ever has met/thinks she will ever meet and she loves me to death as a friend....But I'm still not a dateable guy for some reason, because I'm not one of the jerks and **** she usually dates. Nope, they are apparently better than me. :?Bluestorm-Kalas

Wierd how that works, huh?

Their dickhead boyfriends make them mad and then they complain to you about it.

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#13 freek666
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Actually, I just recently found out that my crush considers me her best friend that's a guy and one of the nicest guys that she ever has met/thinks she will ever meet and she loves me to death as a friend....But I'm still not a dateable guy for some reason, because I'm not one of the jerks and **** she usually dates. Nope, they are apparently better than me. :?Bluestorm-Kalas
I've been there. Just savour what you have with her. You will learn many things from her on how to interact better with woman and to make relationships last better and the such.
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#14 lostantix
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Yes. But we don't talk as much as we used to. The whole 'out of sight out of mind' thing comes into play a lot. Because you still like her, but you can tell she doesn't feel the same way anymore.
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#15 gohan2710
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[QUOTE="CreamBeav"]When you decide to part ways with an ex-lover, the right thing to do is to do so, with no questions asked. It is over, and move on with your life.greenleaflink

Hmm..I am realizing just knowing their day to day, or the slighest mention or something triggers a cycle of emotions and confusion, especially with email/txt/msn/and facebook

I understand a bit now why "out of sight out of mind" works

it works but not always, sometimes u just end up thinking about, i try to keep myself very busy, with video games, tv, or photoshop, works like a charm so far :D:P
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#16 greenleaflink
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[QUOTE="greenleaflink"]

[QUOTE="CreamBeav"]When you decide to part ways with an ex-lover, the right thing to do is to do so, with no questions asked. It is over, and move on with your life.gohan2710

Hmm..I am realizing just knowing their day to day, or the slighest mention or something triggers a cycle of emotions and confusion, especially with email/txt/msn/and facebook

I understand a bit now why "out of sight out of mind" works

it works but not always, sometimes u just end up thinking about, i try to keep myself very busy, with video games, tv, or photoshop, works like a charm so far :D:P

A new girl might be the solution. lol.

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#17 bluntmastaslaya
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naaaahhhh you gotta hit it... and quit it...
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#18 Akm4everz
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I'm friends with my ex she still likes me... but I broke up with her... jelously leads to drama
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#19 flowdee79
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Yeah, but I don't speak to them anymore
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#20 Vfanek
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Yeah, it didn't work though. So we got back together.
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#21 tofu-lion91
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I'm friends with my ex cause we were friends when we went out and the relationship ended on ok terms. We talk about jobs, college and how things are going really. It's not awkward so I don't see why not :)
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#22 edd678
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Yea i still talk to most of my exes.
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#23 KisukexD
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nope we dont even say hi to eachother ^^ ,tho she always looks at me but im trying to avoid,wondering what she wants